GETTING INTO YOUR SOFT GIRL ERA
Your soft girl era is all about embracing your natural beauty, indulging in self-care, and connecting with nature. Here are the steps you can take to get into your soft girl era:
1. Practice self-care: Take the time to do things that make you feel relaxed and pampered. These can include taking a hot bath, doing a skincare routine, or drinking a warm cup of tea.
2. Focus on skincare: Soft girls believe in the importance of skincare and skincare products that are gentle on the skin. Invest in high-quality skincare products that are natural and contain ingredients like jojoba oil, hyaluronic acid, or rosehip oil.
3. Embrace your hair texture: Soft girls often have soft, wavy or curly hair that they let dry naturally or style in a sleek and understated way. Avoid heat and damaging hair products, and instead focus on giving your hair moisture and shine.
4. Choose a cozy and comfortable style: Soft girls often wear comfy and laid-back outfits, often accompanied by cozy sweaters and cardigans. They love comfortable shoes and prefer a more natural and minimal makeup look.
5. Connect with nature: Soft girls believe in the healing power of nature and often find ways to incorporate it into their day-to-day routine. Go for walks in nature, read a book in a park, and incorporate natural elements into your home decor.
6. Practice mindfulness: Soft girls prioritize self-care and believe in the importance of taking care of both their physical and mental health. Practice yoga, meditation, or journaling to reconnect with themselves.
7. Cultivate a positive mindset: Soft girls prioritize mental health and focus on cultivating a positive mindset. Practice positive thinking, gratitude, and learn to accept and appreciate who you are and what you have.
Remember, being a soft girl is all about embracing your natural looks and focusing on self-care and connecting with nature so do not put too much pressure on yourself. You deserve to live the best life 💕
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Don't you ever think that a sweet, lovely, educated, good looking woman is soft. To become a lovely, well-mannered, well-spoken lady she worked on her character every single day. To be a highly educated woman she studied, focused and maintained discipline for years to achieve her goals. To look that good she works out every day, she eats healthy, takes care of herself and keeps a routine. She prioritises good habits. She works on herself every single day.
She is forging herself.
So when you see a woman like that walking by, don't think for one moment she was just lucky to be born like that, NO, she made herself like that. Don't waste her time, boy.
Do you honestly think she invested that much time and money in her education for you to make her your little girlfriend? No, she deserves more, she deserves EVERYTHING. Do you think she sharpened her mind and polished her character for years just for you to underestimate her judgement? NO.
Do you think she looks like a Victoria's Secret model for you to not know how to love her? Boy, bye 👋🏼
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Subtle ways to change how people view you:
Lean in slightly to appear more interested in the conversation
Speak slower and softer if you wish to seem like a dream / at peace
Keep your bag organized, when you reach to grab things out of it you’ll seem more put together if there’s little to no struggle to find things
Using a fragrance oil on your wrist and under your ears will seem more Sophisticated than spraying yourself with perfume
Read poetry, keep a select few favorites in your mind. When people ask what you enjoy, say poetry and provide an example. You’ll appear more emotionally intelligent
If you’re going to fake smile, move the muscles under your eyes so that your cheeks raises enough to halfway squint. It seems more genuine that way.
Walk with your head up everywhere. And I mean everywhere.
Stop messing with your little imperfections only you notice. There’s no need to straighten your shirt, rub your hand down your pants etc. Leave it be and you will appear more confident.
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Why patience is key
Hey girlies,
I think we all know this situation: we write down our goals and how we’re gonna achieve them.
We start working out, do our skincare religiously for a week, eat clean…but after two weeks that feel like years we don’t see much progress.
We don’t have ABs, our skin is not crystal clear and cooking three meals a day annoys us.
We get mad because we did everything we could but can’t really see a difference.
Well, I have bad news for us all. It’s not possible to change your life in a few weeks.
We have to be patient, no matter how hard it is.
We can’t expect our body to completly transform in a few weeks after we neglected it for the last years.
We can’t expect our skin to clear up in a week after we did nothing for the last few months.
It is painful, I know. It’s a bitter pill to swallow, I know. But we have to stay strong and patient.
Results will come with time, remember that.
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