To selfshippers with paranoia, anxiety, social anxiety, any interal struggle like those.
Your f/o would 100% walk with you to anywhere you need to go if you feel unsafe in public by yourself. Your f/o would walk behind you, so you feel safe and protected from behind. If you don't like anyone being behind you, your f/o would stay beside you and keep checking behind the both of you.
They would constantly reassure you they want you to feel safe. they will happily go with you, they would do anything to help you feel safe.
If you're someone who fears leaving the house, your f/o would not think you're weird, crazy, anything like that. Weither you have explained why you fear leaving the house or not, they know you cant control it, they don't blame you at all. If you want to work on having the courage to leave the house, they would be there everytime, helping you take the little steps and would not blame you if you need a minute. They will always be proud of you for taking the small steps to conquer your fear.
They will always still love you. your anxiety, past, paranoia, what you deal with interally. does. not. define you. They will do everything they can to help you. to help you feel loved and safe.
Dexter, this is Ms. Imbrie and Mr. Connor from SPY magazine.
SPY? Your tastes have changed a little, haven't they, Sam?
HIGH SOCIETY (1956) dir. Charles Walters
You are your f/o(s) comfort. Their safe space, the only thing that calms them down. They remind you that they're the exact same for you.
If you start having a shit day and you told them about it already? They have headphones charged, their extra clothes ready to be swapped, flowers if they're able too and of course, their arms open if you like psychical touch.
They just let you sit in their arms and relax, not letting anyone who will irritate you near you
1.5 months post breakup and i’ve taken 2 u era by myself, i can suddenly write creative things again, ive rented the eras tour to reclaim my experience and i was entirely healed by new york city. my sister renamed my cat plushie and i have a new hoodie. i’ve eaten so much asian food, i had a fantastic christmas, i’ve been back to our favorite restaurants with new people and no i didn’t stop cooking. i’m going to grad school for what i want to go for and i enjoy my job. i’ve laughed more in the last month and a half than i have in the last eight.