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Hey it's S, I'm glad we aren't too much of a bother! Would you be okay with a quick q&a? Real life stuff: How'd you guys meet? When was the moment you both knew you'd marry each other? And what's your next milestone/goal as a couple? (Go on vacation together, make a fancy meal for each other, etc.) And GoT questions: top 5 Otp, top 5 Notp. Have you heard about the sequel and what are your thoughts? Feel free to skip any questions your uncomfortable with or don't want to answer!
Hey S! Yes omg I love to TALK!
Ok so - lol. I met @veganmikehanlon on here in like October 2018, they sent me a message after I made a depressed ass post and apparently had followed me for a long time and though we were both ST blogs I didn't follow them. I was in Missouri in college, they were 8 hours away in Michigan. We snapchatted/texted everyday all day and they helped me through a lot of shit. I just did whatever the fuck I wanted so I drove up to spend that Christmas with mo. It was lowkey like fanfic. The sexual tension, the little touches, and it's SO hilarious to talk to someone who didn't know you but then has read your fanfic, I was like oh god, do you still think I'm normal lol.
Official dating began January 2019, I came out as bi publically February 2019, and we moved in together after I graduated college in May. Then we moved to Detroit. I knew we were going to get married when we literally had to do everything together because we had one car, no family or friends around and I never ever got sick of them. We lived in the shittiest apartment and the first year, we didn't even have a Christmas tree and we nailed ornaments into the wall and I was like damn... they might be the one. @veganmikehanlon says "after I serenaded them in the car aka every time aka to every damn song". We got engaged in 2020 - ran through three wedding ideas, before finally saying fuck it (mainly to my family in law), though we needed a lot of the legal benefits rn as well and went to the courthouse! Since we'd planned it so many fucking times we didn't need to buy a ton of shit so it was fine!
Our next big milestone I would say is for me to have a baby and for us to foster/adopt. We're unsure what order to do this in- but I ain't getting any younger, but we also don't want to have a non-bio kid for 4 years and then have a baby and them not think they're not good enough. But also get the FUCK outta this overpriced ass apartment and try to get a house or something to save for said BABY!!
(I will literally answer any questions about our relationship I love my BABY!)I also have a t gets married tag that is very dramatic you may like lol. Also this post may be helpful:
GOT:
Ok you're gonna kill me cause TBH - when I started GOT I was like Dany FUCK YES! Sansa FUCK YES! Jon FUCK YES! Pretty much I was like ok I can fuck with everyone, but after Jonsa, and after Dany got more and more dictator like (like bitch I'm black we don't do that here) I was like it's a wrap- she's still in all my fics tho. Also tbh all the old men look the same to me and that makes me sound so rude but ok ok:
Jon/Sansa
Drogo/Dany
Jon/Robb
Gilly/Sam
I probably could read a Dany or Margaery/Sansa but like I wouldn't seek it out ya know. NOTPs... again this would require like intense shipping feelings but tbh I've only written Jonsa so I feel like a shitty person for this answer LOL. But if you want a prompt I love to try new things!
I just learned about the sequel today and I love Kit so absolutely fuck yes, but also where is my baby Sophie and also why doesn't Emilia wanna do it? Get yo check SIS!!! Ok that was long- please keep the messages coming lol you're my new bff. xx- T
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lichtel-archive · 3 years
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communist gang needs to address the fact that funerals are really expensive and usually not at all funded by the govt. like, you have to pay thousands of dollars JUST FOR BURIAL of your loved ones, esp if you don't permanently own any property (and owning property is becoming less and less common nowadays), even though humans have been burying our dead since before we got into agriculture... really fucked up
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