#social groups

[femmefatalevibe]

Hey, I need advice!!!

I became friends with this girls a week ago. And I’m scared that I’m too clingy, because I text if she is free and we could hang out. And as well when she hangs out with other people I feel jealous because I feel left out even though I understand that she has other friends and I as well others.

Hi love! It's not clingy to ask someone to hang out (you would like it if someone you enjoyed speaking to initiated this meetup, right? So, why not do the same). Putting yourself out there is showing interest, not clinginess – unless it's persistent and one-sided.

Don't feel jealous. Take her varied social group as a source of motivation to build a similar dynamic social life for yourself. Except you get to choose the people who earn that position – those you truly connect and have fun with.

#friendship #new friends #friend advice #making friends #social groups #social life #social circle #social networks #social skills #femmefatalevibe #q/a

[anxiety-culture-is]

Anxiety culture is using the Anon feature on Tumblr to practise talking to strangers and exploring different social groups

What me guilty of that? No never nuh uh. /s /j

#Anxiety #anxiety culture #anxiety culture is #anon #anon ask #anonymous #anonymous feature #Strangers #social groups

[diamondshapedcat]

I know this sounds weird but

Is there like any guide on how to be social on the internet? Say an alien arrives out of space one day and wants to get involved with internet communities. What do you tell them?

I think what I'm looking for is an guide on what spaces there are to be social online. I know that Discord is a thing but if you don't have any friends where do you even start?

This isn't just a me thing is it? Because I feel like I missed so much of internet culture growing up due to me basically feeling like I had to hide from the world and didn't learn about all this stuff.

#autism #internet #social groups #internet guide

[whats-in-a-sentence]

Its protocol outlines the group's guiding principles:

We all agree with the legalization of firearms. We believe that we need to stand up to the loud and obnoxious minorities that oppose democracy. Social groups such as 'Social Justice Warriors', Communists and 'Antifa' are here to dismantle our nations from the inside. Western traditionalism has been forgotten. Moral values have been left behind, with modern youth culture promoting short-sighted primitive behaviour. With your help, we can start to re-install the values that made the western world great. Libertarians and nationalists, Atheists and Christians, all united alike. It is time to stand up as one big family, and say no to left.

"Going Dark: The Secret Social Lives of Extremists" - Julia Ebner

#book quotes #going dark #julia ebner #nonfiction #right wing united #rwu #white supremacy #white nationalism #right wing extremism #protocol #legalization #firearms #gun control #loud #obnoxious #democracy #social groups #social justice warriors #communists #antifa #traditionalism #morals #youth culture #short sighted #primitive #western world #libertarian #nationalist #atheist #christian

[knowledgevariabledarcy]

#social fabric #social gaming #social good #social groups #socially awkward #Youtube

[fandomsfan1]

I'm in social group and the teacher just called to me and said "You're quiet down there." But I didn't hear her so I stood up and walked over to her and asked her what she said, and after she repeated herself I, someone who is ALWAYS quiet just said, "You do realize who you're talking to, right? I'm always quiet." And then I sat back down.

#social groups #quiet

[homedesignru]

#декор #ok #home decor #home decorating #home design #design #social media #social groups

[pinknecko]

When My Friends Leave

A poem about responsibility and the transition into adulthood When my friends leave, I am burdened with the responsibility of being alone. When my friends leave, I don’t necessarily have to go home. I can go around town and have to tell nobody. I can sit at the coffee shop and have to answer to nobody. I can study quietyly or I can shout out loud. It’s all, all up to me. I can even…

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#adulthood #being alone #friends #responsibility #social groups #transition into adulthood

[aformerghost]

Since when are the mediocre prep groups the gatekeepers of my success and progression in life?

#I hope in hell they’re condemned to eternal food service jobs #shitpost #preppy #preppies #society #social groups #high school #gatekeeping #gatekeeper #success #progress #progression #life #life stuff #mediocre #lol #lmao #funny

[shamballalin]

Esoteric Metaphysical Science Uncovered

M42 in the Orion Nebula is the womb of our solar system, prior to the birth of the mineral, plant, and animal kingdoms of our home planet. You are born of the stars, since you are born of the Earth. There is more to you than you have been told. The origins of who we are and how we got here are as convoluted as those over the centuries who attempt to tell us “How it is.” Humanity can only go…

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#arcane #arcane knowledge #Creator #Energy #esoteric #God #heresy #IN THEIR IMAGE AND LIKENESS #knowledge #Light #Lin Hourihan #Linda Hourihan #M42 #metaphysical #Nebula #new age #Orion #politics #religion #social groups #society #soul #Spirit #stars #UNIVERSAL WISDOM

[d-e-w-p]

Thoughts

Very. Flat feeling.

The reminder that 8 am not a part of a community. It's heavy. My shoulders are sagging. I'm enduring. I'm enduring. I'm whethering it best I can.

But the reminders are steady. And don't stop coming. And every one, no matter how small, adds incremental weights.

It is rain on stone and tooth on tooth and nature upon a well worn trail

I'm clingng on by my fingertips. I'm on the fringes of social standing. And it won't take much for me to become An Outsider.

I'm hanging on. I'm whethering it. I'm enduring.

I don't know how long I can hang on

#vent #sad hours #ostracism #Social anxiety #social groups #Depression #Numb #suicidal #Let me know if other tags are needed

[momentswithmani]

We don’t talk about how some people naturally exude the energy of having ppl wanting to interact with them, while others don’t carry it like that.

What if it’s not always about what we attract? Some people gravitate to specific individuals depending on favoritism, status, who they are, their energy, etc.

Some people treat you like you don’t exist, while acknowledging everyone else in the picture.

The gag is, some people will regurgitate the “you don’t attract the energy you desire” statements, which is extremely vague + doesn’t justify 80% of the full picture.

Some people are very lucky that they even get to have attention, or be acknowledged without working to be acknowledged for something. Others need to work just as hard for their presence to be seen and felt.

It also boils down to the right people, events, environments, timing, location, energy, personalities, allat.

It’s not limited to “you just need to put yourself out there”.

I’m selective with energy. Telling me to put myself out there is not good enough for me to be in the right situations. Especially, if they don’t align with me. My energy is precious, and I’m not the type of person to interact with different energies + be less impacted.

Getting to know my energy helped me nurture it better, instead of treating it how everyone else tells me to treat it. I ain’t built to give my energy to a plethora of people + be detached, or feel very little impact from other people’s energy.

I value my energy enough to give very little access to the point where it’s exclusive for quality situations, or people who serve me at their highest good. It saves me from drama, frustration, hurt, and being used as a convenience for everyone at my expense.

#mental health #self love #mentalheathawareness #self improvement #self care #spiritualjourney #spirituality #energy cleansing #society #social groups #mwmwritings

[diamondshapedcat]

Everybody always says that you will eventually find your people. The kind of people who are just like you, who will accept you as you are and see you as one of their own.

But what if 'your people' don't exist? What if you are too weird and out there for anyone? What if there is no group that will accept you? Should you still try looking? Even you don't find anything?

Is it worth going all around the world, turning over every little stone and marching through all cities on earth?

Humans are social creatures, or so they say. They need social connections to survive and thrive. Something that's hardwired into their brains, a product of billions of years of evolution.

So what happens when someone doesn't get that wire?

They don't feel the need to go out, to meet people, form friendships, fall in love, all that jazz. And everyone thinks that they are weird, shy or just lazy. To them it's unthinkable that someone, anyone could function without that feeling, that drive to be around people. A impossible thing that can't exist. And to the others, the ones who don't feel that need, they feel lost and confused. They don't understand how it all comes so easily to others and how much importance they place on relationships.

I don't think that I will ever really find my people because I don't believe that they exist.

And yet I do. Alone.

8 billion people on this planet (and rising) and I feel like I'm the only one of my kind here.

#finding your people #social groups #random thoughts #all alone #late night thoughts

[rchocolatelover]

The feeling when your inner child is healing. The feeling when you realise that you're social skills have actually grown over the years. The feeling when you don't have to work to belong in the group, you just do because you're naturally a part of it.

If growing up feels like this, it's beautiful.

#Social anxiety #Inner child #Social groups #Can someone tell I'm happy #Growing up #Learning to be a functional social person

[bioethicists]

this is going to sound simplistic + i promise you it's not: stop following people whose entire schtick is being cruel or fighting with others online. even if the ppl deserve it! even if it's not a ~problematic~ cruelty! even if you agree with all of that blog's opinions!

it's one thing if someone snaps back when provoked or posts the occasional "get a load of this guy". nobody needs to play up respectability for people who haven't given them respect in return. but if someone's online identity centers around being needlessly mean for laughs + they're constantly seeking out socially acceptable, easy targets for petty cruelty, that's a red flag. there's a huge difference between not taking shit/cracking a joke + mocking others as your several-hours-a-day hobby.

especially if, when they are inevitably in the wrong + mocking someone mercilessly to their 50k followers over something petty goes south (shocking!), they become extremely defensive or block everyone or play the victim or dismiss it as "well, how was i supposed to know they were autistic? i'm autistic + i don't meow in public" or whatever.

this isn't a "well i knew all along" post bcuz nobody should be shamed for being in the dark about something like this but many of the popular bloggers who have later been exposed for serious harassment or abuse should not have shocked us. if someone's blog is 90% shit like "you should light yourself on fire because you watch x anime" or "look at this so-called lesbian bitch + her ugly fucking boyfriend at a kink convention- it's giving drowned rats", should it really shock you that they are also being cruel or abusive in less internet-acceptable ways? if they've already shown you that they get a such a thrill out of being vicious that they do it daily + are regularly rewarded with thousands of followers?

#it's so bad on other social media platforms too #like the number of tiktokkers whose fame is just being MEAN but in a funny way #towards ppl who have done nothing to deserve it but also are not like. oppressed groups #half the time it's ppl who i also personally dislike or dont relate to but don't deserve like. repeated violent harassment #like sure i also dislike marvel movies but it's far more embarassing to run a blog dedicated to mocking + suicide baiting random marvel fan

[asrarblog]

Social Media in Our Lives – Asrar Qureshi’s Blog Post #808

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#Asrar Qureshi #Benefits #Facebook #Instagram #LinkedIn #Pharma Veterans #Responsibility #Risks #Social Groups #Social Media #TikTok #Twitter