#therapist friend

[xifhera]

I think MC’s seen enough

⚠️spoilers lesson 16

#obey me #obey me fanart #obey me shall we date #lucifer obey me #obey me mc #obey me oc #obey me lucifer #obey me leviathan #obey me asmodeus #obey me belphegor #leviathan obey me #obey me beelzebub #obey me mammon #obey me satan #obey me belphie #obey me memes #obey me sheep mc #omswd fanart #spoilers #therapist friend #digitalart #digital artist #digital art #obey me brothers #obey me simeon #obey me diavolo #obey me barbatos

[faerieicetea]

every understanding person deserves to be understood too

#positivity #positivity blog #self love #self care #mental health #text #light academia #self healing #classic academia #healing #self growth #inner child #inner healing #inner strength #invisible illness #therapist friend #romantic academia #dark academia #desi academia #light academia aesthetic #spilled words #spilled writing #spilled pages #spilled ink #spilled thoughts #books and poetry #dead poets society

[deesi-academia]

Sorry for reacting on the spot and speaking my true feelings. That wasn't very empath-therapist-friend of me.

#desiblr #desi #chaotic academia #humor #dark academia #light academia #memes #desi culture #desi academia #academia #therapist friend #eldest daughter #therapy #empath

[bpdohwhatajoy]

I’m going to open up about something that makes me feel like a bad person that I’ve never really talked about before

When people tell me all these things going on in their life that are bad, I actually get irritated and have to force myself to care. I just can’t. I’ve spent so much of my life being a fucking people pleaser therapist to so many friends, strangers, people I dated, and all I got in return was trauma and no reciprocation. For example my recent abusive ex…it was HORRIBLE with him. All he would ever talk about was trauma and bad shit and mental illness and I was his free therapist essentially. Meanwhile I had to legit prompt him to ask about my day. When people tell me their woes now I just wish they wouldn’t. It reminds me of years and years of that shit. Years of having to hear about people’s problems while no one gave a shred of a fuck about what was going on with me. I have so much resentment beneath the surface. Honestly being like that traumatized me so now I fear I’ll never stop having that reaction. That reaction of people talking about bad shit going on and the only thing in my head is “please stop talking to me about I don’t want to hear about this”. So much dread and resentment and irritation I doubt would be there years and years and years ago. But it’s not years ago anymore. The damage is done. I spent too long doing that shit and now I cannot handle it.

#sigh #ryan.txt #trauma #traumatized #cptsd #people pleasing #therapist friend #being autistic only makes this worse

[thewarmthofequallyreturnedlove]

Meg March Girls

“Just because my dreams are different from yours, doesn’t mean they’re unimportant.”

The oldest sisters, the hopeless romantics, the girls who love flowers and baking, the girls who value their family over everything, the caring, the ones who dream of true love, the girls who want to be a mother more than anything, the forgiving, the therapist friends, the problem solvers, the ones who are always there for everyone and yet no one is ever there for them.

#relatable #love #sapphic #summer #wlw #meg march #greta gerwig #emma watson #therapist friend #true love #mother #parent

[theambivertedsnail1989]

Do you ever just feel like a side character?

"If no one is listening, am I making any sound at all?"

#radio silence #idk what im doing #therapist friend

[raincirrusworld]

Idk who needs to hear this but: a thread

-you're loved

-someone is proud of you

-you're worthy

-you can do this

-you're progress IS important and every little bit counts

-don't text that ex, it'll be bad

-close the chat if it gets disrespectful, protect your peace

#advice #therapist friend #you're loved

[oneforsorrowtwoformirth717]

I always feel so guilty when I get so burnt out that I can’t support the people around me. Like-

I am a helper, a protector, the therapist friend, the shoulder to cry on, the easy kid, the understanding one, the quiet one, the convenient and reliable one, etc etc etc

Who am I if not those things? What is my identity without those things? When I find myself without those qualities I feel like I failed at being the person I told everyone I was.

Yknow how when horses break a leg you have to shoot them bc they literally cannot recover and do the one thing they’re meant to? Yeah

I know I shouldn’t but I feel so fucking *sorry* when I can’t be there for other people, and so so much worse when I have to rely on *them*.

I swear being weak and being hurt I’m still the person I am. I’m still a person I’m still a person I’m still a person I’m-

#trauma #vent #poetry #writing #burnout #therapist friend

[genderfluidsgetguns]

*Me, giving any advice at all:* "Hmm...Have you tried homicide? No? Why not?"

#therapist friend #bad therapist friend #i am a mess #not me vague posting #no way #heterohomo.txt #shitpost #shit post #shitposting #shit posting

[rosekiller-addict]

imagine being the therapist friend who doesn't let themselves have feelings and/or let other people know they have feelings even if you are really close to them

totally not me

#vent ish #vent #rant #therapist friend #therapist #feelings #emotions #friends

[dinosaurchickennuggie]

I hate being strong all the time, always talking care and dancing around the feelings of those around me. I hate making sure everyone else is sleeping, drinking water, taking mental health brakes and ALWAYS empathizing with people even if I don’t understand. I just want to be cared about, cared for, prioritized, for ONCE have someone do that for me. I’m so tired of being the parent friend and the therapist friend. Yet I can’t stop, I can’t because I don’t want them to feel the way I do, so I have to be there for them, even if it hurts me to do so.

#bd/sm brat #bd/sm dynamic #bd/sm lifestyle #ftm sub #bd/sm daddy #bd/sm kink #bd/sm relationship #funishment #dd/lb brat #ftm brat #nsft brat #love me #therapist friend #mom friend #dad friend #mental illness #mental heath awareness #check in on ur friends

[poetsofyore]

If I had a nickel for every time I tried to help a severely traumatized and fucked up individual who felt they didn’t deserve help, only for them to realize that, as they spent more time around me, I’m also pretty traumatized and fucked up, I’d have two nickels, which isn’t a lot, but it’s weird that it happened twice.

#trauma #therapist friend #if i had a nickel #mental health #mentally fucked #mental illness #neurodivergent

[mjbythebay]

Therapist Friend things

• wanting to be there for everyone

• checking on your friends constantly

• not telling your "friends" stuff about you cause they have their own shit to deal with and you don't want to be a burden

• worrying constantly they wont confide in you anymore- getting validation from them talk you

• the friendship being mildly toxic - always focused on the other person

• no words of thanks, just kinda expected to be there.

• having your own problems you don't tell anyone about

• them only initiating text to spil crap

• And maybe, just maybe falling the Frick in live with them cause your a stupid bisexual

Feel free to add your own - the list goes on

#therapist #friends #friendship #therapy #therapist friend #trauma dump #toxic frienship #toxic #bisexual #biseuxal #bisexaul #gay #lgbtqa

[bpdohwhatajoy]

Fellow therapist friends who get treated like free therapists despite being extremely mentally ill themselves and no one being there for us yet having to listen to everyone else’s problems and only existing to serve the needs of others: it’s time we start charging fees

#found on Pinterest lmao #me when ppl who would use me for free therapy were like #omg ur better than actual therapists!!!! #really should’ve charged ppl Jesus #therapist friend

[gay-xylophone]

why can’t people fucking understand that i’m not ok either you can’t just rely on me for all of your issues and act like i don’t have them too like im here for you but also I FUCKING WISH I WASN’T ON THIS FUCKING PLANET

#tw sucidal ideation #eldest child #therapist friend #i wanna die #tw sui ideation #suic1de

[x-hotrose-x]

remember your an amazing person and everyone likes that your here.

#You matter #This isn’t supposed to sound cringy I swear #I like helping people #Therapist friend