I'm so proud of myself about finances in the past couple months. I still struggle with money but I did enough meditation and journaling and practicing about it to make myself able to actually face my loans and credit cards and savings and bills and start really truly organizing and addressing them for the first time in years instead of just flying by the seat of my pants.
Like. This is a huge deal for me. I've felt like I'm in deadly danger every time I've tried to think about money for years and years. I'm finally able to look it in the face and stare it down and start to organize and plan on purpose instead of just keeping up with the minimum to stay afloat. I'm so proud of myself.
It's still a refrain of "GUILT (funny link)" every time I think about money but I'm able to actually make spreadsheets and face the numbers and monthly tracking again, and even make a new full budget which I haven't been able to do in ages.
still feel guilt, overwhelm, and helplessness, but no longer feel as much deep elemental shame and terror. that's progress baby
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One of the funniest things about the Dragoat ship is that Alastor looked at Asra, who's been silently Yearning for years and who he kinda sorta had some budding but too awkward feelings for;
looked at Julian, absolutely missing the fact that the doctor's been lowkey eyeing him ever since Alastor threw him onto the floor in self-defense;
looked at Nadia, who's been trying to pamper him ever since his arrival at the Palace; Portia, who's been nothing but sweet and doing her best to help him adapt to the new environment;
then finally looked at a goatman-shaped ghost that's loud, brash, impatient, withholds information for his benefit, but is also desperate for human (heh) interaction and obviously needs help.
And the genius really pointed at the last option and said "this one. I want to kiss this one".
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imagine posting about a guy whos whole thing is looking like a glass of lean smh smh smh tag all your posts ever for eternity and go back through your whole blog and tag those too 🙄🙄🙄 my blog now /s
i assure anyone who has ever been annoyed at my cpurpled posting that no one is more annoyed about it than me. of all the characters ever made in the history of ever. i had to become obsessed with HIM. not only is it torture bc finding good content is a constant battle. but he's literally Like That. don't even get me started on the content creator. no one is more disappointed in me than myself.
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I love this scene so much and I'm so glad it exists, because it's an excellent and quite poignant lesson on boundaries, consent, and the breaking of boundaries. Also a good way to show how important 'No means no' is even in situations which are non-sexual.
Your boundaries and people's boundaries are important exactly as they are and they do not require justification. (I said no and I do not need to explain my reasoning to you.) They do not require the approval of the other people for them to be enforced. And they need to be enforced, especially to people who would find as many excuses as possible to break them.
"I know you said no, but then I remembered that if you needed my help, I would give it to you." --what it's implied--> 'I can go over your boundaries and explicit no if they're something that I personally would have no trouble doing for you.' (or maybe even 'I'm a good person who would help you, so you are required to help me in return.')
'But it's your free period and your kids don't need this bathroom right now' --what it's implied --> 'I can go over your boundaries and explicit no if it's something that I believe is reasonable.'
When in truth, no means no. Nobody has any right for any reason to go over our explicit boundaries, and however reasonable they might feel, we have a right to be angry. We deserve to have our opinions taken into consideration, we deserve to have give our consent in all situations and we deserve to be asked if we would be willing to consider new information (that might or might not change our boundaries. We are not required to just because there's new information)
Thank you Ms. Howard and thank you Abbott Elementary for your short lesson on boundaries and consent.
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Sincerely as a former user of both Excel and sheets, it is nuts how much easier libre office calc is. Not in the typical way that certain things are easier to access but moreso that the formulas and ways things are set up just work with my brain better. I never really had much need to learn formulas in Excel because there were so many and the layout felt over complicated, and don't even get me started on sheets. But with calc, there's a lot more freedom with the formulas and a lot of the skills you have from either of those other programs carries on here. Not a super big point or anything to this post, just simply very appreciative of what calc can do.
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