#the boy who was raised as a dog

[boernepedia]

»For years mental health professionals taught people that they could be psychologically healthy without social support, that ‘unless you love yourself, no one else will love you’ … The truth is, you cannot love yourself unless you have been loved and are loved. The capacity to love cannot be built in isolation.«

Bruce D. Perry, The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog, via this post.

#tatort münster #thiel #boerne #episode: propheteus #thiel x boerne #edit #quote #the capacity to love cannot be built in isolation #bruce d perry #the boy who was raised as a dog

[wehavewords]

“Fire can warm or consume, water can quench or drown, wind can caress or cut. And so it is with human relationships: we can both create and destroy, nurture and terrorize, traumatize and heal each other.”

Bruce D. Perry

#wehavewords #Bruce D. Perry #The Boy Who Was Raised As a Dog #favorite quotes #book inspiration #words #quotes #life quotes #life #quotes about life #true words #love #book quotes

[cherubikscube]

The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog: And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist’s Notebook by Bruce D. Perry and Maia Szalavitz

#personal #books #reading #the boy who was raised as a dog #adhd #ODD #bruce d. perry #Maia szalavitz

[secretgarden163]

Can the brain OD on its own opioids?

interesting stuff

#The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog

[xxx-caliber]

thinking about this old post of mine (tldr: I think kurogiri was programmed to not be allowed to show tomura affection) and it led to this mini comic

#baby tomura was a sweetheart who loves hugs and his dog that boy would 100% tell kuro he loves him #and kurogiri would absolutely love the boy that he raised #he just can’t say itttt #afo count your days #shigaraki tomura #shimura tenko #tomura shigaraki #tenko shimura #league of villains #bnha #mha #bnha art #kurogiri #shirakumo oboro #oboro shirakumo

[acaciapines]

i read dog boy by hornung weeks ago and man. im still thinking about this book. as a therian it just REALLY hit home, and. my god. that ending. heartbreaking! but how else could things have ended.

god i adore this book. i'd recommend it to anybody who has read and enjoyed my otherkin works--its about an orphaned russian boy raised by a pack of feral dogs and oh boy!!! does it scratch all the right itches!!! its heavy and it doesnt pull its punches but its just so effective, gah.

please read this book i cannot keep spiraling about it in my own head--

#chatter #SORRY. THE ENDING LINE JUST. PLAYS ON REPEAT IN MY BRAIN LOL #its about. god. how you have to choose. its about the cruelty in kindness its about society that wants to push people off to the side #and pretend they dont exist but when they do exist they cant ever just be who they are they have to assimilate #its about being a boy raised by dogs. its about looking in a mirror and not knowing what looks back at you #god. okay. i might have to do a reread soon #anyone who reads this book please send me an ask about it. i need to talk about this w people

[blackvelvetofnight]

it's so wild how our brain's try to categorize after traumatic events. like you miraculously survived a massive house fire but right before it began you were listening to a specific song and now you cant hear that song without getting extremely anxious. your brain doesn't understand the complexity of the trauma BUT it knows that song was involved so dont listen to it ok

the thing about this is usually this is a beneficial effect, your brain will analyze a situation afterwards and go 'okay. setting event > catalyst > outcome' and set up a way to avoid those circumstances in the future (you ate too many oreos and got sick, now you get nauseous from oreos) but in a freak accident or an unforeseen tragedy there typically isnt set events to avoid, so your brain goes

#the book The boy who was raised as a dog by Bruce D. Perry is really good at explaining these concepts #it deals with real traumatic events though so tread with caution #mental health

[opens-up-4-nobody]

You don't understand how unhinged I feel trying to construct an ending for Bleach that I personally would enjoy while knowing Bleach does not deserve my time and also not remembering enough to actually make anything coherent. And yet here I am.

#god. no one gives a fuck abt bleaching. i am screaming into the void. y cant i put this energy into being productive #i just want there to be themes and a satisfying ending. and ending that is sad and yet happy #i just think. for me. ichigo kurosaki died on the night rukia pierced him with her zanpakto. oh fuck i cant spell. fucking strap in #i kno he didnt technically die according to the rules of the universe but i think as soon as ichigos soul left his body. that body became #a corpse. so when he goes back into it its not suitible to live in anymore and he only starts to feel that with the fullbring arc #i think when rukia jumpstarted his powers she lit the fuse of a bomb and becoming a visor allowed him to chanel his resentment #bc he does resent. ichigo is an emotional person. he felt emense guilt when his mothet died bc he felt he couldnt protect her bc he was #being raised to protect. the boy has a complex and its kinda fuckrd up and its 1000% isshins fault. so when thr opportunity comes for #ichigo to sacrifice himself for his family he does and he literally and metaphorically dies. his life from that point on is overtaken by #death. so what do we do with ichigo after everything is said and done bc he cant go back to being human he cant be a living corpse. he has #to go to the soul society. bc i like to imagine everything hes done to his soul. his twisted cosmically weird special boy soul. hes like a #bomb. its unstable and they need to teach him to control it so he doesnt tear a hole in reality and let thr hollows pour in. so its safer #if that happens in thr soul society. and rukia lil miss ice princess can teach him to do that. i would also make it weird with god stuff but #i never read the blood war stuff so i dont kno enough abt the gods. also i would make rukia more at odds with everyone who was gonna let her #fucking die and who overlooked her bc she should b held with more reguard for her fighting. but misogyny 😒 so then what do we do with #ichigo in thr soul society? i cant stand the idea of him becoming part of the institution. i cant. i think he should be rogue. rebell. idk #train to be strong and battle agaisnt the 13 court guard squad who r clearly going to try to control him as he tries to control himself. #send my boy to therapy so he can control his reatsu? is the the word? idk. maybe he should go to that dead dog district and look for kids #with spiritual pressure. he needs to feel useful. maybe id just give him weird god powers. i am an ichigo special boy apologist #thats as far forward as i can think. ichigo has to b dead. has to learn to control his power before he can go fight. rukia can teach him #he rebells against the institution. encourages rukia to go apeshit bc fuck everyone. and then idk. he keeps trying to save ppl forever #or he dies and destroys the universe. a big ball of resentment and bad feels and secrets upon secrets upon secrets. god y am i thinking #abt this so much. ive got bullshit to deal with. anyway. idk i just like ichigo a lot and i think thr ending to bleach is th worst forever #bleach ramblings

[theconfusedartist]

me, looking through Desmond’s wikia page:....why are there 3 desmonds here

#there's our boi Desmond #then there's the dog Desmond #then theres apparently canon/non-canon Desmond where he grows up isolated in the desert with his father?? #i don't think he ran away from home in that one either he just decided to get a job in the city #and he was actually well educated about the assassins templar war in that timeline #me @ Desmond: so you were a time wizard before they dropped the thing about the reader huh? #desmond gets his own comics where ubisoft was like: yeah its canon but its also not bc its not important to the story #like??? #i mean this works bc i was gonna make an au where Altaïr raises desmond but i guess they made that happen already #the crazy thing is they don't say who the father is they just heavily imply its NOT bill #and that desmond loved his father

[jrueships]

jaren waiting for his husband to come back from the war (therapy)

#at the end of the tunnel.. #the light is .. Jaren #his excited little giggles and exuberance has captivated me #the way he got so hyped 😭😭 #jaren raised a random champagne glass and dinged it with a dainty little spoon when they got back to locker room #to try and make the room silent (it didnt work. he had to get desmond to tell everyone to shut the hell up) #before millennial pausing and going '.....i missed this.' #ja who was listening to nba yb in his airpods the whole time : shoot you n yo boy n whoever arou- #ja didnt push jaren against a wall and start pentrating him anally at mach speeds but this is an ok substitute i guess #/livid /engulfed with rage /fuming /KILLYOSEL #jarens enthralled lil wail as he spins around like a purse dog getting peanuts at a circus #goot lort jarebear #keep it in the bedroom #what no penis does to a mf #ja #jaren

[longlivetv]

My work day ends at 5:30 so naturally every day at about 4:00 I experience an intense longing to see my dogs

Go here if you are able to help my Waldo who needs to see a doggy neurologist and get an MRI

#Waldo is the senior boy on the left #he’s such a good dog #thank you to everyone who donated we have almost $500/$3000 raised #and thank you even more to the signal boosters y’all are amazing and I love you

[coloursofaparadox]

>:[

#ive lost like all fear of dogs at this point. i realized that earlier today when a massive rottie started a fight with my boy #and my first instinct on seeing flying teeth was to sprint towards them and shove my body in between #its very possible it was also just all self preservation leaving my body because i am absolutely going to protect my pup #i would probably fight a bear for him there is no question that i would forcibly shove another dog off with my forearm #but fuck. despite the fact that i /know/ better sometimes i have a real real bad fatigue week and i use dog parks. i have like. #a selective list of ones that i will go to categorized by 'least likely to become a boxing ring'. tons of space. multiple separate areas. #i go only at off times when its not busy! i watch dog body language and keep an eye on him at all times. #ill rotate areas if i spot a potential problem. i have him under verbal control and wouldnt even be there if i didnt. but! like! #despite all that. just fucking anyone can go there. 'oh your dogs a puppy thats why my dog attacked him!' idgaf. #speaking as someone who has raised a reactive dog. if your dog is reactive why in the absolute hell would you take them to a dog park. #why!!! lif your dog is consistently fighting other dogs why would you do that! it does not matter if he 'only attacks dogs that arent fixed' #he is still obviously not having a good fucking time and is not going to enjoy this environment holy shit #just. gggHHGGH. i avoid off leash parks as much as i can already but. fuck. idek the point of this im just. #still a bit riled over having to physically throw myself in the middle of a dog fight while the other owner did absolutely nothing. #like just hovered! while his dog was pinning mine and teeth flying attacking and was actively fighting me trying to keep him off #when i can afford it im gonna find some sort of dog group walk/hike thing instead i do not want to socialize my boy like this #i am tired and very very upset because my boy looked so scared and i swear to god if you arent grabbing your dog i will fight it myself #fuck dude. fuck dog parks and fuck me for knowing better and still using em anyways.

[barking-barkive]

BESSEL VAN DER KOLK AND BRUCE D. PERRY JUMPSCARE IN THE PHILADELPHIA AIRPORT BOOKSTORE

#barks #like i know both of these are popular books #but its still so bewildering to encounter them out in the wild #ESPECIALLY bruce d perry cause like #i was most familiar with him from his book “the boy who was raised as a dog” #which is NOT general light reading for everyone out there #id argue its very inadvisable to read in a lot of situations #like i sure as hell shouldnt have read it for various reasons but i could handle it #as for the body keeps the score... its nice to see it becoming more ubiquitous #just the mind-body trauma concepts #that being said! it is very jarring and mildly triggering to come across randomly! #ive been avoiding it for many many years #and the way its felt like its “following me” in the past 2ish years disturbs my brain #needless to say. i finally caved and bought a copy. #will i read it? yes. eventually. carefully. while checking in heavily with my therapist. #same with some of the other dissociation workbooks that i have

[bybyefromurgirlodam]

he's a 20/10 but his portrayal in the series adaptation makes me want to die

#nikolai lantsov #stormhund #sab season two #sab character thoughts: a series #im sorry ive only seen e1 but even the pronounciation of stormhund is disturbing #ALL I AM SAYING IS THAT STORMHUND SPEAKS LIKE A ROYAL #EVERYONE THINKS ITS A JOKE BUT DOESNT WANT HIM TO FEED THEM TO A DOG SO THEY STAY QUIET #he was raised a royal he is a royal #he is really just a posh boy who weaponised his teenage rebellion

[secretgarden163]

أوتش :""")

#The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog

[ars0nism]

that experience exclusive to languages with separate formal & informal you where you get called the formal you for the first time after you turn 18

#the true 'oh shit fuck im an adult' experienxe #at least here its usually formal you to adults you dont know #and adults you do know depending on how you were raised & context n shit #but i (18) just got called the formal you by a boy on the street who wanted to pet my dog #and for a moment i thought 'haha im too young for th- wait.-