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storyofmychoices · 1 month
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Sticks & Stones...
I'm sure we've all heard the phrase, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me". Little kids learn it to counteract mean words said at playtime. It seems logical, physical harm should hurt more than words, but I think we all know from experience, that's just not true.
I didn't want to address this. I learned years ago in this fandom that if you address drama or anons it never ends well. However, I feel like this has to be said not necessarily for me, but maybe for younger me who wasn't as strong.
I received an anon that told me to kill myself because they didn't like a fic I wrote (I guess). I deleted the message because it's not worth my time. But those words are so hurtful. I thought back to younger me. Middle school me. High school me. Even early college me... I don't think that version of me would be strong enough to delete that message.
That version of me would hold onto it, perseverate on it, and those words would swirl in my mind and the anxiety and depression would tell me that's what people think. That's what you should do. I know logically that's stupid and it's an anon, delete and move on. But mentally, I wasn't strong enough...
I know that version of me is not alone. I know there are people in this fandom who struggle daily with their mental health. I know how hard it is for them. I can't imagine one of them getting a message like that.
Using language that promotes harm, like telling someone to "kill yourself," is harmful in so many ways. Whether you actually mean it and think that person should die, or you think it's just a phrase you say when you're angry, bored, or wanting to start drama, it's not okay. I'd love to say choose kindness and don't send any hate but I know that's not the world we live in.
However phrases like "kill yourself" are beyond the line. You cannot predict the mental state of the person you're sending it to. How would you actually feel if that person went through with it? What if their death is on your hands? Would you be okay with that? Would you be okay if the police came to your door and said you led to that person's death? (Don't think that happens? It does, the state police and FBI do investigate digital threats. I know because I work with kids who make and receive threats and have had to deal with the FBI investigating them... and anon doesn't matter the FBI will track the IP address). I don't want that for anyone here. So please, choose your words wisely.
If you are in a bad place and lashing out is all you have, come talk to me or someone else in this fandom. I know that it is hurt people that hurt other people. I know if you are sending words like that you've been hurt. Let's break the cycle together!
This post is not targeted toward any one person. Yes, it was motivated by the anon I got, but I really hope that anyone who has ever used that phrase might read this and take it to heart.
Please choose kindness or nothing at all. Our fandom is small enough. I don't want to see other people leave because they feel pushed out or leave because they did something they can't take back.
Oh, and to anyone who has received harmful words like that. You are not alone. You can come to me or others to talk. Please don't believe those words. You are stronger and better than that!
I'm not sure how to end this so, here is a cute picture:
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girlactionfigure · 8 months
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Meet Miriam the daughter of Bilgah.
A woman who faced unspeakable horrors and found herself lost in despair. But even in the darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of light. 
Miriam, witnessing the brutal oppression of her people and the desecration of the Holy Temple, felt hopeless and angry. She made the unthinkable choice to abandon her faith and marry an enemy officer. Yet, deep down, her connection to her Jewish heritage remained strong. 
When she approached the defiled altar, something stirred within her. In a moment of bitter pain, she struck the altar and cried out, “Wolf! Wolf!” (comparing the altar to a wolf that devours the daily offering of two sheep). “You consume the Jewish people’s wealth, but you don’t answer them in their time of need!” 
Questioning why G-d seemed silent in the face of suffering. This seemingly minor act of defiance resonated deeply because it revealed her unbreakable bond with G-d and her people. 
The Rebbe analyzes this story of Miriam and gleans powerful lesson from it. Our connection to G-d is eternal, no matter how far we may stray. Our past choices and mistakes do not define us; they are but superficial layers covering our true essence. Each moment presents an opportunity for redemption and reconnection. 
We can gather strength from Miriam's journey. Remember that even when life seems overwhelming and we question G-’ds plan, our actions matter. The seemingly small deeds we perform can have a profound impact on ourselves, our loved ones, and the world around us. 
Just as a single ingredient can make or break a dish, each one of us possesses unique gifts and talents that are vital to the tapestry of creation. Embrace your role, knowing that you are indispensable. The world depends on your contribution, and God eagerly awaits your positive actions. 
Let us support one another on this journey, for we all have a responsibility to uplift and strengthen those around us. Remember that your deeds carry immeasurable significance and are cherished by G-d. With every mitzvah we perform, we bring redemption closer, illuminating the path towards a brighter future. 
Together, let us strive to be the catalysts for positive change, spreading love, kindness, and hope in every moment. May our collective actions bring about the ultimate redemption, the revelation of peace and harmony for all. 
Sources: Talmud Sukkah 56b, The Lubavitcher Rebbe, 6 Tishrei, 5735 (September 22, 1974) Living Torah #255, 
Rabbi Yisroel Bernath
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traveltme · 11 months
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Pay it forward
Life is full of ups and downs, but no matter what challenges we may face, it's important to remember the good things that come our way. These good things may come in many forms, such as a kind gesture from a stranger, a job opportunity, a fulfilling relationship, or a moment of peace and reflection.
It's easy to take these good things for granted or to think of them as simple occurrences. However, taking the time to appreciate and recognize the good things that come our way can have a profound impact on our overall well-being and happiness.
In addition to recognizing the good things that come our way, it's also important to pay it forward. This means doing something kind or helpful for others, without expecting anything in return. Paying it forward not only helps others, but it also helps us feel good about ourselves and the positive impact we can have on the world.
Here are some ways to pay it forward:
Random acts of kindness: Small acts of kindness, such as holding the door open for someone, buying a coffee for a stranger, or leaving a positive note in a public space, can brighten someone's day and spread positivity.
Volunteer work: Volunteering for a cause that you care about is a great way to give back to your community and make a difference in the lives of others.
Donations: Making donations to a charity or nonprofit organization is another way to support important causes and make a positive impact.
Mentorship: Sharing your knowledge and experience with others can be a valuable way to help others grow and achieve their goals.
Paying it forward not only benefits others, but it can also have a positive impact on our own lives. By spreading kindness and positivity, we create a ripple effect that can inspire others to do the same. So, the next time you encounter a good thing in your life, take a moment to appreciate it and consider how you can pay it forward to others. You never know the impact that your actions may have on someone else's life.
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urloveswift · 1 year
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Let’s support our mother 💕
It’s obviously heartbreaking to listen to certain songs thinking that they represent an endgame relationship and then hearing that it’s over. Or have a certain relationship be your standard for love and it then not lasting (trust me I know).
However that does not make it ok to spread hate to joe or his family, overanalyse either of them, or post things online that Taylor or joe could see that would hurt them (eg. sad edits).
Please let’s remember all the good things their relationship represented and be happy that it happened, especially with how much joe helped Taylor during bad times in her life.
we love you Taylor x
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suprememastertv · 7 months
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Join Us Today for "The World Wants Peace: Protests Against Russia’s Unjust War in Ukraine (Ureign), Part 4 of a Multi-part Series"
Let's Stand Against War, Advocate for Peace, and Foster Kindness. 🕊️🌍 Choose a Path of Compassion – Embrace Veganism, Champion Peace, and Spread Goodness.
We must act and say no, no, no to war. Be vegan, make peace, do good deeds!
Russia, JUST GO HOME! 🕊️🏠 #NoMoreWar
🌿 Be Vegan, Make Peace 🕊 Do Good Deeds 💗
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carlavisuals · 1 year
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The statement "Making it is what matters" implies that the act of achieving a goal or reaching a desired outcome is more important than anything else, including the process or journey it takes to get there. There are several reasons why "making it" or achieving a goal can be important. For one, it can give a person a sense of accomplishment and pride, boosting their self-esteem and confidence. Achieving a goal can also lead to tangible rewards, such as a promotion or a financial bonus, which can improve a person's quality of life. Additionally, achieving a goal can often require dedication, hard work, and perseverance, all of which can build important life skills and character traits. The experience of setting a goal, working towards it, and ultimately achieving it can also be a valuable learning opportunity, helping a person to understand their strengths and weaknesses and to develop new strategies for success in the future. However, it's important to remember that the journey towards a goal can also be valuable, and that the process of growth and learning can be just as important as the outcome itself. Learning to enjoy the process of working towards a goal can make the experience more enjoyable and meaningful, even if the ultimate outcome is not achieved. #alwayshealing #mentalhealth #graphicposter #selfportrait #andywarhol #frankocean #feelingblue #graphicdesign #graphicdesigner #graphicdesigndaily #typography #poetrycommunity #selflove #selfacceptance #spreadpositivity #spreadkindness #spreadthelove #loveyourself #selfgrowth #wisdom #selflove #griefgrowth #alwaysgrowing https://www.instagram.com/p/CpqmL0cLnfe/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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ancipreneur · 11 months
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Good Actions Give Strength To Ourselves And Inspire Good Actions In Others
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havocdacs · 1 year
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God just provides the opportunities for us, It is up to us to use them by once Act of random kindness at a time. - Morgan Freeman as God In the movie “Evan Almighty” #arduanontimeo🐺 #fearnohardships #instamood #goodvibes #spreadlove💙 #spreadpositivity #spreadkindness #learntoliveagain #selfie #selfworth #fypシ゚viral #superstar #fypageシ #life (at Cabul An Island,buenavista,bohol) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cq4413lJrCB/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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raemissigman · 1 year
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When I walked into the studio this morning, and this was on my table it made me smile. Some days all it takes is a look to change how we feel, to get us motivated, to spark, that curiosity and interest we need to move forward with things, so yes, a bowl full of posies did that for me today. I always try to keep something on my table as a reminder that the things we surround ourselves with have the power to uplift us. People for sure! But small tokens, or trinkets, that we collect along the way, because they made us smile when we first laid eyes on them are the things I like to scatter around me. I hope you have something pretty sitting on your table to feast your eyes on today. I’d love to hear. Link in profile. Look for The Painted Paper Project. #thepaintedpaperproject #paintedpaper #arttoheart #spreadkindness #randomactsofkindness #rak #handpaintedpaper #handpaintedpapers #watercolor #watercolorflorals #watercolorflowers #paperbouquet #fussycutting #fussycut #handpaintedpaperflowers #paperflowers #paperflower #paperflowerbouquet #paperflowerart #mixedmediaart #mixedmediaartist #artstudio_post #artstudiolife #sharethelove #frommetoyou #snailmailrevolution #snailmail #snailmaillove #snailmailrevival #papercrafts https://www.instagram.com/p/CoM5i1kLCvf/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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jaisminesahni13 · 1 year
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मुझे चाहिए कोई बिल्कुल मेरे ही जैसा किसी बेहतर से मेरी बनती ही नहीं है!!! 😌 @zindagi.gulzar.h . . . . . #jaisminesahni13 #gulzar #gulzarpoetry #gulzarsahab #poetry #captions #photooftheday #pictureoftheday #picoftheday #selflove #selfie #selfietime #beautiful #cutie #cute #love #spreadsmiles #spreadlove #spreadhappiness #spreadkindness #spreadpositivity #spreadtheword #quotes #selflovequotes #igdaily #igers #instalove #instalike #instagood #instamood (at Gonda Awadh, Uttar Pradesh, India) https://www.instagram.com/p/Coz1A5WBeoU/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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queencynth · 2 years
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Check out The Moose Hide campaign to support a movement to end violence against women and children!
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davidwfloydart · 2 years
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A kid had an old bike with no brakes and dented a stranger's car. A few days later the car owner surprised the boy with a new bike. Have you ever wondered how the world can be improved? Person to person, one kindness at a time. Whoever you are, sir, I applaud you! #kindnessrocks #generosityfeeds #kindnessismagic #spreadkindness #community (at Catalina Foothills, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/CioixaBLAjaFIK2oSq-D4xRF2kmYBgbtZAwJ740/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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abbychicken · 2 years
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EDC is more than just an event. It's an opportunity for everyone to come together & create amazing memories! I'm so thankful for everyone who made this year's EDC one of the best ones yet. The good vibes are contagious, & I can't wait to see what EDC 2023 has in store for us! ♡ #edc #peace #love #unity #friendship #vegas #memories #thankful #blessedwiththebest #goodvibes #rageroyalty #goodtimeguardians #friendswhoarefamily #spreadlove #spreadkindness #loveoneanother #enjoylife #liveyourbestlife #thanksforthememories (at Electric Daisy Carnival (EDC)) https://www.instagram.com/p/CeK1wpJLnhV/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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13blackcrows · 2 years
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First post here on Tumblr WHOOO
Hello beautiful person that's reading this ^w^ Meet my OC Gregory, a little happy snake who likes writing nice letters to people who need em. I wanna use this dude to spread kindness. So, if you could, write a nice letter to somebody you know.  Or draw Gregory with a nice message in the description and tag it with #gregoryletters for the entire world to enjoy.
Let's share kindness <3
Also, here is the full letter that Gregory is writing here: Hey you, yeah you, the beautiful, kind, caring person reading this. You're awesome. And that's fact. Don't let the world tell you otherwise. You matter. You mean so much to so many people, and don't forget that. I, Gregory, care for you, and love you for who you are. Stay strong. Stay determined. Stay true to yourself<3 -Gregory
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pinkpetalbee · 3 days
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love ur blog!
Thank you! 🌸✨ Love and light to you!
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kelseyraeartistnpc · 4 days
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On March 24th, 1989, the Exxon Valdez oil tanker ran aground in Alaska, causing one of the worst environmental disasters in history. Let's strive for a world where accidents like these are a thing of the past! 🌍💚 Meanwhile, I'm spreading positivity like wildfire, because a little kindness can go a long way! ✨
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