#thatidiot rants

[itsthatoneidiot]

My uncle being a better ally than my mom rn lol

He was talking abt in the future if i have a boyfriend, then corrected it to partner, to find someone who liked watching me play ukulele

My mom was weird abt it when she asked if a friend I had over is my girlfriend by saying "So [friends name], is she..."

And honestly im living for it

My mom also dismisses my gender identity whereas my uncle said something along the lines of "If anything changes let me know, I don't want to say something that hurts or offends you. I wanna be square with you."

Even though, we don't live under the same roof and I only see him once a week I talk to him more than I talk to my dad and he feels like more of a parent to me than my mom.

He doesn't have to say the words "I love you" to make me feel loved. It's in the way he's patient, doesn't talk down to me, treats me like an equal, asks about how I've been and seems genuinely interested in my interests.

Whenever I see one of those 'you're trapped in an elevator with x amount of adult men, you feel completely safe who are they' the first person I always say is my uncle.

I'm sobbing while writing this because god damn i need a family therapy session

#cool uncle #im lucky #thatidiot rants #i need therapy #im sobbing #im actually in tears #they had the same parents #they are siblings #and the one i barely see i feel loved by #truly and genuinely loved by #i need to go back to therapy #queer #nonbinary #gay

[itsthatoneidiot]

sometimes i say things that i shouldnt have to say because im "not forgetting you (i) just dont care" (my mom at some point when i was in middle school)

Examples include:

I should eat something now so i dont remember when its 10pm

I need to use the bathroom before i forget

When was the last time i showered

When was the last time i drank water

If i hold the thing i wont forget to give it to [name]

*checks phone* *puts phone away* wait what time is it

If i dont do my laundry now im gonna end up in dirty clothes

*checks time, its 8:30pm* shit my laundry

the list goes on

#thatidiot rambles #hate my mom #shes mean #i dont like her #not always #sometimes shes nice but that doesnt excuse her unchecked racism and transphobia #thatidiot rants

[itsthatoneidiot]

My friends sigh as they hear "mom" and "transphobic" in the same sentence

alternatively

My friends sigh as they hear "mom" and "racist" in the same sentence

alternatively alternatively

My friends sigh as they hear "mom" "transphobic" and "racist" in the same sentence

#fuck this #thatidiot rants #shes the worst sometimes

[itsthatoneidiot]

Reasons why we will probably never have a live action Hunchback of Notre Dame (spoiler alert im pissed off)

tw for a lot lot lot of death related things

drowning, murder, fire and uh i mention racism a couple of times (3-5 i think), also hinting at the sexualization of women

im adding why the G word is wrong here its also further in the post however fore warning for a lot more violence towards women is mentioned and talked about

if any of thats not your cup of tea thats why the keep reading it here

Cathedral's gone

They would have to call Esmeralda and her people Romani or Roma (correct me if that's wrong please) and not a slur, not that thats a bad thing, it was discomforting for me as a small white child who didnt know better to listen to that, i cant imagine how it affected Romani people

(It was at this point in the writing of this post that connor was looking for reasons that a live version of this movie shouldnt be made that it came to their attention that disney insider made an article 2 fucking years ago teasing the development of a live action adaptation and there has in fact been an update and connor got pissed off because in the entirety of the article it wasnt stated that its wrong to use the word they used, the movie is still in development apparently, (Side Note: found an article abt why people shouldnt use it here ) there isnt promotional material for this yet and theres not even a cast yet, im pissed abt the movie)

the entirety of the festival of fools, specifically "look at this disgusting display" "YES SIR" and when they tied quasimodo down to throw shit at him

the crypt scene(so, so many skulls)

the entirety of the hellfire song(shut up you horny asshole)

racism

burning at the stake

molten gold poured straight onto frollo (he deserved it)

at least one catholic woman is gonna flip her lid (itd be kinda funny tho)

eyes(or bells) of notre dame scene right at the beginning where frollo almost drowns a baby in a well

gallows, several times

almost burned an entire family including a baby alive

did i mention deep deep rooted racism?

the only good thing i can think of coming out of this movie is another 'look past appearances' thing and its overused as hell

#hunchback of notre dame #i dont want this #thatidiot rambles #if i said something wrong correct me #tw death #tw death mention #tw fire #tw violence #tw drowning #thatidiot rants #i dont like this #i read this like 4 times trying to make sure i was clear #and not an asshole