#that shit makes me furious

[effervescentdragon]

i think a lot of people should google datenschutz/gdpr and how it protects people who bring in a complaint to their workplace/place of study before you start calling for the investigation to be published

#you stupid fucks #that law is in place to protect the fucking victims or alleged victims or accusers from retribution #its in place to ensure that whoever the accuser is doesnt face unfair consequence and retribution #having gone through something like this recently i cannot explain how fucking furious the stupid takes i see around are making me #like i cant even speak properly thats how furious i am #none of you stupid fucks care the least bit about the alleged victim and i am so fucking sick of all of this #as if her being doxxed and effectively blacklisted isnt enough. precisely BECAUSE the us isnt subject to gdpr #and because they have very little or no laws preventing sharing information from ongoing investigations into workplace misconduct of any ki #kind*. that and the public 'interest' or more like scavenging for fucking gossip so they could justify their moral wank which made it clear #to the absolute moral mudpit that is 'journalism' that they need to keep this shit up for clicks and views #i am sick and i am appalled and i am done. this is all i will say about it #f1

[hella1975]

it's been pointed out on here before that a lot of terf arguments are actually rooted in sexist idealology that feminists fought and died to unnormalise decades ago and that's its own kettle of fish but one thing i also find very frustrating about this so called 'radical' feminism is that it's so... defeatist? like the moment you categorically label an entire section of society as Bad and Inherently Evil then there's also the implication that nothing can be done about it, and it completely takes all accountability away. saying all men are evil is just another way of saying boys will be boys. he raped her because he's a man. he hit her because he's a man. he didn't listen because he's a man - it's almost offensively oversimplified. there's no point trying to fix this issue in society because men are just Like That, okay! so now what? it's not like they're going anywhere, so you just accept that 50% of the population are evil and will forever treat you terribly and there's nothing to be done about it bc they're biologically predisposed to it? like is that fr the argument here? you're soooo radical for that

#this is coming from someone who used to very genuinely be a misandrist #ironically it was only when i started actually analysing my own feminism that i got MORE confrontational with men #and started respecting my boundaries a lot better BECAUSE i started holding them accountable again #like when men treat me like shit nowadays i dont just write it off as 'what did you expect? he's a man' i get MAD about it #because i EXPECT BETTER FROM THEM even if it's just tiny shit women have to deal with daily #i hold them to just as high a standard as im held to and i make them take accountability when they dont meet that #and whether you realise it or not even on a subconscious level the MOMENT you black-and-white blanket statement all men as bad #you stop holding them accountable. #like it is literally just boys will be boys. do terfs seriously not realise they're sending feminism BACKWARDS #like if a girl came to me with her trauma and people - other girls no less - tried to comfort her with 'yeah all men are evil' #id be fucking furious. like no he did that because he was a piece of shit that had it normalised to him that women arent to be respected #dont you dare let him off the hook with something as simple and uncritical as 'he's a man' #i promise you men like that will MUCH prefer a blanket statement such as 'all men are as bad as each other' #than actually being point blank told they're an abuser or a rapist. because being lumped together is comfortable and even empowering #wheras isolating their behaviour with words that are Bad and Ugly (LIKE 'rapist') is not comfortable at all and has heavy connotations #idk i dont think radical feminism is always bad on its own it can be v liberating. just terfs and misandrists that i have a problem with #dropping this post in a piranha tank and closing tumblr knowing im gonna have some thirty year old karen yelling at me within 5 mins #i probably wont respond to any terf comments bc they literally mentally exhaust me with their stupidity #but that also depends on my mood and ability to keep my mouth shut LMFAO we shall see

[unforth]

Hey if you're a white person (as I am too!) and reading the stuff about End OTW Racism (@end-otw-racism) is making you uncomfortable CONGRATULATIONS THATS THE POINT bipoc have been uncomfortable in fandom for decades and some of yall can't face being uncomfortable for five seconds and still have the gall to have shit like BLM in your descriptions.

Put your money where your mouth is. Be uncomfortable. Actually read what they're talking about and what changes they're proposing instead of jumping right to BuT wHaT aBoUt My DaRk FiC (they want to protect your dark fic and help ensure you're safer from harassment over it!)and ThEy'Re PrO-cEnSoRsHiP (they are explicitly not).

I'm so fucking tired of having my posts and those I reblog on this topic largely ignored on my personal account, but ESPECIALLY I'm furious about how ignored posts on racism in fandom are when I put them on the danmei art sideblogs.

I see racism every single fucking DAY as part of running those accounts. This isn't some nebulous thing happening elsewhere, this is us!

If you don't care, I really need you to take a long hard look in the mirror and ask yourself WHY DONT I CARE?

Because YOU SHOULD FUCKING CARE.

#unforth rambles #end racism in the otw #end otw racism #i was already at my breaking point on this issue a month ago when i started talking more about microaggressions in the mdzs tag #now seeing how impossible it is to get people to give a shit ive moved to fucking FURIOUS #WHY ARENT MORE PEOPLE ANGRY I DONT UNDERSTAND #(i do understand #its racism taking rhe form of complacency and disinterest #from people who have the privilege to ignore it because it makes them uncomfortable and doesnt harm them directly #im honestly gettibg so disgusted #do better white fandom) #im a jewish white woman with biracial kids #it horrifies me to realize that im genuinely not sure if the circles im in would be safe for my half black kids to join #im genuinely not sure i can let my kids join fandom when they get old enough #for fear of what they'll be exposed to here #do yall even realize what a fucking indictment that is? #note this is mostly not aimed at my mutuals #yall are awesome and ilu #but i only have about 75 mutuals #what about the rest of my 1900 followers like wtf guys

[skyisgreen-grassisblue]

aghhh i’ve been thinking about the httyd books again and how Absolutely Insane they are…. i ADORE watching people react to them because there’s this one point in the series where everything just feels different. and they don’t give you time to process what on earth happened before launching you head first full speed into one of the best pieces of literature i think i’ve ever read

#i think the point in the series where something ‘changes’ is when we first meet excellinor #as soon as her presence is felt theres just something looming over the rest of the events #that feeling is more prominent when we meet furious too #for the rest of the book theres just something There. something isnt quite right bc what the fuck did we just read #and then all the books following that are DIFFERENT and book 9 (i cant remember if this is there for the other books) #has a warning at the beginning??? like. hey. shit has changed. #and btw these books do an Amazing job at describing fear #the scene with hiccup in the tree trying to escape the witch is chilling #the audiobooks only enhance it #httyd books #how to train your dragon #how to break a dragon's heart #also im making a post ab this later but this was all inspired bc i read the little short side books #and i was really startled when i finished how to train your viking - a mostly light hearted book #and then went into the day of the dreader and it casually informed us that everyone on berk was slowly starving to death WHAT??? #its been so long since ive experienced that kind of whiplash from these books it had me a little :’)

[a-hearts-a-heavy-burden]

If Joey Batey posts within the next week I will take that as a personal birthday present.

#we manifesting this shit #manifest with me #joey batey #birthday present #joey batey post #post something #do it #you won't #I double dog dare ye #i'll cheers ye with an entire bottle of wine #wine and croissants #make my birthday wish come true #please mr batey #i beg #the amazing devil #blue furious boy #jaskier #julian alfred pankratz

[natjennie]

putting guz in the lab for the puzzle task was the best and worst decision the production crew have ever made. it spawned "it's guz with another revelation" but also was the longest task filming to date taking 93 minutes. and bonus for sticking alex with desiree so he could react like this:

#poor desiree honestly #'something told me desiree was a little bit irritated at guz during that' #honestly props to her for handling it so well in the task but also in studio #because that shit would make me furious genuinely. especially up against victoria like. #it would kill me inside #taskmaster

[hamartia-grander]

The jokes about Leon "saving" the female characters from gross sexualising mods are so annoying because it's not accurate at all. Men still make TONS of disgusting mods that sexualise the female characters with the intent to sexualise them, it's just that now Leon is also being given sexualised mods, but often times the intent is humorous (tramp stamp mod, Leon as Lara Croft mod, Leon in a bunny butler costume mod, etc etc). You open nexus mods for any resident evil game and on the first page you'll see a naked woman mod or a "hotter woman" mod that's just her model with bigger tits and ass and an impossibly skinny waist. Leon mods are not doing anything to stop the gross men who mod these things, it's just giving them something to laugh at as they continue sexualising the female characters.

#I hate men who mod they make me so fucking sick and furious #And Leon isn't doing shit lol he's not “saving” anyone he's just a fictional guy who exists #resident evil #leon kennedy #resident evil 4 remake #resident evil 4

[sapphosboy]

Seeing the Israeli UN counsel wear those yellow “never again” stars makes me feel sick to my stomach. To weaponize people sympathies towards Jewish people because of the holocaust so they can continue to commit genocide against Palestinians is fucking despicable. 

#that is some fucking disgusting shit and I actually feel nauseous #It’s manipulative and horrifying #to even suggest that what hamas is doing is on par with Hitler makes me furious #free palestine

[russellius]

brake testing someone into a high speed corner and putting not just said driver right behind you, but everyone else on the track in danger... disgusting.

it was incredibly fortunate that george had a massive gap to the cars behind him.

#this makes me so furious holy shit. #first those fucking perverted cunts and now this #i feel so so sorry for george. im glad there is no race next week. #r

[katyspersonal]

I know we don't talk and there's stuff we may not agree with. But I am truly sorry you've dealt with a lot of drama over fictional crap. And I'm sorry if my posts in the past ever contributed to that. Hope you have a better day.

Hey... That's all fine, don't worry! After all, it takes a lot of time and Insight to realise that Gehrman is a very gentle and respectful man and Godrick is an absolute gigachad kdkdkshdffhhgfds /lh /lh

But yeah, on a serious note. It was quite frustrating to find out the real motivation under all that... mess was something so pathetic, but at the same time this is what happens when people make engagement with media and fandoms a moral, political act. Not necessarily a problem, after all, I was the one who concluded that the way a fan judges fictional characters and other fans will very well reveal how cruel they are to real people who do something bad, or how much they will forgive based on personal sympathies. And my mad ravings about caring about female characters! I think the problem comes when a fan is so insecure that they have nothing else besides this defence of ideals through fandomry. If your only way to assert yourself is to be a good guy punishing the bad guys, and that mad raving loredigger discovers there is NO bad guy, what is left of you?

This is why it is crucial to have passion for nurturing rather than for undermining! I think if you speak like this, you've found this truth too? This is true that I don't know you very much (mutual-in-law thing), but to be honest.. you didn't poison my fandom experience at all? I tend to never be aware about discourse until someone basically calls me for help fhdhgsdgdfs Can't scout the fandom tag regularly!

But not only it actually was a quite long ago I saw a "negative" post from you, but also I've seen through the posts that my friends liked or reblogged from you that you've actually became very eager person to defend people's passion and interests! I think the post that particularly got stuck with me was when you resented seeing someone's light die after some Redditor asshole "well aktualy"'d a thing they were excited about creating (not exact wording but maybe you remember too)? Like... you are fine, man. At that point I realised that you were a good fan and in the end valued people's creativity and passion over personal preferences. That you never wanted to be THAT guy, even if your interpretation could not be further from someone else's. Coming to terms with what actually matters in fandomry is very mature and I am happy to see this attitude!

I am still glad that you messaged me about this though; I did not expect this, but thank you! I think I will continue getting involved in fictional discourse because my autistic senses cannot ignore factually incorrect takes with a clear insidious motive, and.. eh, sooner or later, I'll piss off the wrong guy again. Don't feel bad for me when it inevitably happens :p I've accepted the shortcomings when I decided to be the debate guy. Simply laughing at some gremlin starting a discourse with the girls in DMs and not stressing over it is only funny until I realise that newer fans could get misinformed right off the bat.

#ask replies #fandomry rambles #sorry this is probably a bit too long and emotional #this topic just makes me remember a lot of stuff.. it is not you! like I mean it my impression has been positive for a while now #I could already sense that you've changed your stance on things before this message and I respect this a lot! #I am just thinking about..... stuff #how there was an actually strongly furious gehrman hater who finally matured and became chill after two years of terrorizing fandom #and I even wrote them a DM saying how much I respected the change.. only to lose them forever a couple of weeks later because of timing LOL #or story of the guy that got driven away from the fandom with fake accusations and slander because he criticised maria when her toxic fans- #-back then were not pretending to 'recognise her flaws too' #or people talking to me how they stopped feeling safe posting in fandom over that crap #like... you did not really hurt me. I knew you had strong opinions but I've noticed more and more based posts on the fandomry topic #there are just many things that make whole fandom situation sad. I am happy to be the part of what helped BB fandom a bit #but I've heard some shit going on in ER fandom and like... yeah I am bound to get into trouble again because I can't sit back and meme #just don't feel bad for me when I end up with another arch enemy because of my autism about lore fhshdffsd

[maxellminidisc]

Can't remember who the mangaka was but I remember watching his episode of Manben and growing strangely anxious and almost angry watching him draw cause he'd draw something and then immediately cover it with white out and draw its over again over and over and over and over like at least 20 times in the same TINY spot

#personally my brain doesn't like repetition to a certain degree it gives me like idk #that strange primal rage and discomfort you feel when you have sensory over load or misophonia #and repititious sound makes me especially furious so the sound of him redrawing was probably what was making me anxious oskdkdkkd #this is such a shit thing to have when you love music because sometimes my ears will hone in on one sound and make me unfathomably angry #like lately i cant listen to funky town cause that repeated guitar riff has been sooo hard to ignore and meld into the song oskskdkkdks

[hella1975]

americans bragging about europe is also funny bc of the fundamental family drama that comes with being european. those are my rotten soldiers my final girls my silly rabbits but im going to be a bitch about them of course. an american would brag like 'i visited [insert european country]' and id be like 'oh ew'

#'when i was in spain-' NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO LMFAO #or they'd make some innocent observation and id be like 'yeah italians are just like that' and theyd be like 'THATS NOT WHAT I MEANT' #HELP LMFAO. like it's okay! but of course if an american tried to slag off anywhere in europe id be furious. that's my little brother #you know it's fucked when even the other europeans defend ENGLAND just bc an american said some shit #like we are the lowest of the low over here even before we decided to blow up the family dinner with brexit #even the IRISH will defend us against them. insanity #you'll have me wanting to defend FRANCE over america do you know how insane that is? in this cocksucking holefucking lifetime? #me: we have had fifteen wars with them. i think their people are animals. i hate them #an american: yes when i was travelling i also found that- #me pulling out a knife: im gonna stop you right there

[cosmicangsts]

alright i got a lot of writing done on five & later i'll get some done on ten. i wanted to get 10 posts done apiece on each blog today but losing a big chunk of my shit to tumblr's nonsense put a dent in my motivation! wow who'd of thunk. so i'm taking a break rn & laying down before doing other things & running errands for a bit lol

#🏏 ( ooc . ) #my mood is considerably soured i won't even lie to you #shit made me FURIOUS #i clenched my foot so hard i lost half a nail #not even playing w/ u #what i ended up rewriting is shorter & prob less detailed & it Just Makes Me Mad so

[pumpkinpaix]

everyone shut up about the o/tw

#there are very very real issues #but everything publicly being screamed about is at best inaccurate and at worst just straight up infantilizing lies #yes I am furious with the org on like 15 levels right now #but I’m not gonna lie people posting about it are making me furious too #shut up shut up shut up you don’t know shit #you’re not helping you’re just being awful to the people you purportedly are trying to help #you care more about being righteous and humiliating faceless people you believe are in power #than you do about the people who’ve been hurt #if you care about them at all #fuck off #i hate everyone in this bar #upset gurgling intensifies

[decepti-thots]

tumblr i am drawing the goddamn line here tbh, you can serve me the dumbest ads you like and i will Cope ig, but i did not sign up to be served fucking bullshit antistratfordian conspiracy theories, what the hell

#not remotely joking this shit makes me FURIOUS like PHYSICALLY COMICALLY ANGRY #tumblr fuck off bring back the weird sword lady or w/e jfc

[cankersaurus]

Little nitpick on the dream nd Nicholas cantu video

When nick said "im like this cuz i got autism, adhd yknow nuerodivergent" nd then dream said "i have adhd too" BRO

Having adhd nd having adhd AND autism r too wildly different experiences

Nd the fucking tone he had like "i have adhd nd i dont act like you so you have no right to say wut ur saying" GRRRRR

#very personally charged #like idgaf abt dream or nicholas cantu or wuteva i just hate that one snippet IT MAKES ME SO IRRATIONALLY FURIOUS #anyways fuck dream he's a groomer #nick shudnt have been saying all that shit in the video yadayada #also i saw alotta ppl try nd excuse Nicholas's use of slurs cuz hes autistic nd pansexual #like the f slur is wutsver but i got sum shit to say on the use of the r slur #cuz like even if ur autistic u r using it as it was intended and r not at all reclaiming it #theres also been talk abt how autistic ppl cant reclaim the r slur anyhow because it doesn't take away their rights #like it might for sumone w down syndrome #but also nicholas's jewish comments ?? #anyways prob delete later im aware how goofy this rant is #mostly just for the involvement of dream i probly cudve figured out away to make my same points without tying it back to stupid drama