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tridentarius · 3 months ago
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heavenlyyshecomes · 5 months ago
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the relationship between girls and the fantasy series they read when young is so special nothing comes close to it
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ferrantte · 3 months ago
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bogsheep · 12 days ago
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hey if you wanna be an ally to aromantic people listen up: you need to start looking for subtle arophobia in posts. Because it feels like aro people are the only ones to notice when a post is targeting aro people without saying it.
Like, a post about how "love is everything and if you read that as "romantic love is everything" you're stupid and missing the point"? That's generally targeting the discussion around loveless aros and how many aromantics are uncomfortable with the usage of the word "love". The post isn't gonna directly target aros (because aros are chronically invisible and seen as childish and not real), but aros who see that are going to know that the op of that post doesn't respect aromantics and doesn't like us discussing our own experiences, and thinks our opinions and terms are stupid and immature.
Like, I've seen so. many. posts. clearly referencing aromantic community discussions that get passed around eagerly by people, because nobody fucking talks about aromantics in the queer community. Nobody outside of our community cares about red flags or amatonormativity, or, i don't know, taking our feelings on the word "love" seriously and not mocking us for our terms.
Like, I am begging you at this point. Please start listening to aromantics. Listen to our conversations and our theories on amatonormativity. Our community is valuable and our experiences matter just as much as every other queer persons.
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saintmaudes · 11 months ago
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https://www.instagram.com/CKwmWM0gx8P/?igshid=k4y78ez1oj9n
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widogasm · 3 months ago
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i’m excited.. the last old man travis played killed santa
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vampireluthien · a year ago
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“what made you gay” is such a terrible question 🙄 i know exactly how i ended up gay, and it’s the same as everyone else
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orienta1ism · 2 years ago
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vibe check! *peels a clementine and hands it to you slice by slice*
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aroacearborvitae · 9 months ago
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I never wanted to have a crush. that took me years to realize, even after I accepted I'm aro. the actions people described abt having one and romance and dating all seemed boring or stressful or stupid. I didn't want to be swept off my feet or look into someone's eyes over a candelit dinner, I'd trip you right back and I hate eye contact.
but I thought I wanted to have one for years and years bc society's messaging decided that romance/crush = happiness. the two concepts were inextricably linked. having a crush, pursuing romance, will make you happy. this is the only way you can be truly happy and fulfilled. otherwise you will be empty and sad. you want to feel wanted and loved, right? and as a 15 yr old with depression... I wanted to be happy. I wanted someone to snatch me from my life and shitty brain and make me feel out my mind with joy, like every story and every song and every person said would happen, a rush of emotion that would fix everything.
and I think separating those concepts in my mind was one of the best things I ever did, bc it helped me accept that this will never happen to me, I don't want it to, and my happiness will come from my own strength of will! 💚
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pollyjean · 2 years ago
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the inherent homoeroticism of pinning your rival against a wall as an intimidation tactic
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tridentarius · 5 months ago
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some ppl will see the oversexualization of underage girls and pedophilia and imperialistic motifs in anime/manga and just handwave it as part of “japanese culture”
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heavenlyyshecomes · 5 months ago
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I'm in my girl what am I doing era
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riinasawayama · 7 months ago
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lumen prints by john fobes on flickr
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ferrantte · 5 months ago
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holodays
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bogsheep · a year ago
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if someone close to you is disabled, you have to take that into account when you go places with them. you have to think about accessibility, fatigue, pain, flare ups, etc because its exhausting and hurtful when people who say they love you dont bother putting the effort in to make sure you ACTUALLY have a good time.
[update: i made this post in the spur of the moment after my family did something very inconsiderate & hurtful while we were on vacation, and I was very upset and angry at how abled people treat disabled people, hence the "abled people are required to reblog" thing. I was not expecting this amount of traction, and I've removed that now, because a lot of people dislike the guilt tripping. I did not mean it to be guilt-tripping, i was upset and angry.]
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beautifulisaboringword · 11 days ago
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widogasm · 3 months ago
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i’m laughing so hard, orym is STILL the highest int in the party
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vampireluthien · 6 months ago
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i’m also thinking about, and very emotional about, aragorn living for awhile by lake evendim and visiting his hobbit friends at the brandywine bridge, even after big people have been banned from the shire, and elanor becoming one of arwen’s maids, and sam and rosie living for a year in gondor, and sam waiting out the days of his wife’s life before he goes to the grey havens. and about éowyn and éomer sending merry wedding presents, and éomer sending for merry before his death and merry making the long journey despite his old age, and pippin going with him, and the two of them living in gondor until both they and aragorn die and are entombed together. and about legolas and gimli waiting to say goodbye to them before they also are the last to say goodbye to middle-earth. and none of this is headcanon btw, all of it is there in the appendices – the fellowship is so strong that it keeps characters in the story together to the end of middle-earth’s mythical days
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orienta1ism · 2 years ago
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[thinks about love] okay well i am just losing my mind and being insane now .
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aroacearborvitae · a year ago
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here’s my late comic for the 18th: “What do you wish people knew about being arospec? Make or design a sign with an arrow + a message.” I still don’t really know what kind of partnership I want, if any, but I’m just going with the flow and enjoying the lovely people in my life
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ID: 4 panels of a digital comic. Panel one has a green speech bubble on the left, saying “What do you wish people knew about being arospec?” On the right is a person pointing at their own speech bubble which says “I definitely want a life partner, possibly romantic!” Their shirt says “Me, age 15.”
Panel 2 has the person on the left with a shorter haircut, crossing their arms, and labeled “age 16.” They say: I’d only be comfortable with a QPR, actually.” On the right they are “age 17″ looking pensive and saying “I’m not totally sure if I want a partner. If someone asks me to be their QPP and I like them like that, I’d date them, but I have an equal preference for friendship, so I wouldn’t make the first move.”
Panel 3 has the person on the left, labeled “age 17.5″ excitedly gesturing towards a small cartoon of a girl’s head and saying “I have a soft romo gf/qpp!” On the right, age 18, has the shortest haircut and arrow earrings, looking nervous and slightly confused. They say “Well that was mostly fun, but I’m not sure if a partner is really what I want...”
Panel 4 has them in the center, pointing to themself with their thumbs and winking with a grin, wearing woven green bracelets and a sweater with crossed arrows and stripes in the aro colors. Three large sign arrows point to them. They read: “Aros can have complex attitudes about relationships,” “These opinions can change,” and “Temporary or permanent, they should be respected.” End ID.
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