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destialpal · 2 months ago
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Also Buck’s face when Hen mentioned even the idea of Eddie and Ana having a baby was GOLDEN I’m so sorry
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loveyourownsmiilee · a month ago
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Buck’s Love Language and the difference between Taylor and Eddie understanding it:
As we all know, Buck’s main love language can be seen as Words of Affirmation. This is how he tends to understand love, since he lacked it so much growing up. His parents were never very verbal with their love, but Maddie was. So in order for Buck to understand whether or not he means something to someone, he needs them to verbally tell him that. We have seen many instances where he doubts himself and gets all up in his head. Yes he has taken to physical intimacy to fill that void he has, but he uses physical touch as a placeholder, since he never had the words to go by. Why am I mentioning this? Because let’s take a look at his relationship with Taylor and with Eddie separately. 
His relationship with Taylor is based on the foundation of sexual attraction and intimacy. They started off having sex and never really learned how to be friends. They then jumped into a relationship thinking its what they both want. As we have seen, Taylor isn't the greatest with her words. She has called Buck “needy”, “a bad friend” and given him bad advice, such as “Maybe you might want to consider not everything is about you.” Obviously, to Buck, he’s going to internalize that and focus on her words because he takes to words more than other things, such as actions or touch. Given what she told him, you can see in Buck’s facial expression that it wasn't the greatest advice and he didn't like what she said to him. But it resonated with him and gave him mixed feelings on whether or not the problem with Chimney was about him. He already has issues about not fitting in and being left behind, issues about being insecure, so for her to say that to him? I’m sure it led him to believe that he’s really not important enough so he should take himself out of the situation (transfer from the 118) so that everyone else would be happier. 
Then, when he came home and she had laid out that breakfast for him, we all sensed the weird vibe going on. She tried to do something “nice” for him and when he admitted to her that he clearly didn't take her advice, but the advice of his team members, you clearly can see her entire demeanor change. She is somewhat upset and at somewhat of a loss for words. So what does she do? She reaches out for him to give him physical contact, a hug that is very weird and awkward. She knows that touching him has worked for her in the past, so since her words were unable to reassure him, maybe her touch will. But as we all saw, yes Buck is very tactile, but even he wasn’t satisfied with their little awkward hug. Because he needs more than touch, he needs words, someone who will understand him and speak his love language back to him. Clearly, that person is not Taylor and I don’t think it ever will be Taylor.
Now when we take a look at Buck’s entire relationship with Eddie, we see a significant difference in how they work. Eddie has always been this closed off, private guy. He’s quiet and sassy, and is overall great with words. But given his upbringing and the environment in which he grew up in, maybe he wasn't able to freely express his words as much as he does with Buck now. But, there’s just the simple way of how much Eddie knows Buck, like really knows him. He know’s how well Buck takes to words of affirmation, and because he knows this, he uses words to speak in a language in which Buck will understand. What do I mean by this? Well Eddie has been known to show his love with Acts of Service. He has left Christopher in Buck’s care when Buck was depressed. He invited Buck over to hang out with him and his son for each Christmas they’ve known each other. He has wholly embraced Buck into his family, in hopes of showing how important Buck is to him. But even then, considering all these acts Eddie does for Buck, he still does not grasp how important he is, or how loved he is until Eddie explicitly tells him. It wasn't enough that Eddie trusted his son in Buck’s care, but when Eddie told Buck, “There’s nobody in this world I trust more with my son, than you”, you can see the automatic effect it has on Buck. We see him registering Eddie’s words, the meaning and importance behind those words. Then we get the iconic moment where Buck tells Eddie it would have been better for all of them if Buck was the one who got shot. He is insecure about himself and you can see how low his self esteem is in that moment. What does Eddie do? He tells Buck about his will. He made that action a year ago, once again using his own love language to show Buck how important and loved he is. But it wasn't until Eddie told him explicitly, “Because, Evan...You act like you’re expendable. But you’re wrong”, that Buck understood how important and loved he really is by Eddie. It wasn’t enough for Eddie to just give Buck his entire heart, no he had to tell Buck that’s what he was doing so it registered with Buck the importance of it. There have been many more instances where Eddie has been supportive and reassuring to Buck with his words, but that means I would go on forever. Eddie truly knows who Buck is as a person to the extent where he not only understands Buck’s love language, but he keeps making an effort to speak it back to him where he can understand it. Even in 5.05, Eddie chooses words to let Buck know that he’s “Stuck with us” because he knows how insecure Buck was about the entire Chimney situation. It wasn't until Eddie and the team reassured Buck with their words, that we saw him finally relax and truly smile for the first time. They were able to do what Taylor wasn’t able to. 
With all things considered, we have seen time and time again how easily Eddie and Buck love each other because they both speak one another’s love languages. In order for any successful relationship to thrive, I think it’s super important that your partner really understands your love language and speaks in back to you. We have seen Taylor struggle with this and I think she will continue struggling with this because her and Buck truly do not know each other well enough. Whereas Buck and Eddie are solid in that department and I think we will continue seeing Eddie supporting Buck through his words, which will then lead into him confessing his love for Buck, so that Buck truly does know that Eddie is serious. He is in love with him and the only way to make it truly known to Buck will be to explicitly confess his feelings.
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kitkatpancakestack · 5 months ago
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9-1-1 characters asYahoo Questions
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Featuring: Eddie "I'm going to be meeting my GF's entire family but it's not serious" Diaz, Evan 'Buck' "I'm not fooling anyone with my jealously about this situation (but Eddie)" Buckley and a teasing firefam
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justsmilestuffhappens · 9 months ago
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Prompts: So umm- can someone write the firefam meeting the Buckleys TM when Chimney's oven catches fire from that brie and the crew seeing the parents berating buck for it happening and endangering Maddie and them
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aworldwithoutme · 5 months ago
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Listen:
Eddie’s repressed, but not oblivious to his sexuality. Only abuela and Chris know—him wanting Chris to be open and comfortable to discuss anything with him while also bringing in the topic of lgbt+ So, he’s not oblivious to being in love with Buck, but with so much going in his head he dates Ana instead.
Buck hasn’t come out but isn’t hiding either. He told Maddie as a kid when everyone liked the opposite sex—and he did too—but he liked other types of people too. The other person who knows is Chris, who asked Buck out of curiosity without outing Eddie—nor has he outed Buck. He knows the 118 assume he’s straight, but that’s a 118 problem. It’s not his fault he mentions going out with a man and they assume they’re just friends or he mentions gender neutral names, and no one asks for pronouns.
So, Taylor Kelly appears at the firehouse to visit Buck. The 118 mentions her dating Buck. She’s confused and tells them they aren’t. Buck appears and everyone asks if he’s lying about dating. He says no. When they point to her, he laughs. He tells them he’s dating A Taylor, not Taylor Kelly. He’s dating a guy named Taylor he met while volunteering.
The 118 apologize and Eddie’s left to recalibrate his brain—Buck likes men? Buck’s presently dating a man? Buck is dating a man he met volunteering when Eddie was supposed to go volunteering that day but didn’t because Ana wanted to go on a date instead? Eddie might end his suffering here and now.
Instead, Hen, who notices Eddie’s face, asks Buck if it’s serious. Buck says no—they’re in their getting to know phase. Dating but not boyfriends. Hen gives Eddie the eyes and brows of “get it together and get together with Buck or I won’t allow you to complain if it does get serious.”
Eddie worries—there’s a small window of opportunity but Buck liking men doesn’t mean he likes Eddie. It could ruin their friendship. It could be great, and he won’t know until he gets over himself.
So, he does.
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captain-im-not-dead-yet · 3 months ago
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You know another thing that I really want for 9-1-1 season 5?
April Fool's Day.
The firefam pranking each other in between calls, whoopee cushions and sticking pictures of Bobby's ice skating days everywhere, down to the bathrooms. Them having to deal with idiots who took pranks too far, like that youtuber duo who nearly killed their friend. And Eddie, finally gets revenge on Buck for the whole Hildy and coffee maker shenanigan. Chim accidentally pulling the suspension cord in the showers and basically flooding the 118 station. Maybe Buck had been given the day off on April first but he'd come in anyway because he thought Bobby was pulling his leg.
Just, firefam on April Fool's Day
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us-buddie · 6 months ago
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Happy Monday everyone!
Tonight we'll know who Buck says "great" to... also we'll enjoy the little magic Mike show..
Im already put my clown mask hoping that there were will be a buddie sence where both of them talk about their dating life.. especially Eddie pulls out his worries and doubts about his relationship with A*a..
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destialpal · 2 months ago
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Listen Ik that Eddie is like the King of giving Buck the softest looks on the planet but I think the different between what we’ve seen in previous seasons and this from last night
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Is that all the previous ones have essentially been private (in front of just Buck or when Buck’s not looking yet still alone) yet this new one is public, with the entire team around AND with Buck giving heart eyes back.
Its a different territory
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loveyourownsmiilee · 3 months ago
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🔥And we got a small teaser for the new season!!!🔥
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buddiemydads · 2 months ago
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justsmilestuffhappens · 9 months ago
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Can't wait for Bobby to tell Buck "I once said we weren't a family but I was wrong you're like a son to me buck and I'm honored to be an important person in your life and to have seen you grow as a person" and / or "we need you to hold on. I need you to hold on buck. We're coming back for you I promise." And you know what, they actually do, they get "Their Buck" out safe.
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aworldwithoutme · 5 months ago
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Listen:
5+1
Five times Buck puts his skills and knowledge as a SEAL veteran to use in particular but small details, which the 118 notice and mention but also accept Buck's vague, cheeky, or defective answer easily.
And one time Buck puts his skills and knowledge as a SEAL veteran to use with a big instance where he finally finds himself unable to hide any longer and reveals the truth of his past SEAL days.
Buddie midway through.
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I freaking love Eddie bringing their gear, Hen bringing the medical kit and Athena her gun and badge because they have to be prepared for everything and then the three musketeers (Buck, Chimney and Bobby) were like: I’m just here as moral support (and calculator).
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dollyreblogs · 10 months ago
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So you know how the Snarts get away on their usual ice gear (Holly on her ice skates, Aspen on his skis, and Colden on his snowboard). The Rorys don't appreciate their dedication to their aesthetic so while those three idiots are trying to freeze the ground, McKenna and Bridget grab them and throw them on top of the firetruck that Nick stole as a get away car.
"NICKY!"
"I know, I know. You have have an aesthetic but do me a favor and use the hose to shoot the police cars-"
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