#sometimes youre the jerk

[fefairys]

getting real fed up with my peers treating teenagers like shit. how did you forget so fucking quickly what it's like to be them. shame on you.

#this is about people my age getting into internet discourse with teenagers #and calling them stupid and overall belittling them and being a jerk to them #like. literally just block them if they are being a shithead #teenagers are shitheads sometimes #youre not going to change them #they need to grow up on their own #and an adult making fun of them isnt going to help #in fact it is going to hinder the process #if you want to try to help you need to be kind #if theyre not receptive to that and are still being an asshole then it is not worth it #and you need to go do something else with your time #you are a fucking adult

[dykefaggotry]

the way this website balks at the term "culturally christian" is so funny to me like. oh shit you mean the religion our government and culture is structured around might impact you even if you're atheist and ESPECIALLY if you're ex-christian? noooo it's the people using it to describe a phenomenon of western culture that are wrong

#I think sometimes it's a genuine misunderstanding of the term #but others it's just a knee-jerk reaction against being associated w christianity #like babe just bc you left the church does not mean the church left you! #esp if you continue to parrot very christian beliefs! #and even people born and raised atheist are dealing w morals imbedded in western society by christianity #it's also not exclusive to christianity! culturally muslim people exist in other countries & cultural hinduism etc... #it's about what religion is The Major Religion backing the moral decisions of a society #regardless of your personal belief

[doverstar]

to be clear, I think Rose Tyler being an often-selfish character is great. I think it's great because real women are selfish. Real women get petty. Real women hear their ex boyfriend say he's going out with a mutual acquaintance and get unfairly jealous and real women then say things like "she's a bit big" when they shouldn't and they have no right. Real women can be monsters, and Rose Tyler is relatable and I love how she is written and I love her, thanks for listening

#Rose Tyler is so imperfect #she is SO FLAWED and sometimes you get mad at her and that's exactly how all characters should be written #she is compassionate and she is loyal and she is SELF*LESS* to a FAULT sometimes #but she is ALSO selfish #gloriously human #she's SUPPOSED to be the most ordinary girl in the world and you know what? ordinary girls are jerks #I would know. I AM one #write more ordinary girls Doctor Who writers #write them please I'll be your best friend #dw #doctor who #rose tyler #rose marion tyler #whovian #text post #doverstar's thoughts #listen this is not to say that I think being jealous and angry and petty and rude and selfish is GOOD #I'm saying it's good writing to portray FLAWS #because those are FLAWS and people should not be content to be that way #this is not Turning Red

[splatattackz]

i have made the worst edit ever

#im funny sometimes #qsmp #we'll make sure a tear-jerking invitation arrives to your very doorstep | qsmp #qsmp meme #qsmpattackz #splatattackz

[anomalousmancunt]

if your punk relies on being mean and angry* more than it relies on building a community, then it's meaningless.

*specially if it's towards other marginalized people. the fuck you're doing?

#punk #neuropunk #madpunk #queer punk #trans punk #solarpunk #I've run out of tags to put here. #yes it's important to be angry and mean sometimes but if your version of punk is #'yell and lash out at anyone over anything and then way i have the right to be angry' #then that's not punk that's just being a jerk #physdis #physically disabled #physical disability #unitypunk

[acutecoral]

Broooo, just the immediate feeling of my stomach dropping when I saw a clip of Jaiden finding the Fear room in Cellbit's castle...and that knee-jerk reaction of feeling upset and defensive.

I always have to remember that these feelings are understandable on my side and it wouldn't do to downplay what I feel. I know Endless and I are very invested in Cellbit's character and story, so it's natural to feel that way!

So we took one breath and another and watched.

I had to remind myself who exactly found the Fear room in the first place, and though I don't really main or watch much of Jaiden's streams, the way she turned down the urge to take pictures of it helped ease my worries. I don’t know why, but just that choice alone reminded me that she's not really reckless in these sorts of things. She's careful in what she shares and who she trusts, and doesn't seem to share too about what she knows.

So while she may know now that it exists and entered it, I don’t feel it's something that she'll end up using against Cellbit. She's not really the type, I don't think so from what I've seen and read about her character.

I mean, it's kind of similar to her and Foolish breaking into the vault and taking the happy pills. From how I understood it, they just did it to prove that they can, and as far as I remember, they gave back the pills easy enough.

Also, the only person Jaiden is intended to and will only likely tell it to is Foolish, who considers Cellbit as part of his family, so it's not like he'll use the information against him either or take advantage it in a way that would hurt his son-in-law. He cares too much to really do anything like that.

As far as I know of their characters, they'll probably keep it to themselves until it's relevant, or they may end up just going back together and see it for themselves and leave a mark to show Cellbit that they were there if they feel like it, just like they did with the vault. Or they may confront Cellbit about the room and what it is to get some answers, in their special chaotic way.

Though this is a bit different from the situation with the vault I think, since this place is hidden and made to be secret and safe. In any case, just something to see what they'll decide to do in the end. I'm curious where it'll lead.

That being said, personally, I'm comforting myself with the idea of Roier having reassured himself that Cellbit was not kidnapped this time by going into the Fear room like he did earlier in his stream after Cellbit went to sleep and Roier decides to cuddles up with him in that small as bed (there was only one bed omg...), and when Jaiden breaks in she finds the two of them there, both with deep and dark eyebags marring their faces, obviously exhausted and tired. She snoops a bit before being satisfied and decides to later drag Foolish into the room and the two of them leave things to make things extra cosy and comfy for them.

#i am gently holding that last image in my head #sometimes your faves need to rest and my god do they fucking need it #anyways handling emotional responses to what a character does in a story is hard!!! #but important to not lean into the knee-jerk reaction #qsmp jaiden animations #qsmp cellbit #qsmp roier #qsmp foolish gamers #qsmp liveblog #qsmp #mcyt #acuteliveblogs

[bethanyactually]

if you are a person who rambles in the tags of posts you reblog

Thank you very much *・ﾟ✧

#yes i DO want to hear your thoughts #yes i DO want to hear that long story about your aunt's dog that's only tangentially related to the post you're reblogging #yes i DO want you to talk to me directly in the tags #if you address me by name in the tags of a post you reblog from me I gain 10 hp instantly #if you don't always have the spoons to type a lot of tags that's okay #we all gotta scroll and reblog mindlessly sometimes I get it #but if you ever start to type tags and then think 'aw they don't care about that' and delete? know that I CARE I WANT TO READ THOSE TAGS #ok to reblog but please don't be a jerk to non-taggers #I love you guys who don't write tags too <3 #I just want tag writers to know they are appreciated and to let shy tag writers know that I can't wait to read their future tags

[daz4i]

how many times do we gotta go over it man. thought crime isn't real. it's okay to feel whatever you're feeling. don't let anyone make you feel guilty for having some reflex reaction to stimuli in a way that is out of your control. the question isn't what you think or how you feel, but what you do. do you act upon those thoughts? do you harm others bc of your feelings? that's where you draw the line. keep it in your brain. vent it out in some personal way like a journal or a password locked blog. it's okay i promise

#saw a post abt sex repulsion that i mostly agreed with #until op said being disgusted by like. other people having sex is wrong #and like. i agree that if this is your knee jerk reaction you might need to look into it #but sometimes. it really is just disgust of the idea. like it's none of my business but i still find it unpleasant to see or think about #and as someone who feels guilty constantly abt everything. this is actually smth i don't feel guilty over #bc it's just an emotion and like i can't really help it. but also. I'm not hurting anyone by cringing on the inside #i don't think guilting people for feeling a negative emotion is gonna make them unlearn it i think you're just gonna make them feel awful - #- over a very normal human experience (aka. emotions). all this would lead to is ppl hating themselves for smth they can't help #it's not that deep i just got very mad at that phrasing lol esp bc it was aimed at teenagers #a group that is way more vulnerable to this sort of shit in part due to already experiencing emotions more intensely #tldr: don't do that shit man. encourage positive behavior not thought policing

[puppygirlgirldick]

for the purposes of reading porn, i am now considering myself a trans girl who somehow has a cervix and a womb. if people can't be arsed to write smut without referencing wombs and cervixes and making specific note of somebody having both a vagina and an asshole or write shit like "all three holes" then i am just gonna get high enough to forget that i ain't got that kinda equipment.

#this is a complaint but it is a complaint that will also lead to me feeding my breeding kink #so it's a win win situation really #but no for real it's twenty fuckin 24. write inclusive porn. it's not that fucking hard. or just #be up front. and say your shit isn't for transfems (or for pre/non-op ones). that's fine. sometimes shit isn't for you (me) and that's fine #i might think your kinda jerk. but in the same way that i think someone getting pizza delivered to their house is a jerk cuz i don't get an #not the end of the world. #just kinda sucks to get halfway through something relatable and then whoops here's a reminder y'all weren't thinking about trans women agai #maybe that's a me thing not being able to imagine having that equipment and more weed will fix it. i'll be testing that theory #the tags are longer than the post at this point because i am unhinged and i cannot be stopped. sorry.

[kimdokja-real]

Yoo Joonghyuk Trusts Kim Dokja Soooooooo Much

"Yoo Joonghyuk! Only I can understand you!"

It was obvious that Nirvana had been enduring only for this moment.

108 giant beads shone behind Nirvana. "Stop now and become one with me." Light rose and Yoo Joonghyuk felt fragments of agony piece his mind. He wouldn't be able to guarantee his next regression if he fell to this skill.

'This is the end'. He had to regress now. Yoo Joonghyuk exercised final control over his body and brought the Splitting the Sky Sword to his neck. –Don't imagine that you will get better if you throw away this round. Why did those words appear at this moment? –Maybe this is the round where you will see the end of this world as a 'human'." Yoo Joonghyuk was in a terrible state of mind and had a thought for the first time. 'Kim Dokja…' Then his vision gradually dimmed. –You jerk, you think quickly. He was mistaken. A familiar voice was heard. –Take a break. Despite his reluctance, Yoo Joonghyuk felt relieved by the voice and easily closed his eyes.

Okaaaay this whole scene is like??? Yoo Joonghyuk being submissive to Kim Dokja bottom yoo joonghyuk yes but also Yoo Joonghyuk just trusting Kim Dokja!

This is such a hard thing to do for the regressor who did everything alone so he's reluctant 'despite his reluctance' but 'Yoo Joonghyuk felt relieved by the voice and easily closed his eyes'.

Yoo Joonghyuk felt relieved that he didn't have to deal with Nirvana dragging up his trauma and tormenting him mentally, he didn't have to deal with it alone because unpredictable Kim Dokja his companion who cared about him (and also saved him from the Theatre Master not sure why that's not mentioned!) and could do impossible things was there with him! And he knows things Yoo Joonghyuk doesn't know and would solve it for him like he solves everything else.

And yeah I think Yoo Joonghyuk knows his body would be taken over, his body he worked so hard to train and carried with him through his regressions (Kim dokja mentioning his combat muscles!), he just easily handed it over to Kim Dokja.

This is even more significant than Yoo Joonghyuk obediently handing Kim Dokja his sword, now he hands his literal body over to Kim Dokja.

Like Yoo Joonghyuk is trusting Kim Dokja so much here whether you like bottom or top yoo joonghyuk he is soooooo vulnerable and trusting here it's so good

And yeah Yoo Joonghyuk easily closed his eyes......like I'm sure this man had problems sleeping during his regressions but here he's so relieved by Kim Dokja and trusts Kim Dokja so much he easily closed his eyes and just let his body be taken over by Kim Dokja.

It's just a freaking single line, but it says so much about Yoo Joonghyuk's trust in Kim Dokja.

Okay Yoo Joonghyuk breaking through his terrible state of mind mental anguish by Nirvana to think one single thought, 'Kim Dokja'.

Kim Dokja just means so much to Yoo Joonghyuk, Yoo Joonghyuk cares about him so much.

Look how he surrenders to Kim Dokja and trusts him here and he looks so pretty

#he's so pretty #yoo joonghyuk is so pretty #yoo joonghyuk #kim dokja #how much yoo joonghyuk trusts kim dokja #and he was clenching his fist when seeing him alive at the constellation banquet #and kim dokja was just like 'this jerk has anger issues nowadays' #kim dokja is just stupid sometimes #no he's overwhelmed with emotion after literally seeing your funeral you idiot! #i swear this guy #pls take care of yoo joonghyuk well kim dokja thanks #dokhyuk #joongdok #dokjoong #orv #omniscient reader's viewpoint

[allieinarden]

I think it’s fun how Marge is always asking “if you love me then why don’t you love my sisters?” while Homer is more “if you love me then why don’t you hate my dad?!”

#they both are family-oriented but both were treated pretty badly by their own families and they coped in the opposite way you gotta love it #The Simpsons #Marge thinks your spouse should help you placate your family and Homer thinks your spouse should help you fight them #It’s a modern episode but when the family gets mad at Abe on Homer’s behalf Homer is crying because this is what he’s really always wanted #he loves Abe he doesn’t want to be out of touch but he would really just like his family to righteously gang up on the man sometimes #he’s such a jerk to Patty and Selma and Marge doesn’t even appreciate it. Why doesn’t she appreciate how hard he’s abusing her abusers

[shadeandthedugeonofcringefanart]

Happy/smiling Diesel appreciation post

#comfort charactef shenanigans #ttte diesel #devious diesel #i'm a train with a face and i'm coming your way #thomas and friends #thomas and friends diesel #ttte #I know he's suppose to be an antagonist sometimes but I want to see him happy 🥺 #he's a jerk but he's MY lovable jerk #mr. revolutionary

[randomnameless]

Something that really bothers me about the rose coloured glasses vis a vis tellius and fe fans (ESPECIALLY from 3h fans who learned about tellius later) is that many like soren purely because of his main ship (i mean i like ikesoren too but come the fuck on) and jokingly characterise soren as a stereotypical nasty mean limp wristed sarcastic gay man instead of a deeply flawed branded angry at the world and definitely trauma bonded to ike, but micaiah is still absolutely getting raked over the coals over the blood pact and not being ike’s fangirl

Well,

Jokes often involve flanderisation, so Soren being flanderised to oblivion when people joke about him isn't something I really care about, but maybe that's because I'm not really fond of Soren to begin with lol

What annoys me more is when some people try to rationalise Soren's anger and backstory by either pointing at Almedha or Deghinsea being responsible for everything, and I'm like, what.the.fuck?

Almedha's just, idk, I won't call it sexism, but damn - that woman loves her son who is the only reason why she hasn't completely lost her mind over 1/losing her powers 2/being casted away like trash by her "BF" 3/being rejected by her dad 4/thinking her brother was tortured and abused to death because of her actions 5/being separated from her beloved child.

Deghinsea being "uwu bad bcs he's the reason why brandeds are rejected by both beorcs and laguz" is another take I really am not fond of, and iirc I wrote a post earlier this year about it? But to some people who buy the "Crusts BaD" as the reason why Fodlan sucks, I guess they need to have someone to name and pill all of the world's nonsense rather than, well, in Tellius' case, realise that the worldbulding and the lore really sucks, to the point where the duology touted as the most "against racism" of the franchise, is pretty much way more racist than anything Tru Piss can throw us (yes, because in Tru Piss we have characters rejecting coexistence, in Tellius, it's the world mechanics - whenever a Beorc and a Laguz coexist too much, the Laguz dies...).

As for Miccy,

Just like, imo, Soren gains some "new" attention and "uwu excuses for why he's being a snarky jerk at times", Miccy used to be bashed when FE10 was released (with all the Mary Sue accusation being thrown around!) because she was written to be a sort of foil/antagonist to Ike, and when the party reunited, she was demoted to a "soul-jar" role, let it be regarding the greater plot, or, even, her own backstory!

TBH, for people who didn't play FE10, if Ike is the bestest thing since melted cheese, Miccy, who opposes him, must be BaD and so you can pile everything you don't like on her, hoping to see it stick.

Or even worse, I've seen posts here and there comparing Miccy to Supreme Leader and how misunderstood uwu she is, which is the worst insult poor Miccy ever received since FE10 came out rofl

#2goldensnitches #do you want to kill me friend lol #once upon a time discussions about soren and miccy were very animated lol #anyways i still don't like how some part of the fandom tries to uwu him #he is a character with flaws that sure are never called out in the game and by the main character but #they exist #and to uwu them away is imo a disservice and not a good reading on him #'but his backstory sad uwus' Sephiran also has a crapton of sad uwus for his backstory #and yet the game chews him out about his plans to destroy the world because hey fuck off #it's not fair to condemn the world and everyone who lives in it for your suffering #It's sort of hilarious because sometimes I wonder if Miccy wasn't also written as a Soren foil #Miccy is the one who doesn't like when Beorc call Laguz names #she lives in racist land and knows she has to hide else she'll die too #but she still came to care about the people who live here #she gets to talk to Vika who feels weirded out by her being a branded and yet they agree to continue talking/being friends despite it #Miccy never insults Rafiel calling him a half beast #Soren follows Ike and his lead but Miccy has to take the lead despite wanting to follow Pelleas at first #tfw we know more about Soren's backstory even after being kicked away from Daein than Miccy's lol #granted I loved what FE10 with Almedha when you see that some of his worst traits/flaws are actually shared by his mom lol #tl;dr : a Soren raised by his mom would have been even more of a jerk than the one we got #i have a lot of feelings about how Miccy was treated in FE10 which in turn sort of explains the vitriol she received from the fandom #but that's for another post lol else it'll be too long #basically FE10 is more Ike v.2 than a game where Miccy is the Lord

[purgemarchlockdown]

The temptation to vague about something in the milgram-confessions blog because its something thats bothered me for Actual Years about certain fandoms vs letting it go because when it is brought up its actually done somewhat tastefully and reasonably which makes me happy and this anon probably didnt mean it in the incredibly bad faith way I keep on seeing it be repeated so really Im getting upset over nothing.

#the answer is: ramble a bit in the tags just to get it out of my system #for some elaboration: Im asian! I have a knee jerk reaction when people go 'the westerners are projecting their values onto the east again' #because 9/10 of the times someone does that they're an American who wants to justify their weird racism/homophobia #by using the idea that asian countries (especially Japan) are backwards and/or ignorant but disguising it as 'being mindful of their cultur #and also then homogenizing them and pretending their all a monolith to be assholes to people! #and/or completely dismiss any possible criticism or interpretation for a series as a cultural values thing #this one fucks me up especially because usually there IS Merit in those interpretations/criticisms #but a concerning amount of people then go 'oh your just pushing your cultural values onto them' as a smokescreen to be a bunch of assholes #and/or discredit their ideas because Clearly All (insert x group here) think EXACTLY THE SAME and BELIEVE FULLY in whatever cultural #idea their using to justify this behavior #Ive Seen actual good discussion on differences in culture! #especially in another fandom of mine #but the worse option has happened so much that when I hear someone say those words alarm bells start ringing #its bad faith! I know its bad faith! But Ive engaged the worse option in good faith and came out wanting to punch someone A Lot More #Ive seen actually good faith discussions of cultural difference in this fandom sometimes! Its really nice but It scares me #cause im just Waiting for Someone to come in and ruin it #can you guys tell ive seen too many bad anime video essays? Ive seen too many bad anime video essays.

[enchantedchocolatebars]

Ooh, you do silly stuff! In that case, I have a fic request. Philip Wittebane meets a tiny Reader and says "Oh, you're tiniest Reader I've ever seen! In my satchel you go!"

Or Slade from Teen Titans is the one that finds tiny Reader and puts them in one of his belt pouches.

Is it possible to do both? I like both ideas.

Hi, nonnie!👋

I do indeed do sillies! :D

ESPECIALLY SILLY STUFF WITH BEARDO PHILIP 🤎 💕

Thank you for the request!😊

I hope this is okay / fine / decent.👍

The Satchel

During his days in the deplorable Demon Realm, Philip Wittebane had never ONCE come across anything or anyone he would consider "cute".

Just not possible.

Until today.

The bearded man was walking through the forest, his satchel by his side as he happily wrote about the "accidental" death of his most recent companion.

Their demise was truly "heartbreaking".

He might be smiling as he's writing about them, but trust me, he was "crying" on the inside.

While walking, he hears a small, high-pitched voice scream "STOP!" to which he does mid-step, placing his right foot that he had lifted up down.

The sudden screech startled him greatly.

Looking around to see where the voice came from, Philip looks down to see you.

Yes, you! 🫵

You were a tiny being. About the size of a pea. Chibi-sized even.

A sigh of relief came when you saw that the giant man hadn't stepped on you.

That would have NOT been good.

Seeing you, Philip couldn't believe his blue eyes.

You were the cutest, tiniest wittle thing he's ever seen in this hellish place.

Lowering down to your level, he starts to speak, his face beaming with glee.

"My, my, aren't you just adorable?" He coos, hearts floating around him.

You give the guy a small glare. You didn't like him.

You were lucky Philip found you to be so interesting.

If he didn't, he'd take great pleasure in crushing you with his foot and scraping your remains off his shoe.

"You'll make for a marvelous specimen to study." He reaches out a hand to grab you, in which you gasp.

You then let out a growl.

No way were you letting this, admittingly attractive, stranger take you away with him.

That's kidnapping, which was an unlawful act. >:(

You had to do something.

Lifting up a finger, you send a mini blast of energy his way. When he's hit, he begins to... laugh? You're shocked by this. How is your magic not harming him? His laughter only makes you more mad as you grit your teeth. You try zapping him again and again and again, but he only continues to laugh.

"That tickles!" He chuckles as he grabs you. You try your best to get out of his grasp. He then uses a finger to lightly tap your head.

"Adorable and hilarious." You were definitely going into his satchel, no doubt about that. He needed a good laugh and you had given him just that.

As you're about to bite his finger CLEAR OFF his hand, he gently places you into his satchel and continues his walk.

As you silently sat in the brown bag, you slowly began to realize something. You actually liked being inside it. The gentle rocking with every step the man took, the items such as a dagger and a strange disc clinking around with each motion.

It was all so... soothing.

You huffed, crossing your arms.

Oh, fine.

You would accept this mistreatment.

For now.

#(hopefully this satisfies your silly tooth lol 🦷😋) #(enjoy!) #(AAA I'm sorry i know he's a jerk and all around awful person but OMG he can be SO CUTE sometimes) #(i love him so 💕 💕 💕) #(MAN i had fun with this one 😁😁😁) #the owl house #owl house #toh #emperor belos #belos #philip wittebane #moldy crumpet husbando #x reader #writing #my writing

[dimitrscu]

writing out a long winded rant only to save it to drafts, to then delete it completely because you simply can’t be bothered with the discourse that will inevitably follow

#sometimes it’s best to keep your mouth shut #even though you really don’t want to 😬 #no i shan’t say it #just let the hate boil up inside #then go jerk off