#some bottom butch content

[olderthannetfic]

What's the current consensus (among you and your blog followers that is) on the good ole discourse topic of "fixed top-bottom roles dominate in fandom because straight women are imposing a heteronormative binary on slash and femlash"? Because that popped up recently in the fanfiction subreddit, and the replies (mostly blaming straight women and stereotypes, with the occasional smattering of "examine yourself") have been giving me a rage-induced headache.

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LOL.

There is nothing new in this argument or my reactions to it.

Strict roles often come from men and from offline queer culture, not just from women and BL/slash.

The women (and "women") who like strict roles are often not straight, and the people whining about The Straights have no basis for telling who's who, which makes them inherently transphobic, biphobic, homophobic pieces of shit.

Role-based relationship dynamics are not necessarily heteronormative.

What this shit is, fundamentally, is reheated queer community wank from like the 80s about how butch/femme is insufficiently progressive and your sex life is political, wah wah wah.

People who fall for it in fandom now are some combination of radfem poisoned and those defensive idiots who think the cis gay men will validate them more than the BL fan sitting next to them.

They might be a trans man asserting that he's more male than you and thus more valid while ignoring that he isn't hanging out in other dude spaces because they disrespect his gender and/or laugh at his delusions about horny content. They might be a nonbinary person asserting their not-femaleness by asserting that everyone else is the most stereotypical cishet woman ever. They might be a woman pulling that "my gay best friend" shit.

Regardless, they're all the same morons we saw in the 90s, futilely hoping that some man will validate them.

No one is going to validate them.

If they could write for beans, they'd be a famous BL author themselves, making everyone like whatever dynamic they prefer. Instead, their only skill is crying about how the talented and productive people waste time on The Wrong Art.

Laugh in their faces. It's what they deserve.

[levwrites]

love your writing! i have a prompt but feel free to ignore if u want :)) a villain finds an incapacitated hero in an alleyway and decides to use their weakened state to their advantage (also want to clarify that this isn’t noncon!!) thank u so much for your amazing writing <3

"There you are, my dear."

Hero shivers at the voice, recognition shaking them out of the light daze they've fallen into. They try to crawl futher into the shadows, their limbs trembling, but their body refuses to respond to the simpler commands. They can only watch as Villain approaches, his head slightly tilted to the side, an intrigued smile curving his lips.

He halts just a step from them, and crouches to take a better look. "Still drugged, are we?" He reaches out to brush a lock of hair away from Hero's forehead. His touch is pleasantly warm against their chilly skin. "You were never any good at fighting off toxins."

Swallowing, Hero looks up at him and wills their tongue and lips to move: "What... do you want?" The effort of talking leaves them breathing hard. But they know Villain wasn't involved in this butched operation, so what does he want now? He shouldn't even be here.

"Don't strain yourself," Villain immediately chides. His hands move to Hero's shoulders and carefully turn them on their side. Nimble fingers slide down to their wrists and start restraining them behind their back. "I'll do the talking, mh? I'm taking you."

Another shiver goes down Hero's spine. They don't know if it's the toxins or something different. "Why?" Struggling is useless, they can barely move on their own - why is Villain even restraining them? Still, they try.

A firm hand on their nape immediately halts those attempts. Villain clicks his tongue and pulls them into a sitting position, dark eyes narrowing in displeasure. "I told you to relax." He reaches into a pocket and takes out a small darkened vial. "Antitoxin," he explains, unscrewing it and bringing it up to Hero's lips. "Come on."

Hero searches his expression, what little of it they can see, and slowly breathes out. "Why?" they ask again, voice firmer this time. They don't have such a tight relationship with Villain that he'd go out of his way to help - they bedded each other only once, and they doubt Villain got attached. It doesn't sound like him.

With a slight huff, Villain taps the vial against Hero's bottom lip. "I'm taking you to your lover," he explains, rolling his eyes in the face of Hero's stark surprise. "Yes, of course I know. They're going to put you back on your feet, and they will owe me." A smile, a flash of teeth. "Everyone wins, mh?"

Oh. Hero... relaxes. Alright then. They drink down the contents of the vial. Immedialy their whole body starts to tingle as the toxins are banished from their blood. With a relieved sigh they curl their fingers and toes, testing how quickly the antitoxin is working. Now they understand why Villain has restrained them.

Instead of trying to fight and get free, they go almost limp against Villain's body. He is much warmer than he has any right to be, and it eases some more tension out of their body. "Thank you," they murmur, looking up at him with a glint in their eyes. "Now take me home, please."

Thank you for reading and thank you for the prompt!

If you have requests or prompts don't hesitate to send in an ask, I've been posting more sparsely but I'm planning to get back to once a day (or so) soon.

#lev writes #lev answers #hero x villain #heroes and villains #villain #hero #villain x villain #writers on tumblr #my writing #fiction #prompt #story #writing prompt #enemies to lovers

[kassandras-one-braincell]

Eivor x Femme!Reader - Animalistic Urges

Kinktober 08: Primal Play [explicit]

Contains: strap-on usage, butch/femme implicit

Word count: 745

Ao3 link here.

Men, minors and ageless/default blogs DNI. You will be blocked immediately upon interaction.

Docile little things made for a wolf’s ideal prey: oblivious to the cunning, voracious eyes following them, and once fang meets flesh, delectable.

The Wolf-Kissed was something of a wolf herself. She caught scent of something new, something fresh about you, and her eyes hardly left you since. You returned from the settlement’s trade post yester-eve with an ornate decanter in hand, and when dawn broke, you dabbed a droplet of its contents onto your neck. Rose water. A delicate, feminine fragrance. Eivor found it maddening.

Where your lover was a wolf, you were nought but a lamb. Unbeknownst to you, Eivor had silently tracked your day’s errands, awaiting the perfect moment for an ambush to arise. Cobalt eyes stalked after the sway of your hips, entranced by the liquidity they invoked in the fabric adorning them. She needed only a brief moment in your solitary company – a minute to whisper every detail of what the floral notes dusting your throat made her feel, and to ask if you’d slip away to satiate her hunger, for the gods knew her patience would not last ‘til twilight.

The opportunity arose. All it took was some poetic filth for you to be lured away from the pen of Ravensthorpe, deep into the heart of the forest, where the wolf could feast uninterrupted.

Nature willed it so; lupine teeth grazed the throat of the ovine caged below. The mellow rose laced into the scent of you was divine, and she breathed it in deeply as she sucked on the supple skin of your neck. Eivor’s blood roared with the need to flood her tongue with your taste, and devour you she did. You writhed underneath her, thighs trembling around her ears until you dripped down her chin and then some. The cries bleeding from your kiss-bruised lips were of ecstasy, not agony. She saw no reason to cut them short.

Now, atop a blanket of dirt and autumn leaves, a song of grunts, mewls and snarls echoed through the forest as she knelt and rutted into you like a beast. Your hips melted into her hands, eager to chase the length of the leather sheathed inside you with every deep thrust. Soil stained the underside of your nails as you tore the earth below apart, clawing wildly whenever she bottomed out.

She laid a pile of clothes beneath your head – although possessed by this primal fantasy, she would never risk a splinter slicing her sweet lamb’s face. Tragically, it muffled your raw, guttural moans, but Eivor needed only steepen the angle of her hips and endure the slight burn that followed to have your back arching, drooly lips lifting off the linens to sob freely. Sometimes, you would slur some strangled, garbled variant of her name, too enthralled with bliss to form words. Her heart swelled at the sounds. Prey shouldn’t have to think, after all.

The silky, slick warmth of your cunt pulsed around her cock. Eivor swore she could feel it through the leather. She ground into the fantom feeling, ignoring the searing in her thighs as she pushed down on your hips, burying herself deep enough into your viscera to always be pressed against that sweet spot inside of you.

You almost choked on your own spit, and fuck, was that a pretty sound. Eivor watched, eyes frenzied, as wetness seeped onto the length of her toy. Leaning into you, she maintained a slow, rough tempo, needing to rip more of those noises from your throat.

“Please,” you wailed deliriously in broken tongue. She grunted, resisting the urge to kiss the skin of your back. You needed her just like this, relentlessly pounding into the spot that rendered you a wanton, shaking mess. Her stamina waned, but she refused to fold, not with you grabbing tight fistfuls of the earth with every thrust, coarsely moaning, “Please, please, pleaseplease—”

Suddenly and violently, your frame seized up with a ragged cry of her name. Eivor stilled her hips, finally able to hunch over you and kiss your trembling, salt-licked flesh as you shook underneath her. She buried her nose into your neck, breathing in what hadn’t faded of the floral fragrance that brought about her lustful mania to begin with. It was softer, now more comforting than alluring, bringing a lazy smile to her lips. Still delicate, still feminine. But undoubtedly, one day, it would have her tailing you like a feral mutt all over again.

#not proofread because it is once again 4 in the morning #eivor x reader #eivor #eivor varinsdóttir #kinktober 2023

[softbutchthatlovesyou]

Uuhhh

ButchFemme Culture 🤝 BearTwink Culture

-Not as strict of catagories as people think, yet plenty of people on the outside or who are freshly entering project an expectation of them being so.

-Aka constant arguing over definitions for us and without us.

-Not the only Catagories, yet often treated as the Ideals for everyone. ( Reading comp: You can want this for yourself. It is unfair to expect this of every gay/lesbian relationship you see.)

-Forced projection of Top/Bottom and Dominant/Submissive to the Masc and Femme Roles (Which are also projected)

-Forced ideas of aggressiveness. This goes for. Domme femmes/Fat Butches/Bears/Tbutches

-The idea that we always have to pair up as others want. (Slight con. Of point 2): See: butch4butch lesbians who support the femmes of our communities even if they don't wanna date them, but some pople stepping in to go "But don't you want a (insert what theyve projected as an oppsite gender)". Also see: How tibkws and bears are treated as such porn fodder that if two twinks are happy or two bears are content people can feel just such a need to prject their own jack off fantasies on splitting them up and pairing the twinks with the bears.

-Oversexualization as a form of "support"

-Fatphobia

-Racism (painting these as terms soley for white people and ignoring the people of color who very much love these terms)

There's probably more but this was in my drafts for a minute and I guess It's time to scoot it out

Feel free to add on in good faith

#lesbian #gay #lgbtq #lgbqtiia+ #butch #femme #bear #twink #gideons talking time

[thatdogmagic]

This is the last post I plan on making about the current situation.

I've been trying to recall what it is that might be getting repeated, and there's a couple instances I can think of that are pretty ripe for taking snips:

There are chat logs where I made unkind generalizations about autistic cis men, in the context of the majority of my experiences with them being largely negative, and being relieved that I had a space where my own neurodiversity had room to unfold.

She has chatlogs where I commented on not fully understanding trans men who still veered ultra-femmy, even though I don't have any trouble wrapping my head around butch trans women. That contradiction made me think about it quite a bit, and ultimately decided it wasn't a great opinion to have/was mostly just some lingering All Things Being Binary shit I still find myself unpacking.

I'm sure there's other thorny conversations that can be pruned for content, but I'm having trouble thinking of what it is beyond interpersonal clashes and, yeah. I've already seen the depths of missing context there.

There is no better example, in fact, than the comparison of shadowy werewolves with glowing eyes/teeth. It was taken from a concept that was tabled after approval was actively sought because there was a recognized stylistic overlap. Since 'shadow werewolf with glowing eyes/teeth' is a very common visual element in a lot of werewolf artwork, we also went on to discuss when those visual elements would best be avoided, and when they could be put to use.

This wasn't mentioned in the original comparison posts. Nor was it mentioned that it was never intended for public posting. It was a thumbnail idea for promotional material, drawn over a month ago - and nearly a full year after Lacey's skin tone changed - and it was quietly set aside in favor of other ideas.

Bottom line, I don't have any control over what she does with what she has. I don't have any control over what people think about it. But I do have control over what I do with me, and what I plan to do is stay off social media for the forseeable future, and keep working on the projects that matter to me, like I always have.

In the meantime, if you know me off social media:

I do not want to be contacted about any additional escalation

I do not need to know about any further instances of reposted chatlogs or artwork

It's kind of you to want to know my side of the story, but for my own reasons I'd rather not go into it beyond what I've already posted.

If we discussed commission work that you no longer want, please let me know ASAP so I can remove you from the list I have prepped for when I get back to taking those. Those of you who contacted me about it already have my email address.

All that being said, I understand if even with context, some comments lose people. I'm not gonna hold that against anyone. Where I'm at in my own development is probably not going to be enough for some, and that's fine. It doesn't have to be, and it won't stop me from continuing to try.

End of the day, keep in mind that this is still a personal altercation being made public, with everything that entails.

PS - If any other art is being posted: understand that it is being done without permission, after Ependa and I both actively tried to delete those pieces off the server, stated we'd done so intentionally, and then actively requested those files be deleted off the server/her machine when we were made aware of the fact that she was using third party plugins to retain access.

[butch-reidentified]

Did top surgery really help with your dysphoria? How do you feel about comparisons between dysphoric people undergoing surgery to feel better about their bodies vs anorexic or other dysmorphic people opting for surgery to relieve their discomfort? Do you think some or even most dysphoric people could be eventually reach body neutrality or acceptance with nonmedical support or treatment? Asking with total respect as your posts are so thoughtful & I'm interested in your views

Hi! Thank you for this ask, it gives me a chance to consolidate some of my previous posts/reblogs about this topic. I'll include some links at the bottom to my previous content on this 😊

1. Did top surgery really help with your dysphoria?

Yes, it helped me immensely, but I had created a rigorous, multi-year-long gatekeeping process for myself prior to following through with it. I wasn't a TRA, I didn't have a gender identity and had zero desire to distance myself from womanhood (honestly I never have), I was very much conscious of and at peace with my material reality, had been seeing a non-affirming therapist and gotten a second therapeutic opinion, had read numerous detrans regret stories to compare my reasons, thought process, & experiences to the ones that resulted in regret/dissatisfaction, and much more. 50 layers of caution and redundancy has always been how I work, and this was no different.

2. How do you feel about comparisons between dysphoric people undergoing surgery to feel better about their bodies vs anorexic or other dysmorphic people opting for surgery to relieve their discomfort?

I think the term "dysphoria" has been watered down and is as extremely subjective as one's sense of humor. Many trans-identified people say they experience an exacerbation ("trigger") of dysphoria in response to gendered things like wearing certain clothing, makeup, or being called "sir" or "miss" or whatever. Some even claim to "feel dysphoric" about enjoying hobbies stereotypically associated with their sex. These examples are to my experience of dysphoria what boomer humor is to my sense of humor: I simply don't get it and can't relate.

You asked a question about "dysphoric people undergoing surgery to feel better about their bodies," but to be clear, that's not what I did. I didn't feel bad about my body in the slightest; in fact, I loved my body. I really loved my breasts - they were genuinely uniquely remarkable breasts. They were wonderful, and a joyful signifier to me of my femaleness and connection to nature and the goddesses - something I've always taken great pride in, and I knew part of me would miss them. But dysphoria, for me (and the dysphoric people I tend to associate with irl), was/is a literal physical feeling in the same way that pain, itchiness, pressure, numbness, and tingling are physical sensations. It has nothing to do with my feelings about my appearance or my psychological relationship to my body. No matter how intense that sensation could be, I never loved my breasts any less.

As I expected, a part of me did and does miss them from time to time, but honestly it's a pretty superficial part - sometimes I miss their appearance and almost unnatural symmetry, or my nipple piercings, or the aesthetic of breasts on butch women, or goofing around with female friends about/with them. I do miss the bra pocket the most. Truthfully though, I never think about those things unless some specific relevant context prompts me to, and it's a totally cognitive "feeling" rather than an emotional one. It's also very mild and brief, and has never led to feeling regret.

I had body dysmorphia and anorexia for a fairly short time as a teen, but recovered quickly and very fully (I couldn't relapse if I tried, and being a good scientist, I did test that), and was totally mentally at peace with my body for years before even permitting myself to truly consider pursuing surgery. It was crucial to me that I be fully at peace with my body psychologically before doing so to minimize potential confounds. The sensation of relief I experienced post-op was more like the feeling I get after my pain management doctor injects lidocaine & steroids into my sacroiliac joints than the feeling I got at 17 when I could see my bones sticking out - in fact it was nothing at all like the latter. The mental space/energy it freed up for me was not at all emotional distress, but more akin to the mental space/energy freed up when I finally was put on the right medication for my POTS, reducing my fatigue and uncomfortable cardiac sensations immensely.

I never bothered with binding or anything because how others perceived me/how I looked in the mirror was never a factor in the slightest. Actually, if anything, binding would've made me hyperfocus on the sensation. The only relevant thing was the physical sensation and the fact that every other treatment I tried did absolutely nothing to alleviate it. I was able to heal cPTSD from multifaceted childhood abuse entirely on my own. A few years of EMDR had me far subclinical for PTSD after surviving the Pulse Nightclub mass shooting in Orlando in 2016. 4 weeks of PHP cured me permanently from severe anorexia. But nothing ever made a difference when it came to my dysphoria.

At the same time, I don't think most other people who call themselves dysphoric experience the same thing that I do. I think many - likely most - people who say they have dysphoria are gnc and struggling with stereotypes and expectations, have body image issues in general and think transition will help because of the rhetoric around it treating it as a silver bullet, are struggling to accept themselves for any number of potential reasons we often discuss here on radblr, are aroused by "cross-dressing" or cross-sex fantasies, or other things I'm definitely forgetting in my current half-asleep state.

3. Do you think some or even most dysphoric people could eventually reach body neutrality or acceptance with nonmedical support or treatment?

I know I'm reiterating here, but just to be very clear - I did reach a high level of body acceptance prior to my surgery, and total acceptance below the neck. My face (particularly being babyfaced & my nose) were the only things I was still a little self-conscious about, but not dysmorphic or anything severe. That's been resolved for a while now, too.

Absolutely 100% yes. I think the vast, vast majority of people who call themselves dysphoric or are diagnosed with "gender dysphoria" have zero business being approved for medical intervention, particularly surgery. The intense urgency to go under the knife that so many trans-identifying people express is a massive red flag for mental illness and non-intractible dysphoria, yet that urgency is often used to "prove" the medical "necessity" of such "treatments." The way so many people "come out" as trans and instantly want surgery as soon as humanly possible with as little preparation or gatekeeping as possible is extremely concerning, and in my eyes very much a sign that person is anything but a good candidate for medical intervention. Throwing a tantrum on Twitter because you have to wait a few years to get a major surgery is not a mentally healthy behavior... obviously. Those people need psychiatric intervention first and foremost, and goddesses we need more research.

The people I know who experience dysphoria as a physical sensation like I described are anecdotally far more cautious and thorough in considering medical intervention, much less likely to subscribe to gender ideology, and much more likely to attempt every possible alternative before deciding on surgery - an oddly parallel approach to that of most patients with chronic pain: try everything other than surgery/experimental medical intervention first.

Dysphoria means a hundred different things to different people these days. Maybe it always did, idk. I firmly believe we need to start separating these "types" of dysphoria, or ideally even separate them in name and concept altogether (stop calling all these different issues/symptoms/experiences by the same name). What do I have in common with a man who steals his sister's undergarments for a sexual thrill? What do I have in common with a teenage girl who thinks she must not be female because she hates skirts and loves cargo shorts? My experience is one of neurological dissonance, not emotional distress. This presents a major issue when it comes to research, though... if we aren't differentiating these drastically different varieties of "trans" and definitions of dysphoria, how can any research on dysphoric populations be remotely meaningful? The treatment plan for the man stealing his sister's undergarments and the treatment plan for the gnc teen girl and the treatment plan for me shouldn't all look the same. That seems glaringly obvious, and yet nobody seems willing to admit it.

My original I Don't Regret My Top Surgery post

"Radfems Misunderstanding Dysphoria" meme post discussion

Response to an ask about alternative ways to treat dysphoria

We really need research to identify which patients are most likely to benefit from medical intervention (and which are most likely to be harmed by it)

Response to an ask: sex dysphoria vs gender dysphoria, and rare dysphoria as neurological with possible genetic/epigenetic components

Response to an ask: neurological dysphoria vs brain sex, part 1

Response to an ask: neurological dysphoria vs brain sex, part 2

#mine #ntsd #neurological type sex dysphoria #neurological model of dysphoria #sex dysphoria #radblr #ask #anon ask #anon #detrans surgery

[yaknowlikenyah]

🐠 FAQ 🐠

Can I message you?

Yes! My dms are open, though I prefer a little real-person conversation before jumping into kink. Even a compliment helps.

Are you single?

Yep, no intention of getting into an official relationship rn, though I will form highly homoerotic friendships where I tell you I love you.

What’s your type?

Sexually, I’m pretty open to fucking people outside my type, but the good shorthand is ‘scary dogs’ Resting bitch face havers, butches, scary looking punks and heavily tattooed metal heads my beloved. I also love desperate, pathetic simps.

What’s your gender?

Fuck if I know. I have a pussy I’m happy with and use He/It.

Can I dom you?

That’s what the kids call a ✨privlege✨. So no, not unless I express interest in it first.

What’s with the ‘Nyah’ catboy thing?

I love a good bit(e).

Can you top me?

I heavily prefer bottoming, but topping is fun and sexy and I wouldn’t object if you’re cute and whiny about it.

Can I ask you for sex/dating/confidence advice?

Yes! Part of my whole Big Brother shtick is that I am actually a big brother and will gladly give you advice if it’s something I can answer.

Is your moaning ‘real’ in your audio?

I mean- I’m not actively fucking myself, but I let myself get into it and make the sounds I actually make during sex.

Can I request audios?

Yes! No guarantee I’ll do it but at the very least it should give me some good ideas.

Can I call you a title?

Yeah, but when in doubt, always encouraged to ask. I would check my Kink list for the titles I enjoy.

Do you have paid content/More content?

Nope! In it for the love of the game. Support your sex workers though. If it’s not in one of my tags assume it’s not here.

Do you have a tag for nudes?

Nope! You gotta search for those. Good luck puppy. Go fetch.

#nyah #FAQ #easy to read formatting my beloved

[ellaenchanting]

Come See Me: Beguiled 2023!

I'm really excited to be attending and presenting at @beguiledcon this year Here's what I'm teaching with descriptions:

FRIDAY-

Hypno- to -Go with @the-inquisition-scmh : Fun class on improvising a scene on the fly. I'll mostly be demo-bottoming this one but hope to contribute ideas on the fly with a very fun and knowledgeable co-presenter. If you like shenanigans, this is a good class for you. Full description here

Sapphic Soiree- (the event formerly known as the Femme Flirt)- I'm cohosting this with the lovely @daja-the-hypnokitten . This is an evening event designed to give a space for ladies to flirt with ladies. We do not gender police and all that identify as women/femme/in that section of the gender spectrum are welcome (including butch women, trans women, non-binary folks on the femme side, etc.) Full description here

SATURDAY-

Hold your Applause: Coping with Imposter Syndrome- Class exploring how imposter syndrome and other common confidence issues can impact us as hypnotists/subjects/content creators/community members. We'll also be discussing some helpful ideas and techniques for building confidence and coping with imposter syndrome when/if it happens. Full description Class-Related Resource List

SUNDAY-

(hopeful uncon) Smut to Scene: Converting Mcstories to Actual Scene Ideas. This class is designed as a group brainstorm on different ways we might convert hot stories to scenes. The 2 stories I'm hoping to discuss are this robot play microfic by Double Grinch ( @doublegrinch ): and Flesh for Fantasy by Jukebox (@jukeboxemcsa ) . You'll get a lot more out of the class if you're able to read these ahead of time- they're both pretty short! (Although you can also come if you haven't read them). In class, we'll be brainstorming basic scene ideas based on these stories keeping in mind logistics, ethics, what makes them hot, etc- so definitely bring your ideas!

I'm looking forward to seeing everyone and teaching again this year. Please let me know if you have questions about any of these classes/events!

#beguiled #presentations #imposter syndrome #hypno improv #hypno smut #sapphic soiree #femme flirt

[lycanstonebutch]

Decided to make a promo post for my close moots i love

@ikishima (not a nsfw blog but my femme and shes great and funny and very informative her blog is nice shes smart and make me go awooga also she has hilarious psots and tags so check it out 💞😘😘 shes also very pretty but you wont find pics of her u just gotta believe me)

@highfemmecatgirl (NSFW of my other femme 💞💞 go show her some support shes a catgirl in heat and i love her and she deserves more followers shes a cutie who loves pink and is genuinely just the sweetest

@mewrotica (NSFW of a stud i am insanely gay n in love with thank god im butch4both bcuz WOOOWEEE 😍😍 anyways this ones a catboy in heat n he also deserves attention hes rlly cool but also very funny and learning abt himself)

@bimbunfemme (NSFW blog of my bestie theyre so cool AND THEYRE SUPER PRETTY and also a very horny bunny bimbo femme they deserve the world n im always out there supporting them 🫡💞)

@willthepup (Another alter in our system hes a bottom puppy butch 4 top femme and hes new to tumblr but he has a big mind and im sure some of his posts will resonate w/ ppl 🐶🥰)

@plutoprincessxo (Another nsfw blog from a friend that deserves some promo, shes awesome and has a great vibe + her blog has top quality content so u guys should follow !!)

@picklepupnsfw (and ANOTHER nsfw blog of a friend except this one is an absolute bastard but she also deserves ur follow her content is great shes funny and also shes a lesbian in denial (playful inside joke)

GO FOLLOW MY PARTNERS & FRIENDS!!!!

#YIPPPEEE LOVE U GUYS I WANTED TO GIVE U ALL A LITLE BOOST #i dont got that much followers abt like 200 #but still 🫡🫡🫡

[butchexe]

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I’M NOW MAINLY ACTIVE ON COHOST! i’m still here every now and then but if you wanna see me more often i’m on there now :]

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BUTCH . 20 . ANY PRONOUNS . DISABLED SYSTEM HOST . FAT FAGDYKE WEREWOLF

hai what’s up i’m butch and i’m your local werewolf whos autistic about technology. i’m also the scary mspec lesbian tiktok warned you about

i just throw shit in here. expect everything and nothing at the same time. god bless

please dni if you fall into any of these categories:

- proship/profic - queer and mental health gatekeepers (sysmeds, anti educated self-dx, anti “contradictory” labels, etc.) - pro transrace, transage, etc. - pro-contact harmful para - believe in “narc abuse” or are just generally shitty towards people with npd. yes this includes calling your ex you left on bad terms with a narcissist. use another buzzword

minors aren’t a solid thing on this list but i would prefer if you were an adult if you followed! some content i rb might be nsfw (some tagged some not, i forgor a lot)

here because i added an id to your post? consider adding it to the original for accessiblity! if you’re on my dni and i added an id to your post just use it anyways please. accessibility is more important than discourse

enjoy ur stay! remember that i love u and to stay silly

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#pinned #id

[cowboyjen68]

Hi Jen,

My sister is a butch like you and she works on a farm. I love her to pieces even though we have polar opposite personalities- I'm chatty and outgoing, while she's very reserved and prefers being outdoors to big social gatherings. It makes me happy to see you living so well and enjoying your life, especially because I can see through you a glimpse of what her future could look like decades from now, and I know that there's a path to that kind of adulthood out there waiting for her. It's really lovely to see someone who has done it already. Do you have any advice on how I can support my sister through whatever comes up in the future? Sometimes I feel like I can't understand her the way she needs.

best wishes from anonymous

Thank you for all of those kind words. I am happy in so many ways and much of that is due to my comfortability in being butch and my gratefulness for being a lesbian and out and content with my attraction to women. It certainly took some time to get to where I am in life.

My big sister is 20 years older and straight. She is what some people call gender non conforming in some ways and in others ways she is not. She was my hero growing up because she did what she wanted and how she wanted. If she wanted to put on a full face of make up and get wine drunk and go horseback riding with the girls, she did it. When boots and bedazzeled bell bottoms were no longer in style she doubled down and made a matching purse and belt.

She was the first person to see the Tomboy in me, or at least the first to acknowledge it. She gave me my first "cowboy " play set, my first cowboy hat and she never hesitated to give me "boy" tasks like carrying heavy things or climbing on a newly purchased auction pony to see if it was "rideable" (it was not-- I have scars).

My point is, sisters can be an immense source of recognition for our unique personalities and needs. Butch lesbian sisters often still want that sister connection and time to bond. Sisters know most things about us if there is a good relationship so it is nice to just "be" without pretense of how we "are supposed to act" or how we are often expected to behave as butches. She can just be butch, natural and comfortable, without performing or being concerned she is too much or not enough.

Let her know she is still your sister, not "man like" not "not woman enough" but your sister and you share that unique connection sisters share and her butchness does not detract from that. It is a part of her. Her reality. And you love it about her because it is entwined in her existence. Don't dwell on it or constantly remind her she is butch. She knows. Everyone knows. It is nice to just be. And be with someone who knows all about you and loves you just for you.

You might never understand how she relates to others as a butch or exactly what she contends with being perceived in a way only butch women experience, but you do understand how women are put under pressure to follow the expectations of any given culture.

If your friends (or hers) say dumb stuff like "i wish I was a lesbian, dating butches would be easier" when trying to relate to her, or worse, things like "why do you try to look like a man?" gently but firmly correct them. Tell them why that is just not nice and makes pretty much everyone uncomfortable, butch or not.

It sounds like you love her and have a special bond. Knowing her sister wants her to succeed just as she is with no expectations or narrow roles to follow is a great gift you are giving her.

#butch #sisters #family #lesbian

[alesbianwholikesvillains]

HELLO HELLO!

My name is Roxie! I’m a nonbinary lesbian self shipper. I go by they/xem/him pronouns (but I am okay with “she” sometimes!) and I am 19 years old. I have a HUGE soft spot for campy evil ladies and they make up a majority of my f/o list. I interact from @penduulum

As of currently, my primary f/o is Victoria Vance from Paw Patrol: the Mighty Movie! Other romantic f/os I have are Belle Bottom (Minions: the Rise of Gru), Ursula (The Little Mermaid 1989), Monsieur and Madame Thénardier (Les Misérables), Mrs. Lovette (Sweeney Todd: the Demon Barber of Fleet Street) (who I’m sharing with my amazing friend Magnus), Balthazar Bratt (Despicable M3), King Magnifico (Wish), DK West (No Straight Roads, Dr. Volumnia Gaul (Hunger Games: the Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes), and Glitz and Glam (Hell/uva Bo/ss) (I ship with them both separately). I am okay with sharing f/os!

BYF: I am very forgetful! I will most likely forget I even have this account a lot of the time, because I am super busy in my regular life. If I forget to reblog or comment on your posts, please do not take it personally, as I might have not seen it or forgotten to reblog it! Don’t be afraid to message or tag me if I did - I won’t take it personally! I am also a legal adult and I cuss very frequently, so if you are under 18 and don’t feel comfortable interacting, I’ll fully understand. I also have some f/os who Are canonically male, but in my ships I interpret them as Butch lesbians.

please DNI if you’re under 16 years old (current friends are an exception) or over 35, are not a self ship account (if it’s not your main that’s fine! Just shoot me an ask letting me know what the @ is so I can follow you back :) ), are against having villains as fictional others, or are a pro shipper. (please do not try to debate this with me. I Do Not want to associate with the shipping debate, nor do I ever even consider sending people hate, but am personally very disgusted by pro ship content and think it is wrong. Please just block me if you are pro ship.)

There aren’t many things I need tagged, but if you’re a close friend/mutual you can dm me to ask!

And that’s all!! I’m excited to make some new mutuals and friends on here 🫶

#pinned post #self ship promo #sorry this one isn’t too fancy 🥲 #just wanted to have my info somewhwre!

[itstheelvenjedi]

Slow on the uptake bc checking tumblr/socmed is very much the bottom of my priority list rn

But obligatory disclaimer as a polyam queer butch that I do not condone, support or agree with the shit Frazer Blaxland has been saying lately.

I'm not personally gonna stop making content for Dammon/shipping him with characters, I'm so deep into my personal headcanons that tbh the only connection there is pretty much the voice itself and the vague appearance so I feel like I can separate the two pretty well. If you can't that's also fine but also pls do not attack me for this. I will block you. I'm ONE more bad thing away from losing my fucking shit frfr (which is why I'm so inactive here rn) and I'm NOT about to be the bitch that has to tell the psych that dumb fandom drama was my last straw so I will not be engaging w any attempts. This is the only time I'll bring it up. but yea. Feel like I have to say it so ppl don't assume I support those disgusting opinions.

Also not sure how long I'll be 'active' here again. I may disappear again for a while I'm sorry ;; shit sucks rn and tumblr/most socmed is effort and spoons I dont have LOL if we're buds and for some reason you DONT already have me added on Discord feel free to DM me and I'll give yall my Discord tag,

That's the place that's easiest/least stressful and where I spend most of my time atm, but I don't want ppl to feel like I'm ignoring them! I promise I'm not <3 if you tagged me in a meme or whatever I will get around to it when I can I promise, it'll just be slow and at the whim of how many spoons I have on a given day haha

#i have no idea what to tag this as but uh #this #lmao #unfollow or hate me for choosing to separate the character from his VA if you want thats your call /gen #but i'm going to be a stubborn petty bitch about it #genuinely have so little good in my life rn i'm not letting some asshole take my comfort ships away from me #call me dramatic if you want idc im dead /srs bg3 is keeping me sane & stopping me from chewing people's arms off irl rn #blog update #kinda sorta #blog announcement #delete later #elven rants #elven screams into the void #also kinda. but i'll tag it just incase

[hadeantaiga]

@cityhalloween-main

Link to original post

Below is a record of a post with some recommended reading, CityHalloween-Main's reply, and all the replies to her in the comments. At the bottom are messages she then sent to me.

As you can see, everyone in this thread was telling her to read the linked source. I have no idea if she actually did so, but she did decide it was a good idea to attack me.

I have no idea what her "primary blog" is. I have no idea who she is, period. If she's a terf or a radfem, then it's possible I do have one of her accounts blocked. She seems to think she's a very important figure in my life, but she is not. I don't know who she is.

Her cityhalloween-main blog contains no content related to feminism, trans issues, etc, it's just anime gifs, so I can make no claims about her as a person. I cannot corroborate anything she says about herself because I don't know who she is. I have no reason to think she's lying, though.

If she actually has read Stone Butch Blues, then it seems she somehow missed the message of overlapping identities between butchness and transness, which was why I recommended it in relation to the link above, and the overall discussion of trans men, butch women, queer solidarity, and gender policing.

Either way, she seems to be blatantly transphobic and abusive so I would recommend blocking her solely for these reasons alone.

#tw verbal abuse #transphobia #tranmisogyny #transandrophobia #cityhalloween-main