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rosemusic · 3 months
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This.
I went out yesterday to the mall and I overheard two-few conversations too many that made me feel sick to my stomach. Things like people talking about how members of the community are freaks and f******. About how "Our kids will end up getting groomed by them!"
Like it really drove home the point for me that just like how between Tumblr, Pinterest, Instagram and YouTube I've become so much more confident in the body I have, the stretchmarks I have, AND my bisexuality?
That's not the case irl.
In real life I am someone who is considered "chubby with some double chin and stomach rolls, with weird stretchmarks that I should be getting rid of" and "A freak, someone who's just confused, weirdo, f**, creep etc."
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sadghostgirl14 · 1 month
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To no one in particular but to society as a whole … thanks for turning this once warm caring heart into something cold … fuck you.
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misskattylashes · 9 months
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I wish I had a time machine to travel back to 2008 to tell this beautiful boy to live his life how he wants. Don't be pushed into hiding behind an image, if it means your band are never world famous, so be it. Nothing is worth giving up your self identity, or the chance to fuck up in your twenties like we all do but most of us don't have the world watching us.
Most of all don't sacrifice the love you have for your own beautiful boy because record company execs and management and all the people who want to make money from you know that you will sell a lot more tickets and records if you're seen as straight.
What is seen as cute and 'finding yourself' at twenty two, is seen as suspicious when you're pushing forty. People will mock you and the nudge nudge wink winks will start.
Stardom isn't worth that. Your three 'brothers' will be fine. Make your music with Miles and make yourself happy.
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blackplaaague · 7 months
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Hiii, just want to say, and I'll probably get backlash for this in some way since y'all have the Rotting in the Brain from Tiktok:
Fat people can be attractive.
Fat people deserve to be comfortable in their bodies.
Even if a fat person has unhealthy habits it doesn't make them less of a person, it just means they're working through things, same as everyone.
Now, here's where I get a little ted-talky and lose half the audience.
I, myself, am not fat. I am not average. I am clinically underweight and suffer physical repercussions because of it.
Yet, in this world, a visible-rib-bones body type is seen as more "desirable" than one with a good amount of fat, because of outdated, prejudiced beauty standards.
How messed-up is that?
Plus size people are still seen as gross, and underweight people are still seen as hot? What is this, 1920? It doesn't make sense!
The fear of being fat leads to all kinds of bad health choices, and a ton of bullying people who don't deserve to be bullied for their bodies.
I know I shouldn't complain, and as far as anyone can tell, I am perfectly slender and pretty, but the fact that I am seen as "more appealing" as an underweight minor than a plus-size adult says something about society that's pretty disgusting.
I have friends and family with body types different than mine. I've seen how negatively they're treated when we're together. They're getting laughed at while I get catcalled-- and neither is good. Both are signs of a society that's lost it's mind.
TLDR:
Fat people aren't gross and bad.
The people who think they are? Who demonize even the slightest bit of belly fat and think teenagers are more attractive than adults?
Yeah. They're the ones who are really gross.
Feel free to literally remove my spine. I know I don't have the perspective needed to talk about this, but I figured it had to be said that the sexualization of skinny bodies and the demonization of fat bodies is just plain wrong.
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nellysview · 5 months
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Why can’t we be like them?
Why can’t we be like them?
Why pretend?
Why do we act like nothing happened?
Why can’t we be like them?
Why do I miss you?
Why can’t we do things we do in private?
Why can’t we be like them?
-just my thoughts lol
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An unattractive man rapes a woman
Society: “You just called it rape because he’s ugly. Besides you shouldn’t just judge him based off his appearance.”
An attractive man rapes a woman
Society: “Women just throw themselves at him. Why would he do that? I bet you’re just jealous he didn’t call you back.”
An unattractive woman gets raped
Society: “You’re lying because no one would do that to you.”
An attractive woman gets raped
Society “Well you should’ve have led him on.”
Not what I usually post and it’s based off of something I saw but I forgot the accounts, apologies I do not mean to steal anything, I just mean to raise awareness. SA is a terrible thing and I’ve only experienced the verbal type, and my heart goes out to everyone, women and men, who have been SA’d.
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peachyealfie · 3 months
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Coffee at midnight, not decaf
Love in the morning, but unrequited
Heartache in the evening, still enamored
All of my life, wasting, couldn’t live any other way
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vanisthoughts · 4 months
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Isn’t it funny how being “nice” is totally dependent on you accepting each and every request given to by a person? No matter if you’d feel comfortable with that or not?
Like just because I won’t fuck someone I’m a whore. Or I won’t lend my hw so I’m a nerd now?
Honestly it’s pathetic💀
Anyway take this random pic from my gallery
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aroacewolfic · 3 months
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Im sure this has been said many times but imma say it anyway...
IF GAYS CANT HOLD HANDS IN FRONT OF CHILDREN STRAIGHT PEOPLE CANT KISS IN FRONT OF CHILDREN EITHER.
IF CHILDREN CANT KNOW ABOUT GAY PEOPLE UNTIL THEY GROW UP THEY CANT KNOW ABOUT STRAIGHT PEPLE EITHER.
IF GAYS CANT HOLD HANDS IN PUBLIC THEN STRAIGHT PEOPLE CANT ALMOST SCREW EACH OTHER IN A TRAIN STATION.
IF GAY ROMANCE CANT BE SHOWN ON TV NOR CAN STRAIGHT THINGS.
FUCKING DEAL WITH IT. IF YOU DONT WANT YOUR CHILDREN BEING GROOMED INTO BEING GAY BECAUSE THEY SAW A COUPLE HOLDING HANDS OR KISSING THEN THEY CANT SEE STRAIGHT PEOPLE DOING THAT SHIT EITHER BECAUSE WONT THAT TURN THEM STRAIGHT SO UNTIL YOU CAN MATURE AND REALISE THAT SEEING AND LEARNING GAY THINGS DOESNT MAKE SOMEONE GAY.
YOUR CHILDREN CANT KNOW ABOUT ROMANCE OR ANYTHING BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE THEM TOO GAY OR STRAIGHT OR BI OR FUCKING WHATEVER.
THESE DOUBLE STANDARDS IN SOCIETY ARE FUCKING STUPID AND MAYBE ITS NOT THE GAY PEOPLE THAT ARE MAKING YOUR CHILDREN GAY MAYBE ITS ACTUALLY HOW THEY ACTUALLY FUCKING FEEL.
PLAYING WITH CERTAIN TOYS OR WEARING CERTAIN CLOTHES OR SEEING TWO PEOPLE OF THE SAME GENDER KISS WONT MAKE YOUR CHILDREN GAY OR TRANS SO FUCKING GROW UP.
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auroraasustralis · 11 months
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Do you ever wonder if friends are yet another thing that society convinces us that we need? Like gender and romance?
I am aro and have no intention of getting into a relationship with anyone. I like being single and have never been in a relationship. I would try to force myself to have crushes, but it never happened. My point is, I was told I should like someone. It wasn’t really an option to live by myself. Yet, as I got older, I realized that people actually felt crushes and “love.” I honestly thought they were made-up things for books and movies.
I have never had a true friend. I have had friendships that I forced because I was so desperate for a friend. Everybody tells me that I just have to meet the right person, that I WILL find my people. Yet, I don’t know if I want a friendship. I don’t know if I want that kind of relationship. 
All my life, I have felt broken because I didn’t have a friend. I literally have no one that I can go out and do things with, besides my little sister. Anyway, I just wonder if there is something to explain someone like me. Someone who cannot make friends, and I’m not even sure if I want a friend. I wonder if I was convinced for so long that I need one, and yet I was also convinced I needed to have a crush on people and have a romantic relationship at some point in my life. Maybe being friendless is normal. Maybe I am not meant to have friends. Maybe I’m not broken.
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cosmicenbyart · 10 months
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Happy Pride month y’all. Quick draw for the day :)
For those who feel like they are “walking caution cones just cuz they want to love who they want and love themselves”.
By: Alia Haig
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dulcetdagger · 2 years
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bitches spend more time in their daydreams than in reality as a coping mechanism for being constantly labelled as selfish and impractical when they desire to be something greater than what soceity has deemed them capable of. its me, im bitches.
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fadedelegance · 1 year
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You gotta love people who bitch about the sex of a fetus: “We already have x amount of girls or x amount of boys”, waaaah! Listen, you’re lucky you have another kid on the way. I’ve known women who have wanted to have a baby period but either miscarried more than once, or had a baby die after a matter of hours. It is devastating for them. I’ve had a front row seat to that kind of pain, and it is just heart-wrenching. But yes, please continue to bitch about having kids who are all the same sex.
I feel like that usually happens with couples that will have all girls. Shut the fuck up. Your kid will be able to sense that they’re resented. You want to raise a messed up person? Then continue to be ungrateful dicks.
God fucking damn it, I am SO OVER MISOGYNY. GOD DAMN. If this is how couples think, I’m grateful I was the firstborn! Jesus H. Christ…
Everyone acts like females are such a burden, and we’re so difficult, so having more than one of us is a nightmare. Even women behave like that.
Misogyny is a hell of a drug.
Can we please just yeet men into the sun? I hate them for what they’ve done to us—making us internalize their bullshit and hate ourselves.
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doublebill · 7 months
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Just wanted to share a conversation I had with someone who works at my kids' school a few months ago. Paraphrasing as it was a while ago and I was thrown a bit off balance.
Them: "You've lost so much weight. What's the secret."
Me: "Oh, I was really ill, and got hospitalised for two weeks and nearly died"
I was a chunky boy before, not gonna lie, but the idea that weight loss is both good and some kind of goal and I must have worked hard for or discovered some kind of awesome trick is genuinely offensive and kind of disgusting.
Think before you speak. Losing a third of your body weight over the span of about four months months isn't a good thing.
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I am sick of walking this earth with people who are blind to the way we live it is not ok we are all so disconnected, the price of everything is fucked! The people who spent years being a slave to be able to set themselves up for retirement are now having to sell there homes just to afford to live, mental health is still fucked and everyone is aware of it now but still such a stigma and no one knows how to talk about it, everyone’s so mean and unhappy and the people who are happy are either lucky or faking it or oblivious to the world, I wish I was just as dumb as half the population so I could just say wellll that’s just the way life is and get on with it… but no! I know it’s not the way it just is!! It’s exactly the way it shouldn’t be and it’s only because WE as a whole society made it this way!!!! we have the power to change it but it’s still so out of our control I just hate this world the only good things left in life is nature and we are even destroying that 😪 humans take everything for granted and rely on the little dopamine hits we get just to be able to feel some sense of happiness while knowing it’s ruining the earth & ourselfs instead of putting in the actual time and effort into changing it and making a difference that can create ACTUAL happiness not these little hits of dopamine that last a few minutes then we would have a chance of saving what good there is left and I would have some hope but I know that’s not going to happen in my life time so I will just keep on pretending with the rest of the world going through the motions 😒
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emotionsburried · 1 year
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It's been years ,
The scars on my skin has disappeared.
Who said I don't get random anxiety attacks tho?
The nightmares in the broad light , only my blankets know .
Can you hear my heart rate increasing ?
The terror as if it's the spiders crawling all over me .
Keep it in the past they say,
Forget it , It was a mistake .
Forgive "him"
How many more years are you gonna take ?
Ask it from that 10y/o girl
Because she was frozen ,
Couldn't comprehend what was going on.
The person who was supposed to guard her ,
Was actually the demon she needed to stay away from .
But hey it's fine you said ?
He himself didn't know what was going on ?
He didn't know what was goin on !
He didn't know what was going on.........?
~Ash
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