#suicidal thoughts advice

[lolapath]

do I care bout cheesy romance? Nah… Do I love juicy gossip? Yep! ✰ ✰ ✰

#mean girls #therapist friend behavior #messy aesthetic #girlblogger #coquette #girlhood #dolette #dating advice #female rage #gaslight gatekeep girlboss #black swan #lizzy grant #girl interrupted #boarding school #ballerina #live laugh lobotomy #friends #messy coquette #gossip girl #just silly things #hot pink #lana del rey #hysterical #the virgin suicides #let them eat cake #delulu #delusional #just girly thoughts #the feminine urge #lana unreleased

[howlingday]

Guys, just remember: If you are forced to consider

THIS canon to the Arkham universe,

Then you also have to consider

THIS canon to the Arkham universe.

I decide what I consider canon. YOU can too.

#dc #batman #suicide squad #assault on arkham #kill the justice league #my thoughts #my advice #kills the justice league

[ouchhq]

am i so hard to care about?

#i need to vent and i know u guys cant stand me because i can feel it (and certainly from the anon hate) but i think im gonna have an ulcer #if i dont put this out somewhere #SH s*icide tw !!!!! #i need some advice or opinions because i feel like im losing it #i dont understand why my friends cant care about me #i know !!! i know i seem out of touch and insane because i say this so often and the question to someone reading would come natural: maybe #it is just ur perception…. maybe u suck ass as a friend too #and i do ponder about that!!!!!! i take those possibilities into consideration i do. and i genuinely dont think i suck as a friend. i always #check in. if they seem off i ask how they feel. i ask updates on their stuff. i dont think i deserve this tbh #but especially when i am struggling they just disappear #like even when i reach out and let them know im doing bad. they clearly read my measages and choose to ignore them #these are supposed to be my best friends #these days ive been so bad. and trigger warning again #i just feel so suicidal and i have been hurting myself in the desperate attempt to cope and manage these thoughts #and i dont tell them these things #i dont share the details because 1) it is too much to dump on someone and 2) they dont show any interest even on the surface level of my #problems so i just wouldnt tell them the deeper issues #i am just in so much pain. and i also feel a lot of anger because of their behavior. i feel so so hurt by it. so many years of this going on #of them just not even acknowledging my struggles while i was in the midst of them and trying still to support them and be there for e #whatever they had going on. and getting nothing in return #i hate that i feel so angry but i do. and ive been swallowing this anger and pain for so long i feel it eating my insides #even my therapist doesnt understand why i am friends with people that dont care about me #i dont know what i should do #i want to say something #actually i already talked about this to one of them one year ago exactly and i told her all these things and she just said she didnt know #why i was ignored. and then still kept being a part of it #the thing is i am so upset and my mental health is so so so bad. i am supposed to spend new years eve with them in two days but i dont know #how i can do that feeling like this #but if i speak to them about it i think it will also ruin the mood #if someone has any thoughts or advice it would be very welcome….

[spooxie]

a year ago today i attempted suicide, and i can say i’m happy i have my scars from it because i survived. i wanted to die so badly back then and this year i’m so happy i’m still here and alive. i’m so happy i didn’t succeed. i’m so happy i’m still here in this world with my family and friends. too whoever is struggling to hard right now you are worth it please keep fighting. i know it can feel impossible but things will get better I promise you 🖤💕

#personal #mental illness #me #bpd #bpd thoughts #bpd vent #just venting #actually mentally ill #bpd stuff #tw suicide #suicide #self improvement #self journey #mental health advice #positive #positivity

[galaxywhump]

going through it, venting in the tags

#idk the last few weeks have been so rough #i recognize it's mostly the shitty weather and general gloom making my depression worse #but that doesn't make it suck any less #it's been this constant onslaught of negative emotions #and even more negative thoughts #including very drastic ones #i'm behind on a lot of things but i can barely motivate myself to do anything at all #and i'm yelling here cause i don't have irl support and bottling all that up is horrible #so i don't know. if anyone has any advice or something that would be wonderful #but i'm not really expecting or demanding that #just needed to get it out #so thanks for sticking around #today's been a day filled with full-on sobbing and randomly tearing up #i'm gonna have one hell of a headache tomorrow #anyway #marti vents #venting #suicidal thoughts tw #just to be safe #mental illness tag

[eemcintyre]

Any advice would be appreciated!!

So I am desperately trying to figure out what I want to do with my life (like I’m stressing every moment of the day and night, having nightmares, crying, feeling suicidal, etc.) 🥲

I have a bachelor’s degree in communication studies and 7 years in retail/customer service, but what I’m truly interested in is art, cinema, writing, working w kids, and charitable causes/helping people. I am also an INFJ and either a type 4 or type 1 enneagram and I have a studio art portfolio

Money isn’t my number-one concern- I don’t need to be wealthy by any means, but I really need something that makes enough so I can at least move out of my fkin house, pay bills, and have enough left over to get some lil treats once in a while

Does anyone have any advice in terms of how they found a job/career they enjoy and can survive off of, or anything you think might appeal to someone like me? Thank you in advance to anyone who responds 🥺❤️

#tw suicidal thoughts #job search #job hunting #career advice #job advice #dream career #dream job #infj #enneagram 4 #enneagram 1

[ialpiriel]

me, the coyote who's just gotten out of the leg trap after five months: man, why do i feel so fucking bad about everything this week?

#del gets personal #five fucking months #i was suicidal! there were days i had Thoughts! #and now im like 'man why do i feel so shitty after class which kidna sucks right now' #im up liek three hours past my bedtime. ive made some mistakes tonight lmao #tbc im like safe and stuff. im just up way way too late for havign work in the morning #just fucking. theres no way to talk about [thoughts] about Five Months In The Shop without it sounding like a sob story #and i dont think il lget any actual useful advice from anyone in person. i think they will tell me to get therapy or suck it up. #already been told the second one several times in several ways by several people #anyway i need to go to bed now. three hours late.

[cinnamon-phrog]

Gonna log off for a bit

#i've been self harming and my suicidal thoughts have beenm getting worse and worse every day #i never cut and never enough to make myself bleed. just welts. #not enough for 111 or any helplines to care. even though they should because it's going to lead to worse if they ignore me #please don't give advice. don't tell me to go to a library or breathe or look for a club #i've tried it all. i've lost all hope. #there is nothing out here for me.

[just-aro]

aphobes choose the weirdest shit to get mad at I swear

#aphobia cw #arophobia cw #also i swear... when are ppl gonna realize that there is NOT ONE SINGLE SITUATION #where suicide baiting is okay #and because i consistently get weird shit when i say that: #you are allowed to hate your oppressor. but as someone who has struggled with suicidal thoughts xyr whole life? #fuck off if you ever think someone should feel that way #my praxis involves like... actually trying to make people's lives better in a way where we aren't always us v them #and shockingly i apply that to all people #it's hard to care about being a better person if you are *trying* to hate yourself #anyways #an arophobe suicide baited a post about how showing a villain is evil via describing them as loveless isnt great #and like... my dude... #first of all show dont tell is basic writing advice better followed there #secondly... why does that upset you #im so confused #like. why is this worth the time of being a dick?

[creaturetap]

the bad advice cat: a running joke in my current sketchbook

[image description: six images of a cartoon cat labelled as "bad advice cat". it is striped and in all images has its mouth open in a cheerful smile.

first image: drawn in pen. the cat is sitting and holds a paw out. it says "when faced with minor inconvenience, kill yourself!"

second image: drawn in pen. the cat is standing with a paw out. it says "Do Drugs".

third image: drawn in pen, partially on a bright yellow post it note. cat is sitting with a paw to its chest. it says "cut down on time spent on hobbies - prioritise profit over fun"

fourth image: drawn in pen. the cat is sat next to an easel with a scribbly painting on it. the cat holds a brush in one paw. it says "if you don't like your art, give up!"

fifth image: drawn in pencil. the cat is sat with one paw to its chest and eyes shut. it says "cringe culture is real and good"

sixth image: drawn in pen. the cat is sat holding a plastic container with food in it that has stink lines coming off it. the cat says "don't worry about the expiry date. it's probably still fine to eat."

end description.]

#art #tw suicide #tw drugs #cant think of trigger tags for anyrhing else off rhe top of my head #artists on tumblr #creature draws #drawing #sketch #doodle #illustration #illustrator #cat #sketchbook #bad advice cat is sometimes just humour. sometimes based on silly conversations i have with friends. and sometimes #a bit of a coping mechanism for my self doubt or instrusive thoughts #makes me feel a bit better to doodle a silly looking cat saying the silly things my brain tells me

[ray-without-organs]

Me, being absolutely enveloped by my own self hatred so bad I cant look in the mirror or the number on the suicide scale goes to 8, and when I say or do anything I have to do so much googling about every detail in my words to make sure im right youd think id be writing a fucking scientific paper even if its some shit like “Hello!”:

I want to write poetry and fanfiction

#thoughts #small vent #no because the advice just makes me feel worse th #”just write bro get the pOiSoN oUt” I AM SUICIDAL AND IF I WROTE SOMETHING RIGHT NOW I WOULD PROBABLY END UP KILLING MYSELF BECAUSE OF HOW #MUCH SELF HATRED I OWN #No amount of self love tumblr posts will make me feel NORMAL ABOUT MYSELF #think this is a narc crash? idk #always when I travel bro #average day in Athens #average day in Athens for.. real... #get me out of here #tw suicide #tw suicide mention #tw selfhate

[inperspecter]

Please Stop Posting Gore

Holy crap please don't post gore on your blogs even if you tag it!

It's literally against the community guidelines so your blog is eventually going to be terminated at some point if you're posting it and then you'll get even more upset.

I've come across a couple blogs today that have had cute animal pictures and funny memes and then some spontaneous uncensored picture of someone carving themselves up like a Christmas ham Tokyo drifts across my dash out of nowhere from that blog.

There is no tragic beauty to self harm, it is a severe sickness that needs treatment and there's no shame in getting that treatment and some people aren't ready to hear that yet but it's true.

I know the holidays are hard, I know life is hard but please get counseling, please see a psychiatrist, please go for a walk outside, please stop indulging in that kind of content! If you do, do not interact with me or my blogs, ever. I will block you on sight, I don't care how much trauma you have. I want you to get better but I'm just a wall of text on the internet.

I'm (probably) not your friend.

It's not good for people to see (especially the younger folks) and it's not good for you. Please don't hurt yourself and please get some professional help. The only way to make life stop being hard is to take personal accountability and do the hard work yourself to make it better.

"An object in motion tends to stay in motion, an object at rest tends to stay at rest", right? How many times have people heard that one? It's true.

Even if you're poor there are programs that can help you get the help you need- I've personally been in a similar situation but coping isn't going to make anything better. You need to realize that nobody is coming to save you.

You have to take the initiative to do that on your own. Everything is a choice, including refusing to make one- and if you decide to do that then the only person you're a victim of is yourself and the only thing you're a victim of is your own inaction.

There will always be bad times just like there will always be good but you have to decide which one you want more of. You need to always prioritize yourself and your well being above literally everyone else.

There's nothing narcissistic or conceited about taking care of (all) of your health no matter who's told you otherwise.

Nobody is 'the reason' or 'made you kill yourself'. You're being extremely toxic, immature, emotionally abusive, unfair and manipulative if you ever try to blame someone else for your own impulsive and very permanent decision. Trying to transfer your abuse/trauma is not going to make it any better and it's only going to make things worse.

There are a lot more good people in the world than bad, I promise! You can totally choose to be a part of the good no matter your current or former circumstances. Even 'nothing' can become something with effort and elbow grease. You're not nothing, I'm just saying even if you came from nothing you can absolutely make something of yourself because you're your own person.

It's not going to be easy but it is going to be worth it one day.

Don't let whoever abused you in the past haunt you, don't let them win or take any more from you than they already have. They can't hurt or control you anymore if you've already managed to get away, do not go back. You're the one in control now, and if they formerly abused you they're gonna do it again. Don't give them any 'second' (or third, or fourth) chances, you will probably end up literally dead.

Yes, it's uncomfortable and it's going to seem scary but it's not as scary as being dead. There is literally nothing more permanent than that and I promise there are (many) good people that would miss you and it would break their hearts to see you hurt or kill yourself because they love you, you matter to them and there will never be another person that can replace you.

You're limited edition, dude.

Good luck and get well soon,

-Pidge

#life advice #mental health #Tumblr #text post #txt post #self harm mention #gore mention #suicide mention #suicidal thoughts #suicidal ideation #tw #trigger warning #trigger #DNI #abuse survivor #long post #inperspecter

[oceannacaldin]

Really, I was not sure what I thought about Pete's speech of "your pet is hungry" in episode 14, and I just remembered that during the worst of my suicidal ideation, "who will feed the cat?" was one of my most effective technique to wait another day.

So yeah, Pete was onto something there.

#content warning: suicidal ideation #kinnporsche #pete saengtham #vegaspete #don't take it as actual advice for anyone! #I'm just saying what I experienced #but I think now that I made that link #I appreciate the show willingness to go there #instead of the I'm here that started the scene #because kink aside #it's really the most mundane things that reached through me #and I just like the thought that it's the same for Vegas

[born-to-lose]

There's so much wrong with me I'm going to kill myself

#this is the monthly suicide joke i deserve #once again i'm in desperate need of a therapist but for reasons i mentioned a while ago i won't get one #why do i always feel like i'm a burden for everybody close to me as soon as i tell them something personal no matter how much i trust them #i should really start going to sleep at 8 or 9 before the bad thoughts kick in #how do i stop being clingy? please i need actual advice in my dms before i actually go insane #the killing myself part is a joke but i can't guarantee i won't indulge in some self-destructive behaviour tonight #i got paracetamol a bottle of wine a knife and a lighter let's see where this goes #so much went wrong with me in my childhood and school years that at this point i'm a mentally ill piece of shit with lots of issues #mel talks #tw self harm #depressed bitch posting

[cringelordofchaos]

TW: discussion of suicidal thoughts and ideations under the cut

I have so many drafts trying to summarize this. But I always end up giving away too much.

I don't want to overshare, because while I'm not giving out any names or roles and quite frankly I haven't even given away my or their nationality, I'm not sure if they would like their experience being describes in public like this. But I need advice.

To put it simply, recently my friend has shared with me that they want to end their life. I tried to show my care as much as I could and ended up talking to them for hours, both in real life and through messages and calls. They told me they were going to do "it" this day, but I obviously didn't want that to happen. I don't find myself to be the most emotionally mature person really available, but from what I've heard simply being there for the person and hearing them out and listening to them can help. We talked back and forth and I have repeatedly asked for which specific topics they want to talk about, whether they wanted to vent, talk about their interests or just random stuff. We ended up talking about all of those things and I tried giving them some of my own advice and opinions regarding the topic of hopelessness and pain of this world that they're currently struggling with. When we had to end our call, they thanked me and said I made them feel (a bit?) better than they were before, and I'm glad for that. I would be glad to continue this cycle for however long I would need to, as long as it made them feel better. However, I don't want to make them completely emotionally reliant on me. I want them to be their own happy individual with a fulfilling life. And I'm not sure if I'm the best person to turn to- while I might be a decent listener, at the end of the day I'm just another anxious teenager that just so happens to be their friend. And while sometimes, friends simply being there for you can go a long way, I don't think I could help them entirely. I suggested they take professional help (such as asking to visit the schools psychiatrist) however they don't want to because they don't want their mom to find out about their issues (they don't have he healthiest relationship with their mom.)

I don't know what to do exactly. I want to help beyond just listening to them - but I'm afraid I can't do much - and since professional help is just not something that's currently favorable to them, due to their mom, I don't know how else to help, and I feel like If I make a single wrong move I might lose them forever.

I also brang up how people care about them more than they think they do, in response to them saying that their sibling would "probably manage without them". I was gonna say how everyone would miss them if they were gone, however that feels like manipulation, and I feel like if I say that it may make them feel like a horrible person for even having such thoughts, and they already have a lot of pressure on their plate that I would really really rather not add to their insecurities. And their life's worth should go beyond what other people think about them. And the reason for them to live should be from their own hearts content, and not other people's, right? Living just for another person, rather than living for yourself, I don't know, it doesn't sound healthy.

I dont know what to do. I just want to help them somehow. Even if I'm already helping them I want to help them more. But I don't know how to

Sorry

#tw sui ideation #tw suicide #cw suicide #suicide tw #suicide cw #tw suicidality #suicidal thoughts tw #tw suicidal thoughts #mental health #need advice

[donuts4evry1]

Wow someone actually told me to kill myself on a uQuiz 😳. What were they trying to acheive. /s

#it really caught me off guard tho haha No one's ever told me to kill myself haha #tw suicide ment #this person told me to ''get a fucking life'' but considering they don't find harassing strangers online a waste of time... I think they- #-should stick to their own advice first lmao #cw cursing #I'm not terribly upset about it but this person thought the test was annoying and yet still took it to completion? I'm very confused lol #I wasn't aware I had a die-hard (hehe) hater oh my gosh am I finally tumblr famous now? /j #vent post kind of