#tertiary attraction

[neverquiteeden]

Sensual attraction got me questioning my entire life rn (could also have used the "is this a pigeon?" meme but oh well)

#aroace #questioning #queer #aromantic #asexual #i might be gay. whoops #tertiary attraction #split attraction model

[thefrogginbullfish]

#ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #aroace #aroace memes #ace memes #aro memes #aspec #ace spec #aro spec #lgbt memes #lgbt #queer #lgbtqia #tertiary attraction #lgbt community

[unrestrainedbalderdash]

Aroace who's extremely confused by their tertiary attraction call that a disoriented aroace

#oriented aroace #tertiary attraction #aspec #arospec #acespec #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace

[redacted-coiner]

Asexual, Aroace, Aromatic

Oriented Aroace, Tertiary Attraction, Angled Aroace

Arospec, Aspec, Acespec

Aspec

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#🎨 post #liom #mogai #liomogai #Asexual #Aroace #Aromantic #Oriented Aroace #Tertiary Attraction #Non Rose #Angled Aroace #Arospec #Aspec #Acespec #pride #pride emote #pride emoji #pride pixels #pride pixel

[aroace-menace]

There are lots of terms in aspec spaces like queerplatonic, alterous, or tertiary that essentially just mean “not platonic or romantic,” but platonic essentially just means “not romantic,” and romantic doesn’t have any accurate definition as far as I’m aware. That’s not to say that any of these terms aren’t valuable, I just think everything is fake.

#queerplatonic #qpr #alterous attraction #tertiary attraction #relationship anarchy #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aro #ace #the menace is yapping

[thatnerdyqueer]

People get so confused when I try to explain the type/s of attraction I feel. But let me put it like this: I "fall in love" with someone's character. I don't want their body - I want their presence. I don't lust after them - I admire them. I don't want a romantic relationship - I find them fascinating. Interesting. Fun. They challenge and compliment me. They're loyal. They're funny. They're not two-dimensional, they're a well rounded character. I fall in love with someone as a character, as an arc, as a person. As a friend. People seem to read this one of two ways - it's romantic, or it's just platonic and I haven't found the right person yet. *sigh* the definition of platonic is 'deeply affectionate but not romantic in nature'. So yeah, it's platonic. It's deep. It's affectionate. It's not romantic. It's just as good though, so can we stop saying 'just'?

Like, you know when people have gay panics? I want that, and frequently experience it, but in a platonic way. As in, wow what you did was really impressive/intersting I want to get to know you and spend time with you kind of way. Not in a wow I want to kiss you way. Someday I want to meet someone in a bookshop and 'flirt' with them or whatever allos seem to think it is, and get their phone number. And then, instead of asking them to see a movie as a date, I'll ask them to come and eat pop corn with my friends and watch a movie because I think they'll find it interesting. Make no mistake - I'm aroace, but I still want my meet cute. I want a platonic meet cute where I find someone, who's character is so full and interesting and bursting with life that I get their number and send them memes and geek out with them, and get to know them and admire them until we feel comfortable around each other. I just want to live with someone. To read together, watch tv shows together, listen to music together, go to the theatre together, without them being considered 'dates'. Because I don't want them because I want their body. I want them in my life because I like their character.

And if you think about it, I'm very lucky in this way. Because, while not everyone has a super-model body, the vast majority of individuals are so bursting with life that I am very, very, likely to find people, many people, whose character I love. To be honest, I've already found plenty. But, ever the "optimist", I hope I find more :)

#oriented aroace #grey aroace #greyromantic #aromantic #aro #ace #asexual #greysexual #demiromantic #demisexual #alterous #quoiromantic #neuroromantic #queerplatonic #platonic #platonicise #tertiary attraction #aesthetic attraction #found family #aroace

[alterousuggestion]

because the truth is. i do want to be held and i do want to be loved. and i want to hold and love too. find me someone who will understand this and choose to be with me anyways. let me pour myself into them.

#text #admin post #alterous #alterous attraction #aro #aromantic #tertiary attraction #aroace #queer platonic partner #txt #IM SUFFERING TREMENDOUSLY #VERY GAY FEELINGS TODAY

[meowzet]

youre so hot [asexually]

#i call people ‘hot’ and ‘sexy’ in the most asexual way possible. i love it. #asexual #ace #ace pride #acespec #aspec #aroace #tertiary attraction #my meows

[deertism]

— ASTRABOUND ; a type connection between two people that is not romantic nor platonic. this type of relationship can be described by a type of emotional connection based on a deep trust and understanding between two ( or more ) people. this type of relationship should feel secure. an example of what this relationship is similar to would be a pair of bonded cats. the term for an astrabound partner is stella / stellaium , or astrabond.

— what astrabound partnerships are not ; this type of relationship is not based on traumabonding , and such a relationship should not be considered astrabound. this type of relationship does not move fast , infact it typically takes years to develop. this relationship is not between platonic and romantic as it is not a part of that attraction system.

— coined by me & @royalroe

— made for personal use only , please do not use

#ⓘ mine #liomreal #mogai #mogaisafe #lgbtq #liom coining #mogai coining #mogaireal #liom term #mogai flag #tertiary #tertiary attraction #alternative attraction

[revenant-coining]

Aemuloime

[pt: Aemuloime /end pt]

[ids: 2 rectangular flags with 5 equally-sized vertical lines, and a thick line on the left and right. colors in this order from left to right: dark green, grey-green, greyish-green, light green, pale blue-green, light blue, greyish-blue, grey-blue, dark blue. in the center of the first flag is a dark green-to-dark blue copy symbol outlined in pale blue-green. /end ids]

Aemuloime Attraction: a type of attraction characterized by copying, imitation, & mimicry. this could be copying, imitating, or mimicking others, and/or wanting to be copied, imitated, or mimicked, for entertainment, as a form of flattery and/or affection, wanting to “be” someone/wanting someone to “be” you, etc. made with alterhumans/nonhumans in mind, as well as neurodivergent individuals, but not exclusive.

this attraction may be felt entwined with or at the same time as Amoinvidian (link), Envious (link), & Offis (link) attraction, but doesn’t have to be.

Aemuloime terminology can be decided by the user! but here’s some terminology we came up with:

aemush or aemulush; who one has aemuloime feelings for

aemu or aemupar; one in an aemuloime relationship

imitaem; the one being copied, imitated, or mimicked in the relationship

effiloime; the one copying, imitating, or mimicking in the relationship

aemuship or consoime; an aemuloime relationship

aemulity or aemuloimity; one’s aemuloime orientation

[ids: a transparent image, a dark grey copy symbol outlined in pale grey, a transparent image. /end ids]

Etymology: “aemulo” latin for emulate, imitate, be envious, & copy, “ime” meaning deriving from

for cam!

@radiomogai , @thecoffeecrew404 , @tertiary-attraction-archive

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#🪼 creations #aemuloime #attraction types #tertiary attraction #aemush #aemulush #aemu #aemupar #imitaemu #effiloime #aemuship #consoime #aemulity #aemuloimity #liom #mogai #category: symbols #category: terminology #long post #category: attractions

[thefrogginbullfish]

#aro #aromantic #aro pride #aromantic spectrum #aro spec #aro memes #aroace #aroace memes #ace #asexual #lgbt #queer #lgbtqia #lgbt community #lgbt meme #lgbt memes #aro stuff #tertiary attraction #demiromantic #grayromantic #aegoromantic

[pally-plate]

I just learned about alterous attraction and…

It perfectly describes how I feel. I don’t think google really explains it very well, so I’ll explain it how I saw it explained.

So basically, it’s the a-nonbinary version of love (a-nonbinary is where you’re outside of the binary as well as removed from the nonbinary spectrum, you’re your own thing.).

So, romantic is one end of the spectrum, and platonic is the other end. Queer-platonic is everywhere else on the spectrum. But alterous attraction is completely separated from the spectrum. It’s just its own type of attraction.

‘Romantic’ can also be replaced with any other type of attraction, such as sexual, aesthetic, sensual, etc, I’m just focusing on romantic attraction since that’s the one I was most confused about, so it’s the one I connect with the most.

I used this analogy to explain it to one of my friends and I think I got it down perfectly, exactly how I feel:

My attraction is like: warhead vs a Swedish fish. (Romantic and platonic attraction.) If you eat them both at once, it’s both sour and sweet at the same time, and you can’t really tell where one candy starts and the other ends. (Both of them mixed together would be queerplatonic attraction). But my attraction to people is more like a tart nerds candy. It’s still candy, and it still has a bit of sour and a bit of sweet mixed in, but at the end of the day, it’s its own flavor.

Feel free to use this analogy if you wish, no need to credit me, but please keep it related to alterous attraction if you do choose to use it.

But yeah, I’m very proud of this analogy, as it perfectly describes how I feel attraction to other people.

#aromantic #aromantic spectrum #greyromantic #romantic attraction #tertiary attraction #alterous attraction #lgbtq #greyrose #greyro

[redacted-coiner]

Reldevotion Attraction

[PT: Reldevotion Attraction]

Reldevotion Attraction, a Tertiary Attraction for someone who can describe their attraction as how a prophet, preist/priestess, fallower, etc. feels towards the Religion, Deity, Faith they fallow. This can be seen as a religious view of attraction and/or that one’s attraction is religious in nature.

This can be the want to praise, devote oneself, etc. to one’s other witch can be referred too as a amourity (amour + (de)ity). Reldevotion can be used to describe romantic or sexual attractions as well but was made with the intent of Tertiary Attraction!

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[Symbol ID: None Yet]

Forgor symbol credit @kiruliom

[Tagging] @tertiary-attraction-archive, @radiomogai, @liom-archive, and @kiruliom

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#🎨 post #🎨 coining #🎨 horde #🖌️ attractions #Reldevotion Attraction #Reldevotion #amourity #Tertiary Attraction #Aroace #oriented aroace #liom #liom term #liom coining #liomogai #mogai #mogai coining #mogai term #Spiritual Attraction

[belinhagamer999]

Platonic4Platonic

[PT: platonic4platonic /END PT]

Alloplatonic people who want to have relationships exclusively with other alloplatonic people.

[IMAGE ID: a flag with seven even, horizontal stripes. colors from top to bottom are pink, rose pink, baby pink, white, pale yellow, pale orange, pale red. a salmon pink heart is set at the center of the flag. /END IMAGE ID]

pastel pink yellow orange and white are from the platonic attraction flag.

coining this after a philosophy class about platonic love feels awesome 😄

#mogai coining #flag coining #mogai pride #aromantic pride #aromantic spectrum #arospec #aspec #platonic flag #aro pride #aro #aromantic positivity #tertiary attraction #term coining #coining #coining post #queerplatonic #asexual spectrum #relationship flag #trans4trans #mogai term #lgbtq pride #fem4fem #butch4butch #x4x #platonic relationships #relationship #not queerplatonic #lgbtq community #aromantic #aroace

[gennerflooid]

Alternate cedural attraction and tutelary attraction flags

[PT: Alternate cedural attraction and tutelary attraction flags. /End PT]

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Cedural attraction: A form of tertiary attraction that revolves around wanting to feel protected, covered, understood, tutored, and supported by someone else. It is the counterpart and opposite of tutelary attraction. More info here

Tutelary attraction: A form of tertiary attraction that revolves around a strong desire to take care, protect, and support a certain individual. It is the counterpart and opposite of cedural attraction. More info here

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[Flag ID (cedural): A flag with 6 stripes. In order, they are light green, blueish green, dark cyan, black, gray and light gray. /End ID]

[Flag ID (tutelary): A flag with 6 stripes. In order, they are blue, purplish blue, dark purple, black, gray and light gray. /End ID]

#my flags #alternate flag #cedural attraction #tutelary attraction #tertiary attraction #mogai #pro mogai #mogai safe #actually mogai #mogai flag #mogai coining #mogai heaven #mogaireal #liom #pro liom #liom safe #actually liom #liom flag #liom coining #liom heaven #liomreal

[ballsalsda]

╰──╮🍇`~Grapequeer~` 🍇╰──╮

🚨NOT a rq identity🚨

[PT: Grapequeer /end PT]

[ID: A 5 stripe pride flag with the colors from top to bottom being: green, light green, white, light purple, purple. There is a simple graphic of a bunch of grapes in the middle. /end ID]

[ID: A 5 stripe pride flag with the colors from top to bottom being: green, light green, white, light purple, purple. /end ID]

Grapequeer, also known as 🍇queer, grapevinequeer, grapevinic, or grapevinian, is a term used to describe aspec peoples' unique relationship to attraction and sexuality. It can be used to describe ace people with complicated feelings about sex, aro people with complicated feelings about romance, aplatonic people with complicated feelings toward friendship, tertiary people whose type of attraction can't really be defined as anything other than grapequeer, aro people who feel their platonic feelings and friendships go much deeper than allos, etc.

╰──╮× ~~Flag color meanings~~ ×╰──╮

[PT: Flag color meanings /end PT]

💚 Green - Aromance, unique perspectives aros have toward attraction and romance

💚🤍 Light green - Aromantic attraction and unique ways to feel romantic, platonic, and tertiary attraction

🤍 White - allotertiary aspecs and alloplatonic aspecs in solidarity with atertiary aspecs and aplatonic aspecs

💜🤍 Light purple - Asexual attraction and unique ways to feel sexual, romantic, and tertiary attraction

💜 Purple - Asexuality, unique perspectives aces have toward attraction and sex

This is a label used to describe unique relationships with attraction in the aspec community and show solidarity to the different identities in the aspec community. It is not a radqueer identity. Please be respectful in the comments. If you try to start any discourse, your comment will be deleted and you will be blocked.

[ID: A blinkie that says "Proshippers DNI" /end ID]

#lgbtqi community #lgbt pride #lgbt #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbtqia #mogai #mogai coining #mogai flag #mogai term #imoga #proship dni #aspec #asexual #aromantic #aroace #aroallo #alloace #aplatonic #atertiary #tertiary attraction #attraction #liom coining #coining post #liom term #liomogai #liom safe #liom #rq dni