#support network

[randomreasonstolive]

Reason to Live #9130

 Connecting to other queer people. – Guest Submission

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#sad #help #hope #reason to live #depressed #depression #empty #alone #mental illness #anxiety #trauma #guest submission #mental health #connecting #connection #queer #queer community #support #support network #lgbt #lgbtqa

[leavingthepcg]

Lifton's Eight Criteria helps to identify high control groups, or cults. The eight criteria include:

Milieu Control Perhaps the most important aspect of what makes a "high-demand group" is information and communication control. Members are often isolated from "outsiders", including outside sources not approved by leaders within the group, and family or friends that are not part of the group. Members are often made to "cut off" family and friends that are considered hostile toward the group.

Mystical Manipulation High-demand groups, particularly religious ones, will often use or manipulate events in order to further their message and bolster their doctrine. Examples of this are making prophecies or predictions that get repeatedly altered or forgotten about, or pointing to past predictions as being confirmed by a current event.

Demand for Purity Humans are flawed, and high demand groups exploit this fact by demanding perfection of their members. Sometimes, groups will even acknowledge that perfection is unachievable, but that individuals are perpetually at fault for being the only reason they cannot achieve it. This enhances feelings of guilt and shame, leading the member to feel as if the only way to improve themselves is to seek help from the group.

Confession High control groups exploit their members emotionally by having them "confess" supposed wrongdoings to another member or members. This makes the member vulnerable and constantly alert to their own and others' "sins". It is the promotion of hyper-policing of self and peers.

Sacred Science The group's ideology is held as the ultimate, capital-T "Truth"; it is the one standard by which all aspects of life must be measured. This often leads to science-denial, conspiracy-minded thinking, and isolating oneself based on the belief that others are unenlightened.

Loaded Language Members of cults will often reveal that they are a member of an in-group in the use of language. The group creates unique vocabulary, or changes/enhances the use of a term in order to create a doctrine of thought. This tactic helps to reform the member's thought process by embedding concepts into their minds that can be easily repeated and recognized through the repeated use of a simple phrase or word.

Doctrine Over Person Group belief is held as the ultimate "truth", trumping personal experience, beliefs, values, or reasoning. If the member feels or believes that something about the group is "off" or "untrue", they are taught to dismiss those thoughts and to internalize guilt about having "doubts".

Dispensing of Existence This describes the portion of thought control that creates an "us vs. them" attitude in the member. The member may be convinced that those outside the group are "sinful", "damned", "unenlightened", "ignorant", etc.

#cult awareness #cult survivor #excult #armstrongism #high demand groups #deprogramming #lifton's eight criteria #support network #support group

[genderqueerdykes]

Sometimes i feel like i don't quite fit in with the community because i was raised by very supportive parents in a very supportive community and i dont have enough trama to be queer, but also shout out to my dad for being an ally to all bottoms, he payed for my first maid dress

it's alright, i've actually gotten an ask like this before, and the thing is that we all have a unique experience, so while it is often times more common for us to get kicked out for xyz reason, it's also very common that a parent is supportive or ambivalent as well!

some folks have queer parents, which can make things easier- i met a trans guy recently with lesbian moms and it made it a lot easier for him to come out, as he helped her come out of the closet years prior. sometimes, a parent is just supportive, and that's great, it's alright. you're not alone, for sure, there are other people with parents and family who support them for whatever their reasons, be it that they're also queer or that they just care

i get feeling alienated. the reason why the queer community is so tight knit is because a lot of us lack good families and support groups, but if you are able contribute the same support and loving energy to the community, it goes a long, long way! you having support means that you are able to grow into who you're meant to be a lot easier, and that means that you can show people what supportive and loving homes should look like, and the outcomes they produce. you have a chance to be a very important part of the queer experience as well, because you are living proof of what good support does for queer folks

hope that makes sense! take care, you're not totally alone, i promise, and i think you have a valuable experience to share. just because your situation isn't dramatic doesn't mean it doesn't have to be shared. take care of yourself, good luck in your journey!

#asks #answers #family #support network

[phoenixsavant]

TopSkills Thursday: Part 4

This week, in the executive dysfunction series, we’ll look more closely at an important area, managing finances. As always, these are ideas, and they may not work for you. Hopefully, they’ll spark some thoughts of your own. Whichever is the case, I hope you’ll at least be inspired to continue your search for solutions. Financial management is a hard topic to write about. Lest anyone think I…

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#adulting #balance #behaviors #commitments #development #effectiveness #executive dysfunction #finances #functioning #life #lists #memory #processing #savings #scheduling #struggles #support network #take control #tips #Top Skills Thursday

[mattdobbins]

You Are Enough

Reflecting on it now, it seems rather astonishing that I was taught by a religion that we are inherently sinful and wicked, and that we need someone else to make us whole. This teaching emphasized our flaws and imperfections. It’s understandable why so many people feel unable to meet such incredibly unattainable standards. Just a reminder: you are amazing just as you are. You are enough. And you…

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#Autonomy #Critical thinking #happy #Kindness #life #Personal Growth #Psychological support #Religious Deconstruction #Self-compassion #Shunning #Support network

[lathifertility]

What is IVF?

In recent decades, advancements in medical science have revolutionized the field of reproductive medicine, providing hope and opportunities for couples struggling with infertility. One such groundbreaking technique is In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). In this blog post, we will delve into the intricacies of IVF treatment, exploring what it is, how it works, and the potential it holds for those seeking to build a family.

What is IVF?

In Vitro Fertilization, commonly known as IVF, is a fertility treatment that involves the fertilization of an egg with sperm outside the human body. The process begins by extracting eggs from a woman's ovaries and fertilizing them with sperm in a laboratory dish. Once fertilization occurs, the resulting embryos are then implanted in the woman's uterus with the hope of establishing a successful pregnancy.

Understanding the IVF Process

Ovulation Induction: The first step in IVF involves stimulating the ovaries to produce multiple eggs. Fertility medications are administered to enhance egg production, monitored through ultrasound and blood tests.

Egg Retrieval: Once the eggs are mature, a minor surgical procedure known as egg retrieval is performed. A thin needle is inserted through the vaginal wall to collect the eggs from the ovaries.

Fertilization: The collected eggs are then combined with sperm in a controlled environment, allowing fertilization to occur. This step is closely monitored to ensure the formation of healthy embryos.

Embryo Culture: The fertilized eggs, now embryos, are cultured and monitored for several days. The healthcare team assesses their quality before selecting the most viable embryos for transfer.

Embryo Transfer: In the final step, one or more selected embryos are transferred into the woman's uterus. This is a relatively simple and painless procedure that aims to establish a successful pregnancy.

Success Rates and Considerations

IVF success rates vary depending on several factors, including the age of the woman, the cause of infertility, and the quality of the embryos. While some individuals achieve pregnancy in the first cycle, others may require multiple attempts. It's essential to approach IVF with realistic expectations and to consult with healthcare professionals to understand individual circumstances.

Challenges and Emotional Aspects

Embarking on an IVF journey can be emotionally challenging for couples. The process involves physical, emotional, and financial commitments, and individuals may experience a range of emotions, from hope and excitement to disappointment and stress. Support from loved ones and mental health professionals can play a crucial role in helping individuals navigate these challenges.

Conclusion

In Vitro Fertilization has emerged as a beacon of hope for many couples facing infertility challenges.

Schedule a Consultation with Dr. Sonal Lathi Today If you are considering IVF treatment, Dr. Sonal Lathi is the perfect choice for you. She is a leading expert in IVF, and she is committed to helping couples achieve their parenthood dreams.

#IVF #fertility treatment #reproductive health #in vitro fertilization #family building #infertility #assisted reproductive technology #egg retrieval #embryo transfer #pregnancy journey #parenting hope #medical advancements #healthcare #women's health #parenthood #emotional wellness #support network #family building options #fertility awareness #IVF success #embryo quality #hopeful beginnings #modern medicine #couples' journey #future of reproductive medicine #life through IVF

[katruna]

#modern condition #support network #tired all the time

[livelifeintentionally]

Depression: The Big Black Dog and My Fight to Overcome

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#Breaking Stigma #Depression Recovery #Emotional Healing #Finding Hope #healing journey #Inspiration #Mental Health Awareness #Mental Wellbeing #Never Give Up #Overcoming Challenges #Personal Growth #resilience #Self Discovery #Support Network

[educationaldm]

As far as Self-Therapy goes, Dungeons and Dragons has been shown to be very worthwhile. Making friends through it, and having that support network, is almost guaranteed. Tell me about your experience.

#Therapy #Self Therapy #DnD #D&D #Dungeons and Dragons #Making friends #Support Network #TTRPG #Roleplaying Games

[grouchydairy]

The almost-twenty-eight-year-old (me) - I’m afraid to ask for help because I have asked for help and was told that I don’t deserve it, a confirmation of my eight-year-old fear, that I didn’t deserve to be supported or loved, resulting in my eighteen-year-old predicament, detached and devoid of support network.

#poetry

#poem #thoughts #eight #loved #support network

[randomreasonstolive]

Reason to Live #9324

  Leaning on a friend and having them be there for you. – Guest Submission

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#sad #help #hope #reason to live #depressed #depression #empty #alone #mental illness #anxiety #trauma #guest submission #mental health #friend #support #supportive #support network #dependable #care

[labelleizzy]

I said,

"you deserve someone who actively chooses you"

And I think it landed? I think we may have found a way out of the spiral hole 🕳️. I'm hoping that it helped, anyway.

#personal #friends #support network #i hope i hope i hope

[shabbychicboho]

#support network

[stories-me]

Potential Character for Mrs. Kelsey and Tumblr 3/19/2024:

Filch the Redeemed Thief:

What he’s from: Mice and Mystics.

Background:

Once a common thief, Filch likely began his life on the streets, stealing food to survive.

As he grew older and more skilled in his “craft”, Filch became known for several attempted heists, including one where he stole a chest of jewels bound for the Elven kingdom of Nextor (the jewels, sadly, wound up at the bottom of a river).

Eventually, he was captured by King Andon’s sheriffs, and locked in the castle dungeons.

By sheer coincidence, he found himself soon sharing the cell with Prince Collin, Maginos the Mystic, Tilda the Healer, and Nez Bellows the Smith (who had been falsely accused of treason by the dark sorceress Vanestra and locked in the cell with him). In fact, it was Filch who suggested they turn themselves into mice, so they could get through the bars of the cell and into the sewers.

At one point, he objected to them using Vanestra’s hair to turn the King into a mouse to help him escape, stating he wanted to be human again… however, he reluctantly relented, showing that Collin and his allies were a good influence on him.

He is currently among Collin’s friends, as Collin managed to convince the King that Filch was now a hero (to even Filch’s surprise… though the question came up as the King was suspicious of Filch’s presence among Collin’s allies).

He dislikes it when too many eyes are upon him, like when he first arrived in Barksburg (during which he kept muttering, mostly to himself, “Done nothing wrong.”).

He now is working with Collin and his allies to help Collin’s sister, Chloe, take back the kingdom from Warlords and the Iron Circle.

How he is like me:

We both have done bad things in the past, and are trying to make up for them. Also, like him, I have a support network.

How he is NOT like me:

Unlike him, I’ve had a great support network from day one.

Kelsey Notes:

Filch has been given an unexpected second chance so it makes sense that he would be skeptical that the others would be so trusting of him considering his past

Sometimes we can project the how we feel about ourself into what others think about us

(i.e. if we assume something negative about ourself, they must see it too therefore they are talking about me being a thief behind my back). 

If you haven’t properly coped with something from your past, its more likely that you will engage in this type of projection

Sometimes if we are upset, we want to project that emotion upon others but in the end we have no control over what people think

This type of thinking/projection can be harmful because our thoughts and actions become more and more self focused rather than focused on other people

If you are focusing too hard on what other people are thinking about you, then you might lash out because you feel upset by something that you’ve assumed they’ve done

At the end of the day, we are in control of our own actions

If we are having trouble we can reach out to a support system to discuss how we are processing a certain situation

Chances are Filch didn’t have anyone to discuss his feelings with which caused him to think more negatively about himself and what others think about him

Having conversations with others about what is frustrating or worrying us helps us to hear the perspectives of others and they may offer valuable information that we had not considered

#I Have Autism #Autism Blog #I #Have #Autism #Blog #Stories-Me #Stories #Me #Fan Fiction #Fan Fictions #Fan #Fiction #Fictions #How He Is Like Me #How He Is Not Like Me #How #He #Is #Not #Like #Kelsey Notes #Kelsey #Notes #Support Network #Support #Network #Mice and Mystics #Mice #And

[phoenixsavant]

Top Skills Thursday: Prepare for Stressful Situations

Sometimes we know a stressful situation is coming and we have enough time to prepare for it. In those situations, there are steps we can take to mitigate the stress we can’t avoid. Full disclosure, I’m facing a situation like this. It is something I could technically sit out, but it’s an important event for the person I’m actually going to support. I’m already preparing myself using some of the…

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#anxiety management #emergency kit #exit plan #plan for it #planning #recovery time #self-care #stress management #support network

[ujusttry]

7 Empowering Ways to Boost Everyday Motivation for Moms

Everyday Motivation for Moms: Feeling motivated as a mom can sometimes feel like a challenge, but it’s essential for a fulfilling journey. Let’s explore some simple yet effective ways to boost everyday motivation for moms. 7 Empowering Ways to Boost Everyday Motivation for Moms Being a mom is one of the most rewarding experiences in life, but it can also be incredibly challenging. From juggling…

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#achievable goals #gratitude #Inspiration #moms #motivation #organization #Self-Care #support network