#the audacity of some men

[hotsugarbyglassanimals]

couple years ago some straight guy tried convincing me Im Actually Bisexual cause some lesbian who was having relationship problems fucked him and he wanted more of that I guess . and its like dude, youre messing with the entirely wrong type of dyke . i cant change sexualities just cause you wanna fuck me LOL . as if I wanted to dump my hot and beautiful gf over some guy wearing a hoodie and sweatpants

#im fairly certain the gal he fucked was self harming through that #dude had no class whatsoever #i wish i had more confidence to be a meanass dyke back then #im way too polite to a fault #anyway he would not last a day with me #lotta cishet dudes would not wanna get fucked in the ass LOL #not saying other lesbians would be swayed by that shit but its like . you want to try fucking the stone top? really ? #the audacity of some men #well at least he knew what lesbian means LOL

[iminkandpaper]

Random biology fact: men have this overproductive gland located between the pancreas and the ileum where they produce and store their audacity

#biology #.ranting like a madwoman #the audacity of some men #satire

[deityofhearts]

cheerleaders 🤝 equestrians (but specifically horse girls): your sport not being taken seriously by other people and being treated like a joke

#deity dialogue #when I was in middle school my computer teacher was also a football coach and would have ‘banter’ with the cheer coach (who was also an #assistant teacher for my math class btw she was so sweet she helped me a lot in class and also made me a bow which was stolen from me :( ) #about how ‘football was a real sport and cheerleading wasn’t’ LIKE ARE YOU KIDDING ME #jsut because cheerleaders look cute and are peppy and more often than not girls and women you don’t take anything they do seriously #do you understand the strength and agility and flexibility needed to be a cheerleader do you see the shit they’re doing and you have the #gall not to respect what they do as a sport??? i wasn’t a cheerleader but a few of my friends were and I respect them so much that shit must #have taken so much of everything #obvs I’m not covering the full scale of what it takes to be a cheerleader cause again I wasn’t one but like I’m so pissed whenever people #have the audacity to act like it’s not a serious sport and I’m mad at the same for equestrians as well. #Also generally I hate people who think cheerleaders are inherently awful and bitches like y’all shouldn’t generalize just because some #people in a group are mean or popularly portrayed as mean doesn’t mean it’s true my friends from school were sweet to literally everyone so #can it. this isn’t me like dismissing anyone who’s been bullied by anyone but don’t like assume everyone is terrible thanks bye #it’s the misogyny and we all know it :/ it affects men in the sports as well because if you’re a male cheerleader you’re treated badly and #it’s the misogyny and we all know it

[haruchuiyo]

hi y’all🥹

#feels like I do this shit #randomly pulling in and saying ‘hi y’all’ #anyways #I miss writing for my fictional men🥹 #been so preoccupied with other stuff then I had get into kpop (just one group) #and that’s like taken up so much #I got the audacity to write some scenarios for them but not my fictional men 😔 #DONT JUMP ME YET OKAY IM THINKING TO WRITE SOME SHORT DRABBLE HCS THING IDK #fluffy !!! like just fluff because I miss them 🥹 #saw a Gojo édit today and I felt like a wife clutching a picture of her husbands picture and said husband is in war #anyways what are y’all up to?🎸 #kei talking!

[navybrat817]

We'll call this a midweek check-in. You lovelies okay? You surviving? ❤️🔥❤️

#navybrat rambles #sebastian stan #chris evans #midweek check in #love you lovelies #i love them your honor #my ❤️ and my 😻 #how am i supposed to function? #the audacity of these men #send them to my room #sugar daddy vibes #i'll be a kept woman #😂🤣😂 #2022 is feeding us well #they have something they can feed me #are you reading my tags? #go drink some water #stay hydrated my friends

[kellerybird]

Dabbling with mods and I'm baffled at how many there are to make the characters look younger or remove face wrinkles/other "unsightly" features I am losing my absolute shit like stop it just stoppppppppp not everyone needs the smooth airbrushed face of a 20-something year old model fuck offfffffffffffff

"young astarion" "no wrinkles" "young astarion v2 mature" "young lae'zel" "young shadowheart" "gale no grey hairs" crying screaming throwing up biting maiming killing

I saw one mod that was like "removes abs" or something and makes everyone look soft and squishy and that was like the sole redemption for those kinds of mods not everyone need chiseled abs

#saw one that was “younger astarion” and he just looks like some generic isekai hero? it was discusting #giev me the wrinkly older men ffs y'all dont deserve them #how dare people live and grow older. the fucking audacity. #rink plays baldur's gate #almost typed 'shadowhore' im so fucking tired aaaaaah #just let them be crusty #with all the shit theyve gone through you really expect them to emerge unscated with flawless skin?????? #may delete this later im v tired and kinda incoherent weehh

[fayevalcntine]

Putting this on a separate note but the amount of discourse The Little Mermaid (2023) has gotten so far is ridiculous to me. I don't consider it an improvement or a replacement to the original (mainly because the original is WHY this movie exists, and I don't think the intent is to replace it either), but it's a solid enough film in the vein of Roger and Hammerstein's Cinderella where I could definitely see kids and teenagers (even young adults) like it enough to revisit it. It's not a cinematic masterpiece, but why anyone expects that from Disney of all things, I'll never know.

But the obsessive amount of hate it's gotten from bizarro "anti-woke" youtubers is ridiculous, mostly because of the casting and now they're trying to use "Across The Spiderverse" as their way of 'fighting back' against Disney's "woke agenda" as if they aren't foaming in the mouth over Miles Morales being called Spider-man. Just an all-round insane sort of response to a film that for all it's supposedly big changes, is harmless overall.

#the little mermaid 2023 #the little mermaid #I don't think the changes are all bad btw; some I disagree with but it's generally fine? #it's really not worth *waves hands* all this #and sorry but adult men in their 30s/40s being gross towards Halle is ridiculous #all this hate and ridicule for a film whose original they likely never even watched or liked #I don't even stan actors but editing her face and throwing offenses at her at their grown ass age is insane #it's like a reviewer noted but this type of outrage being thrown at a kids movie from people who are way beyond the age range #for whom this movie is marketed for is bizarre #why are you doing all of this for a kids movie? #also not surprising to me that these are the same people who froth at the mouth any time Brie Larson has the 'audacity' to make a joke #just an obscene amount of hate; not even at this film existing much but more so at a black woman playing Ariel

[todayisafridaynight]

sorry ill admit it ryuji asking daigo out on a takoyaki date's still one of the funniest bits from rggo

#snap chats #LIKE ILL BE 100 I DONT FW RYUDA| AT ALL BUT GOD THATS STILL FUNNY #imagine hearin bout this bloke kickin all your boys' asses and once you meet him youre just like Heyyy.... Pretty Sick. So How Bout It-- #and bruv just looks at you like youre wicked as hell for even suggestin that ENOUGH #kick his ass and get him planted with a firearms charge smh the AUDACITY. of some men #dont go on a takoyaki date with them and now youre in prison for the next decade !!!!!!! #funny as hell that onea daigo's goons was gonna arm him but he was like Nah...... Nah That Aint It.... #one timeline or another bro gettin booked with a gun in his jacket thats so goofy #anyway. im gonna attempt to brighten my mood im tired of being downtrodden all weekBYE

[original-punks]

how to make me drier than the Sahara desert

#i'm super insecure #please reassure me my penis is big #fuck around n find out #biggest fucking ICK #the audacity of messaging and not following #no one wants this #you're lucky im kind enough to not name n shame #please cut this shit out @ anyone who tries from now on w/ me #WHO THINKS DANG IM WET AF HOW MANY INCHES #please it screams come stroke my EGO #this is that straight men shit #this is why women are better #id rather see some tits/ass

[ikyw-t]

y'know I think about this tweet often. I don't think truer words have ever been spoken....

#had a whole mini rant that i wrote and then deleted lol.......... #no one else may know his shitty he was but i will always know and i shall absolutely not forgive or forget #however i do still start seething on occasion when i remember that after we broke up for years i never thought of him at all #except when i pass his street on occasion bc he happens to live nearby which is very ughhh but it's mostly whatever #and then out of the blue in early 2021 he texted and CALLED me (i did not answer. what a fucking jumpscare jfc) #to tell me he had been stalking my spotify playlists and saving them and #even had the fuuuuucking audacity. to think they were a personal message in a bottle just for him. #we had not spoken in 3 years. can u imagine the absolute lack of fucking common sense or logic. the fucking audacity of men is unparalleled #and then i had nightmares and paranoia about him for the next like full year. like wtf. #also i think i said 2021 but actually that happened in 2022 so we actually hadn't spoken in four full years. #where on gods green earth woild he get the idea. that my public spotify playlist. #was dedicated to my terrible obsessive bully of a boyfriend from fucking high school. #i just can't even fucking fathom the mental gymnastics necessary. #anyway. i ended up ranting anyway #it just makes me so angry that i didnt think about him for years and then he so efficiently once again ruined my life #bc he had been incredibly obsessive and so I had reason to worry he might just show up at my house at some point. #i ended up ranting anyway. what can u do. #anyway. I hope he's having a terrible time. he deserves it.

[riotgrrrlhole]

One time a men told me he found Tomie Kawakami disgusting and he didn’t know the appeal to the character or why I considered it beautiful and you know what I did I tattooed myself more moles under my eyes

#idgaf what you find attractive babe #this is about me and how I like to look #the audacity some men have #tomie kawakami #need to retouch them #Junji ito #tomie junji ito

[musical-chick-13]

The THING is. When people (I am including myself in this) try to talk about how "Why is there overall less of an emphasis on women's stories and female characters and f/f shipping, especially when according to the stats we see being shared, fandom is significantly populated by queer women, hmm this seems a bit strange," there's ALMOST ALWAYS this assumption that it comes from a place of gender essentialism or purity culture or hating every single man for existing or something. ARE there some people who mean that? Yeah, there are going to be people like that in EVERY group of people who try to talk about anything. But when people complain about this, it's most generally because WE EXPERIENCE STRUCTURAL MISOGYNY IRL, AND NOW WE ARE EXPERIENCING THE SAME SOCIAL EFFECTS WITHIN SOMETHING THAT IS SUPPOSED TO BE "FUN." THAT IS THE PROBLEM.

And this goes for when people try to talk about racism in fandom spaces as well. And ableism. And transphobia. And any other form of prejudice you can think of. Is talking about this in one (1) context that is not directly political going to forever eliminate bigotry? No. Obviously not. But the thing about systemic bias and prejudice is that IT IS PRESENT AT EVERY LEVEL, EVEN THE "FUN" ONES.

#THERE IS NUANCE IN THIS CONVERSATION #fandom misogyny #misogyny in fandom #like...honestly I don't think the Main Problem re: ignoring stories about women or the women in stories is Fetshizing MLM™ actually. #I mean there's some of that that goes on. there's some of that that goes on in regard to characters of color or trans narratives or f/f #media too. there are people who dehumanize people through over-sexualization in EVERY context unfortunately. HOWEVER. I AM #wondering how much of that assumption comes from an attempt to explain the disparity between the focus on queer men #& queer women. personally I think a lot more of it is related to misogyny than we think it is but I'm not omniscient I'm just evaluating #things in accordance to dialogue I've observed and my own personal life experience which is ADMITTEDLY IMPERFECT AND INCOMPLETE #(you have NO IDEA how much shit I've gotten over the years simply for being a woman and no other reason.) #(and if it wasn't for being a woman it was for being disabled) #(and there's a particular intersection of THOSE things I feel like there could be more discussion about too) #and the thing about 'fandom isn't activism' is about how IT SHOULDN'T BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR REAL-WORLD EFFORTS. #it's about how YOU CANNOT ACTUALLY HARM FICTIONAL CHARACTERS BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT REAL. #it doesn't mean 'we never examine personal bias at all because this is a hobby'. I played soccer as a hobby once. I danced as a hobby once. #the sports and dance worlds are still affected by bias and prejudice and that should be discussed and evaluated accordingly #fandom is still MADE UP OF real people. and the people who create and/or act in the pieces of media that spawn fandoms #ARE ALSO real people. looking at the effects ON THOSE /REAL PEOPLE/ is still important in understanding structural prejudice and #oppression. (and...lbr. how many actresses and poc have gotten harassment and threats just for playing a character. for having the #audacity to exist in a popular piece of media as a woman or poc. because. the number is. distressingly high.) #(I myself have been the target of shitty forms of harassment just for DRESSING UP AS AN UNPOPULAR FEMALE CHARACTER AT A CONVENTION) #it might be one thing if all of this NEVER translated into how people viewed and affected real life people. if it ALWAYS stayed within the #context of playing around with fictional characters BUT IT RARELY DOES! IF EVER!!! #anyway I say nothing new but I saw something that made me angry. and until people Get It™ I am going to keep screaming about it #y'all knew what you signed up for :) #you know what I'm not even going to tag this with my general conversation tag for this phenomenon because I think people need to #see this occasionally

[depresseddepot]

the way i try so SO hard to gain even a crumb of body neutrality only to then see some shit on twitter that remind me that oh yeah. a distinct portion of the population genuinely believes they are being discriminated against when they have to look at or be within 50 feet of a fat person

#the amount of times ive heard my skinny friends call themselves fat and disgusting to my face without considering the implications #i saw some tweet that just like. had a fat person in the video and ALL of the responses were men making fun of her #like. yes i realize my life would be so much better if i was born with a faster metabolism. thank you for reminding me #yes i realize i am not treated seriously because i am fat #that sort of incredulous look skinny people give you when you have the audacity to sit near them on the bus or ask for directions #like they're shocked you weren't some round thing that was in their sights for 2 seconds to make fun but disappeared #i am trying very hard not to let it get to me but when so many people seem to think the same thing it feels stupid #likei know i dont see people the way allosexuals do but are fat people really so disgusting that they feel like they can say shit like that #its so so frustrating #if i am going to die alone because of my own failings i can learn to accept that #but if i die alone because i can't find anybody that doesn't think fat people are worthless then what is the fucking point lmao #''people irl dont actually think that'' i cant count on 1 hand the amount of skinny people who have lamented about their weight to my face #someone brings in cookies to work and as im eating one someone skinny says ''well. i really don't need the extra calories so ill pass'' #someone skinny checking out diet/exercise books because they ''REALLY have to lose some weight'' #no they aren't talking about me/to me but how detached from your surroundings do you have to be to shit on yourself for your weight #like. even if i was skinny they're still talking about how gross and ugly they are around kids #''love your body and your self!!!1!!1'' okay then stop calling yourself disgusting regardless of how much you weigh. #you can think if if you want but god that 12 year old girl in line behind you is going to remember that forever #she is going to internalize ''oh okay. thats what a disgusting body looks like'' #andthen she'll grow up and hate herself and continue the fucking cycle #just stop. stop talking about your weight around kids. i dont need 60 yo women telling me they're gross when they weigh maybe 150 lbs #i know this is super unhealthy but i literally cannot wait until i can move out and isolate myself from society #because every second i try to engage with it is literal torture #yall are so mean for no reason #i dont really have much to live for #but it would be helpful if skinny people didn't constantly reiterate that there's no point to living if you aren't skinny #im so tired #vent

[bandsanitizer]

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#alison speaks? #to be deleted probably #not to like be weird about things people are already pretty weird about #but like beyond the absolute turn of ‘aCTUALLY this dude we liked for the past six years was a VILLIAN in her story’ #it’s the fact that some people have an audacity to look at the relationship they were in for six years #and go ‘yknow what? it was all just so she could get here. it was all about the healing’ and granted yeah #good people can help you be better. a safe person and a safe place can allow yourself the time and safety it takes to grow and heal #but honest to goodness they did NOT commit to their six year long relationships and endure all their hardships #he did NOT support her during some of the worst moments in her career #just for y’all to reduce him to some stepping stone in her story #to view him as if the whole universe revolves around her like #like imo he deserved way fucking better #and honestly unless the relationship ended in a way that i really really really could not believe it did #it’s pretty fucking shitty that he had to put up with all the shit he got from the internet after the split went public #it’s pretty fucking shitty that y’all act like she can’t really do wrong in a relationship #that y’all STILL are unable to see it as anything other than sure humans make mistakes but men are absolutely terrible #like the need to analyze the fuck out of a song yall call deep and sad and so telling #that really just sounds like ‘why couldn’t you read my mind?’ makes me want to YELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL #anyways that’s enough and maybe the last thing i’ll say #bc honestly if the current relationship ends up not lasting (not that i wish that on them #don’t get me wrong) but like if it doesn’t? just wait for everyone to come up with all the reasons why #this guy who brought her back and made her so happy and blah blah blah was ACTUALLY? a shitty guy the whole time #okay yeah that’s all that’s it #i think the reason this makes me so angry is bc y’all would not tolerate this if the situations/reactions were reversed #and honestly the amount of disrespect for a relationship that did not go burning down in flames between two people together for six years #that shared a life and a home … to get this disrespect i just…. #i wish healing and happiness and growth for both of them #but damn

[huntingsys]

narrator seriously just fronted to make himself a cup of tea and then left again oh my god

#🍂h #didn’t even leave me any #the audacity of some old men #/affectionate #did #osdd #did osdd #osdd community #autistic system #did system #dissociative system #osdd alter #osdd system #dissociative identity disorder #osddid #traumagenic system #did alter #did community #osdid #system