#socially acceptable

[delete-the-kisses]

i love people who don't give a shit about being "socially acceptable". i love people who have gotten yelled at on the street solely for dressing differently. i love you trans people. i love you queer people. i love you lesbians. i love you therians. i love you alt people. i love you neurodivergent people. i love you poc. i love anyone who used to play warrior cats as a kid. i love anyone who dances or sings when they hear good music. i love anyone with a pride pin on their bag. i love anyone who had the courage to come out to someone. i love anyone who stands up for their opinions. i love anyone who felt weird or different as kid and couldn't yet understand why. i love any girl who watched a katy perry music video when they were young and didn't know why they felt butterflies in their stomach. i love any guy who wears jewelry and makeup and nail polish and skirts and doesn't give a fuck if it's not how they're supposed to dress. i love anyone who's not a guy or a girl but just something else. i love anyone with "weird" interests or hobbies. i love anyone who has a collection of rocks or seashells or just anything you find beautiful. i love the girls who find themselves in books more than anything else. i love anyone who notices the beauty around them. i love anyone who smiled today - yes, you too - because you have a gorgeous, amazing, pretty smile and the world deserves to see it. i love people who don't care if something's "cringe" because being yourself does make you happier. if someone didn't say this to you today, i love you, i am so incredibly proud of you. keep being yourself. wear that outfit you want to. tell that person how you feel about them. don't change for anyone else. be unapologetically yourself and if someone tells you not to it's because they're scared that you're actually making a difference. <3

#sapphic #wlw #queer community #i am cringe but i am free #cringe culture is dead #lesbian #trans #cringe culture is stupid #social norms #socially acceptable #quotes #humans are weird #weird #nostalgic #writers on tumblr

[caterpillarinacave]

relate to Henry Fairchild cause I too really fucking love eggs

#What an amazing dish #Literally yum #Salty creamy filling #Little soft little crispy #Versatile #socially acceptable #stunning

[courtney-tod-vampire]

#I need to know #im casual/mall goth and i love the color pink so im curious #polls #my polls #socially acceptable #goth #pink #goths

[jsugarplumprincess]

Why is it not socially acceptable to reply to texts in 0.2 seconds I'm on my phone every minute and I'm tired of pretending I'm not

#thoughts #relatable #text post #funny #tinder #texting #meeting people #friends #relationship #phone #friendship #technology #socially acceptable #social life

[no-phrogs-in-hats]

Friendly reminder that just because someone struggles to talk to you doesn’t mean they don’t like you. It is damaging to you both if you assume someone hates you and talks shit about you just because they’re not responding how you want them to. There are plenty of other reasons as to why someone is quiet and doesn’t talk much. And usually that reason is NOT because they hate you and talk shit about you. And if you can’t come to terms with that and still think the only possibility they’re not talking to you is because they have something against you, then idk what to say except, that’s a you problem and you should get a therapist for that anxiety.

#I don’t hate you I’m just #autistic #and I have a #resting bitch face #not a good combination #everything I wanna talk about #isn’t really #socially acceptable #at least by #heteronormative #standards #rant post #this has been a psa

[insanity-studios-ink]

#tales from your ra #ra #resident assistant #res life #residential advisor #residence life #so when traini g the new RAs we create these fake scenarios for the trainees to handle #basically hazing #but like #socially acceptable #and i was in int alcohol one #with a trombone #and we got busted and i ran #i thought someone was chasing me so i went down four floors of stairs #and crashed a different BCD lol

[doccywhomst]

#i’ve been thinking abt that cringe post #i think the latent feelings behind ‘cringe’ are shame and sometimes envy/bitterness #same vibes as when six year olds say ‘those toys are for babies’ if they’ve been shamed for their age by older kids #anyway. i think part of the healing process is realizing that shame puts you at war with yourself bc part of yourself is a social being! #and that part of you wants community and acceptance (maybe love). shame is the absence of acceptance #unlearning shame means learning self-love and gaining the confidence to find your people #jerma #cw jerma #(someone asked me to tag lol)

[charliebugz]

When Izzy first walked out I was worried that he would be made into a joke that the crew would laugh at

but then he started singing and the dancing began and I realized that he wasn’t meant to be a joke at all. This is the most open and happy we’ve ever seen Izzy and the show treated it that way. Not mocking him but instead celebrating this moment.

When we talk about queer representation it’s usually just focused on queer relationships, but what I love about this episode is it shows other sides of being queer. That moment where Izzy saw Wee John doing his makeup and had a realization that he wanted that too? That is what being queer means to me. The crew singing along and cheering for him? That is what being apart of the queer community means to me.

What i love about this show is that it shows queer joy, not in a sanitized way, but in away that is messy, beautiful, and without any mockery or shame.

#the fact i expected him to be made fun of just reflects how queer people are usually presented in media #i was preparing myself for an awkward scene full of secondhand embarrassment for izzy #but then it didn’t happen. And it just made me immediately feel so warm and fuzzy inside. #like he can express the not socially acceptable parts of himself and not be outcast for it #and that’s just so fantastical to me #our flag means death #ofmd #ofmd spoilers #our flag means death spoilers #ofmd s2e6 #izzy hands #rambling #i speak!

[oh-dear-so-queer]

In the agreed silence about women's sexuality with women, many relationships thrived in the 1860s and 1870s, socially accepted as lifetime friendships and were even described as 'marriages'.

"Normal Women: 900 Years of Making History" - Philippa Gregory

#book quote #normal women #philippa gregory #nonfiction #silence #willful ignorance #wlw #lesbian #sexuality #thriving #60s #70s #1860s #1870s #19th century #socially acceptable #marriage #friendship #and they were roommates

[wethinkweknow-you]

I love just realigning everything I see. good art? reblog. funny quote? reblog. gif of a show/movie I like? reblog. good points/relatable opinion? reblog. is this socially acceptable? I'm still not familiar with tumblr etiquette

#tumblr #reblog #repost #tumblr ettiquette #social media #socially acceptable #idk what im doing

[knowledgevariabledarcy]

#socially awkward #socially anxious #socially acceptable #australia #darcy #Youtube

[apolloisbored]

Socially (un)acceptable

Hey there! I know this post in it’s realm of discussion must have turned up somewhere at some point along the years but I felt like it’s worth revisiting.

So we know as beings living in the Now that there are some changes in the way we perceive things since the Then. Me and an old friend were recently discussing about whether our social rules had become more constricting since Those times or more relaxed. We couldn’t come to a solid conclusion and let the thoughts trail off but it always sort of nagged me in the corner of my mind like an incessant voice so I was wondering if you fine folk on Tumblr could help me out!

What are your thoughts on things that used to be socially acceptable, recently become unacceptable? Or the other way around.

If we can find the loopholes in rules and regulations, why not in social constructs?

#discussion #socially acceptable #but like #kind of not? #WHERE DEM LOOPHOLES AT? #I want to be able to have prolonged philosophical debates with strangers on the internet #is that so much to ask

[what-marsha-eats]

#coffee humor #socially acceptable #chemical dependency

[bigfatbreak]

Birds of a Feather previous / next

#my art #feralnette au #birds of a feather #long tags #sorry I went apeshit in the tags #LETS SAY IT ALL TOGETHER NOW #I - M - A - G - OOOOOOOOO #its fun drawing marinette's back to Alya and having her appear stout and unstoppable and totally logical #and then you see her face and she's like two seconds from completely snapping and is keeping it together by a thread #as a note just because mari feels very certainly abt smth doesnt mean she's right. feelings can be valid and also irrational #in the throes of grief she decided it was better to be alone than to lose someone again so she started pulling away #and lila made pulling away very very very easy to do #shes also vaguely aware she's being unfair in pinning this on alya which is why she started spinning the drain on cockmoth again #legitimately all the shit that's happened to her wouldn't have been so catastrophic if he was never in the picture and she knows it #but the bitterness of her bestie choosing a fantastic liar over her at the worst of times stiiiiiings #alya's personal timing was bad but lila really took advantage of the fact that marinette had been acting off and weird #she basically clocked marinette as being unstable from SOMETHING and made up a lie about her #knowing she wouldn't have the strength to defend herself #between her social life going tachy bc of lila and losing fu in a way that felt like personhood death marinette was really put on the spot #and alya doing her thing of busting in there and assuming her bias is correct was a terrible combo #essentially marinette is highly unstable and alya is just realizing that #busting in and giving her a lecture when she's slightly hysterical and definitely delirious from exhaustion is NOT the way #to show her she's self sabotaging #cuz thats just gonna make her double down on self sabotaging. bc marinette will not accept that she is also a CHIIIIILD

[m-jay-gee]

sometimes i get dirty looks from older people in the street and i feel really hurt but then i realise i have 2 facial piercings and some people don't like that

#other than those i am very #socially acceptable #i could pass as a normal average girl if i didnt have any piercings icl #i think #idk if thats trye #havent tested this theory

[collophora]

I resurrected my tumblr just to post this

#the bad batch #star wars fanart #the bad batch fanart #star wars the bad batch #star wars #I've got no social to post this #so to tumblr it goes #OK HELLO #IM SORRY FOR LEAVING #ANON WHO SEND ME ASKS IM SORRY #also idk why I'm posting this tbh SW fandom is one of the scariest one outa there #hewwo #accept this #can we be friend