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zee-rambles · 2 years

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Leo: Don! Don! Donnie! Donatello! Donnie, Donnie, Donnie, Donnie-

Donnie: Whatever it is, the answer is “no.”

Leo: But you didn’t even hear what I have planned.

Donnie: Unless it’s an intellectually stimulating conversation, which I highly doubt from the likes of you, I’m not interested.

Leo:…Okay then. *Deep Breath* Your concept of mental superiority is invalid because it relies on the notion that logical-mathematical, or academic, intelligences are the only meaningful forms of intellect, whilst simultaneously ignoring that other, equally valuable forms of intelligence exist, such as emotional, interpersonal, and bodily-kinesthetic intelligences.

Donnie: How did you-

Leo: Remember that time you tried to make us all smarter? Did you think I would forget?

Donnie: O_O

Leo: Because I never forget, Donnie.

Donnie:…what do you want?

Leo: ^_^

(Leo getting revenge for this)

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femmefatalevibe · 8 months

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hey there, im wondering how i can get more comfortable going up to random people and striking up a conversation. i have pretty bad social anxiety most times but i know i cant get friends unless i do this. do you have any tips on how to feel more secure on going up to people? also, how do i make the conversation flow? everytime i strike up a conversation i just sound so awkward and i cant think of what to say. how do i remedy this and sound cool or hot while talking to someone instead of weird. tysm!!

Hi love! Some tips below:

Remember that everyone is self-focused most of the time. People don't really think too much about you. They're worried about their to-do lists, internal monologues, and how they're presenting themselves to others. So, chances are, if an attempt to initiate a conversation isn't reciprocated, remember it's because the other person is focused on their own priorities and probably will forget about the awkward interaction by the next day.

Consider how you would show up as a confident person then start faking it until you become it. As with any skill, learning how to socialize requires taking action followed by tons of practice, reflection, adjustments for improvement, and repetitions of this cycle.

Make your conversation low-stakes. Initiate a conversation with a genuine compliment if you're nervous. It's a simple, thoughtful, and generally well-received gesture. If you're too nervous to think of things to say, use simple conversation starters (How's your day? How insane is this weather? I can't believe we have to do XYZ project, or Isn't XYZ news story just wild?).

Paraphrase what the other person is saying to display your active listening skills and attention to your conversation. Ask follow-up questions relevant to what they've already said. This tactic will make the person feel heard/special for the moment and makes it easier for you to continue the conversation without having to think of a handful of topics or stories to contribute on the fly.

To appear more calm and collected, take your time and speak slowly. Allow for small pauses, and don't rush through your words. Smile, and maintain direct eye contact. Don't be afraid to laugh when contextually appropriate. Keep your speech even-pitched (don't end every sentence on a high, nervous note where the ending sounds like it's a question). Maintain open body language and tilt your head to show you're actively listening instead of fidgeting.

Hope this helps xx

#social anxiety #social skills #socializing #social interaction #social intelligence #making friends #social life #networking #social networks #conversation starters #life lessons #life skills #femmefatalevibe #self concept #self confidence #q/a

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itsruina · 9 months

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* ˚ ✦˗ˏˋ intelligence ´ˎ˗ׂ·˚ ༘

I have the ability to apply knowledge to manipulate one's environment or to think abstractly as measured by objective criteria.

I have the ability to remember every thing i write,hear or read from the first time and in the long run.

I have the ability to solve mathematical problems with extraordinary speed and amazing genius.

I am a genius.

I keep getting told that I am a genius because that's who am I

I have the ability to learn a whole language in just three days.

I have the ability to master any and every language in the speed of light.

I have a superhuman intelligence.

I am so smart and creative!

I have the capacity for abstraction, logic, understanding, self-awareness, learning, emotional knowledge, reasoning, planning, creativity, critical thinking, and problem-solving.

I have the ability to perceive or infer information, and to retain it as knowledge to be applied towards adaptive behaviors within an environment or context.

I analyse data at a superhuman speed.

I recognize my genius, talents,worth and creativity.

I have the wits of William James Sidis

I am extremely intelligent

I am literally smarter than William james sidis

#affirmations #manifesation #manifesting #beauty affirmations #subliminals #intelligence affirmations #social intelligence

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mystydjinn · 3 months

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Humans don't have more than 8 emotions, right?

Right?

You only need a few, right??

Cutting down listed mental states from 32 to 8, but feeling like I failed a test cuz I KNOW there's more than that

#game design #gaming #game development #tabletop rpgs #ttrpg design #ttrpg community #social games #social interaction #social intelligence #autism #tabletop roleplaying #tabletop games #ttrpg #indie ttrpg

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not-cassiel · 3 months

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I think I accidentally flirted with someone a month ago without realising. Social interactions are weird and difficult. But we learn a little bit more every day, so maybe I will be an expert someday.

~ Cass 🐝

#social interaction #social intelligence #autism #autistic flirting #help #humans are weird #i’m sorry

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hadeantaiga · 1 year

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This has become more relevant lately, but it's always been an issue:

If you doing what you think is a joke or a "bit", and someone asks you to stop, indicates they are not having fun the way you are having fun, or worse, they are distressed or upset by what you are doing, and you refuse to drop the act and keep doing it,

You are being a bad person.

And no, you cannot use "well I didn't realize they were upset" as an excuse here. This goes beyond "read the room" - often, people will explicitly say "stop doing this" or "this isn't funny" or "I really don't understand what you're doing and it's pissing me off".

Again: of you see someone telling you to explicitly stop what you are doing, and you choose to ignore their distress, you are being a bad person. Prioritizing your "joke" and your "fun" over other people's wellbeing is bad.

#social interaction #social intelligence #social media

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headedoutleft · 7 months

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I love tests like this. This one was developed decades ago to study social intelligence in autistic individuals. One caveat is it's not mobile friendly, has to be done on desktop or tablet

I scored 31 out of 36

#social intelligence #study #quizzes #op

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j4jml · 9 months

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“Intelligence is the shadow of objective Truth. How can the shadow vie with sunshine?.” - Rumi

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pleasuremehere · 1 month

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#smart is sexy #intelligence is sexy #intelligent #emotional intelligence #social intelligence #sexy #sexy content #so hot and sexy

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rj-one · 1 month

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Social Intelligence Quotient is the ability of a person to manage people and to know how to present oneself, what to say, and what not to say in a social situation.

Is Social media impacting our social intelligence quotient? We shall create a balance and value the presence of a person than mere presence over an internet ….

#social intelligence #high value mindset #investing in relationships #connection

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femmefatalevibe · 8 months

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Hey! How are you?

Can you share some tips about how to deal with gossips?

At school there is one girl (my ex bestfriend) who always says something behind my back, but she never says anything directly to me. The problem is that her gossip is to expose me as a liar & gossiper in front of everyone, so many people believed in it and now I don’t have the normal relationship with 30-40% of the girls from school.

What can I do in this situation? Can you share some advices?

Hi love! Catty people are such a headache. I'm sorry you have to deal with this two-faced girl who was supposed to be your friend (or at least a decent human being). Here's my take on these types of situations.

If people are taking the time to create lies and spread gossip about you behind your back, it typically means they care to spend their free time thinking about you – being you're probably doing something right. Anyone who exerts so much effort into trying to shape someone else's reputation either admires. envies, or feels intimidated by you in some way. Relish in this confidence boost when this dynamic starts to feel stressful in certain situations. They're trying to leech off of your positive and admirable qualities. Remember how sad it must be for them to have to piggyback off of someone else's personality and life milestones instead of cultivating their own.

The best thing I think to do is focus on yourself and spend your energy towards reaching your own goals/exploring your interests & hobbies. You know your truth, so unapologetically call out any false accusations as they come up in your conversations or interactions. However, it is a waste of your energy and only fuels this girl's ego if you go out of your way to clear your name. If she can't address a problem directly, it shouldn't exist in your mind between you two, and, especially if people learn this information, will know there's likely at least some validity in your claims.

Insecurity is often loud, while confidence remains quiet. Making noise is frequently a tool used to compensate when insecure people know those they envy/feel interior to are uncomfortable with living in their truth.

Ignore the noise unless you need to stand up for yourself. Confidence is quiet. Remaining unbothered yet speaking your truth shows how little you have to hide. These qualities show you're the one who's truly comfortable with yourself.

Hope this helps xx

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raffaellopalandri · 3 months

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A good leader

Bloganuary writing promptWhat makes a good leader?View all responses Today’s prompt could be used as a main topic for a book, and it also represents one of the most frequent questions I am asked when I support a customer. So, as I take the idea for one of my future books, I will leave you here with a very condensed answer. Photo by Anna Tarazevich on Pexels.com The Enduring Qualities of a…

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#bloganuary #bloganuary-2024-19 #Communication #dailyprompt #dailyprompt-1822 #decision-making #Emotional Intelligence #empathy #Expertise #interpersonal skills #knowledge #Leader #leadership #Raffaello Palandri #skills #Social Intelligence #Strategic Thinking #Strategy #wisdom

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omegaphilosophia · 6 months

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Unraveling the Many Facets of Intelligence: Beyond IQ

In the realm of human cognition, intelligence stands as a multifaceted gem, with each facet representing a unique dimension of mental ability. Intelligence is not a monolithic concept; rather, it encompasses various aspects, each contributing to our capacity to navigate, understand, and interact with the world around us.

Here are some of the key aspects of intelligence:

Cognitive Intelligence: This is often what people think of when they refer to intelligence. It encompasses problem-solving abilities, critical thinking, reasoning, and the capacity to acquire and apply knowledge. It's commonly measured through IQ tests.

Emotional Intelligence (EQ): EQ involves understanding and managing one's own emotions and the emotions of others. It's crucial for effective interpersonal relationships, empathy, and social awareness.

Creativity: Creative intelligence relates to the ability to generate novel ideas, approaches, and solutions. It involves thinking "outside the box" and coming up with original concepts.

Practical Intelligence: Also known as "street smarts," practical intelligence is the ability to adapt to and thrive in real-world situations. It involves common sense, problem-solving in everyday life, and adapting to various life challenges.

Analytical Intelligence: This is the capacity to break down complex problems into their components, understand the relationships between these components, and use logic and critical thinking to solve problems.

Memory: Memory is an essential aspect of intelligence. It involves the ability to store, retrieve, and apply information. Different types of memory include short-term memory, long-term memory, and working memory.

Social Intelligence: Social intelligence relates to an individual's ability to navigate complex social situations effectively. It includes skills such as understanding social norms, communication, and forming relationships.

Learning Ability: Intelligence is closely tied to an individual's capacity to learn. This includes the speed at which new information is acquired and the effectiveness of the learning process.

Intuition: Intuition is a type of intelligence that involves making decisions based on "gut feelings" and past experiences rather than explicit reasoning. It's often linked to pattern recognition and subconscious information processing.

Intrapersonal Intelligence: This is an aspect of intelligence related to self-awareness, self-regulation, and understanding one's own thoughts and emotions. It's crucial for personal development and self-improvement.

Bodily-Kinesthetic Intelligence: This type of intelligence is associated with physical skills and coordination. Athletes, dancers, and artisans often excel in bodily-kinesthetic intelligence.

Linguistic Intelligence: Linguistic intelligence involves proficiency in language, including speaking, writing, and understanding complex written and spoken content. It's a central aspect of effective communication.

Mathematical-Logical Intelligence: This is the capacity to work with numbers, perform mathematical operations, and apply logical reasoning to solve problems. It's highly relevant in fields like mathematics, science, and engineering.

Spatial Intelligence: Spatial intelligence refers to the ability to understand and manipulate spatial relationships, visualize objects and scenes, and navigate effectively. It's crucial for activities like map-reading, architecture, and artistic design.

Naturalist Intelligence: Proposed by Howard Gardner, naturalist intelligence relates to the ability to understand, appreciate, and work with the natural world. It involves skills such as recognizing and categorizing living organisms and understanding natural systems.

Existential Intelligence: Some scholars propose that existential intelligence relates to contemplating deep philosophical and existential questions about life, death, and the human experience.

These aspects of intelligence are interrelated and can be developed and enhanced through learning, experiences, and various educational and life experiences. Different individuals may excel in specific aspects of intelligence, and this diversity contributes to the richness of human capabilities and potential.

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dreaminginthedeepsouth · 1 year

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“...most students reported a state of total involvement in what was being taught, he would rate the moment “inspired.” The inspired moments of learning shared the same active ingredients: a potent combination of full attention, enthusiastic interest, and positive emotional intensity. The joy in learning comes during these moments. Such joyous moments, says University of Southern California neuroscientist Antonio Damasio, signify “optimal physiological coordination and smooth running of the operations of life.”

Damasio, one of the world’s leading neuroscientists, has long been a pioneer in linking findings in brain science to human experience. Damasio argues that more than merely letting us survive the daily grind, joyous states allow us to flourish, to live well, and to feel well-being. Such upbeat states, he notes, allow a “greater ease in the capacity to act,” a greater harmony in our functioning that enhances our power and freedom in whatever we do. The field of cognitive science, Damasio notes, in studying the neural networks that run mental operations, finds similar conditions and dubs them “maximal harmonious states.” ― Daniel Goleman, Social Intelligence: The New Science of Human Relationships

[via “alive on all channels”]

#Daniel Goldeman #Social Intelligence #Alive On All Channels #learning #inspiration #Antonio Damasio #Comet Neowise

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lilpretty777 · 10 months

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Every time Hasan’s puppy is on screen Anisa barks and wags her tail, she watches his channel waiting for his pup.

#hasan piker #hasanabi #large dogs #cute dogs #social intelligence

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theformulaforsuccess · 11 months

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Douglas Vandergraph continues his journey of teaching others how to accomplish their dreams and goals by sharing traits many overlook to self-identify with that are indicative of highly intelligent people. Douglas reminds us that we are smarter than we possibly think or give ourselves credit for. Douglas is putting himself out there as an example to others so they can see how anyone can take a chance, improve daily, and make a difference in the lives of others. What is it that you want in your life? Douglas can show you how to get it! This is a video series Douglas is completing in the hopes he can help just one person. Dr. Suess once said, "To the world, you may be one person, but to one person, you may be the world."

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