i get so frustrated with ppl who wont just fucking help themselvessss. obviously theres a spectrum of pain and subsequent ability when it comes to mental illness but ive known so many people specifically gay people who let themselves live in squalor all while going to therapy taking medication and claiming to take care of themselves. thats the thing self care is NOT doing nothing, self care is actually doing the dishes sorry. its taking the trash out. calling the doctor and making an appointment. being an ADULT. i live with two people in their mid to late 20s who only do a chore once every few weeks and if i ever deign to bring it up i get either aggressive or apologetic responses about depression and struggle. as if im not constantly struggling. i force myself to do things bc they make me feel better… me and you are not all that different. ignoring your human life maintenance or outsourcing it to other ppl is the biggest form of self harm thats become normalized in certain communities
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i've been. exceptionally slow at working my way through Spring in Hieron, because i find i'm needing to focus a lot more on work projects than usual.... but the upside of that is that instead of getting emotionally sucker-punched by podcasts in my cubicle, i get to cry over podcasts in the kitchen while getting ready for work in the morning!
(anyway i finished SiH 5 today and was quietly devastated by the Hadrian-Samothes conversation at the end)
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everytime i see a good faggot post im immediately like "pleasegetto10kpleasegetto10kpleasegetto10k"
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Twitter has been on a mass suspension rampage and it keeps on surprising everyone with how godawful the management there had become
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Lily Orchard 🤝James Somerton
badly plagiarizing the most basic spaces possible in regards to revolutionary girl utena so they can mention it in shitty videos and pretend to be a decent source of knowledge on the show despite very obviously never having watched it and opting for said plagiarism instead
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imagine ghosting me. lmfao. like. ME. imagine having such a good thing right in front of you and deciding "not only do I never want to speak to them again, but I'm not even gonna tell them, I'm just gonna wait for them to figure it out." what a dumb move. I'm getting a banger album out of it. she could've had me and now she's getting nothing. play stupid games, win stupid prizes I guess.
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You ever vent to someone and they don’t respond and then as you start feeling better you feel really strong secondhand embarrassment for them?
Like oh no I hope they don’t feel bad for not responding/seeing it til now. Then I get really embarrassed that I have a vent to them that they might feel obligated to awkwardly respond to.
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