Kode with Klossy liked my tweet ! 😍 and my account is full on Kaylor 🤭 it made my day and I won’t shut up about it🥳
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Some crazy Polish Catholic
pro-lifer expressed an opinion; Justyna Wydrzynska “helped to kill a baby” by sending a desperate pregnant woman in an abusive relationship her own abortion pills. Then the pro-lifer proceeded to be outraged at me: “you don’t support women, you only support women who agree with you!”.
Yes, how perceptive, 10/10! I don’t support women only because they are women. You also should be a decent human being, or at least, maybe, try?
To be clear: I don’t support hypocritical women, who are rabid anti-abortion until it’s them or their daughter, then it inevitably becomes “a special case”; I don’t support TERFs, I don’t support the likes of Kaja Godek, including Kaja herself, I don’t support female religious fanatics and domestic and child abusers, the women giving an automatic gun to their 6 yo, to pose for a Christmas card, the list goes on. Being “a woman” - sorry, not enough.
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PSA -If you're a woman and want to do something but you're hesitant because you're afraid of hate comments or possible backlash, do it anyway. There's literally nothing you can do to make you bulletproof, there's no perfect nuance that'll prevent attacks, the amount of talent and expertise you posess won't mean anything, and the behaviour you cultivated to avoid the treatment your crass or too sexual or too obnoxious female predecessor received won't help you at all. Do what makes you happy, and get whatever thing within yourself that wants out outside. Publish that story, write that politically dangerous piece, post that singing recording or that guitar cover or that astrology video, go to that audition, run for local government, showcase your paintings, submit that comic. Just daring to exist as a woman in front of an audience will provoke anger and vitriol, and yes, even in the 21st century, even in supposedly tolerant and progressive circles. Might as well not spend a lifetime wondering could you have done it and why haven't you, because you won't remember the reasons that are stopping you now, and if you do, you won't be able to believe that that was the thing that held you back.
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“can i be a hater for a second” girl you can kill someone in front of me and id be okay with it be fr
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average conversation with straight women
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Lisa Frankenstein is a goddamned cultural reset for me specifically. Where are the “god forbid women do anything” girlies bc this one’s for you
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This International Women’s Day, remember that women in Gaza are getting infections from being forced to reuse menstrual products. Pregnant women in Gaza are giving birth in horrific conditions and having c-sections without anaesthetic. Mothers are watching their babies die because they can’t breastfeed due to malnutrition. Women are being bombed to death, starved to death, dying of thirst, being shot by snipers, assaulted by soldiers and being robbed of their homes and property.
This International Women’s Day, please remember that Palestine is a feminist issue.
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why is it, when faced with horrendously false claims and egregious lies abt trans women, ppl come out of the woodwork to criticize the way they rightfully become angry at the deceitful transmisoginysts that got a trans womans blog wrongfully nuked. its never a conversation abt "how could this have happened and how can we stop it", its always "well i dont like the way you responded so obviously you deserved it". the patronizing tone policing makes me fucking sick. the trans woman always has to be perfectly polite and agreeable, even in the face of her own oppression and harassment campaign, lest she become the evil tranny who did every awful thing you accused her of just because you dont like her tone. THAT is transmisogyny.
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love when men cry about body hair bc "it's hygiene" and yet 15% of cis men leave the bathroom without washing their hands at all and an additional 35% only just wet their hands without using soap. that is nearly half of all men. that means statistically you have probably shaken hands with or been in direct contact with one of these people.
love when men say that women "only want money" when it turns out that even in equal-earning homes, women are actually adding caregiver burdens and housework from previous years, whereas men have been expanding leisure time and hobbies. in equal-earning households, men spend an average of 3.5 hours extra in leisure time per week, which is 182 hours per year - a little over a week of paid vacation time that the other partner does not receive. kinda sounds like he wants her money.
love that men have decided women are frail and weak and annoying when we scream in surprise but it turns out it's actually women who are more reliable in an emergency because men need to be convinced to actually take action and respond to the threat. like, actually, for-real: men experience such a strong sense of pride about their pre-supposed abilities that it gets them and their families killed. they are so used to dismissing women that it literally kills them.
love it. told my father this and he said there's lies, damned lies, and statistics. a year ago i tried to get him to evacuate the house during a flash flood. he ignored me and got injured. he has told me, laughing, that he never washes his hands. he has said in the last week that women are just happier when we're cooking or cleaning.
maybe i'm overly nostalgic. but it didn't used to feel so fucking bleak. it used to feel like at least a little shameful to consider women to be sheep. it just feels like the earth is round and we are still having conversations about it being flat - except these conversations are about the most obvious forms of patriarchy. like, we know about this stuff. we've known since well before the 50's.
recently andrew tate tried to justify cheating on his partner as being the "male prerogative." i don't know what the prerogative for the rest of us would be. just sitting at home, watching the slow erosion of our humanity.
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