#that’s the best life advice I can give

[zivazivc]

the morning (afternoon?) after this messy stunt. Floyd got off too easy in my opinion, but it's hard for Les to stay mad at him when he makes those sad pouting faces... 🤦

If you think Floyd's being really dumb at the start of this comic before getting a reality check, you have to take into account that he's madly lovesick and was feeling very smug atm; he's also a 15yo pop troll who thinks making out with someone means they're together now; and he assumed Les's sour mood was entirely the result of a nasty hangover...

P.S. They forgot about Hed lol (I almost forgot about him too, drew him just before posting lmao)

#trolls #dreamworks trolls #trolls floyd #trolls oc #les #hed #ex bandmates #my art #pop trolls curse in their kid friendly lingo but rock trolls curse normal-style #it's just facts #i don't think les is being honest about how much what floyd pulled really upset him #he is a victim of much abuse growing up and some shit fucks him up more than the regular person #but he also knows floyd had no malicious intent and is just a kid #so he rather bottles it up to not upset both of them even more #amazing coping and communication skills this one 🤙 #he is trying his best tho #i can't tell if you guys can tell but he's basking in the sun in that one panel #trolls comic #this was a really fun way to explore les's character and their dynamic #also les and hed's dynamic #trigger warnings: #tw alcohol #tw smoking #les gives life advice then offers cigarettes uwu #also you know this dude's hair smells horrible if he stores cigarettes and koosh in there ksjfbsdkc

[uncanny-tranny]

Over the years, I've gotten a lot of cis people messaging me about how they should go about dating or courting somebody who's trans, and I always felt like my responses would almost... disappoint them because there isn't this magic secret to dating us.

Cis people, if you want to date us, just date us. We're human beings, we're not wild animals to tame! I promise you can have a healthy relationship with a trans person without needing to feel like the world will end if you mess up.

Trans people who date cis people often want to feel secure in your acceptance of them. You don't have to talk about our transness for hours on end to prove that you accept your loved one. You don't have to put on a display and cabaret about how Much You Accept Us. Just be a person around us, and let us be people, too!

I almost want to disappoint cis people by reminding them of this. Some of the best relationships I've had with cis people have been ones where my transness is acknowledged, sure, but it's acknowledged in the same way that my left-handedness is. It's not a joke to them, it isn't something to be horrified about, but it's also something that they don't objectify me for.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #watching a video about this topic and it just reminded me of this #like there have been plenty of cis people who have come to me for advice and while i appreciate the thoughtfulness (don't get me wrong!)... #...part of me just feels like... they see trans people as needing to be Tamed in some way or Appeased... #...like they see us as people but it's more like they see us as Trans People and not... people... #...and maybe i'm looking too deep into it. maybe i'm jaded but that's sometimes how it can feel with some people... #...like my besties that i talk to fully accepted me... #...though it is funny when they forget i'm... not a trans woman or (with other friends) that i'm... not a cis man #(maybe i just give off ambiguous vibes irl and online because it's happened irl and with my online buddies) #adding once again: i don't think ALL cis people who ask this are doing so in bad faith #cis people i'm glad you are vulnerable about not being sure about how to go about transness... #...however i don't always think it's the best move to go to a stranger about your interest in a trans person in your life... #...simply because: 1. transness isn't a monolith and... #...2. it feels awkward because you aren't going to *them* to have this conversation that will ultimately affect *them*... #...because your relationship with a trans person will likely /not/ affect a trans stranger...

[ywpd-translations]

Ride 736: The night of the training camp

Pag 1

2: Who is it? Someone is there....

3: …. rain

At the training camp.....

4: An umbrella....

Pag 2

1: Yo, Onoda

3: …. Te

…. ah..... Te

Pag 3

1: Teshima-san!!

Have you been well?

It's been a while, we haven't seen each other since my graduation

Pag 4

1: Waa- Teshi- Teshima-san! Di you come here on puropose to see ho-how things are going!?

Have you- have you been woll too, Teshima-san!?

Yeah, as usual – woll? (haha)

2: So-sorry this is so sudden and I'm so surprised! Co-come in!!

You do seem very surprised

3: You can put your shoes here, and your umbrealla here

Yeah, I know. I've had the training camp here for three years, too, after all

4: Ahh... but, it started to rain so suddenly

Good thing I had a spare umbrella in the car

5: Sorry I came here so suddenly

Pag 5

1: I thought you guys would have “prepared” if I had contacted you beforehand

2: Training camp is busy, you can't waste even one minute of these four days. I know how busy you are

When a senpai comes in the middle of that, it makes you waste too much time

3: … Teshima-san

4: Bu.... but, it's not a waste

Uhm- ah- we really owe you so much, Teshima-san! 5: And alos, at last year's Inter High.... uhm

6: I think we could win thanks to you, Teshima-san!!

Pag 6

1: Thank you

When you say it with such earnest eyes, I'm happy to think you really mean it

2: No no, I mean, it's true!! On the mountain during the first day... and of course the mountain stage on the third day...

Ahh, I did win that

Yeah well, it's beacause of that....

3: Ah- uhm, dammit I forgot to offer you some tea.... is the tea from the vending machine okay?

Ehi ehi, it's okay. You choose

Huh!?

4: I came all the way here, let me be your senpai

Pag 7

2: Teshima.... san

3: Than-

4: yo-

Waa- Onoda!!

5: My- my bad

So- sorry, this kind of things....

You're really not good at them... I forgot....

Pag 8

1: I see, so Danchiku.... and Sugimoto, too....

2: Yes

3: Well, you have no choice but to watch over them

Yes

6: That's what I intend to do!!

Pag 9

1: You got the “face of a third year”, Onoda

You change like that, when others count on you as a “third year”, your face....

2: Taking good care of the others isn't the only role of a third year

Sometimes, turning them down, or turning your back to them is also important

Just like Makishima-san once did

3: with you

6: Even so, you chased Makishima-san's back and admired him

Pag 10

1: Kohai watch their senpai's back and grow!!

2: If you slack off, they slack off

3: If you work hard, they imitate you

Pag 11

1: If you smile, they smile

2: Who's that guy, teh

He's talking with senpai.... here in the back

How can I know!!

But, he's smirking and has long hair, he's suspicious

4: Earlier, you said that last year's Inter High was thanks to me- what about this year's Inter High?

Thanks to whom will they work hard this year?

6: You

Pag 12

1: This time, it's your turn to become the object of their admiration

Pag 13

1: Onoda

3: That's what brings Sohoku together!!

4: That guy his Onoda-san!!

Do you think we should go there and help him, teh!?

No, wait, now he's stroking his neck!?

5: Honestly, choosing the members is hard

You trouble yourself, pace around, and still you'll have no answer

Ah-

6: But the important thing isn't how it was decided but “who you decided”

Pag 14

1: If you find the answer to “who” after worrying about it a lot, everyone will accept it and move forward

2: …. Teshima-san....

3: Uhm... how did you know that that's what I was worrying about....

I'm the former captain, am I not? Also, it's written on your face

Ah-

4: He wants to strangle him ike that!? That guy with shaggy hair!!

Ahh- this is bad, teh, we have to protect Back-gate-slope-san!!

5: Let's go!! Don't hesitate, Rokudai!!

Yeah, teh....!!

6: Eh!?

Huh?

Pag 15

2: Huh!?

Senpai, let's get away

3: Who are you!? Back-gate-slope-sa.... What do you want to do to Onoda-san!!

Pag 16

5: In the confusion I called him by his real name, “Onoda-san”, teh!! Sorry!!

6: Unathorized people shouldn't be able to enter, it's reserved!!

Right!! Shaggy-hair!!

Rokudai-kun!? Kinaka-kun!?

7:  N-no, you two got it wrong-

8: Onoda....

Pag 17

1: You're really protecting your team members with all your strength

2: Eh-

3: Since you're protecting them, they're protecting you, too

4: What's your name

Yessir, my name is Rokudai Renta- no wait, that's not right!!

5: Huh

6: Since I'm protecting them.... with all my strength.....!!

Pag 18

2: Rokudai, if

Huh!? What

If you clear this training camp and get chosen as a member for the Inter High

Huh!?

3:  Protect Onoda like this with all your strength

Pag 19

1: Huh

…. yes

2: Idiot, Rokudai, don't let your guard down just because of those sweet words!!

Ah!! That's right, teh!!

I'll introduce you: this is Teshima Junta-san

You have some goos first years!

He graduated last year and is now an university student, but

3: He's the former Sohoku captain

4: Cap....

I was nominated captain by Teshima-san

5: ta....in?

Pag 20

1: We- we- we're so sorry!!

It's nothing

2: We did that, teh....!!

To- to such an important senpai!!

3: Ah.... uh... thank you for your work!! What brings such an important senpai like you here?

He came to encourage us

4: Ah also, I brought

6: some new pedals for Onoda!!

#yowamushi pedal #yowapeda #yowamushi pedal manga #yowapeda manga #yowamushi pedal spoilers #yowamushi pedal translations #ride 736 #THIS IS THE BEST CHAPTER EVER OH MY GOD ASDSDHFJKADSGJDGF #I'M!!!! ASDDFHSDGFK I SWEAR IVE BEEN YELLING SINCE YESTERDAY WHEN I FIRST READ IT #THANK YOU WATANABE FOR MY LIFE AND MY HAPPINESS #first: Junta my boy my love IVE MISSED HIM SO MUCH i needed him back so bad and this chapter healed me okay #the way he says right away something that diminishes his important and onoda is ready to tell him that NO YOURE IMPORTANT ITS #ITS NOT A WASTE OF TIME DEDICATING TIME TO YOU WE LOVE YOU TESHIMA-SAN YOURE AMAZING #yes onoda you tell him #i love how junta appears just right when onoda needs him and i love that we finally have junta giving him advice as captain #and the whole talk he gives onoda is so :') #i love the kind of team sohoku is #the whole ' you have to turn your back to your kohai sometimes so they can follow your back' is so ;^; #junta my wise boy #and then AND THEN #KINAKA AND ROKUDAI MY DUMB IDIOT SPECIAL BABIES DSAGHFKHGasf #how is it that the first thing they think about is that junta wants to harm onoda saAFSDAFSD like WHY #they're so RIDICULOUS #the way the jump up and rokudai puts himself between onoda and junta #and theyre both ready to fight for onoda #PLEASE THAT THE MOST WHOLESOME THING EVER AND ALSO THE MOST RIDICULOUS I LOVE THEM SO MUCH #onoda is so mortified lmap #and junta is just like 'yeah clearly youre doing well they love you and would die for you'LMAO #also at this point roku-chan IH member confirmed #(i mean it was obvious already for me but at this point is sure af)

[brittlebutch]

honestly Adaine is so good at clarifying/directing Ayda socially that it begins to circle back to a dynamic of like, Ayda saying "i don't know or understand these rules" and Adaine responding "have no fear, I've been carefully studying and manually interfacing with these for years, I will explain:" in a way that to me is so autism4autism

#N posts stuff #like Ayda feels like someone who has spent most of her life alone / with adults and so lacks any context at all for socializing with Peers #she's good at Information (bc she's a librarian) and communicating Facts (bc likely most of her socializing has been helping #with research in one way or another on Leviathan) BUT she struggles a lot more with like #friendly gossip and flirting and boundaries <- because she's never interfaced much with people her own age so it's like being lost at sea #BUT Adaine to me at a certain point Stops reading to me as 'Neurotypical who intuits the rules and is just good at explaining them' #and becomes 'autistic with a special interest in social rules/dynamics' and it's less 'i grew up speaking this language natively' #and WAY MORE 'i've been studying this language intentionally for many years so I can help clarify and give you advice' #and i Love That for them I love when they're talking in Hellbound and Adaine is like 'oh lovely! do you have notes on this social phenom?' #because she's 100% canonically the autistic person who is taking notes on social cues (outright in Daddies&Demons) and is like #'Excellent. Surely with these I am going to get a good grade in Social Conversation.' #Autism win! You and the Librarian on a pirate ship have become Best Friends who think each other are SO cool and lovely and kind <3 #d20lb #fhsy #d20: bad kids

[the-judicial-assistants-notebook]

could you imagine if the reason kristoph and dahlia parallel each other is because she was haunting him

#if mia can give phoenix advice from limbo then i think dahlia deserves more shots at trying to kill him #she sees this dumbass trying to fuck up phoenix's life and is just like. well. i could use that. #dahlia hawthorne #kristoph gavin #she doesnt give a shit about him btw. she's fucking phoenix AND kristoph over in her best case scenario #ace attorney apollo justice #im so sleept if u couldnt tekl

[free-tarot-just-ask]

asks and dms open for personal readings and collective readings requests

#read the tags #!! #no need to follow/like/repost im here just to practice and do my best #you can ask any question and i will do my best to give you an answer regardless of the topic so don't feel nervous/embarrassed/worried #the only topics i won't ever accept are health related questions (just go to a doctor) and death predictions and financial advice #simply submit your question and/or the topic you'd like your reading to be about #you can add some personal details if you feel like it but i don't need to know your life story to give you a reading #if you request a collective reading i can tell you which pile is meant for you so it's like a slightly less personal personal reading #tarot #tarot reading #free tarot #free readings #free tarot readings

[licorishh]

Most people really don't seem to understand that friendship is a two-way street.

They expect you to wait on them hand and foot as they rant about and constantly pour on you either their issues or their passions and when you finally have something you'd like to talk about you get a "Man that sucks :/" or a "Cool" in return.

Find somebody who doesn't do that. Then you'll have your best friend.

#i know i ramble sometimes and i'm extremely grateful that my best friend puts up with it :') #but see then in return i do the same for her because it would be completely unfair for me to expect her to act like a wall for me to talk a #or when i wanna show her something and i can tell she's being polite and it doesn't personally strike her fancy I MOVE ON #and she does the same for me and we have way frickin better communication and we have a frickin rad friendship #it's give and take #and also can we bring back the idea of being able to work through some things on your own? #like i am ALL FOR having a support system that can encourage you when things go wrong but some things can be solved on your own #i shouldn't be bearing the burden of figuring out your life for you you know? #i'm absolutely willing to help but if you're just going to spend all your time complaining to me and never ever take my advice #then there comes a point at which i'm literally just acting as your therapist and that's not how friendships are supposed to work #i've become kind of the designated therapist in a lot of friendships throughout my life #and it is exhausting constantly being complained at (sometimes over very minor things) #only to have that person or people COMPLETELY ignore your advice every single time you try to give it #that's not friendship my dude that's using me because you just want someone to complain to #like i said. support system good. treating your friend like an emotional punching bag to let out your problems 24/7 very very bad. #like when i was feeling completely unlike myself and irritated and frustrated for three dang years straight #i didn't really talk about it much because i knew it wasn't the kind of thing advice was going to fix #so i wasn't in the discord servers every two seconds “MAN I REALLY JUST DON'T FEEL GOOD :///” #because when other people do this to me there comes a point at which i'm like “WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO ABOUT IT” #like i've given you all the advice i have and you have taken absolutely none of it nor have you taken any action on your own #so now i'm just here to make you feel better about yourself and that's really not my job #emotional support is necessary. patting you on the head when you refuse to do anything to better your situation is not. #tl;dr people who refuse to do anything to better their situation other than complain to ME about it 24/7 drive me nuts #and it drives other people nuts so please don't do it to anyone #don't bottle up your emotions but also don't let them come crashing down and drown everyone you know #just because you can't be bothered to put ANY effort forth to contain them #emotional regulation is attractive~~~ #society today has built such a culture of “it's not YOUR fault and if you cry about it hard enough someone will fix it for you” like no sir #sometimes it IS your fault and sometimes you DO need to take responsibility #and if it is your fault then absolutely no one but you is obligated to fix it

[maehemthemisfit]

mae my favourite person on this whole planet who should have definitely burnt the house down by now !! aaah sometimes i don’t even know where to start? you’ve done a lot for me recently even if you didn’t intend to. i was going through such a rough patch and i was losing all my strength and wasn’t sure if i wanted to keep going. you was one of the very few people who actually checked in on me and showed concern. you listened to me and then proceeded to let me fangirl about the auroras and even after that conversation i cried happy tears because it felt so good to have someone listen to me the way you did - so thank you, especially for checking on me. i think if you hadn’t things would be very different right now.

and also my favourite detective from the dango anon evidence board !! you are so unbelievably funny and smart, i’m also head over heels for your writing, whenever i see it on my dash i just want to eat and consume it <3 you made me feel seen regarding a previous situation when i thought that i would look like a bitch when i confided in you about it and if it wasn’t for you and aly i think i’d still be in that situation today and making myself miserable.

i hope you had a fantastic birthday, little sis but your house does terrify me - 💙

STORMIKFRDMME OFFICALLY CRYING RN JMDNMRUJ YALL I- THIS- EURUFRJDEKM I just wanna hug alll of you and never let go

EUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

#no like m actually sobbing #HAPPY TEARS #HOUSE: BURNT HOTEL: TRIVAGO #you can always reach out to me without the fear of being judged or invalidated #whether if you want advice or just want someone to listen i will be here and help you to the best of my ability #and if you don't have the strenght to reach out ill reach out for you. all you have to do is grab my hand #im glad you felt better after talking- honestly i was scared i wasn't helping at all #but reading this really put my heart at ease #ALSO THE DANGO ANON CASE WAS SO FUN #I woke up early just to solve it 🤭 #having everyone work together and point fingers and and!! #it really help me grow comfortable with everyone there #and i gained a lot of friends from it too <3 you being the first to give me that warm welcome #thank you again for the birthday wishes and i hope things has been getting better for you 💖💖💖 love you #its literally so late for you and you're writing me these heart clenching messages ahhhhhsahs #hugging you hugging you #my arms hurt from typing ahhh #this just djuyerhhd #gives me life #im glad my friendship has done so much for people- even if we're all far apart

[francisforever2014]

“it’s so cool that an electrician can install wires but a construction worker can only build a frame”

#ik it’s a joke and the true loves kiss thing is funny. BUT lemme be pedantic for a sec and say #that this dichotomy of ‘person that can give pills' as a neutral/positive thing vs #person than can 'ONLY' give what is assumed to be useless/frivolous 'advice' is such a microcosm of why online discourse on this subject is #ridiculous and reductive at best but harmful at worst #and this is not me defending psychology btw like it is an incredibly problematic field that has hurt many people and continues to do so #which is why i stopped studying it bc i couldn't reconcile all that #but the idea of psychiatry as a like... more pure/effective alternative to that is so???? #like first of all they're fully different specialties which is what first annoyed me like they're literally just not the same field so ofc #they do different things... that's how specialization works... #but it's a joke so sure #but going further than that i think that reducing psychiatry to 'giving pills' as if that's a better solution than 'true loves kiss' #(aka cognitive behavior therapy i'm assuming aka coping mechanisms and plans to change your life/cope with what you can't change) #is like i said very reductive bc psychiatry is (similarly to psych) a field with deeply problematic origins and uses to this day #and medical determinism and the idea of all 'hard science' fields being neutral and without fault bc they're 'science' where psych and othe #'soft sciences' are flawed is a very harmful idea bc it lets hard science off the hook for all of the ways it is flawed and just as #subjective and vulnerable to cultural influences as psych #BUT this is silly . bc it's a tweet #it's just such a common idea and thing seen within most discussions about psych where this dichotomy is created and people speak about #'pills' and 'chemical imbalances' and 'serotonin' or WHATEVER as if they're inherent truths #the same way people speak about mental illness as an inherent truth #bc of this 'hard science' 'soft science' dichotomy that has been adopted into popular culture #even though it's a fallacy! #and a harmful one but again this is just a silly tweet so it's not that serious but the larger discourse is and i cannot STANDDDD it

[little-klng]

landlords are parasites but i think nothing convinces me of that more than the sheer number of times my landlords have asked me, often repeatedly/every time i see them, to come over and spend hours in their house doing their housework for them, and either guilt trip me the entire time im saying no, or straight up threaten my shelter security for saying no. like i dont think ive ever had a landlord that didnt at least try a couple times to force me to do free housework for them

#and when i say free i mean without a rent discount or any payment #i had a landlord that had my mom doing thousands of dollars worth of housemaid work every month in lieu of. like $1200 monthly rent #and this landlord was supposedly my moms best friend at the time #she even got greedy about moms days off from said housework more than once #and ive definitely had landlords that we HAD to do housework for or else they would just tell us they'd kick us out immediately for it #in situations where we really couldnt fight them on it #my current landlord does it every single time i go pay rent. where she sob stories at me about how doing housework is so hard and #'if you're not busy i can find work for you :)' #right in between me saying hey! im currently busy with my own housework all the time. die. #anyway piece of advice for new renters trying to move out of their parents house or something from someone whos had like a dozen different #landlords or more over the last several years #do not EVER give your landlord an inch to steal your time #they WILL take a mile and threaten you when you suddenly want your life and days off back #like every god damn time #you do not owe your landlord anything but rent money and lease compliance #if they want you to do work it BETTER come with fair payment or rent reductions

[jeoseungsaja]

word of advice, hyuk! you should take your shirt off around patrick more often- it really gets his heart pumping if you know what i mean 😊 ( i have a job so that it keeps me from embarrassing hyurick on the daily JFKSLDJFKLSDJ but also feel free to skip this if it doesn't sit right with you alex!! )

@ofgentleresolve ♚ from x.

♔ ———–​

    Advice shared catches him off-guard. Here he is, thinking that guidance was going to be about the usual: ‘you should smile more’, ‘you should take a break’, ‘you should wear colorful clothes sometime, you’ll look less gloomy’, ‘you should wipe that scowl off your face, at least for a few minutes’ --- the list goes on and on; suggestions he never follows just because others say so. But no, this isn’t about the sourness of his face or the choices he makes in clothes; this isn’t about his attitude or restlessness. This is about...Patrick? 

    “What?” 

    He heard them, alright. He’s just delaying his answer by vaguely acting like he didn’t catch the whole swing. It’s a good thing he hadn’t taken a sip of his sweet iced Americano yet, otherwise he would’ve been coughing and spluttering all over the place. 

    Taking his shirt off. Why? Patrick has seen him like that before, hasn’t he? More than once, since that’s the way Hyuk sleeps: shirtless. Actually, the last time his dear friend saw him without clothes on his torso was when he ----- wait a minute. 

    When Patrick stayed for a week for work purposes.     When he choked on his tea and kept looking down.     When Hyuk...kissed him on the cheek. 

    Was that the reason why Patrick initially refused to look at him? The reason behind warm cheeks and stutter; bashfulness and the need for him to run and attempt to make breakfast? Because Hyuk didn’t have any clothes on from the waist up? 

      He unconsciously begins to gnaw on his bottom lip.        ‘It really gets his heart pumping, if you know what I mean’.       Does that mean Patrick likes...what rests under his shirt?        The way he’s built? Is he attracted to this?        If so, does Patrick know Hyuk’s attracted to him, too?        Maybe he’s been able to tell --- his best friend’s undeniably observant.

      The detective’s starting to remember the moment he accidentally hit his head when rearranging his brushes; how his heart started beating wildly against his chest just by looking at Patrick unfolding and buttoning his sleeves. Moves that used to be nothing now are more than something. He remembers, too, how Patrick’s hand smoothly caught his own; how he squeezed and wouldn’t let it go (thankfully, because he adores feeling his touch, no matter where it might land). 

     Eyes blankly stare at the swirls of cream that are still waiting to disappear under layers of coffee. What if this was revealed during that time? Confessed, that Patrick likes the sight of him shirtless? That the view gets his heart pumping? What if instead of keeping his hand there, hovering on air, he used it to lead Patrick’s palm under his shirt? So he could know what patterns Patrick would draw on his skin, so he could feel his caress --- would it be as careful and gentle as it usually is, or---

      Oh, God. Cheeks threaten to get warm; he starts to feel a little hot under that turtleneck and jacket of his. He shouldn’t think about this at all; Hyuk wanting to scold his own head for being this audacious with its thoughts. Besides, it’s not like...it could ever happen. Why would it? It’s too bold of a notion, isn’t it? Even if it’s somewhat noticeable that something else seems to be stirring besides their long-lasting friendship, he just...well, he doesn’t want to jump into swift conclusions or assume.

     He snaps out of it.      Or tries to. 

   “What is that kind of advice, huh? Why would he---how do you even know this?” 

   Now he has the sudden urge to add more ice cubes to his coffee. 

    “Word of advice for you: mind your own business, leave me alone--” 

  It’s all he can muster, before bringing the cold drink to his lips and drinking most of it in one sitting.

———– ♔

#ofgentleresolve #♔ || answered. #♔ || answers. #♔ || the puzzle of our friendship is the most comforting (patrick). #the man was too stunned to use full bitterness against you IWUEDHKDEHIUEDHASKHDUWIEHD #ALSO HYUK MY SON WHAT ARE THOSE THOUGHTS I'M (WHEEZE) #Hyuk having the hots and getting embarrassed I--EWIUDHWIEUDH #but not him saving this word of advice in the corners of his head #y'know as the good detective Hyuk is --- perhaps he should test this theory and see if it's true #Because the last time it happened Hyuk thought Patrick was just getting sick when he sensed warmth on his skin LMAO #BUT FERRE!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SENDING THIS IN ;WWW; #I HOPE THE REPLY'S OKAY?? BUT IF IT CAUSES DISCOMFORT OR SOMETHING ABSOLUTELY LET ME KNOW AND I CAN MAKE ALL THE CHANGES NEEDED!!! #EMBARRASSED!HYURICK GIVES ME LIFE 😂 #But also not them having those 'it's not like it'll happen' moments/thoughts IWHDIWUEHD PLS---pining at its best IWHEDIUWHED #I'm also chuckling at how...Hyuk could've just... #shut the whole thing down #considering how he tends to be--- #but instead he kept thinking about it IUWHEDKASHDWUIEDHUIEHD #THANK YOU AGAIN FOR SENDING THIS IN AND PLS HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY!!! CARE YOU HEAPS <3!!! #♔ || queue.

[immortalsins]

giving my little cousin uni tips like how to save money on food and whether an ensuite is worth the price etc etc but realising too late that she’s rich as hell and has no need to consider these things

#she's the only child of my dad's sister who married a man through a rich man dating agency #my dad's family was not well off and i really can't blame her #for giving her child the best possible life #after what she had growing up #but now my cousin is a proper private school girl with not a monetary care in the world and asking me for university help #as if our situations can be compared #and the things that matter to me will matter to her. #also- i didn't see her for 8 years #until my grandmother's funeral a year ago #we don't talk frequently #i can't say 'youve got a rich dad so do you actually want this kind of advice' #because i barely know her #i'm going to do my mechanics work now shdvchjg #that's easier than whatsapping my cousin #ramblings

[radmista]

I need white people to shut the fuck forever about how scars form and heal, and how they "aren't that bad looking" when talking to dark skinned people

Yeah a white scar doesn't look that bad or obvious on your white ass skin, but when I'm multiple shades darker than you a bold white scar IS PRETTY FUCKING OBVIOUS

#supremely pissed at the advice I've been given by my white friends #i was treating my wound to the best of my knowledge to ensure i had minimal scaring (bc its in an area i want tattooed in the future) #and then they go and give me advice and are like and even if it scars it should be fine it'll fade and then you wont notice it! #like no you dipshits. it fades on YOUR skin because you're white and a white scar eventually bleeds into the background of your skin #since i started following their advice you can see an obvious demarcation in my wound healing from thin minimal dark scar to now a wider #white and stretched scar #im so unbelievably angry rn that i let them convince me otherwise #i dont mind having scars this isn't a beauty thing. its a practical thing. yeah ik you can get tattoos over scars if you pay good money #but shocker i didnt want to have to pay more money than I would have had my cut healed properly #like man oh man you'd think id know how deep wounds heal on dark skin after having it all my life and seeing how my parents wounds healed #also you can lighten dark marks on skin like scars or those fade on my skin. giant white scar tissue doesnt darken to match my skin #so believe it or not i planned and thought about this in depth. im just so angry i let them change my mind and now theres nothing i can do

[toyfrogs]

help 😀

#I feel like I managed to accustom my friends when it comes to my mum’s weird restrictions and reactions because I tell them pretty much #everything that happens in our relationship and usually ask them for advice #but the one thing that frustrates me is that my boyfriend has no idea how bad things are and thankfully doesn’t understand what it’s like to #have a parent that controls the way you dress/wear your makeup and hair and dictates what you’re supposed to do for a living because they #want you to have a comfortable life and not go through extreme poverty like they did (I know her intentions are the best but she just #doesn’t know how to act in a way that I can comprehend fully…I love her with all my heart and it would literally kill me to have to cut ties #and I’m currently freaking out because I still haven’t told her I’m dating someone who’s not the ideal type she thinks would be a good fit #for me and it’s destroying me because I’ve never felt this good and have never been treated with so much care and respect and I’ve never had #so much reassurance that I’m loved and this relationship is just something I’m not willing to give up on or have it be taken away from me #but at the same time I NEED to tell her because how am I supposed to keep lying about which friends I’m going out with and not be able to #freely spend quality time with the person I love without stressing about time and being scared she’s gonna call or ask for pictures or #I’m planning on telling her but I’m SO terrified to lose him and also scared he’s gonna make my life a living heel and think I’m lying #about every little thing I do in the future and stop me from seeing him or having a phone or idk???? #things are way too unpredictable in this house and have always been and I HATE that

[lvllns]

there’s something very comforting in going from talking on skype until three in the morning almost every day to reaching out once every few months and yet. it feels like nothing has changed.

#reed.txt #i feel like we could catch right up where we left off and it'd be fine #one of my best friends in the world who i've never even met in person and it's been like. thirteen years. #i dunno it's just like. people exist outside of you. #shit happens and sometimes people you thought were going to be a daily staple become. not that. #you can keep in touch and talk and update each other and it's. i dunno. sometimes people are meant to leave #and open that space for someone else who fits better. who. who settles you and makes you feel comfortable and at ease. #it's just. the knowledge that things change but the cores of humans remain (mostly) the same #i know if i asked her for advice she'd happily give it (because i did this a couple months ago) #and she sends me horse things saying 'this made me think of you' and i don't know!! #everything is okay!!! everything is going to be okay!!! that's the WHOLE POINT #the sun rises and sets and the earth spins and it will be cloudy and rain but there will be sunshine and clear skies #and there will be nights so ink black you can't see and they feel suffocating #and there will be nights so lit up by the moon and stars you have to shield your eyes #some people are meant to be cyclical in your life #they are meant to ebb and flow like tides #and sometimes if you're lucky you find a person or maybe a few #who become a forest of trees #stalwart and tall and you can sink to your knees and know that they will remain #you have people that shift and warp and people that never once flicker #i dunno i dunno i'm spewing out words but i just. not everyone you meet is going to be a constant is the poinst #*point #but when you find someone who is a tree or a lighthouse or. or. #or someone who makes you feel so SAFE you can't take it you have to keep them close #the amount of people i've met and been 'i want you in my life forever' is very few. my forest is small. but it is made up of people #who bring me so much inner peace and who i love so very much

[saintedbythestorm]

Love reading my medical journal and seeing all the lies in there ❤️

#no miss dentist you did not ask me any of those health questions nor did you give me any advice what so ever wtf is this #the best one is the doctor that was supposed to do a bloodtest for another doctor but somehow couldn't keep my story straight for the life #of her #somehow a school worker had asked for that bloodtest... riiiight that sounds totally correct. 🙄 #and without even having my full list of symptoms or any real consulting with me slapped a diagnosis on me anyway. #or the suspiciously missing years of trying to figure out my period pains... you know the endometriosis?? #no sign of all the pills they tested on me and didn't tell me the risks of. mhm wonder why those are missing... #one of them had a high risk of heart disease so that's fun. made huge news back in the day. shit didn't even help me. #but i can see medical records from ages ago and dentist stuff from 2003... k.. #i hate the medical system so fucking much 🙃 honestly the trust is so fucking low I'm highfiving satan at this point. #ranting in the tags cause this bitch be feeling defeated rn ok. #and i have to deal with these bitches again for a medicine renewal... #soon I'll just deal with the 2 hour trip to the big hospital instead... at least they've always been good when I've been there. #i mean... they be the ones who figured out my endometriosis in 15 minutes ffs. #and who helped me - no bullshit - when renewing or changing doses etc. #rant #ryder speaking