#support and care for each other

[redysetdare]

I'm an "AroAce Stereotype" I'm Romance averse/Repulsed> I'm Sex repulsed I'm non-partnering I hate the idea of marriage in all forms I don't want a QPR at all I'm loveless I'm someone who gets uncomfortable at sexual talk and sex jokes I'm someone who often has innuendos or sexual concept fly over my head. I'm someone who can't tell when someone is flirting with me I'm someone who can't pick up on romantic or sexual tension I'm someone who finds "shipping" to be annoying I'm someone who says "They just seem like friends to me" I'm someone who believed that attraction could be turned on or off I'm someone who can't make sense of romance at all and cant figure out what makes it different from every other relationship. I'm someone who thinks romance is stupid and sex is gross and I don't understand the big deal everyone makes about it I'm someone who never was upset to find out I was AroAce but rather relieved as I have a genuine fear of being stuck in a romantic relationship that i do not want. In all cases I am not an AroAce who can be considered "normal" by the standards of allo society.

I'm not just a stereotype for you to shit on. I'm not the reason aphobes are aphobic I'm not a problem that you need to erase and refute to be accepted by allos. I'm not an experience that you and ignore as "not really how aspec people are" just because You are not part of it. Stop leaving us behind. Stop throwing us under the bus. We deserve support too. We deserve to not be demonized and shunned because we're an "stereotype". We are not the problem. We are not a problem to be fixed. start fighting aphobes on their logic instead of trying to make up for our existence.

#text #ace #aro #asexual #aromantic #aroace #arospec #acespec #aspec #mostly talking abt aroace experience because thats me #but this can go for other aspec identities too #aphobia #im just tired of other aspec people agreeing with the oppressors that certain experiences are wrong #and promising that THEY aren't like that THEY are normal and shouldn't be ridiculed #but never do anything to protect the rest of us from ridicule #because really they just want to protect their experience they dont care about the wider community #and it's frustrating #because we should all be supporting each other because thats how things get better #if we tell aphobes there are exceptions then suddenly all aspec people can become an exception #because they dont care about us being socially acceptable aspecs they care about us not being aspec period #they dont want us to exist because then they have to question their world view and that dont like doing that #so they'll play nice with the ones they can pretend are normal before they decide that you're not good enough either

[tracingpapier]

i can't even formulate a description here just know that they mean so much 2 me </////3

#Sonic the Hedgehog #IDW Sonic #Sonic IDW #Surge the Tenrec #Kit the Fennec #it's awkward like PRETTY awkward but they are learning how to properly care for and support each other slowly #kit is just worried for her (and probably overwhelmed and scared cause he's like. what #and surge is not touchy feely but in this moment she recognizes his feelings and that she should comfort him. at least just this once #ubudbusbfusbf TL;DR: SIBLINGS. WHO ARE A LITTLE FUCKED UP BUT ARE TRYING THEIR BEST. #ok. goodbye no more tag ranting #papier's art

[fantastic-nonsense]

"Maybe I needed it once. But I trained here, with The Flying Graysons, before I trained with you, Bruce. You know what the key is to a good trapeze act? Letting go...trusting that there's someone on the other side to catch you. You taught me a lot. But I learned from them to leap into the light. We're not the same, don't you see, Bruce? I had you." -Detective Comics #1074

hang on a minute y'all, I need to go scream into the abyss

#Dick saying that he doesn't need Bruce's coping mechanisms because Bruce helped him the way he was never helped himself....😭 #I simply do not care that this is a hallucination THEY'RE EVERYTHING TO ME #Bruce saved Dick. He succeeded! He ensured that Dick wouldn't be another 8-year-old Bruce Wayne swearing vengeance in an alley! #and Dick saves him every single day just by being there and being a constant light in his life #to the point where he's just hallucinating Dick telling him that while on the mental road trip from hell #they're so fucked up. they hurt each other and heal each other and support each other through everything and cause each other so much grief #NO ONE is doing it like them! #dick grayson #bruce wayne #dc comics

[jahanmp4]

“I'm not a quitter, I received 3 messages on WhatsApp from Forever, Quackity, Bagi, Fit, I talked with Cellbit, Phil, alright it's time to stop behaving like a child”

My Green Gay Ninjas team 💚 :'(

#qsmp #qsmp etoiles #i'm glad he got so much support it cheered him up so much he logged back on literally the day after lmap #i knew he'd log back on soon because he's always been so resilient and always finds motivation no matter what #but it's lovely to see how much the ccs care about each other <3 #i'm mentioning ggn but of course i also love cellbit and phil #i love all the ccs i don't think you understand

[skyppl-e]

oh yeah.... im making aus now.... florist au but al haitham is a part time employee at the plant nursery tighnari owns and kaveh keeps running into him

#im very scared about talking about aus #since im not a writer... im a reader!!! shout out to all the fanfic authors you guys really carry me #also this is very obviously a modern au #in said au i like to imagine that when kaveh isnt actively drawing he wears compression gloves that double as normal art gloves theyre just #expensive as fuck so he tries not to get them dirtied in ink and graphite #in a similar vein al haitham owns 1 billion compression shirts cause comfy compression #i have a bunch of really specific and small headcanons tbh #ANYWAY ABOUT THE NURSERY PART #kaveh is a regular that likes to support his friends by buying way too many flowers he doesnt have the time to take care of :3 #also he buys samples to show clients when he has an idea involving flowers for decoration #collei also works there part time #also kaveh and al haitham knew each other in college but the Fallout(TM) happened so they stopped talking until they met again #met again in the nursery lol!!! #imagine being surrounded by carefully tended to flowers and trees and other flora while slowly falling in love #with the same guy that tore open your chest and peered directly into your soul #haikaveh #kavehtham #kaveh #alhaitham #genshin impact

[nando161mando]

“As librarians, we’re not here to judge, we’re here to help.”

#books & libraries #the librarians #public libraries #support libraries #school libraries #academic libraries #libraries #care #humanity #help each other #good news #toughtopics #library #librarians #books and reading #comic books #bookstagram #books #book quotes #bookblr #booklr #book #literature #reference #freedom of information #informative #information #info #info post #ausgov

[josselyn1021]

AW cute! when Sonic tried to help knuckles

#knuckles the series #knuckles #knuckles series #knuckles the echidna #sonicedit #sonic gif #sonic knuckles #sonic the movie #sonic 2 #sonic #sonic movie #sonic the hedgehog #sonic 3 #look at each other #surprise #friends #smiles #together #couple #hold hands #so close #help each other #angry #support #cheer up #love #care

[smallsies]

can we talk about the teamwork podcasters have built??? collaboration is genuinely everywhere in this space—once you've listened to three or four podcasts, you've probably heard the creators of at least four more podcasts, and then in turn will discover other shows from those podcasts, with new voices (alongside creators you're already familiar with!) sure, it's by design, & small shows need to support one another to survive, but idk, i just have such an appreciation for the podcasting community :,)

#podcasters and creatives i have so much respect for you #please keep encouraging and supporting each other #it's evident that you all genuinely care about the stories other people are telling #we love to see it #! #podcasts #fiction podcasts #horror podcasts #audio drama

[spikeface]

Based on (x).

#teen wolf #scott mccall #twedit #ok so yeah this edit was sparked by how poorly melissa was explored in s5 #and in general how they dropped her as anything but an occasional prop to tell scott to get back out there after 2x10 #but i hope it's not taken as bashing because that's truly not how i mean it #i feel like both scott and melissa don't know how to talk to each other #not because they don't love each other or want the best for each other #but s1 melissa already starts out not knowing scott's life very well #she's interested and trying to support him and make time for him #but is swamped with work and overwhelmed with being a single parent #and would also desperately like her own life if it's possible #scott is already working to support them and agonizes over costing them anything - money time attention #they start the series already without an equilibrium and it only gets worse as scott becomes a werewolf #i think melissa also has a survivor's mentality of soldiering on #and so that's also the advice scott is getting #even when what they both really need is time to rest and connect #and it just made me so sad that scott's flashback was about being hospitalized #but his mother was there and he was being care for #whereas now #he's back at the hospital #alone #desperately in need of care

[haunted-xander]

You ever think about how Ryne probably got a more honest yet closed-off Thancred while Minfilia got a more disingenuine yet open Thancred?

Like, the Thancred Minfilia knew and grew up with was the one we saw in arr, the flirty, teasing and sassy but friendly man who was clearly not very honest seeing as no one- not even Minfilia- noticed how worn out he was from his constant work. Even just by hw he's noticably more prickly and. not quite rude but. more outwardly cynical? He's always been kinda cynical, but in arr his teasing and banter hides it well, which never disappears but is more. natural? genuine? now. Krile directly points out that he's much more brusque than she expected of him based on how Minfilia described him.

And sure, you could attribute that behaviour to his grief and stress (which is certainly a part of it) but considering he acts much the same in ew, when he's finally moved on and come to terms with everything (and is also post-shb character development), I think it's safe to say that this is the most honest we've seen Thancred be.

But this is all Ryne has known him to be. She's never seen Thancred be flirtatious or as social and friendly as he is in arr, she's only seen him be brusque and cynical but still teasing and kind. But he's also far more closed off from her (and others) bc of That Whole Deal going on. Urianger has told her more about Thancred's true feelings than Thancred himself has. and even that's not a lot, for Urianger is not only not a mind reader and doesn't know everything that goes on on Thancred's head, but also is reluctant to share more than is necessary since it's not his place to divulge these things (and also he himself is not free from the folly of emotional self-isolation).

With Minfilia though, he's open enough that she's never doubted that he cared for and loved her even when he couldn't spend much time with her, and she felt comfortable enough to admonish him when he did his usual self-destructive behaviour (you know, becoming an alchoholic at 17 and All That Entails)

Just. food for thought

#theres a lot of these parallels between ryne & minfilia in regards to their relationship with thancred #like. the way things are so similar yet so *different* from each other #same same but opposite ya know #like how thancred blames himself for warburtons death and by extention minfilia being orphaned even tho it was in no way his fault #vs how he knowingly took ryne away from ran'jit bc he knew that whatever other life shed live would be better than what she had #when minfilia first experienced the echo thancred knew wat it was but didnt tell her (for circle of knowing related reasons) #whereas he told ryne everything he could in regards to her powers and circumstances #he gifted minfilia her dagger for self-defense but never taught her how to fight #but ryne was not only gifted daggers by him but also taught how to properly fight and fend for herself with them #and he trusted minfilia in the main care of f'lhaminn while he took a more secondary support role #but he assigned himself the primary caretaker for ryne while the others (read: urianger) became secondary ones #(granted due to rynes situation he kinda had no other choice at the time) #(but im sure he wouldve taken the same role even if he could theoretically have safely handed her over to someone else) #also just to be clear thancred IS genuinely social and friendly even hw & up #just not as extroverted #he spends a lot of time either by himself or with fellow scions/other close companions #rather than with whatever lady hes trynna impress next #anyway. yet another day of being Completelt Normal about this complicated family situation #thancred waters #ryne waters #minfilia warde #final fantasy #final fantasy 14 #final fantasy xiv #ff14 #ffxiv #xander rambles #xander being insane about ryne

[mightymizora]

Thinking about end of act 2 Shadowheart and Gale in a relationship man. Gale starts act 2 thinking he's going to blow himself up for his Goddess, Shadowheart thinks she's going to ascend to Dark Justiciar, they give in to their feelings for each other for one night, thinking it's going to be the last time either of them get the chance to experience intimacy, and it's with this person that they're in love with...

Then days later, Shadowheart has lost every idea of who she is, is being told she may have been kidnapped, and is hurtling towards a reckoning she had no idea about and did not want, and she turns to this man with whom she's found comfort and humanity and he turns around and says actually, I might go ahead and become a GOD-

#they're wild #they're so wild as a couple #on paper it seems like they are just a lovely match of religious issues and care and support for each other #but THAT END OF ACT 2 #galeheart #shadowheart #gale dekarios #gale of waterdeep

[raayllum]

Callum really just says "Is anyone going to love and admire Rayla?" and then not wait for an answer.

#rayllum #multi #arc 1 #pining!callum #supportive callum #mine #arc 2 #will forever be obsessed with how both biased and unbiased they are when it comes to each other like #'this is my best friend they are the most caring and wonderful person in the world <33' #while also knowing in detail just how flawed and fucking annoying the other person can be #meanwhile everyone else is just. Normal about them individually lmao #god the amount of shit from every season i had to cull they're just #SO GOOD #and she loves him just as much it makes me ill

[thatrandomblogsays]

Lmao Zeus & Hades are such bad dads that they think Percy would rob a god for his deadbeat dad who owes Sally 12 years of back pay for child support…

These literal God-Kings sat down and were like hmmm Poisedon hasn’t talked to this child in years to avoid people knowing he ejaculated when he should’ve of evacuated… & has a shitty abusive stepdad now… that child would absolutely Mission Impossible Olympus for him! Let’s kill him :)

Hey dumbasses, my own deadbeat parent can barely get me to text them back, I ain’t stealing shit for them. As a member of Team Deadbeat Parent, that request would’ve caused 12 year old me to cuss out an adult for the first time

#they literally tried to mug a child based on this assumption #the fact your thunderbolt was stealable sounds like a you issue buddy #I’d be too embarrassed to admit to that #hades sent a MINOTAUR after him!!! #what the hell man??? #you’re LUCKY no one died!!! #pretty sure even kids who wanted their parents involved in their life would’ve told him to go fuck off #me? i didn’t care #so I wouldn’t probably yelled at them #you don’t even send me a card and you want me to commit a felony for you? #go to hell poisedon #the entire book series I wanted Percy to serve him with child support papers #EVEN AFTER he’s claimed he STILL doesn’t pay child support!!! #sally has to get the money from her murdered husband #low key was rooting for Kronos and the gods to destroy each other #deadbeat dad #mine #pjo #pjo series #hades #Zeus #posideon #percy jackson and the olympians #percy jackon and the olympians #Percy jackson

[miyakuli]

PLEASE HELLUVA BOSS FANDOM, STOP SUPPORTING THE BLOG OF REMTIX :'(((

Seriously, each time I scroll the tag I see their posts, it's already annoying but then I see how many people are liking and reblogging their posts when they are STEALING the arts from people from twitter, without crediting and even hiding the watermark.

Just today I saw this :

and guess what? the artist comes from twitter AND they do not allow reposts, IT'S EVEN WRITTEN ON THEIR PROFILE >:((

By liking or reblogging from this blog, you support art theft and it's a disrespect toward the creators of the fandom

so really, BLOCK remtix and if you recognize this art (or reblogged others from that blog), delete it too that would be helpful.

#helluva boss #hazbin hotel #I'm tired to write to the artists each time when people just don't care and keep supporting the blog #and I don't even understand why other arts in the tags don't get enough support but people support without problem an art thief #the artists don't deserve us really.......... #IMPORTANT #art thief #personal #SIGNAL BOOST

[guardian-angle22]

TK/Carlos + Touch

↳ 3.08 In the Unlikely Event of an Emergency

#911 lone star #tk strand #carlos reyes #tarlos #tk/carlos + touch #i just have a whole lotta love for this episode in general but ooof man that running hug #can you name a better hug? idek #(there's a rando man who walks in front of them hugging in the shot and i don't condone violence but gtfo man wtf) #the way tk rubs carlos back to reassure him and just holds his face... ah shit man #these two are just the best #up in my tarlos feels #my gifs #i also just love how this episode starts with carlos being so caring and gentle with tk and supporting him #then ends with tk so lovingly reassuring carlos that he's ok and he's safe #bookending the episode with how well they balance each other and hold each other up #episode: s03e08 in the unlikely event of an emergency

[piratespencil]

Thinking about transfem Sanji being hesitant to transition partly because she's afraid of how this will change her relationship with Zeff. Zeff, whose love language is fighting. Zeff, who would never hit a woman. Zeff, who straight up says in that one WCI flashback that he can't have a woman in his kitchen because he's all about tough love and he can't kick a woman. Sanji worrying that Zeff will treat her differently, that she'll lose the one way she knows how to communicate with Zeff. Oof.

#i think it WOULD be hard for zeff at first #he would support his kid and love her but he wouldn't know how to treat her at first i think #but they'd figure it out together #maybe actually learn how to show each other they care without having to always resort to violence #one piece #yes i am Always thinking about transfem sanji these days #sanji #transfem sanji #zeff #kk talks about stuff #kk talks about op