One of the less noticeable but very annoying signs of DID in us is the Sudden Opinion Change.
In minor instances I can go from loving a video game and then having no interest in it and often no memory of how I felt playing it the next day.
In more common and problematic instances, it's yearning for a person and then absolutely despising them 3 hours later without interacting with them at all.
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Don't out people as systems. Ever. Not unless you have their explicit permission.
We were out at the mall with the hosts partner, who is also apart of a system. And while talking to a worker, the worker did something and said "oh I'm so stupid, my bad"
And the hosts partner just responds so casually with "oh we're both alter systems, so we've got plenty of stupidity to go around don't worry about it" and gestures between us and them.
It seems so small but it scared us so badly that we ended up in a very painful dissociative state the rest of the day.
If you can be casual about your system to strangers that's great. But never assume that other systems are the same way, regardless of how open they are with you about it.
- ❤️
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Host: Why do I always have to front?!?!? Can’t someone else front for a day or something. I’m so fucking tired.
Co-Host: Okay. *Fronts for longer than an hour*
Host: You’re doing it wrong let me back out
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Would a system jerking off be considered an orgy?
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Poll timeee!
I'm curious the average for people, doesn't matter if you're out to them or not or aren't friends anymore
Feel free to elaborate in tags! And please rb for more answers
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Not to like get into syscourse, but as someone with DID who comes from a culture that has organic plurality, The Plural Association has singlehandedly increased the amount of misinfo on ALL types of plurality, and particularly racism against cultural pluralities. I can't fucking believe them.
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i need to get more plural
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just saw this in headspace
they are chatting and having a good time, idk what theyre saying or planning, but :]
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pros of getting a new interest/hyperfixation
- its fun
- makes me happy
- everything is just generally better for a while
- i get to make literally everything about it
- new fun content on the internet to look at
cons of getting a new interest/hyperfixation
- Another fucking Guy in my brain
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my strade headcanons except- wait those arent headcanons… thats just our systems strade
should i tag him? yeah sure why not lmao @b3tteln-weinen
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finding out about alters is crazy like *dusts off a stone tablet* "says theres a guy whos just been around. yeah idk. theyve just been here i guess.no its not a new split just a guy."
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you know that saying “divide and conquer” ? that’s literally just systems.
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Happy mother's day to alters that had to take up a motherly role because the body's mother wasn't there or wasn't good enough.
Y'all do so much, and you deserve to be acknowledged for it <3
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Plural culture is saying "was that a dream, a memory, or something another alter did?" To yourself all the time 😵💫
My gods do we get this one Constantly, it's the worst when we have to ask our friends if they know which it is
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Me: is just a normal human dude in sys who happens to heavily relate to fennec foxes
Our Brain: Fuck you you’re a fox now
Me: I’m what?
Brain: :D fox
Me: Suddenly has ears + tail
Me:
Me: WHAT????
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Random differences between alters:
Using we/us vs me/i
How they take off shirts
Emoji usage
Which way they lie in bed
How they journal, some do disconnected lists some do literal hour by hour run downs
Layout in notes
How they shampoo their hair (someone uses only a shampoo bar thing and refuses anything else)
Typing! Funny to look over accounts where we present as a singlet and there's clear differences
Mint types (someone can't stand the berry mints others love it)
Bookmarks vs none vs dog earring pages
Likes K-pop vs 0 interest whatsoever
Lights on when sleeping vs pitch black
Can't sit still vs would rather sob than move
Never charges phone vs cries if it's under 80%
Preference for back pack vs tote bag vs nothing
Cannot throw things out vs loves too
Dancing in public
Feel free to add on to it!! These are just some random things we noticed -anon
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