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#the love is there and it is unconditional but its not always kind and nurturing often its just fucked off exhaustion
stonedcoldfoxtarot · 10 months
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How will you meet your next best friend? ft. Cheng Xiao
Pile 1 -> Pile 2
Pile 3 -> Pile 4
Pile 1
6oS, 7oW, 5oW, 2oP, AoC, Sun (4oC)
When you meet your new best friend, it's probably going to happen during a time of change or after you've moved to a new job, city, or friend group. After this move and upon meeting, you might have a little disagreement or argument with this person. But once you get to know each other better, you'll quickly realize how much you have in common and how well you complement each other.
Once that happens, you'll become almost inseparable, so don't be too quick to dismiss them! Some people might even think you're secretly dating, but that will only bring you closer together. You'll bask in the warm feeling of knowing that you've found one of your platonic soulmates in this lifetime, which not everyone gets to experience. With this special connection, you and your future bestie will share many unforgettable moments together. In the end, you'll both be happy that you gave this friendship a chance.
Pile 2
AoC, Death, World, Sun, 4oW, 4oS, 7oW, 2oC (7oP)
Pile 2, I see that as soon after you decide to end a relationship or connection that has run its course, you will be ready to meet your next BFF. And they will be like a breath of fresh air entering your life as you close a chapter you've invested a lot of time, effort, and energy into. Most likely, this magical encounter will happen at an event or celebration where you're trying to distract yourself from your emotions and meet new people for purely platonic reasons.
You're on a mission to rediscover the happiness, freedom, and the carefree side of life that you may have forgotten existed, and your new BFF will be your partner in crime along the way. Together, you will have countless fun and joyous experiences as you both shape your lives on your own terms. This connection will be highly valued and cherished by both of you, and you'll defend and protect it at all costs. It's a friendship that will stand the test of time.
Pile 3
2oS, 10oW, Tower, Moon, 2oC, Empress, 8oS, AoC (Justice)
You might be someone who's not too keen on making new connections or perhaps you're often accused of being stuck in your ways. But this new friend you're about to make will completely change your perspective on vulnerability and closeness, and it'll be for the better.
For many of you, this person will enter your life unexpectedly, and you might have doubts about their authenticity or question if they're truly who they claim to be. Due to past experiences of being hurt, deceived, or taken advantage of, some of you may be cautious when someone appears too good to be true. It may take some time for you to warm up to them. However, once you do, they will become one of your most cherished treasures in this lifetime. For some, they may already have children of their own, or they could play a role similar to that of a nurturing mother figure, making you feel loved, cared for, and secure enough to be your authentic self around others. They will always have your best interests at heart.
I can see that this person will help you overcome any internal barriers that prevent you from expressing your deepest thoughts and emotions with others. In return, you will shower them with unconditional love and reveal a side of yourself that very few people ever get to witness. You will enjoy each other's company for many years to come.
Pile 4
8oP. AoW, 5oW rev, 9oS rev, Empress, 9oP, Sun, 10oP (8oW)
Chances are, you'll meet your next BFF at work or when you dive into a new project that ignites your passion. And despite the cutthroat and competitive nature of your job or career, you'll connect with someone who shares your kind and nurturing spirit. Deep down, you and your bestie are both softies who appreciate having someone you can be yourself around. This special bond will make the work week more bearable and give you something to look forward to.
Pile 4, you and your future BFF are an amazing match. Not only are you both creative, hardworking and genuine, but you’re also not afraid to be independent. self-sufficient and bold! And as you progress in your careers, you will motivate and cheer each other on because seeing the other person succeed will bring you both joy. Get ready—this person is on their way to you soon!
Thanks for reading 🔮✨
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pallastrology · 9 months
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how love flows through the houses
first house - in the first house, love flows through us from the first breath. we aren’t always loved by those around us, or by ourselves, but i believe we are at our best when love is in all that we do, and all that we are. the first house rules selfhood; our identity, instincts and reactions, our outward expression. from birth, we naturally seek out attachment and love, and this need never really leaves us, simply changing shape over the years. the first house asks us to be the loving adult we needed as children. to treat ourselves with the love we deserve as humans. it asks us to be ourselves, radically and relentlessly, and not to shrink or hide ourselves from the world. it asks us to be.
second house - the second house is where we find love in our immediate surroundings. it’s how we value ourselves, how we value those around us. the security and comfort we feel in the womb, and later, when we find our true home. it’s feeling safe in our own skin, nourishing and embracing ourselves, letting down an anchor within that we can always return to when times are hard and chaos rules our lives. the love of the second house is found through seeing the inherent worth we have as human beings. it’s love that comes from enough; have enough, feel enough, good enough.
third house - in the third house, love is expressed through curiosity, communication, connections. the questioning eyes of an eager child, the first time you met your childhood best friend, staying up all night to finish a new book. it isn’t a romantic kind of love, but the love that we have for our siblings, our friends, our hometown. there’s a sense of nostalgia to it; it’s pure and sweet and a little silly at times. life can often shame and sweep this type of love away as we get older and have to conform to ever-shifting goalposts. the love of the third house comes from a deep desire to understand, and a keenness to connect with the world - and people - around us. we feel it most when we communicate honestly with ourselves and others, and allow ourselves to be beginners.
fourth house - love in the fourth house feels like sitting under a blanket while a storm blares outside. it’s safety, warmth, a soft, sleepy embrace. it’s the faultless environment of the womb. the fourth house is associated with family, and its love is unconditional, like a family’s should be. we aren’t always blessed with good relatives, but i believe we find our true families throughout life, and that they will love us truly and simply, with no airings attached. we feel the love of the fourth house when we nurture the small, soft parts of ourselves and treat them with the love they missed out on earlier; when we are with our family, whoever they may be; when we are curled up in a corner and everything is okay for now.
fifth house - in the fifth house, it’s easy to see love; it’s all about what we create, what we adore and admire, what we breathe life into. it’s a light, sparkling kind of love, that fills us with a glow and a sense of belonging. it is a love to be shared freely and enthusiastically, to show off a little. when we create a work of art, when we connect with a person for the first time, when we make someone’s day, when we hold a newborn for the first time and see how fragile and beautiful they are, we are embodying the spirit of love in the fifth house. we can honour it by showing ourselves respect, kindness, and pride, by being generous and passionate, by having firsts and by having fun along the way.
sixth house - now we plant our feet back on the ground and find ourselves in the sixth house. love here is much more subtle, but we see it through service; what we do for ourselves, our loved ones, our environment. i would say the theme is devotion, not necessarily in the religious sense, though religion is a divine kind of love in and of itself; but we devote ourselves through selfless, timeless love, and that is exactly the spirit of the sixth house. why do we tend a garden? why do we take in animals? why do we kiss a scraped knee? it all comes from love. when we dedicate ourselves to living at a kinder pace, to taking the time to breathe, to finding the ritualistic in the mundane and to creating a sustainable way of living for ourselves and our loved ones, we are full of love.
seventh house - the seventh house is all about partnership. it’s one of the houses that is almost always associated with love, because it traditionally rules our marriage partner and is ruled by venus and libra. but there’s more to love than marriage, and that’s why i like to say partnership instead. you could say that love is expressed in the seventh house through one-on-one connections; both romantically and otherwise, this is where we love the individuals we journey through life with. it’s all about that red thread that runs between you and them. there’s an intimacy and uniqueness to each relationship here, where you and they are reflected at each other. the love of the seventh house is most clearly felt in those moments when there is nothing else in the world but the two of you.
eighth house - the eighth house is another one that’s often associated with love, though of a less cerebral type than its predecessor. we generally think of the physical here, and that’s not wrong, but perhaps misses an important piece of the puzzle; the eighth house rules shared resources. our bodies are a resource when it comes to love, but really, what we are sharing is trust, vulnerability, the binding of two souls as one. when we meet in the middle with love at the forefront, we give a piece of ourselves, and receive a piece of our lover. we each become the missing piece of the other, transforming ourselves on a level we may or may not feel. love here can be murky, but it runs deep and wild.
ninth house - in the ninth house, we find a subtle, cool love. it isn’t fiery or romantic, but it is ageless and transcendent. the ninth house is all about wisdom, exploration, religion, travel. love here is best felt when we do what we love; when we are learning, growing, moving. stagnation is no good here, and the ninth house shows us we need to be challenged a little in order to become our best selves. it doesn’t mean we need to suffer, but when everything is easy, we stop learning and we stop really living. being honest, explorative, open-minded and passionate is the way to embody this patient, unorthodox kind of love.
tenth house - here, we find love through legacy. what have we built? what have we become? the fire within that helped us grow through our challenges, that helped us find our place and master it, and allowed us to build something worth keeping, is where love resides. it’s that little voice inside that urges us forward when everything is dark. it’s ambition, courage, patience and diligence. we see it in good leaders, in kind parents. love here isn’t always pretty, but it is real. it asks us to create something to leave behind, to pass our love down. it asks us to take control of our destiny and then to relinquish it to our descendants.
eleventh house - in the eleventh house, love is felt and expressed through ideas. the nurturing and sharing of ideas and ideals is what helps us build community; it’s what allows us to better the lives of who and what we love. love is fostered through collaboration, and the eleventh house, ruling friends, community and the widest of our social connections, is all about collaborative effort. i believe that the eleventh house teaches us that love isn’t always easy. it’s work, it involves a lot of slowing down and showing up, a lot of listening, it can be slow and tedious. but love is about wanting to be our best selves, and share our best with the ones we love.
twelfth house - pure, infinite, unconditional love. it's unspoken, untouched, but ever-present. it follows us from the first to the last breath, and wraps itself around us like a silken shroud as we step into the next life. we often don't feel this universal love, not consciously; it's a part of everything. do we feel the oxygen in the air we breathe? well, we feel the lack of it. but here in the twelfth house, there is no lack of love. like its ruling sign of pisces, it’s deep, far beyond our consciousness, and draws from infinite pools of unconditional, true love. we embody it by being vulnerable, kind, and finding the lyricism in the everyday.
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yourlocaltreesimp · 2 months
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Shifter Headcannons
from @trippygalaxy / @acrossthegalaxyau and their OOT!Link, Shifter! Hope you enjoy. @quiteliterallyilliterate come get your man.
TW: ((I’m really not joking this time read em’)) Suicide, suicidal tendencies and explicit self harm.
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I’d say for his sake, if you were going to be properly romantically involved with this man you’d have to beat the trauma before it gets to him. To have someone that holds him close and loves him not in spite of what’s happening— but through it. His vision of love has so long since been warped by what he’s told love should be. In his eyes, he is no knight in shining armour worthy of someone to kiss his wounds better. To him, he’s marred and frayed, not even worth the effort of mending. It’d take a lot of love to get Shifter to understand that your dynamic of love isn’t necessarily what society deemed to be romantic, but it’s what you have and that’s all either of he can demand from the goddess— something that’s finally his.
Shifter switches often between hot and cold. He often yearns to be by your side, crumpled with the guilt of leaving you on your lonesome for possibly months on end. And yet when he finally falls through the door of your shared home, likely beaten and battered, all he wants to do is leave once more. He feels partially as if he’s misleading you. That every time he walks through that door you wish for something of him that he simply could not provide, a more simple relationship. He cannot provide you with a quaint home and quiet mornings curled up together. He cannot even provide you a ring for his fear to leave you officially widowed. He is afraid of heartbreak before he can even hand his cracked heart to you. Moreover, he’s scared to hold your heart. He cannot handle fragile things— let alone something as amazing as you.
While he most certainly appreciates the nuances of your relationship, he doesn’t understand why it is you insist time upon time to stay with him. It simply doesn’t make sense to him. You haven’t been seeking out other company to fill his constant absence, though he’s convinced you should, because what kind of lover is he to miss holidays and birthdays and every other important moment. And that fact of true unconditional love and loyalty is breaking to him. It rips him to shreds. It dampens his hardened heart until it’s soft and alive, much unlike the fabled perfection that’s expected of him. Perhaps there’s something poetic about it— a hero foretold throughout the ages and forged through trials that would break any normal mortal man, is bested by love. Not passion or lust or romance. Just love. Sickening as he found it ‘such trivial topics only meant to waste time’, it was more fact than most within his life.
To him, I see two endings. A hand stretched to the open sky in a barren field. One man lay at the centre, eye shut in a peaceful rest. The breeze cools the unfeeling skin, and his blood nurtures the soil beneath him. The blood seeps into his clothes, every patch you made and hole you mended, was it all ever worth it if this is how it ended? The wind whistled its mourning cry into the empty socket of his eye, a wail echoing through his kind that he couldn’t shut out like he did you. Sword embedded into his abdomen, he wonders what you’ll feel when you get the news of what he’s made of himself. He hopes you don’t cry. He hates it when you cry because he should be the one to prevent it, not cause it. He hopes you’ll find someone to help you as you helped him. He hopes you won’t join him. He doesn’t want to ask for your forgiveness— he’s always asked too much of you. So maybe his hopes can keep you safe in his stead.
But we can turn the page away from such an ending. We can make things anew. With enough wrangling and uncomfortable conversations, perhaps he could settle down. Not to say he’d be normal, no. But he could be convinced to relinquish the goddess’s hold on him for the soft embrace of your arms instead. He’d still wake up with memories burning like hot iron behind his eyes, his lungs gasping for air he can’t seem to breathe in, but now he’s home. Now he doesn’t have to sit in solemn silence. Now he has you. Perhaps this vivid future is Hylia paying penance for what she’s done to him -dismantling him at the very seams of his being until he is scrap- but it’s not like he’s complaining in any reality. When the sun sets and his story is over, he’s glad that it was your hand he held throughout each chapter.
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natalchartnurtures · 5 months
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Venus Got A Lil' Emotional Today
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Note: This post might not give you anything new if you're at an intermediate or advanced level of being on the astrology wildride :p
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Water Venus, on a good day: "My heart is a vessel of boundless compassion, where tenderness and understanding blossom. My love is like water, an endless wellspring, and I am its gentle guardian."
Why?- Arguably one of the most precious placements, in my opinion, Water Venuses on their good days truly do God's work. They give themselves unconditionally to people they love, all while ensuring they take care of themselves as well. It's nurture and emotional intelligence at its peak in a social, interpersonal interaction setting. You can truly model what the internet calls a "healthy relationship": balanced, equal, loving beyond bounds, and, of course, filled with a generous dose of passionate romance.
Speaking of romance, it is the trademark of this placement. You can romanticize anything you like—your life, struggles, or crush; anything goes. It could help you get through a lot of life's uglier situations, you know? It's kind of like your coping mechanism. But, it's your superpower—your love. The depths with which you can hold someone—be it your partner, your child, your friend, or even your own parent in need—don't matter. The subject of your affections always gets your all. That is only IF you feel comfortable with the person. That's your boundary because you love yourself pure and deep; you need to have this layer of protection so you won't be taken advantage of (which is something a lot of Water Venuses on their not-so-good days experience).
Take, for example, how someone with a Scorpio Venus maybe wouldn't like to share themselves with just anybody because you all understand that not EVERYBODY has it in them to handle all that beautiful intensity, authenticity, and expression of deep passion. Your discernment is high because your vulnerability is powerful, and the level of trust required here is immense to support the deep intimacy on the level of the mind as much as on the level of the body. Hence the thick layer of mystery and secrecy around you all, especially in romantic settings, which makes you all look even more sexy to suitors caking on the OBVIOUS physical sexiness going on like, girl, I see you.
This energy also shows up as gentle nurturing paired with a fierce sense of protection for all things you care about. Cancer Venus tends to have an instinct to fight for what has a part of your heart. Motherly instincts if you may? But this placement really marries the fighter and the lover trope; it's mind-blowing, really. Here, Venus's love could be expressed in more emotional ways such as creating a safe space for emotional vulnerability or expressions of tenderness and nurturing of the other through whatever you enjoy nurturing other people with, like through cooking (to nurture loved ones physically), through deep conversations (mentally), or giving your loved ones tarot readings even? (Spiritually); whatever you define nurturing is applicable here.
And then again, a Water Venus could manifest as the dreamy, otherworldly, fantastical kind of love that is almost angelic in its frequency when realized in its higher octaves. You bet I'm talking about you, Pisces Venus. You have a wise kind of love that also simultaneously feels childlike and all-encompassing. Compassionate, forgiving, and devotional—the power of love meets the divinity of a human. Powerful as words can describe. This placement puts the unconditional in unconditional love :p; it's quite beautiful to see. And because of their characteristic lack of conditions when it comes to their way of loving, it's quite healing for the rest of us to experience their love, especially for the ones that have faced a tremendous amount of "conditional love."
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Thanks for stopping by, kind soul :)
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crisiscutie · 11 months
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Regarding the Sephology 101 course, I would like to ask about a basic analysis into the psychological aspect of Sephiroth. As a Sephiroth admirer since I was kid, I really love to learn more about the mysterious man
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Content Warning: Discussions of child abuse and trauma. Long ramble below.
Welcome to Sephology 101. The course is now open!
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We know from the canon that Sephiroth's psychological aspect has been painted by Shinra ever since he was born. His life was defined by TRAUMA. Before he was born, he was subjected to harrowing experiments, the first of his many traumas. That's already going to heavily influence his psychology and his well being. That is not even mentioning other genetic predispositions he inherited from his parents. Being taken away from his mother as a baby was undoubtedly a traumatic event as well, and its effects can be felt in his life, even though he can't remember it.
Shinra has crafted him into the perfect SOLDIER. Dutiful, obedient, strong, intelligent. I'm sure they only gave him the bare necessities and concentrated heavily on the art of warfare. And like I once said, he must've had an immense pressure to always be the best. He can't let up or appear weak, he kept up appearances. I've read an official fun fact that Sephiroth was a full time frontline fighter before he was TEN YEARS OLD. That is tragic and wild to me on so many levels. I always knew he was a child soldier, but I would've thought he spent most of his formative years preparing for the battlefield and occasionally visiting it.
Being a child soldier itself is just a mountain of trauma. He was taught to do and suffer through horrible things, but deep down, he was seeking validation without even being aware of it. Children's love for their caregivers is almost unconditional, particularly when they are very young. They will do what is taught to them, they will modify their behavior to accommodate the demands of the adults around them and they will have a strong faith in the adults to cherish and protect them... I'd imagine Sephiroth lost this unconditional love for Shinra as he grew up. Especially when he was given autonomy as a reward for his growing fame, like the ability to wear his own clothing, decline missions, discover his own hobbies, etc. These all gave him a sense of empowerment. With this, he will see more of what others had that he didn't. There's also the factor of how Shinra kept putting him into one traumatic situation into another... No matter how normalized abuse is, you will feel horrible about what is happening to you in some way or another, especially if it's by something or someone as your caregiver...
Another psychological aspect to focus on is that Sephiroth did not have a strong social circle. He had very few connections. The four known and strongest ones being Professor Gast, Angeal, Genesis and later Zack in Crisis Core, when the last two before him abandoned Sephiroth. I will say Sephiroth was attracted to these four not just because of the familiarity and comfort they bring to him, but also their nurturement. They encouraged Sephiroth to express and explore himself, and let him know that he wasn't alone. They were his anchors. Being around Sephiroth often was a requirement too, and the more time they spent together, the stronger their connection. This goes for those who Sephiroth despises, too. They stood out amongst the gray and muddied world in his mind to become a person of interest.
What astounded me the most about Sephiroth was his ability to remain composed and devoted despite his traumatic past. He was often distant to most people, but he showed a special kind of affection to his select few loved ones, and occasionally gave this attention to the men under his command. I think there was a deep and innate goodness within him, which was unfortunately destroyed when the truth about his background and who his 'mother' was was revealed.
I think Sephiroth's empathy doesn't get enough discussion. And yes, he is an empath, even Post-Nibelheim. Let me explain: I think his empathy is rooted in his time on the battlefield, where he had to be vigilant and pick up on the slightest changes in his environment and persons around him. Great fighters are great thinkers. Outside of the battlefield, he uses his empathy to pick up on the feelings of those around him and to express his compassion in the best way he knows how. Even before he was friends with Zack, he knew he had a special bond with Angeal, and he felt a pang of guilt whenever he asked Zack to take on his assignments. In Nibelheim, he picked up on the deep yearning of his men, particularly Cloud's, to see their loved ones again and he showed concern for Tifa when she wanted to go inside the reactor.
Post-Nibelheim, his empathy is more twisted. Thanks to his time in the Lifestream and his Jenova cells, he was able to tap into people's emotions to inflict emotional pain. In my opinion, I think the biggest showcase of this is when he read Tifa's mind and created an elaborate story of how Cloud was just a Jenova puppet created by Hojo. That's a rather impressive feat, and he was so close to breaking Cloud then... His silver tongue is as sharp as his sword.
Sephiroth's sadism is sophisticated, yet viciously merciless. He desires to break others down and to project his own traumas and weaknesses into them. I'm fairly certain he does not think himself as evil and rather, righteous in dispensing the pain the world has caused him and his "mother"...
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Anyway, there is much more unpack about Sephiroth, but that's what Sephology 101 is for. Feel free to ask questions or send some contributions. The course is open now.
~ TA C.C
Also, I called it on 7R Rebirth not being at the Playstation Showcase.
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pokedigi · 6 months
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Little Fic Series Idea, Part 1
Sorry if its a little long for you
Platonic Young Child Male Tamer x Female Symbareangoramon
Where the female Symbareangoramon becomes the child’s new babysitter and later mother.
Idea: The kid spends a lot of time with digimon, which she finds both sweet, but worrying. Their parents are never there to take them back, or to watch over them to make sure they are safe. Of course the kid is clearly taken care of, but just not played or interacted with by their parents if she watches them through the windows, the parents are just so busy it seems. Plus, if she sees them, something feels off about them(the parents), but she can’t put her figure on it.  And one day, after seeing a babysitter run off, with no parents checking in after, she decides to take the child into her possession/custody where the child is strangely more happy with.
GN!Child x F!SymbareAngoramon - Part 1
💙: I left the child's gender gender neutral, but if you want them to be a boy or girl, let me know in part 2. I enjoyed writing this! Thank you.
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In a quaint suburban neighborhood, a peculiar friendship blossomed between a child and a SymbareAngoramon. The child possessed a heart full of innocence and curiosity. Their days were spent exploring the wonders of the Digital and real world alongside their faithful companion, SymbareAngoramon.
However, this wasn't always the case before. As behind the closed doors of their home, a disconcerting reality unfolded. The child's parents, though physically present, were emotionally distant, consumed by their busy lives and careers. Their interactions with their only child were limited, leaving the poor child craving the warmth of parental love and attention.
Through her observant eyes, SymbareAngoramon noticed the neglect that tugged at the child's heartstrings. The child's parents rarely interacted with them.
SymbareAngoramon watched as other babysitters came and went, leaving the child despondent each time. One night, after witnessing yet another babysitter hastily leave without a backward glance, SymbareAngoramon's kind heart couldn't bear to see the child's longing for affection go unanswered any longer.
With a quiet determination, SymbareAngoramon decided to take matters into her own hands. She gently approached the child's window balcony, her mellow disposition cloaked in an aura of tranquility. With a subtle touch of her hand against the opened window, SymbareAngoramon stepped inside, finding the child playing alone in their room, their eyes brimming with unshed tears.
Sensing the child's need for companionship and love, SymbareAngoramon approached them, offering a comforting presence. In that moment, an unspoken bond formed between them, a connection that transcended the boundaries of species. SymbareAngoramon became the child's steadfast protector, their guardian of serenity.
Under SymbareAngoramon's watchful eye, the child's laughter returned, and their days were filled with joy and wonder for the first time. The gentle Digimon showered the child with unconditional love, providing the care and attention they had craved for so long. As the days turned into weeks, and weeks into months, the child flourished under SymbareAngoramon's nurturing guidance. The once-sad child now beamed with happiness, their eyes sparkling with newfound confidence.
With SymbareAngoramon by their side, the child embarked on countless adventures, both in the Digital World and the real one. SymbareAngoramon's wisdom and calm demeanor became a source of inspiration for the child, shaping them into a compassionate and empathetic young soul. Together, they faced challenges, learned valuable life lessons, and embraced the boundless beauty of friendship.
While the outside world remained oblivious to the profound transformation within the child, SymbareAngoramon's quiet wisdom and unwavering love had healed a wounded heart. In the embrace of their gentle guardian, the child found the love and acceptance they had always longed for.
The new life of the child and SymbareAngoramon became a testament to the extraordinary power of love, friendship, and the unbreakable bond that could form between the most unlikely of companions. In the heart of their shared adventures, they discovered the true meaning of family — a love that transcended species and surpassed the boundaries of the ordinary, reminding the world that sometimes, the most extraordinary families are the ones chosen by the heart.
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sweetlyocs · 2 years
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Phoenix & Her Types of Love (NCT DREAM)
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Mark
PHILIA – AFFECTIONATE, FRIENDLY LOVE
Mark wasn’t the first person she had ever trusted but he was her biggest motivation and to her, she would follow him anywhere. The two are bonded in such a way that they are willing to sacrifice themselves to ensure that the other is able to achieve their own goals, it has landed them in some arguments but at the end of the day it’s one of their main ways to show how they truly love one another. They are the storybook dream of what a best friend should include and they can always find their way back to each other
Jeno
AGAPE – SELFLESS, UNIVERSAL LOVE
Jeno has never hidden how he cares for Phoenix, the two have been close for most of their lives but Phoenix is always in awe of how much he can give. She feels that she lacks quite a lot in their relationship so whenever she gets to experience his kindness she tries to use that to help another, whether that be Jeno, another member or even a stranger. Jeno has taught her many things through his love so she tries to use those lessons daily
Renjun
PHILAUTIA – SELF LOVE
Phoenix has had to witness many dark nights as a team mate of Renjun’s so she found it key to slowly incorporate lessons in self care to him. Phoenix made it a point to ensure that he understood how much love and kindness he deserves by in tern, leading by example. Though if one is too caught in themselves, the other is there to remind and humble them
Haechan
LUDUS – PLAYFUL, FLIRTATIOUS LOVE
The bond and love between Haechan and Somin is that teasing, what if kind of love that never goes too far. They are aware of any kind of attraction and are not immune to acting on their feelings rather than proper thoughts but they are easily able to slip back into straight platonic ventures too. They prefer to keep a playful image in front of others but provide comforting support behind closed doors
Jaemin
EROS – ROMANTIC, PASSIONATE LOVE (OF THE BODY)
The blurred lines sit strongly between Jaemin and Phoenix, as the two have never thought about hiding any kind of emotion from the other. Jaemin and Somin have gotten caught up in the moment many of times and when this happens they act purely on the world appearing through rose coloured glasses. The two have a love shared through many different foundations and its those bonds that make their small reincarnated lovers trope so strong. Phoenix finds the romance in the world with Jaemin and finds herself comparing her future with her present, building unwavering and unrealistic expectations for herself and her future partner
Chenle
STORGE – UNCONDITIONAL, FAMILIAL LOVE
Phoenix’s love for Chenle is at times very selfish, she finds herself needing to have him to hold and love much like a mother even if he isn’t wanting to return the favour. When they became close when he was young the older would love to dote on him and appear at his every call to which he loved the attention of. As he’s grown, Phoenix has felt herself feel as if she isn’t as widely needed and that has lead her to grow other kinds of loves but her forever unconditional will always be Chenle. 
Jisung 
PRAGMA – COMMITTED, LONG-LASTING LOVE
Phoenix never felt the need to coddle and baby Jisung which in turn made the two closer in other ways, mainly the fact that she allowed him to grow in ways he felt suffocated - sharing his dreams, insecurities and how he endured what they were facing. The two are muchly in sync and often communicate without words but their bond is one that is constantly nurtured and left to grow which has resulted in what Somin feels as the most beautiful love she has in NCT. Jisung is someone that she always see’s in her future and one that she knows will be protecting her from all sides at every moment
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I had to jump in here to just completely agree with a comment you made to your last anon ask, which was that Harry had much more similarities with Sirius than James - YES!!!
I always see Harry as a parallel of Sirius, and I think a large part of this is down to their upbringings, and their relationships with their guardians (I refuse to call the Dursleys Harry’s family). James and Lily were arguably well loved, which was the root of their confidence. James as an only child to elderly parents, and even Lily was more favored by her parents. She experienced discrimination in the Wizarding World, but, in spite of having a troubled relationship with her sister, she was loved. I think Sirius, despite being the Black heir, didn’t experience love in his childhood. After he was sorted to Gryffindor, this is when it deteriorated to outright hate. Tragically, Harry knew nothing but neglect and hate at the Dursley’s so he has none of the confidence or drive his parents has. I see his attitude and aloofness much more similar to Sirius’ than James or Lily’s. I think Sirius was confident too, but in an untouchable, do-not-talk-to-me way. Harry, thanks to the Dursleys and his fame as the Boy Who Lived has a similar bubble around him.
I can go on for hours and hours on this, but I’ll finish off here just saying that it’s such an interesting look into nature vs. nurture. Harry clearly has inherited traits from both his parents, but his experiences have made him most like Sirius.
no but i totally agree!! (and if you…ever…wanna drop in with more commentary for hours on end, feel free, anon 👀)
sirius and harry’s experience parallel each other in interesting ways too. like on the fact of it, they’ve had wildly contrasting lives. i think a feature of sirius’ childhood was conditional love whereas for harry, it was undisputed dislike/hatred/disgust (even if he didn’t know why). they faced different kinds of neglect/abuse and for different reasons, and it definitely shaped them differently too. sirius is confident, like u mentioned, and charming and competent and knows his worth (presumably because of how privilege; always being aware of it, especially as he becomes more conscious of the tensions running within the wixen world) whereas harry grew up fully other’d. he’s a visibly downtrodden kid ykno? ratty clothes; broken glasses; shy, self conscious demeanour (sirius’ first meeting w james vs harry’s w ron comes to mind here)—he’s the exact opposite of ‘knowing your place’ here. i also think their feelings re their family (or relatives, in harry’s case, bc hard agree that’s not a family) would be different. i always imagine sirius to be more conflicted than harry would be tbh.
but despite that, there’s so things that are similar. entering a world that’s not your own but becomes ur family (slightly less monumental for sirius in gryffindor, but similar in spirit, i’d argue); finding ride-or-die friends (some draw james-ron parallels here but i think the latter only works in its potential tbh); getting unconditional love and support, discovering healthy family dynamics, learning to open up, growth & development etc etc
people keep bringing up james and lily as points of comparison for harry, and i think a part of that comes from they thinking they should. but the loyalty? the guardedness? the dysfunctional childhood? always expecting the worst? the do-they-like-me-for-me-or-what-i-am/can-do-for-them dilemma? entirely sirius imo.
this is also why, i think, in a universe where james & lily find harry at the same time sirius does—it would still be sirius harry gravitates towards the most. i’m not underestimating james’ ability to be with a traumatised kid (clearly, he was good at it once) but it’d be different now due to the age difference. i think harry would recognise like, feel safer with sirius.
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relationshipsure09 · 6 months
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What is love in a relationship?
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Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that plays a crucial role in any relationship. It is a deep affection and attachment towards another person, characterized by care, understanding, and support. Love in a relationship goes beyond mere attraction or infatuation; it is a deep connection that binds two individuals together. In this article, we will explore the meaning of love in a relationship, its importance, different types of love, how to build and maintain it, and ways to strengthen it.
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Defining love in a relationship
Love in a relationship can be defined as a strong emotional bond between two individuals that involves trust, respect, and mutual understanding. It is a feeling of deep affection and attachment towards your partner, where you genuinely care for their well-being and happiness. Love is not just a fleeting emotion; it is a commitment to support and nurture the relationship through both good times and bad.
The importance of love in a relationship
Love is the foundation of a healthy and fulfilling relationship. It provides a sense of security, emotional support, and happiness. When love is present in a relationship, it creates a safe space for both partners to express themselves, be vulnerable, and grow together. Love also enhances the overall quality of the relationship, making it more satisfying and fulfilling.
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Different types of love in a relationship
In a relationship, love can manifest in different forms. Some common types of love include:
Romantic love: This is the passionate and intense love that is often associated with the early stages of a relationship. It is characterized by strong physical attraction, infatuation, and a desire to be close to your partner.
Companionate love: This type of love is based on deep friendship, trust, and emotional intimacy. It is a love that develops over time and is characterized by a strong sense of companionship, support, and shared values.
Unconditional love: Unconditional love is a selfless and unconditional affection towards your partner. It is a love that accepts and embraces your partner's flaws and imperfections, without any expectations or conditions.
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Building love in a relationship
Love in a relationship is not something that happens automatically; it requires effort and commitment from both partners. Here are some key factors that contribute to building love in a relationship:
Communication: Open and honest communication is essential for building love in a relationship. It allows both partners to express their needs, desires, and concerns, fostering understanding and empathy.
Trust: Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship. Building trust involves being reliable, keeping promises, and being transparent with your partner. Trust creates a sense of security and emotional intimacy.
Respect: Respect is crucial in maintaining a healthy and loving relationship. It involves valuing your partner's opinions, boundaries, and individuality. Respecting each other's differences and treating each other with kindness and empathy strengthens the love between partners.
Support: Supporting your partner through both the ups and downs of life is a vital aspect of love in a relationship. Being there for each other, offering encouragement, and providing emotional support strengthens the bond between partners.
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Challenges in maintaining love in a relationship
While love is essential in a relationship, it is not always smooth sailing. There are challenges that can strain the love between partners. Some common challenges include:
Conflict: Disagreements and conflicts are inevitable in any relationship. However, how couples handle these conflicts can either strengthen or weaken their love. Effective communication, compromise, and finding common ground are key to resolving conflicts and maintaining love.
Lack of communication: Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and distance between partners. It is important to actively listen to your partner, express your feelings, and address any issues that arise.
Infidelity: Infidelity can severely damage the trust and love in a relationship. Rebuilding trust after infidelity requires open communication, forgiveness, and a commitment to work through the pain and rebuild the relationship.
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Ways to strengthen love in a relationship
To strengthen the love in a relationship, couples can incorporate the following practices into their daily lives:
Quality time together: Spending quality time together, free from distractions, allows couples to connect and deepen their bond. Engaging in activities that both partners enjoy and creating shared experiences strengthens the love between them.
Acts of kindness: Small acts of kindness and thoughtfulness can go a long way in showing love and appreciation for your partner. Simple gestures like cooking their favorite meal or leaving a sweet note can make a significant impact.
Expressing gratitude: Expressing gratitude for your partner and the things they do for you can foster love and appreciation. Regularly acknowledging and thanking your partner for their efforts and qualities strengthens the love between you.
Physical affection: Physical affection, such as hugging, kissing, and holding hands, releases oxytocin, the "love hormone." Regular physical affection strengthens the emotional bond between partners and enhances feelings of love and connection.
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Conclusion
Love is the cornerstone of a healthy and fulfilling relationship. It is a deep emotional bond that involves trust, respect, and mutual understanding. Building and maintaining love in a relationship requires effort, communication, and commitment from both partners. By nurturing love through effective communication, trust, respect, and support, couples can strengthen their bond and create a lasting and loving relationship.
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positively-me1 · 6 months
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5 Reasons Why Rose Quartz Necklace Is Revered as Spiritual Talismans
In the world of healing crystals and spiritual well-being, rose quartz stands out as a gemstone that has captured hearts for centuries. Revered for its gentle and loving energy, this beautiful pink crystal is often transformed into necklaces, serving as powerful spiritual talismans. Here are five compelling reasons why a Rose Quartz Necklace is cherished as a spiritual ally.
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1. Unconditional Love & Compassion
At the core of rose quartz’s reputation is its connection to the heart chakra, the energy center associated with love, compassion, and emotional healing. Wearing a Rose Quartz Necklace close to your heart is believed to promote feelings of self-love, empathy, and forgiveness.
It acts as a constant reminder to approach life with an open heart, fostering kindness and compassion towards oneself and others. And that is the reason why necklaces with Rose Quartz crystal are always considered a preferred choice for Spiritual Jewelry.
2. Healing Emotional Wounds
Rose quartz is often called the “Stone of Love” or the “Heart Stone” because of its ability to soothe emotional wounds and ease emotional pain. Wearing a Rose Quartz Necklace can help you release and heal past hurts, traumas, and negative emotions, allowing you to move forward with a lighter heart and a renewed sense of self.
3. Calming & Relaxing Energy
In our fast-paced, modern lives, stress and anxiety can often overwhelm us. Rose quartz’s calming and gentle energy can help alleviate these feelings. Wearing a rose quartz Spiritual Jewelry can provide a sense of inner peace, reducing stress levels and promoting relaxation. It's like carrying a piece of tranquillity with you wherever you go.
4. Enhancing Relationships
Whether it is romantic, familial, or platonic, rose quartz is believed to have the power to enhance and heal relationships. Wearing a necklace with rose quartz crystal can attract love and strengthen existing bonds. It encourages healthy communication, understanding, and harmony in all types of relationships, making it an excellent choice for those seeking connection and unity.
5. Self-Care & Self-Discovery
Wearing rose quartz Spiritual Jewelry is a beautiful act of self-care and self-discovery. It encourages you to prioritize your emotional well-being and embark on a journey of self-discovery and self-love. This gentle stone reminds you to take moments for reflection, meditation, and self-care, helping you become more in tune with your inner self.
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In conclusion, a Rose Quartz Necklace is much more than a beautiful accessory. It is a spiritual talisman that radiates love, healing, and compassion. Whether you wear it for its calming energy, emotional healing properties, or to enhance your relationships, the gentle and nurturing energy of rose quartz can be a cherished companion on your spiritual journey.
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typewritelove · 8 months
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Numerology
numerology is any belief in the divine or mystical relationship between a number and one or more coinciding events. It is also the study of the numerical value of the letters in words, names, and ideas. It is often associated with the paranormal, alongside astrology and similar divinatory arts.
1- symbol of independence, new beginnings, and confidence. It is a natural leader and proactive force. It pushes us to look at our current circumstances and realize we have the power to turn them into anything we wish.
2- supremely feminine force, one that represents both grace and power. It is always cooperative, aiming to to bring back balance and peace back into a relationship or situation. At the core the number 2 represent relationships. On a deeper level this number can pick up on energies only felt but not seen, known as empathy.
3- communication, creativity, and connection go along with the number 3. It’s energy is upbeat and youthful and has a incredible zest for life. The number three is highly original and embraces the unique thinking and creative expression. The number 3 never misses the chance for fun, to engage with others, and to express love and joy.
4- The number 4 is extremely dependable and lends a great amount of stability to a person or situation. The 4 is dedicated to advancing, but in a more conservative way than a progressive one. It sticks to what is tried-and-true instead of attempting methods that are new. It has a strict definition of right and wrong and tends to see things as black and white with no grey in between. The number 4 leads with its head, not its heart, and uses this mental strength to build a life of service and contentment.
5- acts as a go-between and a pivotal point of change. A key characteristic of the number 5 is curiosity and the need for a variety of exciting experiences in order to feel fulfilled. It craves freedom and adventure and isn't afraid to let the wind carry it where it may. Master of change, able to go with the flow and adapt itself to thrive in different environments and social situations. It is happiest when things feel fresh, high energy, and full of possibility. The only thing this number is attached to is detachment.
6- The number 6 is all about love. It represents unconditional love and the ability to support, nurture, and heal. It is a powerful force of compassion and empathy and its warm light is a beacon of hope. Its role is to use its heart and soul to be of service to others. Its empathy makes others comfortable letting down their guard and being open and honest about their feelings which, in turn, allows it to understand and provide the help that's needed.
7- The number 7 is both deep and wise. Asking questions, researching, listening, and sensing are all special skills the 7 uses in its search for awareness. This combination of conscious and subconscious thinking allows the mind of the Numerology number 7 to shine a light into the very deepest realms to access hidden truths. it takes a more intellectual approach to life than an emotional one.
8- number 8 is the achiever and measures life by the goals it reaches. It has good business sense, a powerful presence, and a strong drive for success. The 8 is also a symbol of balance -- you can see it in its symmetrical shape. For every blessing it receives, it puts one back out to the universe.
9- The energy of the number 9 represents completion, but not finality. Think of it more in a cyclical sense; it's about the ending of one cycle and the potential it creates for another cycle to begin. It absorbs answers from a spiritual source, then delivers them to us in the real world. It is compassionate, kind, and intent on putting its efforts toward creating the greatest good. The 9 in Numerology has gone through its fair share of hardship and is wiser, stronger, and more aware as a result.
Every number has some sort of meaning, whether it’s 444, 582, 123, or your birthday- there is some sort of meaning behind it.
Disclaimer: not everyone may resonate with the meanings behind numbers they may see often- could be a coincidence, could also be the incorrect number.
Let’s say you see 444 constantly, you go and luck it up and see that 444 means typically you’re on the right path or your spirit guides are with you- what if you in your heart and soul know you’re on the wrong path?
Instead of going with 444 or dismissing the whole thing all together add those numbers up: 4+4+4=12 (1+2=3) so maybe you’ll resonate with the meanings of 3 more so that what 444 had to say.
reminder: when doing numerals you want single digit unless it’s a master number (11 & 22) but everything is up to what YOU resonate with the most.
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averyellz · 10 months
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My grandma holds an incredibly special place in my heart, and her importance in my life cannot be overstated. She has been a pillar of love, support, and wisdom throughout my entire existence. From my earliest memories to my current stage in life, she has been a constant source of joy and comfort.
Her unconditional love and affection have nurtured me during both the happy and challenging times. Whenever I needed a listening ear or a shoulder to cry on, she was there, offering gentle words of encouragement and understanding. Her presence has always been a warm embrace that envelops me with a feeling of safety and security.
Beyond her love, my grandma has been a source of invaluable wisdom. Her life experiences and stories have taught me countless lessons about resilience, compassion, and perseverance. I have learned from her that strength comes not only from physical might but from the depths of one's heart and the power of an unwavering spirit.
Her kind and giving nature have inspired me to be a better person, to spread kindness and compassion to others as she has done throughout her life. She has taught me the importance of family bonds, the value of cherishing every moment, and the significance of the little things in life that often carry the most meaning.
As the years pass, I cherish the moments spent with her even more. Time becomes a treasure, and every opportunity to be in her presence is a gift. Whether it's sharing stories, cooking together, or simply sitting in comfortable silence, every interaction is a memory to be cherished for a lifetime.
My grandma's love has helped shape who I am today, and I am forever grateful for the impact she has had on my life. She has not only been a grandmother but also a best friend, a confidante, and a role model. Her love and influence continue to guide me as I navigate the complexities of life.
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Stained glass art has a timeless quality, and its beauty endures through the ages. Similarly, the lessons we learn from our struggles and the love we share with others leave a lasting impact on the world, continuing to inspire and touch lives long after we are gone.
In essence, stained glass resonates with me as a symbol of hope, resilience, and the transformative power of turning brokenness into beauty. It reminds me to embrace life's challenges as opportunities for growth, to appreciate the interconnectedness of humanity, and to find beauty in both the flaws and perfections that make each of us unique.
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loveandpain312 · 10 months
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6/30/23
Ryan was home and left a little under a week ago. The first few days were rough, honestly. My stress of having to share him, my burning need for control over our time, ruined the mood a little at first, for both of us. We went to Colorado, and it was nice. I love and am comfortable with his family. We were together a lot, but he also was off a lot, with Brooks and the guys. The wedding day was beautiful. Full of love and happiness. The most memorable moment was the day after the wedding, after the girls all went to the small mining town while the guys went to the casino, I was hoping Mikayla would drop me off at the airbnb after, but instead she brought me to her apartment to hang out as we waited for the boys. I was sleepy, she set the TV up for me to lay there while her and Makaia brought the other girl home. I was dozing off, watching adventure time when they returned. We stayed up talking for over an hour, gossiping, sharing relationship drama and stories, and bonding. It was a moment that made me feel whole, that female bond. There is nothing better, than feeling safe in a woman's presence. It’s warm, gentle, nurturing. In contrast to the firey, passionate, intense feeling of safety in a mans arms. Its the beautiful and gentle balance of energy, manifested in human kind. Both are necessary, powerful. I cherish both. But I feel the most safe in that female space. Seen. Understood. And it makes sense. Its that feminine, sisterly bond. I don’t know Mikayla well, but I am so thankful for her. She embodies that nurturing, pure feminine softness and love. She is a great person. I look up to her. I am so excited for her to be my sister for life, soon.
Then ryan forgot about me and forgot to pick me up! He apologized deeply...
When we went home, I had a small meltdown. I cried. I’ve been getting in my head badly. not understanding whats real or what im making up, what im justified for feeling and whats fantasy. And then I hate myself for feeling, being upset, making something an issue. I latch onto emotions and blow up. Hate myself for it, then hate myself for hating myself for it. It all came out, leaking into our relationship. We talked through it, and I spent the evening and following day, giving myself and him space from each other, trying to reconnect with myself. I felt better by the end of the day. He came over and each day after was special and more fulfilling. On Tuesday, we got breakfast at Josephs, then went home to watch some love island and hang out. We went and got Nelsons, then went to his house to swim. Swimming with him gave me butterflies, it made me feel giddy. I have such a big crush on this boy. I felt a whole lot of nostalgia... back in stillwater, no worries, just spending time together, getting icecream, swimming. i felt back in high school again, But this time he didnt break my heart. I can’t believe this boy is now mine, for good. He went fishing with his dad, then i picked him back up, we made really good sliders and watched the mario movie which i loved. We had many amazing moments together. On our last day, we saw the flash movie. It was an emotional movie, at the end i held his hand and thought about how fully I love him, With my whole body. Its unconditional, he can do nothing wrong in my eyes now. We have our incompatibiites. We fight, We disagree, We clash. But we love each other. We grow together, we have passion. This love is the one I have always felt I will have in my soul. and while sometimes it is hard, it is everything to me, Our love is valuable, i would never throw it away. I have lived and learned and made mistakes and now I know how committed I am to loving him forever. I love him so much it consumes me. I am so excited to be in his arms for good in 2 short months. We are almost there. I feel our love is written in the pages of a book. I will cherish it all my life. How I love Ryan so much. 
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210618 ✦ shownu + the color pink (unconditional love, nurture, hope
Kind and nurturing, pink is a friendly color that soothes and comforts us, bringing both joy and warmth in our lives. It is always observant; it takes note of how other people feel and boosts their morale. Pink seeks to accept others and does not intimidate or threaten; rather, it elevates the spirit.
As the color of hope, pink works hard to counteract complicated emotions such as rage, aggression, and wrath. Pink is not a rash color; instead, its calming presence serves to remind us that even in moments of helplessness, everything will be okay. It is endlessly thoughtful and encourages us to become more empathetic and understanding of both ourselves and those around us. Despite its vibrancy and showmanship, however, pink does not always enjoy being in the center of attention. Too much pink may represent moments of self-doubt or hesitancy, occasionally causing one to overlook their own needs in favors of helping others.
Overall, pink takes the edge of the extremes of red, transforming that passion and drive into a softer, more loving energy. Its steadfast conviction and love for life makes it difficult not to smile and lose hope in the presence of pink.
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dear shownu, our beloved sohn hyunwoo, happy birthday! thank you for always being such steadfast presence for monsta x and monbebe alike to rely on. without your unbreakable spirit and kindness, we would all be worse off. though i missed you terribly during gambler promotions, i’m glad that you’re resting well. congratulations on one of a kind’s success! there are no words to express how proud i am of how much you and the other members have grown this past year. thank you for all of your hard work. happy birthday, hyunwoo. i hope today brings you happiness and health. i love you.
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I like to request a tim/Masky x yn . Yn’s life being emotional ride between Kind Tim and your version of mark. I want to see what you can write by using this idea because you are a great writer.
I am assuming it was autocorrect but I had many laughs over the fact that Masky became Mark.
Hope ya like it~!
I'm not gonna lie and say it was all peaches and cream, sweeter than sweet when you two started dating. Well, to be fair, it probably was when you started dating Tim, but, well, once you learned about who Masky was, that kinda went straight out the window. An emotional rollercoaster is probably the best way to put something like that as a label for your relationship with these two.
With Tim, life is domestic. It comes naturally, as naturally as breathing. No cruelness, just unconditional and reciprocated love, where you never have a worry in your mind about where the relationship is going or if the two of you are on the same page or not. With Masky, life is the opposite. There's no love, no reciprocation. Just roughness, cruelty, and pain. He barely remembers to ask for consent for anything have the time, just grabbing onto you and taking what he wants, and when he does remember to ask, he's rough and angry and impatient about it, with cruel words sinking into your bones.
Finding a balance between the two of them is a struggle, as they're polar opposites. Over time, things become easier. Masky isn't as stubborn when it comes to asking for permission for things, although he still never grows to care for you. Tim continues to be the nurturing one, always checking in on you and being the one to dry your tears and keep you happy. The only good thing you get from Masky is protection; mostly because he doesn't like when other people touch his 'possessions'. Dating Tim and Masky isn't easy, it isn't smooth, and it has its ups and downs. There are still some good days, when Tim is fully relaxed, and when Masky comes out and decides to spare you from his cruel tongue, tolerating your presence. But it will never be like that 100% of the time so long as Masky exists.
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💙Hi there! , First of all i want to tell you that i love your blog! And i love how your posts are so accurate!💙 If its okay with you could you please do me a favor by describing how others see me,my appearance or more specifically the vibe I radiate to others! It would mean alot to me if you you do that💙I'm a cancer sun,leo rising,Lilith sextile asc, Pluto trine asc, Uranus opposition asc, Moon opposition asc, mars sextile venus, mars opposition neptune, asteroid lilith conjunct mc and jupiter in the 1st house!💙
Hola!
Thank you that's really kind of you 💛💕
You know that quote that says Cinderella never asked for a prince. All she wanted was a night out and a dress. You kind of exude a similar vibe but with respect to leadership positions. 'I never asked to be Queen/King, but the people have spoken' kind of an energy. You would be equally happy to be by yourself, learning about the subconscious mind, higher realms and other esoteric science.
For more on Jupiter in LEO I'd recommend watching Astrofinesse.
For jupiter in the first there's KRS.
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🌻As a Leo rising you come across as someone outgoing, with a playful energy but you're also somehow someone people would expect to see in a position of authority. You're drawn to people who stimulate you intellectually and love to exchange ideas.
😬If you have an Aquarius saturn you could be having some challenges in your relationships since December 2020 as saturn transits your 7th house. I'd suggest practicing discernment in this area as well as signing contracts with people until it passes( early 2023) ..
😇12th house sun could take on other people's energy. I feel like you need some time away, by yourself, preferably at the beach / pool/ shower to declutter, clear your head and replenish your sense of Self. You could be highly intuitive. If this resonates, I'd urge you to look up empath drain and how to protect yourself from energy vampires.
Ruler of the ascendant in the 12th :
spirituality could be a huge part of your life. For some people this could show a father (figure) who was convicted or worked in a prison / asylum. They could also have a really remote job. Since the sun is also your own personal identity, you could profit off these themes. Working in a mental health facility, overseas, in esoteric crafts.
🌛With your moon in the 7th house, you probably attract a lot of older women, (queen of swords) nurturing energies . Your mom could have a major influence on any business partnerships that you enter.
In relationships you could have a here today gone tomorrow kind of a presence. This is because as the moon waxes and wanes so does your attraction / attachment to specific people?
♒Aquarius moon : it could be really hard for you to express your feelings. So Instead of asking for a hug there could be a tendency to say something like ' ew imagine asking for one?' you leave a place better than you found it. If you watch hindi movies, 3 Idiots could be a movie you really resonate with. ( I pretty much spent the day looking up the lead actor, who has major aquarius placements and his films have always been disruptive with a really nice social message that left people talking for years after they were released. I tell you this because he shares 2 of your big 3 - aquarius and cancer.)
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Going off on this tangent you could be a well respected teacher / writer / entertainer. Jupiter in LEO could help with this.
I do feel like you need a certain amount of inventiveness in your relationships. The people you're with are people who introduce you to new hobbies / ideas / technologies. You need to feel like you guys learn something new or create something that matters together. This is enhanced by uranus in the 7th house. You could come across really cold because you always give people the naked honest truth when asked. You do this from a place of love. I'm reminded of the Queen of Swords card in the rider Waite tarot. Not everyone has the maturity to take it. Or maybe they've just had a bad day. It is what it is. Perhaps try to not be so incisive if this is something you struggle with.
In the same vein, if I asked you to write down how you were feeling how long would it take for you to identify the right emotion. How honest are you with yourself?
Moon and Uranus being in the same house could show that stagnation could really hurt your mental health / happiness / satisfaction levels.
With a saturn ruled moon I feel like I need to remind you to not be so hard on yourself. Like. The world won't crumble to dust if you allow yourself to take care of you once in a while.there's only so much you can do.
All those coffee mugs will catch up. There's no such thing as extra hours in the day. A lack of sleep manifests as early signs of aging. No hate for the elderly but arthritis is not a fun ailment to have. Do you wanna be 60 with 80 year old nervous system problems? I rest my case.
Uranus and moon aspect your ascendant so you could have a slightly plump look?
Jupiter in the first house people usually have prominent thighs. I had a friend with this placement and when we were growing up she used to complain of chafed thighs a lot?
Mars sextile venus you could be your own type? The way you act and the way you want your future partners to express love could be quite similar which is good for healthy relationships.
There could be a tendency to spend impulsively.
With Mars sextiling venus you could be someone who earns more the more active their lifestyle is? Like, you may need to be an agile learner to keep money flowing in .
Jupiter in LEO in a woman's chart usually shows they'd have a financially well off spouse so money may not be a huge concern. He could be a sailor or earn via exports/ navy. It's hard to say without knowing where your Saturn is.
The image you project to the world could be a lot more outgoing than how you actually feel. You're more private than people think.
With a fire rising, water sun and air moon you could either be a really balanced person or just have a number of clashing ideas on who to be, what to do and achieve.
Descendant : The people that hate on you could attack your need to stand out /try to dim your time in the spotlight. Think aquarius themes of standing out to improve community clashing with Leo's need to stand out solely because it helps their ego. Like your confidence could trigger the part if them that felt judged negatively for expressing their individuality.
Do you feel like you thrive in chaos? I'm guessing you're atleast in your late 20s if not older, so you might have gotten better at dealing with people acting unexpectedly. Your mom could have been unpredictable. Really intelligent, but forgets to eat ..
🥤🦀As a cancer sun, you could be the friend your friends come to for advice. There could be a tendency to be a little too selfless. I think your aqua moon really serves as a shield to those who try to take advantage of your caring nature. Have you considered a career in psychic medium ship? Or any spiritual art/ past life regression / you get the drift..
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Is there a family craft or hobby that you could monetize? Jupiter in LEO could signify ancestral gains.
Lilith and Pluto aspects to ascendant can make you come across really sexy / a bit unapproachable because people feel like you have some kind of power that places you above them?
Due to this, people with Pluto / Lilith aspects can feel some kind of hurt around people clearing up the path around them if that makes sense.
Jupiter opposite moon : there could be a clash between you want to do VS what you feel you should be doing.
Jupiter in the first house : you could have been born rich? Or people just perceive you that way. They also see you as someone wordly wise and lucky in general. You could know a lot about a wide variety of things. Specially on topics related to appearance, personal development, image consciousness etc. Since the ruler of the first is in the 12th I feel like some of your wisdom comes from a divine source. Like you're tapping into some kind of a collective reservoir of knowledge. In starseed terminology we would refer to this as downloads.
Jupiter rules the 8th house and 5th house.
So love, romance, games, early education may have been a bit of a breeze for you.
Jupiter is usually a bit of a celibate spiritual person. So, while it may make you really wise with respect to things like the occult / tarot / other 8th house themes, I'm not sure how it would impact your sex life with a spouse. Sex could be either a deeply spiritual experience for you or take on more neptunian traits. Addiction / alcoholism / drug use the works. Jupiter expands the themes of the house it rules so a word of caution there.
Travelling could bring you luck. Or even love.
Did I hear Mars opposite Neptune?
This could be a literal battlefield. You could feel like you need to work for love.if Neptune is unconditional love and Mars is your drive, then you could literally match to get to taht elusive unconditional sense of belonging /love / acceptance. But what are you marching towards really? A mirage? With this aspect I'd really be on the guard against addiction of any kind. Neptune is enticing, alluring, mocking Mars for its need to conquer. It could lend a really nice swagger to your walk. A runway model could benefit from thus placement. At uts best this aspect imbues you with creativity, inspiration, otherworldly imagination and the energy required to turn your abstract ideas of art into something tangible.
Here's a source for more on this placement. Sometimes I find that the comments really help me make sense of my own placements
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Before I sign off, I just have to say this :please try to restrict asks to 2-3 placements. You can send in multiple asks if you'd like, but answering them all in one ask can get a bit cluttered and I'd hate to miss out on something 😊
Hope this helped 💕as always, I'd really appreciate your feedback on this take on how these placements affect you.
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