#the details arent important

[medicalunprofessional]

i Wasn’t a monster.

#nightmaretheater #caligosto loboto #psychonauts #blood cw #Time on canvas.. 13 hours…. collapses #Does this look vaugely religious enough? hunched over looking at it from multiple angles #some things arent as detailed but you see.I was focusing on the important things #This is what that one pic was recourse for #i feel like a victorian painter but for psychonauts #One of the things ive ever drawn #Contains imagery i hope everyone gets because its important #His arms are a bit weird because i couldnt decide between a speargun or a polespear #Kind of personal. His face is modeled off my current father’s face… #anyways going to turn into sludge oh my god #‘…until you made me one!’

[dyketubbo]

ik normally we talk about situations like what shubble opened up about, we wanted to take time to think through everything especially because of how upsetting the topic is to us personally. as of now, we do agree that signs point to wilbur so we wont support him and we encourage others to not support him during this time and especially not actively defend him.

but we dont want to make a big deal out of not supporting him so focus can be on shubble and people learning how to see signs of abuse. we're already not very active due to our own recent experience with a traumatizing friendship (we hesitate to really call it abuse yet) but regarding that experience and others weve had we can focus on another big part of shubbles stream: educating others about the signs of abuse. so we want to use the rest of this post to talk about that

abusers will be everywhere and anywhere. yes there will be more in this community, but youll find them no matter where you go and there will be abusers in your personal life as well, whether you end up being abused or someone you know does. theres abusers who are "obvious", who scream and yell and hit. and theres abusers who are charismatic, who will be supportive and funny and yet passive aggressive and backstabbing. and theres abusers who will be quiet and cold and manipulative. and theres abusers who fall into multiple "categories" because theyre complex people just like anyone else and thats why abuse can happen to everyone. because abusers can be anyone.

dont get yourself caught up in how "theyre such a good person", dont get yourself caught up in thinking abuse could never happen to you. if you find yourself in a situation where communication doesnt work, where the other person hurts you over and over and doesnt show signs of getting better, where you keep finding ways to blame yourself and defend them (especially if you find yourself thinking that you deserve how they treat you), where youre scared of them and how theyd react if you told them so, where when you tell them you dont like how they treat you they dismiss you and start treating you worse, look into how to get out of there.

and know that it will take a while. that abuse is hard to get away from. that sometimes youll be trapped for a long time and sometimes youll relapse and defend them even after youve realized theyre abusive. and there will be people who support your abuser over you and people who will hate you and believe your abuser over you. and there will be people who support you but will still support your abuser too for whatever reason. and there will be people who support you fullheartedly and care for you and help you even if it takes you a long time to find them.

abuse is complex. "good people" can be abusive. no matter the fandom, no matter the community, no matter the when who where how why there will always be abusers around. no matter where you go or who you talk to there will always be some case of abuse. the important thing is to educate yourself.

learn about tactics like DARVO (deny, attack, reverse [the roles of] victim and offender), keep notes of the hotlines and organizations about abuse. keep the discussion of how to spot abuse and support the victims open. and always, always, keep more affection in your heart for victims than you do hate for abusers. make yourself someone who can be confided in and trusted to not take advantage of that trust.

and remember: if youre a victim yourself, its okay if you didnt do everything "right". its okay if your feelings keep changing, its okay if you were an asshole victim, its okay if you didnt see the signs even when others pointed them out to you, its okay if you did things "wrong". abuse is hard to sort through and what matters is not whether you "provoked" them, its that they had the power to hurt you and get away with it and they used it, over and over. and thats horrible and what you deserve is to get out and to be able to speak about it without getting hurt for it.

if shubble's story and others like hers resonate with you, tell people. it doesnt have to be public. in most cases it shouldnt be. tell people who you can trust in private and get the support you need so that when youre able and ready to you can get out. and know that there are people like you and even if you feel alone right now you wont be forever

#all the peace and care to shubble. we saw the vod seems to be deleted and we hope shes doing okay right now #critter calls #mostly pres but not just me sooo overall system tag #would say sorry for the long post but we arent really sorry. its an important topic #for the record we dont support how far some people have gone with speculation #we saw people on twt making full fucking timelines and sharing screenshots of shubbles deleted reddit post #dont fucking do that. all the information shubble could share on the matter was in the stream #dont pry any more into their life more than they shared #we have the information we need to know that it was likely wilbur but thats all. and if shubble says that she isnt saying names for- #-reasons outside of just not wanting to then.. i dont think its good or safe for her for people to keep prying #we dont even like the speculation that brought us to believing its wilbur #not because we believe wilbur couldnt do something like this (anyone could) but because #we know we would hate people prying into our life to find out the details about our abuse

[5hrignold]

mostly based off how he acts around fionna so far (Not much else to base it off of) i think ellis is super blunt and sometimes even outright mean and accusing toward people he just met and/or doesn’t trust but once he’s talked to someone a bit he is just the biggest sweetheart. like he’d do anything to help the people he cares about. except the only person who really has that title is marshall and i think he more than anybody ever was able to tear those walls down quickly. something about him just calms ellis down more than anything i think

#important Detail PERSON!!! he trusts all animals by default lol #they could bite his face off and hed be like Awww :D arent you just a precious little thing haha #adventure time #fionna and cake #ellis p #lumpy space prince #marshall lee

[52frogs]

Spider-Man (Raimi) | Mr. Brightside (The Killers)

#i have been working on this for two years #there are so many little details in here that i really hope are noticeable to people who arent me #also its very important that this gets across the poly vibes i was going for #this was a labour of love and also pain #so many hours of listening to the same two seconds over and over to get the timing exactly perfect #cannot emphasize how much i could talk about every clip in this #the THEMES #the PARALLELS #spiderman raimi #spiderman 2002 #spiderman #marvel #peter parker #mj watson #harry osborn #petermj #parksborn #harrymj #parksbornson #petermjharry #Youtube

[foxgirltail]

Itd be remiss of me to call xkcd "bad art", but I do enjoy the fact that we have this artist who exclusively draws stick figure people, when a common excuse for why people don't do art is "I can only draw stick figures"

#obvs xkcd has a lot of skill in other art areas and the details of people arent that important for what hes trying to do - namely talking #about math and science - but that doesnt mean i dont get a kick out of it

[undermycoat]

concept: i reread gone girl [book is forcefully ripped from my hands]

#it's about the 'noticing details u didnt the first go round'. sorry but spoilers (tho i suppose they arent spoilers now) r fun 2 me #mmm i suppose i will start gtn and see and maybe impress my irl too #but when i get back home i will see what other books i have and maybe one of those will catch my attn #I WONT REREAD THE CAT PROPOSED AGAIN. I PROMMY. #*googles 'bakeneko katatte sourou'* hey god it's me again..... #tbh i kinda wanna read that book where that guy keeps getting kicked when he's down #and he's just miserable all the time. idk it's a big book tho. which is daunting when i've been a bit of a slow reader lately #(ignore the fact i read gg in like three hours. that's not important.) #it just looks scary. y'know? #cupid de bunny

[inchwormy]

i have a bad habit of giving my characters hobbies or professions which i know nothing about and which are in some way related to whatever plot ive come up with. so my options are to either bullshit, or to delay writing until ive mastered whatever random skill my oc has, and by that time sometimes ive forgotten what the story was supposed to be about in the first place

#writing #brb derailing my life to become a highly skilled software engineer as research for a story #and getting a masters in philosophy as research for another story #so that i can insert accurate background details that arent actually that important #but at least wont make people who are familiar with the fields cringe when they read it

[chozoremake]

SO CRAZY, that yuji was out there, just minding his own business and just because he ate ONE finger he's now fighting for his life, tch 🙄

#i know more than that happened but details arent important hehe ❤️nenxne #im so sad leave them alone 💔

[why-is-it-always-autumn]

still think it’d be very funny to give any random fictional character access to their own wiki near the beginning of the story and see what happens

#ideally this is a random side character with no idea who the original story considers 'important' #the pages arent stubs but there arent any super in depth recaps #you get characters groups and maybe a few notable events or locations #you can only find info if you know to look for it #or if it links from something else #somebodys page mentions that they die in the 'bling blongening' and they have to spend six hours trying to figure out what that means #sometimes a page will just say 'species: vampire (formerly)' or whatever with zero elaboration anywhere #this group has a list of known members but no mission statement or info on what they do #details on time are indirect at best #fanfic

[queenangst]

Is the Inko adopts Tenko fic Inko Shimura? Or does she just decide to adopt an unrelated kid? How does AFO react? How does All Might react?

thanks for the questions!!!!

the basics - inko is a shimura, she's kotaro's sister and nana's daughter. (tenko is her nephew, tenko and izuku are cousins.) inko and kotaro were estranged, so they weren't in contact, and it was assumed that all of kotaro's family died in tenko's quirk awakening.

it's an au where after all might defeats afo in the pre-canon fight, he gathers heroes to figure out what afo has been up to. at this point, tenko is around 16 - he's taken in by the authorities, and they track down his family, which ends up being inko and her young son izuku. (at this point, tenko is still relatively sheltered, and hasn't done any provable villain work. mostly afo has been molding him for the future.)

afo exists nowhere in this fic. i kicked him out. he's simply unimportant to the focus of the fic - i haven't really decided what happened to him. either he's been captured by the heroes, or maybe dead though not likely.

all might, early on in the fic, doesn't know that tenko is nana's grandson as he'd been "shigaraki" at the time of the fight. he was told tenko went to live with family. but have no fear, he will find out... eventually.

not all the details are super nailed down, and they might not be. just enough to carry the story - the fic starts with tenko already in the midoriya household, adjusting to living in a family again, having a new baby brother and a guardian who just wants the best for him, and finding a home.

#asks #inko adopts tenko au #like the details arent important - the legalities and adoption stuff n all of that #the fic is REALLY about tenko realizing there ARE people in this world who choose to care for him

[theyarebothgunshot]

do you ever make plans to do something social and then when it's time you wait for the other person to contact you, and when they don't you are simultaneously relieved and disappointed, or are you normal?

#hgdhgdfh i was going on a rant in the tags before but like #the details arent important tbh #i just. dont know how to feel lmaoooo

[three-bunnies-in-a-trenchcoat]

Oh it's actually 10:15

#had the most wild dream. details of the dream arent important but. i kept waking up to snooze my alarm? and time was repeating??? #why did it do that. why did my mind feel the need to put me in a alarm snoozing induced time loop. #mb's two am rambling

[mee-op]

btw i would not recommend using betterhelp

#there have been a lot of positive reviews on the website and all that #but there is also a bunch of controversy #not getting into details but i will say- #mental health is rly important (obvi) and potentially paying to see an unlicensed therapist is going to end badly #and from what ive heard. the therapists arent even being paid that well #i say this cuz a lot of youtubers ive been watching lately have been sponsored by betterhelp #but there are a lot of risks #imo it's always been kinda sketchy #the idea of being able to contact a licenced therapist almost anytime was too good to be true #especially in this economy

[nesquikflavoredchapstick]

remembering how i loved this fanfic so fucking much that i like mentally created the entirety of every single setting like with maps and down to specific objects and decor and fucking tree placement and that i still remember ALL of it like i dont remember every every plot beat and like which scenes go where but i still remember these motherfuckers’ livingroom decor! down to like picture frames and rugs and like damage from those rings you get when you put a cup on a wooden table and upholstery detailing!!! from how i had it in my head back in 2017!!! what the fuck!!!

#i love to be hereeeeeeee #also i highkey want their house its awesome #the house and map and shot are to the point where like even parts that arent described have specific looks to me #plus everything is laid out from the outside and inside of each building like how it would be with like actual numerical measurements #like the layout of the downstairs is about yay big and that corresponds to how big the house is from the outside #younger me went ham on the details holy fuck this is awesome #nowadays i just kinda blur out or sparsely decorate what isnt important what the hell #i gotta get my vivid imagination back from the claws of trauma destroying my brain organ sometime this fucks

[diobrando]

this bitch is so flakey man it’s getting on my nerves

#we're supposed to meet up on saturday but im going to cancel on her to see how she likes it fuck her #i do most of the work and then she still says she's stressed bc of the assignments #girl we're taking the same 2 classes and both work i know youre full of shit #besides the last lesson plan for 457 is the easiest one because we already did 80% of the work its just adding new differentiation for 3 new #students idk man this is so annoying ive never been paired up with someone this ridiculous at the college level #also so fucking crazy looking over the year long curriculum that we wrote and seeing the notes my professor left #all the stuff they wrote sucks and he said its too vague and missing a ton of important info and mine is great and detailed like yeah ik #im looking at the standards ive taken 401 ive done this at a higher level bc that one was 20+pages and was super detailed AND had examples #this one sucks bc its collaborative and i cant just do whatever i want and like lmao the 401 one was also collaborative BUT it had multiple #components so 1) the year-long curriculum overview 2) a 10 page rationale 3) a powerpoint with a mini lesson (10 min presentation) and we #split up and did our parts but one of the girl who wrote the rationale was so fucking annoying i almost told her to stfu multiple times #she kept trying to drag us for not doing the work on her schedule like sorry but we have lives and will get to it when we can #she even told the professor during a group meeting that no one had shared the work except for her and oh my gosh i was like ''actually you- #-didnt share anything either so dont complain to the professor about other people's work'' and then i had my work done on a google doc and #pulled it up and so did the other 2 people like cmon girl get over yourself people that take 4 unit classes and stick around until the end #arent in that class to mess around but ANYWAYS THIS IS SO MUCH IM JUST ANNOYED AF by the ppl i was stuck with in 450S this semester i should #have picked a different grade level smh i shouldve picked 7th grade and worked alone it wouldve been better than this

[angelhound]

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#i think i need to start a journal #life is terribly disappointing sometimes #its worse when it’s disappointing in the anticipation of events yet to come #there are events i can see in my future of which i feel are… lackluster so to speak #im not sure what to do about this. surely i can change fate but how much change will fate allow if im just being picky #i have a vision and i want it to be followed #the details of a thing are the most important part #i need them not to be overlooked but i cannot in fact. direct god like my life is a movie #i fear overlooking…. everyone overlooks the important parts…. thats why people dress so badly all the time even when they’re trying not to #it is about the smaller things. its about the exact color its about the material and the structure and the way it intermingles with #the structure color etc of everything else u are wearing plus the color of your body and the lines they all make together etc etc etc so on #people tell me all the time its unfair that i look good in everything and its because of this that i ‘do’ ish. i dont theres so much i look #awful in… i have seen it. but i agree w them what they see i always look Right in and im CONVINCED. That its because of details because #i can see why other peoples things are not working well even if its the ‘same’ thing. ex: black t shirts are not created equally and if u #choose wrong it looks wrong always. other people think theyre the same shirt but they ARENT. #anyways the point is i want my fate to be run with my analysis brain and i cannot curate it Enough #i am great at manifesting so idk maybe i can. but theres one thing coming i do not like the details of.. the overall Goal is the same but #the lighting is wrong the costumes are wrong its the same play but its wrong. i need everyone else to wear their fucking costume right #follow my vision or else. its literally in Everyones best interest that my vision be fulfilled the way i am seeing it #i would not be leading you astray the prophecy is for Everyone #im going to better specify what i want and make a vision board like a suburban mom at the crafting party #my vision requres not the control of others btw i can do it with or without cooperation the right people who wish to participate will fit #in place if they are aligned in their own vision yk? #however it does require the control of how i wish to experience my sequence of events #divine intervention is being haphazard about something i wish to experience in full #i am going to brainstorm choices i can make to better realize my necessary details #it is however hard for me to meditate lately but idk why. everything goes very quiet when i close my eyes i feel as if there is a dangerous #surprise party being planned in the undercurrents that i am not to be aware of. so to speak #trying my best to like it <:( i meant to type the angry face but thats more accurate i will grumpily wear my little party hat. if i have to.