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[harrrystyles-writing]

To be so Lonely

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[alarrytale]

ola, what do you men by "arrogant in his relationship with louis" and that he loves attention....and that H has narcissistic personality traits (which ones do you mean)...I always viewed H as a private dude he likes privacy but I am thrilled to learn about your views❤️

Hey, anon!

I was mostly referring to his lyrics (and i assumed the anon did too)

You can't blame me, darling

Not even a little bit

I was away

And I'm just an arrogant son of a bitch

Who can't admit when he's sorry

I can totally see Harry being arrogant by standing his ground and being unwilling to compromise and apologise when he feels like he's not the one in the wrong. Louis might be willing to let bygones be bygones and have them both apologise to each other for the hurt they caused. I don't think H is as willing to forgive and forget that easily, especially if he believes what Louis did hurt him more than what he did to hurt Louis. I think Louis often has to be "the bigger man" and suggest to H that they should make up and end their disagreement/fight/dispute. I think Harry could hold a grudge for a long while, and give Louis the silent treatment. Even if Louis is actually in the right in a situation/dispute (big or small) i don't think H admits he was wrong that easily. He'd rather double down.

Idk i might be totally wrong about this, but i could see this happening.

About H having narcissistic personality traits. I think he absolutely loves attention, entertaining people and showing himself off. We're talking about the dude who walked around practically naked in the txf house and who leaked his own nude lmao. I think it gives him confidence and happiness when he sees how people positively responds to him. It's like an adrenaline high for him. He'll do anything for some attention. He doesn’t exactly look mad about being caught with his pants down by Sir mix-a-lot lol.

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About him being private. Ohh, you said the P word. I don't think Harry is private at all. I think he's closeted and has an extremely curated image in order to stay closeted and appeal to his fanbase. So he's got an image of a private person, but he's really not. If he could he would skip down Oxford Street hand in hand with Louis showing everyone how in love they are. He'd snog him (with tongue) on a bench in Hyde Park. He'd tweet his favourite quotes by Louis (or resume doing so he used to do that all the time). I've talked about this many a time before. Check out my "privacy" tag for that whole discussion.

#privacy #harry image #closeting #arrogance #narcissism #tbsl

[lhrry]

fine line truly is the album for me, I’ve been listening to it for three years, it has my absolute favourite songs, songs I listen to when I’m happy and songs I listen to when I’m sad or when I’m anxious, songs I dance to, songs I sing at the top of my lungs, songs I love with and somehow I never got tired of any of it, it’s still just as good as when it first came out, maybe even more because so many memories are now connected to it, there’s truly no other album that has ever been such a constant and consistent part of my life and I know it will always be in some form. happy birthday to the best album!

#y’all this album literally has golden #lights up #adore you #fine line #canyons moon #tpwk #tbsl #sunflower #she #IT !!!!!

[mypoetryelenabertolini]

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[capitanschampagne]

life is fun untill you start relating to 'to be so lonely' by harry edward styles

#evie speaks 🥂 #tbsl

[spiralboundaesthete]

I know Fruit Man released a new album. I do acknowledge it; listen to it as well (often). But I’m still hung up on Fine Line.

Enjoy this distraction while I quietly try to figure out how to use tumblr without embarrassing myself…

#harry styles #harry’s house #fine line era #tbsl

[harry-cherie]

DON'T CALL ME BABY AGAIN

YOU'VE GOT CHORIZO

#this idea has been haunting me for forever now #hopefully someone else finds it funny too #harry styles #fine line album #fine line #harry styles album #hslot #to be so lonely #tbsl #chorizo #my post

[be-with-me-so-happily]

Literally cannot get this song outta my head! 💗

#harry styles fine line #to be so lonely #tbsl #its too good #Spotify

[puffpasstea]

question for the TO BE SO LONELY girlies:

what, do you think, is the significance of the background sounds of lighting and blowing out a match. It's halfway through the song just before the 2nd verse. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? I'm sure we've all noticed it but WHY IS IT THERE WHAT DOES IT MEAN

#tbsl #to be so lonely #fine line #harry styles

[daaydreamy]

top 3 fav songs in fine line bro

your mom your mom and your mom

#💌┊wifey #jk #tbsl #fine line #and she

[delicatepointofview]

Harry Styles Daylight (2023)

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[bluewinnerangel]

Harry's band still has 'Chicago' on their overalls. Harry set up a phone box so people could call him from Chicago 👀

Okay anon I had to come across some twitter threads to see what you were getting at and let's sum it up yeah, a list of coincidences, things to do with larry and Chicago. I'm probably gonna miss a bunch (and prob not gonna list a bunch of others- i barely see the logic in these being intentional already), soo its a bunch of things that are in the realm of chicago + bears + phones/calling + home coinciding? I guess? Anyway:

Obviously the main point that's making us talk about this is Louis releases the song Chicago. With lines like "if you're lonely in Chicago you can call me (baby)" (that's not whole the takeaway of the song but I'm bringing in TSBL in a later point so we're highlighting her)

Adding here he said its half based on real events half theoretical, and he does have an affiliation to Chicago:

To start off with your points, during Harry's Chicago residency in October 2022, there was a phone booth at the venue and llama Doris posted about it (they havent much since :( ), with a description about calling Home.

Harry's band wears overalls with names of cities they've performed at, since Chicago some have showed up on stage with the name on it, for instance Mitch yesterday (that is nov 25th 2022.). I don't know how often they wear what. The band was also wearing Chicago overalls (Sorry for shit pic) on Nov 9th 2022, but like again I have no clue what they wear every other night.

On that note, nov 9th 2022 was also when the Silver Tongues mv released, and the shirt Louis wore in it, the Englandy Homey one, he was last seen weaing innnnnn padapadapada Chicago! (Feb 2022) (He wore it on stage before in Indianapolis)

Sidetrack on recent music videos, somehow the Sushi mv features a dude wearing a shirt that says "LT HS SENIORS", from a high school in Chicago. Although I think the highlight here is LTHS idk how many LT highschools are there to pick from if we're going for intent here.

More sidetrack on the Silver Tongues note: first teased couple days before it via photoshopped phone (or was it even, unclear, maybe a ref to all the calling lyrics in FITF incl. Chicago, is the phone in the mv?, he just said have a phone via youtube xoxo):

During Harry's 2022 Chicago shows he did some ring related stuff ( pointing a sign out in the crowd) and posted that pic of him with a ring backstage that looks like he was making fun of all the peace ring talk lol

During Harry's 2021 Chicago show(s sept 24 and 25), this was I believe the only time (or one of the rare occasions) there were mentions of Home playing before the show - artists pick

In 2021 he also first played To Be So Lonely ("don't call me baby again - it's hard for me to go home - to be so lonely") at Chicago night 2, mind this is the 12th show of the tour and only then added it, and it was and continued to be bathed in bluegreen lights (but then he got bullied into playing it thr previous shows and especially chicago night 1 so that's most likely the reason eh... and also i hope the fans never do that again.)

During one of the 2021 shows he also found 2 people in the crowd in Chicago where he went off (paraphrasing, check link) YOU LOVE EACH OTHER? [out of the fking blue:] YOURE BEST FRIENDS?? GET MARRIED. Mind you this was a few days before a 4 day break including September 28 so I can think of better reasons than the place he was at if we wanna read into that fhfhdhd. This was also when we got those Louis spotted in uh relative close proximity receipts.

For Louis' 2022 tour the only exit song among the massive list of curated post show songs that still stands out to me (although yes I can place it in the list of songs-we-fucked-around-with-on-stage-during-1d like I can make it make sense still thematically it's a detour from the rest imo) is Ceelo Green's Fuck You, yepyep played in Chicago

Were going back in time now: Louis got his 28 tattoo in Chicago in 2015 (together with the buttpenguin which keeps being brought up in current interviews)

In 2015, 1Ds Chicago show featured these bears:

Like there's so much shit going on here there's a masterpost.

Basically the worst in terms of things to read into. Go read that post.

Again 2015 when the rainbow bears came up with this sign, borrowed from the Chicago Bears. (See the logo bottom right). Now that is the first sign you find on the Google when you try to find a sign about bears coming out so again seems coincidental, but still.

(Also green bay packers <> chicago bears? Eh? Eh.)

There was an attempt to get them points together tumblr. They're gathered from all over the place but instigated by anon as well as this thread woop credit.

Honestly I think we just notice more Chicagos now? They're just being their regular home calling rbbsbbs and also do that in chicago and thats it lol. On the other I do like to entertain the thought they for whatever reason have this connection with Chicago (also yes im very much aware of stunt related connections) and its showing in the quirky stuff they do beyond the obvious (being writing a song called Chicago huh).

Out of all this the one thing that does make me go OKAY THEN is Harry first playing TSBL in Chicago, 12 shows in, bluegreening, the idea Ls around at the time, and then a year later blep parallels Louis' Chicago.

Oh also I think getting the 28 tat in Chicago could be significant. He sure still knows that number dhdhdhss

#been trying to find logic in that last point in regards to the song but idk #and the point before that works both ways as louis being inspired by being there and the othrr way around harry holding off to #play tbsl until chicago bc of whats to come and its his way of linking them lol #and i always mostly care about this stuff bc i just think thats what theyre like and they find some comfort in doing these things #semi publicly with a meaning to them thats each other or more. i just like it a lot. im not trying to find far fetched links to prove shit #just. so were clear.

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[ificouldflyhome369]

Don't blame me for falling, I was just a little boy

#yeah you know #i kinda feel bad for baby harry #he stood no chance #and I'm missing tbsl tonight #so i thought I'd make myself suffer

[heartshaped-lou]

my toxic trait is thinking that harry's last show in italy will last like twelve hours and that he'll play his entire discography plus unreleased stuff plus oned songs

#like. of course he'll do anna #and sunflower #and tbsl #and ftdt #canyon moon? duh #little freak obviously #also sweet creature duh #a #baby honey #all of them

[twopoppies]

toxic anon here🙋‍♀️ Fine Line, Boyfriends, To Be So Lonely and Written all over your face just sound toxic to me idk :(

Hi sugar. IMO Fine Line is absolutely not about their relationship. I don’t read it that way at all. To me, that song is Harry’s struggle and coming to terms with with his gender identity. And it’s such a positive song in the end, anyway.

Boyfriends I, personally, think is Harry looking at his own behavior and calling himself out in an attempt to do better (and, probably, just talking about boyfriends, in general). But I don’t think it’s a 100% accurate reading of Harry’s behavior—more like a castigation and an exaggeration for storytelling purposes.

TBSL, was likely written as a stunt song since it’s placed alongside Falling and Cherry on an album that we’re meant to think is about Camille Rowe. Again, I think it’s about Harry (because I think he tends to write more about himself and his view of life/the world etc, than anything else) and because there’s a stunt narrative to fulfill, I’d be more likely to imagine it’s a song about a disagreement/time apart from Louis and is, again, calling himself out for his perceived flaws (jealous, arrogant, drunk calling, petty, needy etc). I think it’s actually really healthy that he’s aware of his tendencies, even if I do think he’s rather hard on himself. If you look at Louis’ songs in relation to Harry’s, you’ll see that Louis tends to blame himself, as well.

And I answered about WAOYF in another ask, but I read the lyrics as being about fighting with your partner, as one tends to do in a long term relationship, and storytelling in a way that makes it more interesting.

My take away from their songs is that they both have their shortcomings when it comes to healthy communication (as many people do), but their relationship is important to them and looking at your own behavior only helps you change.

If all of their music was about fighting, I’d say you might be right. But we also have so many songs where they express working on their relationship and loving each other deeply. I guess I just see it as partners learning to have healthy communication as opposed to toxic.

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#songwriter Louis #songwriter Harry #TBSL song analysis #waoyf song analysis #fine Line song analysis #boyfriends song analysis