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meancatboy · 1 year

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Penetration is a gender-neutral act. Topping is gender-neutral. Bottoming is gender-neutral. You are not more or less of a man or a woman depending on how you fuck. You are not “fake trans” for having sex a certain way. You are not any less masculine for bottoming or any less feminine for topping.

#my posts #yea i’m aware that topping/bottoming can be gender affirming #but that is within a certain frame #it is gender-affirming because in that moment between those people it is gender affirming #topping and bottoming are not inherently gendered #and ascribing traditionally feminine values to bottoms is weird #as is ascribing traditionally masculine values to all tops

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spiteful-lvsts · 7 months

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< Imagine... >

>> Being a stay at home spouse for your darling husband. Sure it’s not the life you imagined, but you’re happy nonetheless. Besides, it’s quite nice to see him light up whenever you visit their work for lunch.

Still, it’s hard not to worry when your lover comes home, all exhausted and worried. Even if some of it bleeds away from your soothing touches. This just won’t do at all!

So it’s not a big stretch to say that you two arrange a more... different kind of relaxation together.

Nowadays, when your husband comes home, he doesn’t have to think about work at all. It’s become routine now, cooking his favorites. Soft touches exchanged at the table as you fed him bites of each other’s meals.

It’s all so, wonderfully domestic. Until the curtains are drawn, and you both retire to your shared bedroom. Eager for what was next.

Here, your beloved doesn’t have to think! All he needs to worry about is feeling good, and making you feel good. Babbling out the cutest pleas and whines of; “Mnh- please- harder!” and “Closecloseclose- love ple~ase!” As you rutted into him like a wild animal, fat cock carving him open until he fit you perfectly.

Orgasm after orgasm is wrung out of him, until he’s sobbing. And he’ll take more, even as his legs feel like nothing, even when he feels like he’s going to pass out. Because he’s just your darling pet! Your favorite, dumb slut. Made just to be yours, and you for him.

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<< { ♡ } >> ayato, pantalone, neuvillette, lucifer, diavolo, jing yuan, welt yang, gepard

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telumendils · 1 month

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ppl will really say shit like "astarion can't be attracted to women just look at the way he behaves" with their whole chest like they're not blatantly stereotyping gay men and erasing vast swathes of bisexual and pansexual men when they do that.

#remember when gay men were always feminine in media and we were rightfully annoyed by it????#bc gay men are not a monolith and being a gay man does not inherently mean one must adhere to certain affectations????#and we like knew it was shitty to assume a man was gay just bc he behaves in a way that's not traditionally masculine???????????#bring that energy back #bee.txt #baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #astarion ancunin #astarion #astarion bg3 #i love him for who he is aka a pansexual king #good DAY sir

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recoveringdoll · 4 months

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Wanting a man to provide for you doesn’t mean you’re incapable. Of course you’re capable. But it’s nice to have someone help you and take of you. That doesn’t mean you can’t do those things yourself. That just means someone loves you enough to make your life that bit easier <3

FUCK OFF IF YOUR BLOG IS 18+ I’M SICK OF IT

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blushcoloreddreams · 5 months

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9 ways to love

Listen without interrupting - Proverbs 18:13

Speak without accusing - James 1:19

Give without sparing - Proverbs 21:26

Pray without ceasing - Colossians 1:9

Answer without arguing - Proverbs 17:01

Promise without forgetting - proverbs 13:12

Enjoy without complaining - Philippians 2:14

Trust without wavering - Corinthians 13:7

Forgive without punishing - Colossians 3:13

#personal #catholic #catholiscism #love quotes #love #christian girl #christian faith #femininity #feminine #tradblr #tradwoman #trad wives #tradwife #traditional femininity #traditional gender roles #traditionalism #traditional family #personal development

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petr1kov · 5 months

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one piece fans' constant misgendering of yamato is so ridiculous. like, the most common argument against him being a man is that the sole reason why he identifies as male is because he kins oden super hard and wants to be him, which makes his gender identity entirely predicated on his attempt to emulate oden. that's a purposely obtuse reading of his character to me, but even if you completely buy that premise, it's like. okay? even if it were just because of oden, it wouldn't change the fact that he wants to be a man and is comfortable when he's treated as one. even his asshole villain father who HATES the guy yamato is so passionately kinning with all of his being has enough sense to recognize and respect that but some fans don't

#one piece #it's basically in a non issue on the series itself too so it's annoying how it became such a big deal on fandom #all because he is drawn with a traditionally feminine look and guys found him hot 😐

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homemakinghippie · 11 days

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50stradwife · 9 months

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oh, how I love being a woman 💕🧺

#christian living #tradblr #tradwife #traditional living #traditional wife #christian girl #traditional femininity #traditional gender roles #homesteading #traditionalism

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salamander-crimes · 11 months

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traditional 50's american dream housewife jane hurts my soul because that is so not who she is to me. jane wears jorts constantly in the game. jane would go on t and get excited when her mustache starts growing in. do you understand

#jane crocker #homestuck #this is mainly vagueing about her post canon #< who said that #actually that doesn't really make sense bc 'housewife' isn't exactly her aesthetic there #its more that sort of corporate but still very traditionally feminine #whatever u get it

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everlastinghistory · 4 months

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I honestly feel like I was made to be a housewife.

I want to wear cute aprons and bake cookies for someone I love. I want someone to dress up and do my makeup for. I want someone I can genuinely rely on to always be there for me. I want someone I can trust who loves me and knows I love them too. I want someone I can make cute things for if I ever learn any of the skills I wanna learn. I want someone who’s always there to encourage me and keep me safe. I want someone who knows they can rely on me to make their life at least a little bit easier. I want to take care of someone I love more than life itself.

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nightlyteaandpaper · 9 months

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Unseen Labor: Exploring the Undervalued Contributions in Feyre's Cabin

Feyre did not do all the work in that cabin, and I think it is dishonest to say she did. She did the physical labor, but that is not all there is to keep a household functioning. Feyre has told us she does not know how to cook, so who was cooking in that cabin? I know it wasn't her damn daddy.

Feyre has never mentioned cleaning ANYTHING in any of these books, so who cleaned the cabin? Who decorated the cabin? Who washed the clothes? Who mended the clothes? Who provided healthcare to the sick members of the family? Who taught basic life skills to the best of their ability?

No, Feyre doesn't see any of this stuff mentionable (therefore, the audience doesn't think about it) because SJM has some weird mid-late aughts hang-ups about what tasks are "traditionally feminine." She sees no value in these tasks, and she places no value on these tasks; thus, she never mentions them happening. But if the audience learned that while Feyre was hunting all day, Elain was cleaning the cabin, Feyre's sacrifice would not be seen as so great because our response would be, "Well, that is what a family does. The youngest just happens to be the best at hunting."

If the audience found out that while Feyre was hunting all day, Nesta was planning meals, cooking, mending clothes, and providing half-ass health assistance to their father, we would say, "well, it seems like everyone carried their weight." We will not see it as a huge sacrifice.

But no, SJM does not mention these things, despite them being very real objectives and responsibilities that come with taking care of a household.

#writing #books & libraries #sjm #sjm books #anti sjm #sjm critical #sarah j maas #acotar fandom #feyre archeron #feyre darling #feyre acotar #anti acotar #anti feyre #Traditionally feminine things are just not things to shy away from #nesta archeron #elain archeron #Their father was a whole asshole and I think we need to say that more often

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tradwifetradlife · 1 year

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Having a husband to make decisions is really a blessing for women ❤️ It takes such a huge burden off of our shoulders and is incredibly freeing! Making difficult choices can be stressful, whether or not the outcome will have much of an impact on anything, and having a man able to take care of it for you is such a relief 🥰❤️ Thank you men!!

#i am a very indecisive lady. ill worry over the smallest choices! i cant wait to have a husband to take care of me ❤️❤️#tradfem #tradwife #traditional femininity #traditionalism #traditional gender roles #tradlife #gender roles #tradblr #tradhusband

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tradwifesblog · 1 year

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Trad Husbands

Traditional Husbands also have a huge part to play in a traditional marriage, although it’s not acknowledged by many of traditional individuals. So here’s a small list of the traditional husbands duties :

Make your wife feel protected, whether she’s with you or not.

Do the heavy lifting and fixing jobs around the house for your wife.

Always greet your wife with a kiss

Set an example to your daughter/s what a boyfriend should be like, and your sons how they should treat women.

Always bring gifts back from long work trips to show your loyalty and appreciation.

Make sure to remind your wife that you love her by taking her on dates, saying “i love you” frequently and holding her when she needs it.

Cater to her emotional and physical needs, like she does for you.

Give her days or time off, especially during pregnancy, birthdays and holidays in general.

This relationship is a balance, she looks good for you so make sure you’re hygienic and groomed for her.

Assure her consistently that she and her kids are completely provided for and protected as long as you live.

Support her in everything she does.

Women are a lot more emotional then their male counterparts so approach arguments and conflicts with caution and care.

Make sure you understand her boundaries and what she considers wrong etc, otherwise you’ll run into many arguments ( and obviously abide by these boundaries ).

Never talk badly to others about your wife. Even to your own parents and children.

This list isn’t all the duties of a traditional working husband, just a small guide. Although men and women aren’t equals, within a relationship it’s a balance. We have to work toward that balance by showing we have equal yet opposing duties.

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christian-girl-blogger · 3 months

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There should be housewife school where they teach women how to cook, clean, sew, budget, garden, take care of children, etiquette, fitness, fashion, and beauty. Not all girls have mothers and grandmothers to teach them. 🥞🧸

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blushcoloreddreams · 4 months

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A masculine man is different than an abusive man

The abusive men is the one that uses his strength and resources for his own benefit and in detriment of others well being.

The masculine man is the one that knows he’s capable of using his strength in a selfish way but chooses to use his potency to benefit others even if he has something to loose with it

For example the owner of a company could worry only about profits but chooses to be at service for people for a greater purpose

For example a husband that instead of demeaning his wife to make himself feel more powerful chooses to offer his best to her

A masculine man understand that he leads when he has the trust of others not when he subjugates and threatens them

One thing is having control, another is having respect

The abusive man rules through fear, the masculine man rules through admiration

We sometimes hear people saying that traditional gender roles breeds abusive men but this can’t be further from the truth. The truly abusive man is the one who’s aggressive and impose his presence through fear is not a true representation of the “patriarchy” - that is a violent and uncontrolled man that doesn’t even deserve the presence of a woman in his life. A man that is violent with his family should and deserves to be in jail

Our civilization got to where it is being conducted by strong and mature men that took care of their women and took their kids to the world so their offspring could expand. This is the true “patriarchy” and there is nothing wrong with it.

It’s just a man fulfilling his duty… providing, protecting and leading his family.

That is the masculine man, a man that acts according to his essence

#personal #personal development #level up #femininity #feminine #traditional femininity #tradwoman #tradblr #tradfem #traditional gender roles #traditional family #traditional marriage #traditionalism #traditional masculinity #traditional men

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anathemafiction · 4 months

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I adore that you allow (the coolest person in-universe) Alessa to be girly and never portray that as neither a weakness of hers nor as a trait to disparage her with as the author. I looove her sm but I also love you for portraying your woman character that way. ❤️❤️

There's nothing weak about liking jewelry and elegant gowns. There's nothing wrong with wanting your hair brushed and underlining your eyes with dark paint. There's nothing to mock for appreciating beauty.

Alessa is one of the most ruthless characters I've ever written, pragmatic to the point of near-cruelty, and she also happens to enjoy feeling pretty. It's rare she ever gets the chance, but when she does, she seizes it. That's just Alessa.

#honestly I hate the whole “things traditionally associated with femininity are inferior and deserve to be mocked”#hate it hate it #Alessa #The Golden Rose

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