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luckygrlsyndrome · 6 months

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reminder that narc abuse

1. isn't real

2. is ableist & harmful!!

reminder that npd is

1. a trauma-formed disorder

2. not inherently abusive or evil

3. a valid disorder that people struggle and suffer with every day

reminder that

1. if you use narc abuse, you are ableist, end of story

2. anybody can be abusive- nobody is inherently abusive because of a disorder

2a. your abusive ex was abusive because they're an abuser, not because they're a narcissist

3. you are not a bad person if you have low empathy. you are not a bad person if you have high empathy. you are a bad person if you hurt others on purpose for personal gain or validation

4. your trauma is real and valid. what isn't valid is demonizing a disorder because somebody else hurt you. calling abuse survivors abusive by proxy is hurtful, and you are a shitty person if you do it

pt under the cut ...

PT:

reminder that narc abuse

1. isn't real

2. is ableist and harmful!!

reminder that npd is

1. a trauma-formed disorder

2. not inherently abusive or evil

3. a valid disorder that people struggle and suffer with every day

reminder that

1. if you use narc abuse, you are ableist, end of story

2. anybody can be abusive- nobody is inherently abusive because of a disorder

2a. your abusive ex was abusive because they're an abuser, not because they're a narcissist

3. you are not a bad person if you have low empathy. you are not a bad person if you have high empathy. you are a bad person if you hurt others on purpose for personal gain or validation

4. your trauma is real and valid. what isn't valid is demonizing a disorder because somebody else hurt you. calling abuse survivors abusive by proxy is hurtful, and you are a shitty person if you do it

#npd #narcissistic personality disorder #narc #narcissism #npd safe space #narcissistic safe space #narc abuse isn't real #take care of each other

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jam-does-audio · 6 months

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A lot is going on. Those who can I recommend to take a moment to relax and breath, and after do your best to help others breath too.

For my contribution, Have some more tummy Tuesday from your local gal

Hehe, hi.

I'm rooting for you. wishing the best for you, always. You got this

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raccoonfallsharder · 5 months

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Hello lovey! I hope your day is going great <3

I just read your reminder drabbles and first off, fuck, you've done it again. I shall be visiting those at least once a week.

Secondly, I was wondering if you'd be interested in writing a reminder where Rocket tells Reader to get her tasks done (there could be a deadline, possibly) because he knows she gets distracted and ends doomscrolling/just lying in bed (and always ends up being late -- I am very guilty of this).

If not, then no worries!! I still love absolutely EVERYTHING you put into the world <33

(Also, I hope this request made sense! Lmk if I was speaking gibberish)

geeezus i wasn't expecting to write a third reminder this quickly but... when i get a request from one of my favorite authors @caesarhamato22 what am i gonna do? not drop everything and try my best? unlikely. when you hear the voice of god, you fuckin answer

anyway i really, really hope this is what you were looking for, love. (also i read this ask while laying in bed on my phone for too long && making myself late for work)

✩࿐࿔ get outta bed & get your shit done

with a special added bonus of stop your frickin doomscrolling NEW 11/10.

smut-free | gn reader | no use of y/n | drabbles | word count: 925.

✩࿐࿔ take what you need. ࿔ reminder one: eat somethin'. ࿔ reminder two: go to frickin' bed already. ࿔ reminder three: get outta bed & get your shit done.

the world is hard, and sometimes it's difficult to complete daily tasks & take care of yourself (aka rocket bullies you for your own damn good).

this is about as wholesome as it gets (for me) i think. can be read platonically or romantically. mcu-based, meant to take place post-volume 3, but headcanon however you want ♡

You’re sprawled on your back in bed while the artificial sunlight of Knowhere blooms across your skin and blankets, as pearly and warm as a real dawn. The rumpled covers of your bed are the perfect temperature, and so soft you don’t really want to move – especially not when you read about the latest completely-avoidable tragedy back home on Terra. Let me just stay right here in this little cocoon forever, you’d think – if you’d been thinking at all. Instead, your eyes glaze over as your thumb glides across your phone screen and the minutes slip through your fingers. Something thuds, and you jump, tearing your gaze from your phone. “Rise and shine, cupcake.” It’s fucking Rocket – of course it is – casually kicking in your door with one booted foot, mug in hand.

read more on ao3

if you find any of these at all helpful, they're meant for you.

feel free to ✩ request reminders ✩ via reblogs, asks, and tumblr or ao3 comments if they would be helpful for you. it may take me a hot minute to get to them depending on life n stuff, but i will do my best

if you’d like to join my fanfiction taglist, please comment or send me a message or ask! ♡

@suicidalshitstick ✩ @evolvingchaoswitch ✩ @wren-phoenix ✩ @pretty-chips (total word count: 2238)

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insomniaink95 · 3 months

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KOSA is Coming

Wrote up a post on Cohost to help get the word out about KOSA. Instead of going through the trouble of reformatting it to post here, have a link:

#Inky Bytes #KOSA #Kids Online Safety Act #censorship #surveillance #us politics #spread the word flip the bird #take care of each other #...I just realized this bill will ACTUALLY kill VCL... 😭

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xinghai · 1 year

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Happy trans day of visibility!!

#TDOV #trans day of visibility #transgender #ffxiv #Au ra #dragon #trans #trans friends I love you #it’s been a rough year #take care of each other

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sir-teddy-of-bear · 9 months

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So it’s summer now and I spent some time writing a couple one shots and working on a double update for my long fic which i haven’t been able to update since september but with everything happening with Ao3,

(it’s a DDoS attack from a right wing homophobic group targeting US sites and site that have a lot of queer and potentially smutty content. I’ve done a bit of reading and I’m not going to say this isn’t scary, i was for a bit and i’m trying not to be, but from what i know a DDoS attack means that the Ao3 servers have been bombarded by requests and files which makes the site unavailable due to the amount of requests but the good volunteers that always come through for us are working really hard to fix things and until they make an update about it the best thing we can do to help is stay off the site so we’re not also adding to the bombardment with refreshing and login requests)

i’m probably going to give it a few days even after we get the go ahead to go about our usual reading and writing before i post anything, this is a scary thing so like this might sound cheesy but lean on each other? i know how important Ao3 and other sites with lots of queer content were to me when i was figuring out my identity and i know how important fandom is to me and a lot of others but it’s especially jarring when the group claiming responsibility is saying they’re doing it because of the queer content on the site.

once Ao3 is fixed and the team give us the okay to upload keep writing fics no matter if it’s featuring no smut, no romance or if it’s hardcore smut, queer platonic relationships, tender queer romantic love, or straight ships! no one can tell us to go away or stop writing about the characters we love and the people we are

so just a thank you to the Ao3 team!! and all the users of Ao3 for writing and giving kudos and reading and commenting, we shouldn’t be intimidated into giving this up :)

#ao3 #i know this post isn’t probably called for but i was looking for something like this and thought maybe others could use it #rambling a bit but it’s important to me #when being just being queer is a quite rebellion #fanfic #fanfiction #take care of yourselves #take care of each other #queer community #fandom

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sapphomosa · 2 years

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Need.

Lucifer x Reader

In which Lucifer learns it's okay to not always put others' needs before his own.

Lucifer was an important man. You knew how stressed he gets with working for Diavolo, not to mention all the foolishness his brothers leave him to deal with.

The eldest demon was a pariah in dark clothing, reminding you of the legendary "Atlas" who carried the world on his shoulders. Today had been especially stressful for him as Diavolo unloaded a mountain of paperwork on him with seemingly no end.

You had been in the kitchen grabbing a snack when the red eyed avatar listlessly meandered by, void of his usual proud stature. "Luci" as you affectionately called him "-are you okay? You seem more stressed than usual". Offering a light laugh you try to stifle the tension.

"I'm fine. Just more work than usual" He replies and then seemingly dissaoears into the void that is the main house.

Sitting in one of the barstools, you reach for a piece of fruit and begin to twist the stem absent-mindedly. "Poor Luci" you thought to yourself- "he always works so hard. I'd like to do something nice for him". Pondering and trying to think of a kind deed, you are vaguely reminded of your time in the human world. There had be one time, after your high school finals that you had complained to your best friend over your anxiety regarding your scores. "I get anxious sometimes too, (Y/N). Let me give you a massage. Stimulating the muscles helps to release pent up stress". And sure, enough it did.

Reminiscing on the flashback fondly, you decide to try your luck and make your way to Lucifer's bedroom. (Because where else would he be slaving over paperwork). Taking a small inhale, you knock on the door.

"Who is it?" The eldest replies gruff.

"It's me, (Y/N)". "Oh, come in"

Stepping past his doorframe you are met with the image of a man forlorn, his great noble stature hunched over a long desk. "How's the paperwork coming along?" You ask. "It's...there I guess. At least I don't have to deal with Mammon's idocracy for the time being".

You laugh. "Aw come on Luci, don't be so mean! Being troublesome while you're so hard at work? Mammon would never, he's not THAT dumb".

The avatar of pride returns a small smile. "You're absolutely right (y/n),I guess I should count myself blessed".

Sitting on the corner of his bed you gasp- "Blessed? In a place such as this? The irony is not lost on me my dear Luci-"

Lucifer's cheeks tinge slightly pink. He'd never admit it (in fact he'd argue he's more emotionally stunted than Mammon), but he loved hearing you refer to him so congenial like. Having to put on a firm and stoic facade all the time was tiring, so being spoken to in such a familiar manner was refreshing to him.

"Can I help you?"

He snaps put of his daze, seemingly forgetting where he was. "What?"

"You're tired, you're stressed, I want to help."

"Well you wouldn't know how to drill out these forms so-"

You quickly cut him off. Patting the duvet cover beneath you, you smile warmly at him causing his heart to flutter. "That's not what I meant. Come sit, sit"

Lucifer eyes you suspiciously. He may be stubborn when it came to admitting his feelings, but he did recognize the feels he had for you. He stands up abruptly, pushing in his desk chair with a loud screech. He stands in front of you for a moment, then hesitantly sits next to you.

Happy he's listening, you usher him to take off his fur lined cape. "C'mon, lay on your stomach". Squealing internally, your stomach flips as the broad man of your dreams (not that he needed to know) abides your request. Oddly quiet, he lays himself down without out a word until - "what're you planning to do to me (Y/N)? This better not be some prank". You roll your eyes "God Luci, can you just relax? I said I wanted to help you and I meant it".

He snorts at the mention of his estranged father. "Fine, do as you wish".

Cheering inwardly, you raise a fist in silent victory. "I'm going to massage your back Luci, just lay there and get comfortable". You hear nothing but a slight shift of his body, so you take that as a yes. Flexing your fingers, you press into his upper back.

Hearing his sharp intake of breath, you grin at his surprise at your touch. Continuing to knead your knuckles along his broad back, you sigh. Though you've never seen him says clothes, your fingertips brush against strong muscle. Firmly toned and taut, Lucifer undoubtedly had a nice body. "Too bad he never shows it" You say with a snicker.

"What was that?" Your companion says, his voice muffled through the sheets.

"Nothing! Just thinking about how Mammon shows his work on his math problems" you reply a little too quickly.

Feeling bold, you slowly move your hands up to the nape of Lucifer's neck. Feeling him freeze, you murmur softly: "Relax Luci, I've got ya. Let me do the work for once". Feeling him relax, you push your thumb up his neck softly. "You're so tense Luci" you coo- " you should really take breaks more".

"I can't. Diavolo needs me, my brothers need me, Devildom needs me

You know that (Y/N)". He replies.

You encroach your fingers into his dark hair- "but what do you need Luci?"

Lucifer stills for a moment. No one ever asks what he needs. It's always what someone else needs. Lucifer do this, Lucifer do that, it always the same. Before you, a mere human, no other higher being sought to care for Lucifer in such a manner. You're kind to him, patient, you always show you're thinking of him. You act like you genuinely care for him. Mayne even love him.

Taking a moment, Lucifer chooses his next words carefully:

"I think I just need you".

#lucifer x reader #lucifer morningstar #lucifer avatar of pride #obey me lucifer #om lucifer #fluff #take care of each other #lucifer x mc

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taydaq · 11 months

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OKAY. JUST CAME ACROSS THIS AND WELL. WHILE WE'RE ON THE SUBJECT OF KISSES. If anyone needs ambreigns ideas... please let Dean kiss those bruises/wounds after the Seth betrayal. Oh my god. I'm not okay. 🥺🫣

#wwe ships #ambreigns #UGH #I need a fic please #anyone???#LOL #TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER

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beardedmrbean · 1 year

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#g'night everyone #be kind #take care of each other #we're all we've got

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lurkerviolin · 1 year

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Howdy fellow Texans,

So to the shock of absolutely nobody, we’re still living in a governmental hellscape.

The above post by Texas Freedom Network is about HB-1686 which attempts to ban gender affirming healthcare for anyone under 18. I didn’t see TFN on tumblr so this is just a little post to boost theirs.

I know you love your queer friends and also love bothering devils, so here is your weekend task:

The post has some scripts to help you plan out what to say/write to your officials about why you don’t support this bill.

Thanks for reading and boosting and being you.

#texas #signal boost #i love you #take care of each other

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littlesugarwords · 1 year

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no one else is your rock. you are your rock. you are your balanced ground, your home, your future, so care for her. be your own rock.

- self love

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raccoonfallsharder · 5 months

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✩࿐࿔ take a damn bath [new 11/20]

smut-free | gn reader | no use of y/n | drabbles | word count: 1,375.

✩࿐࿔ take what you need. ࿔ reminder one: eat somethin'. ࿔ reminder two: go to frickin' bed already. ࿔ reminder three: get outta bed & get your shit done.࿔ reminder four: take a damn bath. [new 11/20] for @hibataao3 ♡ ࿔ reminder five: leave your frickin skin alone [est 11/27] ࿔ did you take your meds today ࿔ drink some damn water

the world is hard, and sometimes it's difficult to complete daily tasks & take care of yourself (aka rocket bullies you for your own damn good).

look sometimes you just gotta take a minute to relax. do whatever you need to do to slow your breathing & your racing brain. luckily for you, rocket's here to help. dedicated to @hibataao3, the most perfect, iridescent, lavender-scented little bubble to ever grace the air.

this is about as wholesome as it gets (for me) i think. can be read platonically or romantically. mcu-based, meant to take place post-volume 3, but headcanon however you want ♡

“Can I help you?” you ask mildly, not tearing your eyes away from your current task. There are so many things that still need to be done today – plus you haven’t even hit your doomscrolling quota yet. Nevertheless, you can feel Rocket leaning against the frame of the tambour door leading from the Knowhere streets and into the cantina, thumbs hooked in his pockets and one knee bent while he studies you. “You can barely help yourself, kid,” he drawls lazily, and you raise an eyebrow and stick your tongue out at him without glancing up. He clucks in mock disappointment. “Frickin’ childish,” he adds. “I’ve got a lot to do,” you tell him pleasantly, “so if you could kindly fu–” “Watch your language,” he interrupts snarkily. “...ya fuckin’ brat.” You snort in spite of yourself and finally look up, giving him the attention you know he so desperately craves. “What is it, dude?” He tilts his head, studying you. “When was the last time you took a frickin’ bath?” he asks after a moment.