#they hold no sentimental value idk why they're there

[donquixotehomura]

Valentine's Day with One Piece Boys

Master List

W.C:3295    so uhhhhh my hand slipped oops... I took some assumptions here and I changed some things that are common about these characters in Fanfic writing, my brain couldn’t come up with a lot for Law I’m sorry about that, Crocodile and Doffy can be read as pre or post becoming Warlords, some might be OOC but IDK I wrote this in about a day lol (my eyes fingers and back hurt I need to correct my posture lol) sorry if I didn't write for your favorites, have fun and lemme know what you think I love feed back It took two and a half fucking hours to put the gifs in, cause the line thingy where you add stuff only showed at the very bottom so I had to keep editing and dragging shit around, I'm sure I'm doing something wrong, also I had to look up all the gifs here even tho I have tons cause for some reason "something goofed" .... end my suffering also I wrote this on word and then brought it here so if formatting gets weird that's why, even tho I spent hours on making sure everything is good shout out to my inspo who also encouraged me to write it @cinnbar-bun

 

Dracule Mihawk, Roronoa Zoro, Portgas D. Ace, Donquixote Doflamingo, Eustass "Captain" Kid, Charlotte Katakuri, Massacre Soldier Killer, Sir Crocodile, Trafalgar Law.

Dracule Mihawk:

Mihawk and Y/N prefer intimate celebrations for Valentine's Day. They often opt for a quiet evening together at their secluded castle, away from the hustle and bustle of the outside world. 

Despite their stoic exteriors, Mihawk and Y/N are surprisingly sentimental when it comes to expressing their feelings. They exchange handwritten letters on Valentine's Day, pouring their hearts out on paper in a way that words spoken aloud cannot convey. 

Instead of extravagant gestures, Mihawk and Y/N prefer to exchange gifts that hold sentimental value. Mihawk might gift Y/N a rare book on something she likes, while Y/N might give Mihawk a custom-made piece of simple jewelry like a small bracelet she personally crafted for him. 

On Valentine's Day, Mihawk surprises Y/N by offering to cook dinner together. Despite her lack of culinary skills, Y/N appreciates the bonding activity and enjoys spending quality time with him in the kitchen, even if it results in a few culinary mishaps. 

After dinner, Mihawk and Y/N venture out into the castle's courtyard to stargaze. They lie side by side on a blanket, Y/N pointing out constellations and sharing stories about their significance, reveling in the peaceful solitude of the night, Mihawk just listens to her with a small fond smile. 

Throughout the day, Mihawk and Y/N take time to reflect on their journey together, reminiscing about cherished memories and shared experiences that have strengthened their bond over the years. 

As a romantic gesture, Mihawk and Y/N share a midnight dance in the castle's grand ballroom. Lit only by candlelight, they move together in a graceful waltz, lost in the magic of the moment and the timeless beauty of their love.    Going To Sleep Cuddling: Mihawk and Y/N will go to sleep in the end of the day holding each other, Y/N would curl up into his arms, burying her face into his chest while he wraps his arms around her his hand going into her hair to play with the soft strands.  

As Valentine's Day draws to a close, Mihawk and Y/N exchange a few hushed words as they cuddle, reaffirming their commitment to each other and the promise of a future filled with love, laughter, and endless adventures together. 

Roronoa Zoro:

Despite his tough exterior, Zoro secretly spends weeks planning the perfect Valentine's Day surprise for Y/N. He meticulously selects a secluded spot on the island they're docked on, where they can enjoy each other's company away from the hustle and bustle of the crew. 

Y/N, appreciative of Zoro's efforts, prepares a special gift for him on Valentine's Day. Knowing his love for swords, she surprises him with a beautifully crafted sheath for one of his blades, personalized with intricate designs that reflect their shared journey together. 

Zoro and Y/N spend Valentine's Day evening taking a leisurely stroll along the shores of the island. With the sound of waves lapping against the shore and the moonlight casting a soft glow, they share quiet moments of intimacy, lost in each other's company. 

During their stroll, Zoro and Y/N encounter a group of wild creatures roaming the island. With their swords drawn, they effortlessly dispatch the beasts, their synchronized movements a testament to their unwavering bond as swordsmen and lovers. 

As the night progresses, Zoro and Y/N build a campfire on the beach, the crackling flames casting flickering shadows around them. They share stories of their past adventures and dreams for the future, their laughter mingling with the sound of the ocean. 

Under the starlit sky, Zoro finally opens up to Y/N, expressing his gratitude for her presence in his life. He admits that he's not good at expressing his feelings, but Y/N's unwavering support and love have changed him for the better. 

Moved by Zoro's vulnerability, Y/N wraps her arms around him, offering him comfort and reassurance. She assures him that their love is enough, and she wouldn't have their Valentine's Day any other way. 

As the night comes to an end, Zoro and Y/N make a promise to each other to continue facing life's challenges together, hand in hand. They vow to cherish every moment and celebrate their love not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. 

As they watch the sun rise on the horizon, Zoro leans in to press a gentle kiss to Y/N's lips, sealing their promise with a silent vow of devotion. In that moment, amidst the beauty of the dawn, they find solace in the certainty of their love for each other. 

As they return to the ship, hand in hand, Zoro and Y/N share a knowing smile, their hearts full of love and gratitude for each other. Though their Valentine's Day was unconventional and filled with unexpected adventures, it was a testament to the strength of their bond and the depth of their love. 

Portgas D. Ace:

Y/N wakes up early on Valentine's Day to prepare a special breakfast for Ace. She arranges heart-shaped pancakes and fruit on a tray, leaving a note with a playful message for him to wake up to.  Ace spends weeks leading up to Valentine's Day working on a handmade gift for Y/N. He creates a personalized necklace with a small pendant in the shape of a flame, symbolizing their fiery love and passion. 

Y/N organizes a scavenger hunt around the Moby Dick for Ace. Each clue leads him to a different part of the ship, where he discovers small gifts and love notes hidden by Y/N. 

Ace surprises Y/N with a romantic beach picnic at a secluded cove. They enjoy a delicious meal together as they watch the sunset, the sound of the waves providing a serene backdrop to their intimate celebration. 

As the night falls, Ace and Y/N gather with their friends for a bonfire on the beach. They roast marshmallows, share stories, and cuddle close under a blanket, basking in the warmth of their love and the crackling fire. 

Y/N sets up a telescope on the deck of the Moby Dick, and she and Ace spend the evening stargazing together. They point out constellations, make wishes on shooting stars, and share dreams for their future, Y/N certainly tries to find constellations that match Ace’s freckles.  Ace surprises Y/N with a makeshift dance floor on the deck of the ship. He puts on her favorite song, and they dance together under the moonlight, lost in each other's arms. 

Y/N leaves little love notes for Ace to find throughout the day. Each note expresses her affection and gratitude for having him in her life, reminding him of the depth of her love. 

Ace and Y/N spend the afternoon cooking a special Valentine's Day dinner together in the kitchen. They laugh, tease each other, and steal kisses amidst the preparation, enjoying the simple pleasure of being together. (Marco is on standby with a fire extinguisher) 

As the day comes to a close, Ace and Y/N exchange heartfelt declarations of love. They express their gratitude for each other, promising to cherish and support one another for all the days to come, both of them yelling it at the top of their lungs of the railing of the ship and the crew is so done with them lol 

Donquixote Doflamingo:

Doflamingo, despite his intimidating persona, secretly enjoys the sentimentality of Valentine's Day. He's known for surprising Y/N with extravagant gifts, ranging from rare treasures he's acquired during their travels to personalized items he's commissioned just for her. Y/N, in turn, cherishes each gift as a symbol of Doflamingo's affection, even if she's not one for material possessions.  On Valentine's Day, Doflamingo arranges a private, candlelit dinner on the deck of their ship or a secluded spot on the island they're currently exploring. He spares no expense in ensuring the evening is perfect, with gourmet cuisine prepared by their crew's skilled chefs. Y/N appreciates the effort he puts into creating these intimate moments and enjoys the opportunity to spend quality time together away from the chaos of pirate life. 

Instead of focusing solely on lavish gifts and grand gestures, Doflamingo and Y/N often reminisce about their shared adventures and memorable moments throughout the years. They spend Valentine's Day reflecting on the challenges they've overcome together, the laughter they've shared, the tears they’ve shed and the unbreakable bond that has formed between them. 

Despite their often intense and tumultuous journey as pirates, Doflamingo and Y/N also value quiet moments of affection. They may spend Valentine's Day simply enjoying each other's company, whether it's lounging on the deck, stargazing, or taking a leisurely stroll on the beach hand in hand. It's in these peaceful moments that they feel most connected. 

Doflamingo and Y/N have a deep understanding of each other, and Valentine's Day serves as a reminder of the unspoken bond they share. They may not always verbalize their feelings, but their actions speak volumes. Whether it's a knowing glance, a comforting touch, or a gentle smile exchanged between them, they both know that their love is unwavering.

Eustass "Captain" Kid:

Despite her tough exterior, Y/N secretly enjoys the romantic gestures she receives on Valentine's Day. Kid, though he may not admit it openly, takes great pleasure in surprising Y/N with small gifts and tokens of affection, leaving them anonymously for her to find.  Kid's idea of a Valentine's Day gift may not be traditional, but it's always heartfelt. He might present Y/N with a custom-made weapon, intricately designed and tailored to her unique fighting style, or a rare treasure he stumbled upon during their travels, symbolizing the adventures they've shared together. 

Y/N, with her artistic flair, expresses her love for Kid through her creations. She might spend weeks crafting a personalized piece of jewelry for him, incorporating elements of his Jolly Roger or symbols that hold significance to their relationship, showcasing her devotion in a tangible form. 

Amidst the chaos of their pirate life, Y/N and Kid cherish the quiet moments they steal away together on Valentine's Day. They might escape to a secluded spot-on deck, watching the stars and sharing stories, finding solace in each other's company amidst the vastness of the sea. 

For Y/N and Kid, Valentine's Day is not just about romantic gestures, but also about embarking on new adventures together. They might set sail to explore uncharted islands, face formidable foes, or discover hidden treasures, strengthening their bond through shared experiences and thrilling escapades. 

Despite their differences, Y/N and Kid's relationship is built on mutual respect and understanding. They may not always see eye to eye, but they know how to support and uplift each other, especially on Valentine's Day, when they take the time to appreciate the unique qualities that make their bond so special. 

Y/N and Kid's Valentine's Day celebrations may not be conventional, but they're uniquely theirs. They might indulge in a feast of their favorite foods, engage in friendly competitions and challenges, or simply enjoy each other's presence, knowing that their love transcends traditional expectations. 

As they spend Valentine's Day together, Y/N and Kid exchange promises for the future. They may vow to stand by each other through thick and thin, to continue exploring the world and facing its challenges together, and to cherish the love they share, knowing that their bond is unbreakable.

Charlotte Katakuri:

Despite their tough exteriors, Y/N and Katakuri secretly enjoy showering each other with romantic gestures on Valentine's Day. Y/N surprises Katakuri with handcrafted doughnuts with many flavours, each one meticulously made with love and care. In return, Katakuri presents Y/N with a beautifully crafted box of her favorite sweets, a testament to his thoughtfulness and affection. On Valentine's evening, Y/N and Katakuri escape the chaos of Totto Land for a private dinner date on a secluded beach. They indulge in a feast of their favorite dishes, sharing laughter and intimate conversation under the twinkling stars. As the night deepens, they dance together in the moonlight, their hearts beating in perfect harmony. 

In the days leading up to Valentine's Day, Y/N and Katakuri exchange heartfelt love letters, expressing their deepest emotions and gratitude for each other. Y/N's letters are filled with poetic prose and declarations of undying love, while Katakuri's letters are eloquent and sincere, revealing the depths of his affection for Y/N. 

As a special Valentine's Day surprise, Katakuri whisks Y/N away on a romantic getaway to a secluded island paradise. They spend their days exploring pristine beaches, indulging in couples' massages, and savoring gourmet meals prepared by a private chef. It's a blissful escape from their duties and responsibilities, allowing them to focus solely on each other. 

On Valentine's Day, Y/N and Katakuri reminisce about their favorite moments together, flipping through photo albums filled with snapshots of their adventures. They laugh at candid shots of themselves and smile fondly at pictures of special milestones they've shared. It's a heartwarming reminder of the bond they've built and the memories they've created together, a few of them are pictures taken by Y/N of Katakuri throughout the day, in some of them his scarf is hiding a smile or a blush a reason as to why she took the picture (yes she walks around with a Visual Den Den Mushi.. At least that’s what I think the picture taking ones are called)    Y/N has been joining Katakuri during his Meriendas for years now and same as rumors spread about him meditating and talking to gods of battle during them rumors spread about her as well (I read a fic about this before where Y/N was considered his oracle and it’s an amazing one I’m trying to find it again) what they don’t know is that these two are being very sappy idiots, cuddling sharing kisses and laughs and stealing each other's sweets, especially on this day, the others just think that they’re doing some sort of ritual about devotion to Gods of Battle only lol. 

As the night falls on Valentine's Day, Y/N and Katakuri retreat to a secluded hilltop, where they lay beneath a blanket of stars, hand in hand. They share stories of their hopes and dreams, tracing constellations with their fingers and basking in the quiet beauty of the   night sky. It's a moment of perfect serenity, a reminder of the infinite possibilities that lie ahead for their love.

Massacre Soldier Killer:

Despite their tough exteriors, Killer and Y/N secretly enjoy surprising each other with small romantic gestures on Valentine's Day. Y/N might leave a heartfelt note tucked into Killer's pocket, while Killer might craft a makeshift bouquet of flowers from materials he finds on their travels. Valentine's Day is a rare opportunity for Killer and Y/N to spend some quality time together away from the chaos of pirate life. They might steal away to a secluded spot on the ship or find a quiet beach where they can enjoy each other's company without interruptions. 

Killer and Y/N reminisce about their favorite moments together, cherishing the memories they've created during their time as partners in crime. They might exchange stories about their most memorable adventures or laugh about the mishaps they've encountered along the way. 

Despite their limited resources as pirates, Killer and Y/N find creative ways to exchange gifts on Valentine's Day. Y/N might fashion a piece of jewelry from shells she finds on the beach, while Killer might carve a wooden trinket with his expert craftsmanship. 

Killer surprises Y/N with a romantic candlelit dinner, showcasing his culinary skills with a delicious meal cooked from scratch. Y/N, in turn, appreciates the effort and thoughtfulness behind the gesture, and they enjoy a quiet evening together under the stars. While they may not always express their emotions openly, Killer and Y/N show their love and affection for each other in subtle ways. A gentle touch, a lingering glance, or a reassuring smile speaks volumes in the language of their relationship. 

Valentine's Day serves as a reminder of the unbreakable bond between Killer and Y/N. They reaffirm their commitment to each other, promising to stand by each other's side through thick and thin, no matter what challenges may come their way. 

As they bask in the warmth of each other's love on Valentine's Day, Killer and Y/N discuss their hopes and dreams for the future. They envision a life together filled with adventure, laughter, and unwavering support, knowing that as long as they have each other, anything is possible. 

Overall, Valentine's Day is a special occasion for Killer and Y/N to celebrate their love and appreciation for each other, strengthening the bond that binds them together as partners in both love and piracy.

Sir Crocodile:

Crocodile and Y/N aren't ones for grand gestures, so their Valentine's Day celebration tends to be understated. They prefer spending quality time together rather than getting caught up in the commercial aspects of the holiday.  Crocodile surprises Y/N by preparing a simple but delicious meal for them to share. Despite his gruff exterior, Crocodile has a surprisingly deft hand in the kitchen, and Y/N is touched by the effort he puts into making the evening special. 

Instead of extravagant gifts, Crocodile and Y/N exchange meaningful tokens of their affection. Y/N gives Crocodile a handmade leather-bound journal, knowing how much he values knowledge and planning. In return, Crocodile presents Y/N with a rare seashell he found during one of their adventures, a symbol of their shared experiences. 

After dinner, Crocodile and Y/N enjoy a quiet evening together, lounging on the deck of their ship and gazing up at the stars. They talk about their hopes and dreams for the future, reveling in the simplicity of each other's company. 

Despite their tough exteriors, Crocodile and Y/N share a passion for Planning and Conquest. They spend the evening poring over maps and planning their next expedition, excited about the possibilities that lie ahead.  While they may not be overly demonstrative, Crocodile and Y/N show their love for each other in small, subtle ways. A gentle touch, a knowing glance, or a shared smile speaks volumes about the depth of their bond.   As the night draws to a close, Crocodile and Y/N express their gratitude for each other, acknowledging the strength and support they provide in each other's lives. They may not say "I love you" in so many words, but their actions speak louder than any declaration of affection ever could.

Trafalgar Law:

Y/N is bubbling with excitement as Valentine's Day approaches, eager to celebrate the occasion with Law despite his usual reservations about the holiday. She takes the lead in planning the day, organizing a romantic dinner aboard the Polar Tang complete with candles, rose petals, and Law's favorite dishes. Law, although initially hesitant about the festivities, appreciates Y/N's enthusiasm and decides to go along with her plans, wanting to make her happy. He surprises Y/N with small but meaningful gifts throughout the day, such as a locket containing a picture of the two of them together or a handwritten note expressing his love and gratitude. Y/N showers Law with affection, peppering him with kisses and hugs as they spend quality time together, enjoying each other's company in the privacy of their quarters. They share stories and reminisce about their favorite memories together, laughing and smiling as they bask in the warmth of their love. Law surprises Y/N with a heartfelt gesture, such as letting her cuddle with him instead of working or giving her a massage to help her relax and unwind. They exchange promises of love and commitment, reaffirming their bond and promising to stand by each other through thick and thin. As the day comes to a close, Law and Y/N cuddle up together under a blanket, content in each other's arms and grateful for the love they share. 

#one piece #one piece fluff #one piece x reader #Dracule Mihawk #Roronoa Zoro #Portgas D. Ace #Donquixote Doflamingo #Eustass Kid #Charlotte Katakuri #Massacre Soldier Killer #Sir Crocodile #Trafalgar Law #dracule mihawk x reader #roronoa zoro x reader #portgas d. ace x reader #donquixote doflamingo x reader #eustass kid x reader #charlotte katakuri x reader #killer x reader #sir crocodile x reader #trafalgar law x reader

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for not giving my brother my old gaming consoles?

So I (28m) love video games. Nintendo's handheld consoles in particular (I also own my parents old '98 computer and some of the PC games). They were a crucial part of my childhood and I strived to save every console and game that I could, and still keep them now for sentimental value and the sake of preserving them. My brother (30m) was never really into video games, but because we came from a lower class family, the gaming consoles and all subsequent games were typically gifted to "the whole family" and by extention, my brother, as he was the older child, but they all ended up becoming mine in the end, as I was the only one who would use them beyond the first week of owning them.

As we got older, my brother lost all interest in video games, so games started to get gifted to me directly, while the consoles remained "for the family". None of them were ever "officially" handed over to me, except for my father handing me his old grey Gameboy and going "here, you like this more than me" (that Gameboy and the Metroid game in it are my ultimate treasure). But again, I was the only one who cared about them, so everything I could beg my parents to not sell got added to my collection.

Now that we're all adults and my brother has kids and said kids are now old enough for video games (both are 6yo) they both have taken an interest. Which is awesome! I let my niece and nephew play on my Switch when they come over, and sometimes they watch me play games on my PC. They also have tablets that they play games on too, so there's no shortage of access, and my SIL is thinking about getting a Switch for at home (they love Kirby).

Just a month ago though, my brother randomly asked me for "his consoles back". When I asked why, he told me it was because he wanted to give them to his kids. When I asked which ones, he wanted them all. From the grey Gameboy up to the Gamecube.

I flat out told him no. First off, the Gamecube was sold in a yard sale after my parents "persuaded" me to let them sell it. The Gamecube I own now was gifted by a friend, so that one is 100% mine. My brother doesn't believe me on that. Second, none of these handheld consoles are being made anymore, they can be hard to find depending on where you are, and the price of the games for them are even higher. I love my niece and nephew, but they are little kids, and it would be devestating to see or hear that one of those old consoles got snapped in half or crushed. Also, again, these consoles are my entire childhood. These are the ones I held in my hands as a kid, and those games are the ones I had for years, and contained my save files on them. They mean way too much to me.

My brother got mad at me, claiming that I'm being selfish and that I can just "buy another one online" and that "they sit in a storage bin all the time", and got even angrier when I asked him why HE couldn't just buy them online. We apparently are on the same page that these consoles hold sentimental value to us, but I'm having a hard time seeing his side of it when he barely touched them.

He hasn't brought it up since, but apparently my brother's been complaining to our parents because my mother called me a few days ago to tell me that I am being selfish and to "just give him the games already". She hates seeing us fight and tends to pick the side of the kid that complains to her first, so IDK if I believe her. My dad doesn't care, and my SIL thinks spending the money on a Switch would be money better spent.

I do feel a little bad, I know I would be steaming mad if the roles were reversed, but I just do not see how he suddenly cares so much about these consoles all of a sudden, and I absolutely do not trust that he would make sure his kids are careful with them.

So, AITA? Am I being selfish? I already was thinking about letting my niece and nephew try out the old consoles when they're older and I get them all set up in a proper display case, I just do not want to lose ownership of these consoles. I already lost the Gamecube, Wii, and so many games (including PC games) to my parents "convicining me" to sell them. I don't want to lose any more.

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole

[danny-chase]

[Image ID: The first image is a closeup of Damian's masked eyes. Dick says "Happy Birthday." From off panel. The second image shows Damian holding with a black bar in it, engraved with the words "Versus the world". Damian holds it up in front of his face, looking at the bar. "Versus the world?" He asks, confused. Dick's masked face is in the next panel. Dick: "When I was leaving for college, Alfred told me that he knew I could take on the world." The next panel shows a young Dick Grayson happily swinging from a trapeze - the bar is behind his knees, his torso arced up on the end of a swing, he's smiling with his arms behind him. Dick: "It's made from a trapeze bar in my family's act. Alfred got it and painted it black for me." Dick stands explaining, an arm raised in the next panel. Dick: "It helped me remember that I came from 2 worlds. But I think you need this more than I do now. Alfred knew I struggled with my past, present, and future. And any time I needed reminding of who I was, I'd think of that gift..." Damian takes off his mask, his eyes glistening. Dick (off panel): "Damian?" End ID]

Robin (2021) #5

I love this so much, I'm going to break down why I appreciate this moment.

Damian in Batman and Robin (2011) proved his love/empathy was there by presenting Bruce with a meaningful gift - one of his mother's pearls - so for me this moment carries the same weight, Dick showing Damian he cares in a way Damian has used to show his love before.

All the Robins have some connection to Dick's history - Robin is family - this connection completes that. Tim and Jason both have scenes where they visit Dick's show, Steph as Batgirl took the same oath that Dick took (in the same spot, the wax from candlelight dripping in the same spot), and now we have Dick gifting a trapeze bar to Damian. The thing is - Dick had no control over the other additions, he chose Damian and this calls back to that decision. Not just to make Damian Robin, but to welcome him into his family.

Dick acknowledging Damian comes from two worlds is just 😭. So often in fandom and canon, Damian is seen as an irredeemable killing machine, brainwashed by the league - by his own family members. He has a past that he struggles with, and Dick acknowledges that without getting stuck on it, and puts equal weight on Damian's present and future, understanding that Damian's a human - someone with value - someone who's proved they're more than what they were born to be - someone who cares more than they're giving credit for.

Damian being willing to stop the chase for Dick. He's willing to show Dick that side of himself - show him he actually does care - show him not all is lost. He doesn't want to go home, but his willingness to be vulnerable in front of Dick is something they've earned over time and something Damian doesn't give out easily. This really cemented them as idk what to call their relationship other than Batman and Robin. Damian let Dick catch up - he was willing to risk being sent home (which he doesn't want to do yet) over being able to spend quality with him. Dick gives the gift, but Damian is the one who accepts it and allowed him to give it - is what I'm trying to get at here.

The gift itself. Dick giving Damian something that helped him as a child really resonates with me. I have younger siblings and this is exactly the way I wish I could be for them. It's established in canon Dick doesn't keep a lot of stuff with him (or leaves it all packed up) and generally the things he keeps has sentimental value - which for me this places additional weight on this scene - because he has less it's worth that much more. The gift originally coming from Alfred is a nice touch - even though Dick and Damian haven't talked (though he probably remembers going to the funeral as Ric) he already understands how much Alfred dying hurt Damian, and gave him something to remember him by. That - to me - speaks volumes. On the flip side - Dick giving this precious gift to Damian demonstrates the trust he has in Damian to take care of it. And Dick's trust isn't something freely given - Damian worked for that, he earned it.

"Versus the world" - Alfred believed Dick could take on the world, and similarly Dick believes Damian can too. Not for the worse, but for the better. Also sorry but the line "painted it black" makes me think of this song and well, isn't that fitting 😂 and i have no idea if it's a reference or not

Anyways i count this as a solid win for Dick and Damian fans (myself included), and I'm happy they both finally got to talk after everything that's happened.

#i can't define their relationship whether it's more paternal or fraternal but i love it so much #this completes the circle of Damian being symbolically ushered into Dick's family #i feel like maybe i was too Dick focused in this - but you need to remember it's Damian that's the child - and the one allowing for this to #happen - he could have easily kept running - but he chose the hard thing and faced some of his complicated emotions #(he cries over alfred dying right after this) #their relationship has always worked because Dick doesn't force his way in #whereas the others expect certain things from Damian - Dick just lets Damian be Damian #i just want more Dick and Damian moments pretty please DC i would read a comic with these two #Damian dunking on everyone is also hilarious and also partially deserved imo #also for some reason Damian was accused of slitting Tim's throat when that just never happened - Jason's the one that did that #but yeah i love these two and for me this hit well #dc comics #batfam #batfamily #dick grayson #nightwing #damian wayne #robin #wendesday spoilers

[agent-bash]

Everyone's talking about the rings and whether Upstead will take them off or not, or they went silicone because it's safer, when really it's just a trend rn and blah, blah. I mean does it really matter? Kim wore her engagement ring all the time.

So what they'll do with their rings at work idk. We'll find out. I can see them keeping them on in the bullpen, but still taking them off in the field. It's safer in a lot of ways, but in this case, assuming they are silicone rings (I saw someone say tungsten, also a popular choice amongst first responders), it’s in a 'in case of capture,' kind of way.

Yes silicone rings have become a trend, but they are safer. And that safety is why they're popular amongst first responder. Also anyone who works with their hands, they're becoming a lot more popular amongst doctors, and gym rats and athletes. And also of course the masses. People like colours and the designs and that they can switch it up. What's wrong with that?

They're also comfortable. They don't get as sweaty/hold on to moisture like metal rings do. They move with the flex of your finger as well as anything you're holding in your hand. And if something like an axe or a gun is reverberating in your hand, you don't feel on your finger like you do with metal bands.

They're safer because they pretty nearly eliminate the risk of something called degloving. I'm not going to explain it, just look up but be warned it's graphic(and disgusting. This is one of the things that really gets to me for some reason won't lie). Given the nature of our jobs, it's something that we're at a risk for.

Then there just wear and tear on the ring. I've seen a guy break his wedding ring on the job. One he got hurt because it snapped and dug into his finger. Two he was devastated. His ring was destroyed (and got destroyed more getting it off) and he had to replace it. He doesn't like the new one as much, it doesn't have the same sentimental value as the other one. Others they's are chipped and scratched and have had to be repaired countless times. That adds up. Silicone rings are pretty cheap in comparison. One of the medics on my shift has like three back ups in her locker. So she can replace it right away, pretty much, if it tears on the job.

But it is to personal choice. Maybe I'm misremembering but I thought Kim wore her engagement ring on a chain when she was working? Totally acceptable, and smart. And If I am misremembering, her choice. Not one I'm on board with, knowing all the things that can happen, but I'm not Kim.

#asked and answered #Upstead #Kim Burgess

[lapeaudelamemoire]

In which it is late and Joy talks more nonsense:

Earlier in the living room realising that I am actually basically my mother - I'm tired and my behaviour is exactly like hers when she's tired.

I have also realised that failure is not an option that I have allowed myself

I am not sure I like any longer that I have a different name on Instagram or Facebook or whatever and I am pretty sure this is exacerbated by the fact that since classes have moved online I have been unable to change my Zoom name to stay right the entire term because no one outside my family actually ever gets my Chinese name right and I'm sick of being referred to as half my name, and not even the actual identifier half (Chinese given names are often 2 syllables and the first half is often a shared one with your siblings, especially if you're the same gender; the second half is 'YOUR /actual/ given name').

I'm not sure how I feel about Fb having 'memories' that it keeps bringing up because that... can actually be kind of triggering or a reminder that brings other things up, and also seriously sometimes forgetting is a blessing or whatever, sometimes the friends or people in the things it brings up aren't there any more etc.

Idk why im saying this like i didnt spend 6 years crying over T but I feel with the friend who talked about their ex five years on and said sorry im not over it yet

I am very angry at the person I considered a friend who told me this person I still think about was just a passing ship bc that's dismissive as hell and also doesn't change mfucking anything and in fact I am just very angry when friends let me down actually because I really do value friends i make and they drive this idea that they're more important than dudes or partners or whatever and then they pull this shit or just ghost you anyway while telling you off for not being a good friend???

I have turned the phrase 'love of my life' over in my hands a lot about this person and hesitated to award that label to them because my life is not over yet and so technically only at the end of my life will I be able to know who that was and other such reticent measures like who knows if it's actually the next one who comes along and every new person is the love of one's life perhaps etc. but then again idk when I'm going to die and so maybe you can count it as 'up to now' because that is all your life so far, in which case, possibly? but then that brings in questions like am I just being overdramatic after the fact bc i think this is a tragic ending and/or have I considered whether it was or what constitutes/what is my definition of love and so on, bc depending on the parameters it could be someone else.

But i mean my point is the sentiment is there and I keep possibly returning to it so I think I am leaning towards possibly maybe yes?

I am very overaware of other peoples' opinions on me like they must be sick of hearing about this person and think im an idiot, but then this is 1) my life and 2) my blog where 3) I sort out my feelings

I am thinking about deleting that friend from my friend list even though she had been very important to me before which is holding me back but I mean, also, eh?

I probably will?

I am also thinking about just sweeping all my blogs etc. but same sentimentalities stopping me

I realise that when something happens to you you change, and sometimes people don't like how you handle the thing that happened to you, and that's okay and you should let them go because they are not growing with you and may even be judging you

My eyes are very dry and stingy today and i just realised it might be that this pair of contacts are particularly drying so bleh

Very slowly coming around to the fact that I will never be the person i used to be no matter how much I liked who I was because I can't step back into the same river as it was in the past and maybe I can still do the things I enjoyed doing then but they don't necessarily make up my identity any more like they used to

I still think about going back to Poland/Lithuania where that ring of recognition resonated inside me and maybe one day I will use the words I learned in Polish again with someone, maybe, and there will be bright flowers in summer and I will be happy and I will make pierogi there where I live for even a while, even if I'm alone and it's just me, and I fully intend on looking for that small place with the biscuits in the alcove where the MUN was held years ago like the bar we went to in Lublin

Idk how much of this is me being stupid and i half hope i don't run into person because that i really think he might hate me forever now but yeah

One day tho

& london. One day at least once I want to go back and go where I was and I will feel sad about it but I will feel it finally and then maybe along with it a little happiness, just like the line in Kawiarnia where Zagajewski says, Czułem mały szczęście

Maybe I even question how much of this is really smth I wanted or just something I went along with in the end like a spiteful but nonetheless impotent 'proving' or 'see i did it like i said i meant it i wasn't lying' in the questioning at the border in london when they asked me my plans for the future to determine whether I was 'of good character' & I said I was planning on going to Australia to study

I don't like when people say 'just cut that person off' all the time to things now because while i agree with boundaries i also think this is the people equivalent of fast fashion where we don't seem as inclined to mend things and people are people with feelings and still deserve niceness bc no one is perfect

Watching Sailor Moon is exacerbating this

I understand frustration and needing to know when to stop but it is messy when you care for someone

& i really think friends who let you make your own choices even tho you might keep knocking your head on the wall are better friends than people who just tell you what to do

I will likely always be stupid about people.

Every other day i have to tell myself again to forgive myself for all the things I feel ashamed over in that year and after.

#personal

[anentirepandabear]

idk why but I’ve kept my workbooks and notebooks from school 

I mean like since kindergarten

#I'm in highschool #I have nearly all of them #they hold no sentimental value idk why they're there

[chisatowo]

Hi time for one fun ish fact abt each eternal gales main character because I'm bored and thinking abt them let's go 

Sprinkles: she is a gamer, and spends a good 80% of her day playing video games since her job is basically just recording herself reading a 2 minute script and that's it. She generally likes fast paced combat games most! 

Beats: she's probably the stalien with the longest work days, and she gets rly frustrated when her friends (mainly Alpha) complain abt her not having much free time since she hates it just as much and doesn't exactly have a choice in the matter. 

Alpha: she has piss poor pain tolerance lol 

Looser: other than Busy and Dancer, he's the only one of the staliends who knew how to speak a lil bit of english before the humans entered the picture. Some of the others could loosely understand it thanks to it being the primary way that Busy and Dancer spoke verbally (they learned it from Softie who learned it from the narrator, so they didn't know it was an alien language at the time) but Looser is the only one who made attempts to learn how to speak it himself before meeting the human kids

Dancer: he has a condition that along with many other things, makes it so it's a lot easier for his plating to slide out of place. On the one hand it means he can be a lot more flexible than most staliens which helps with his dancing, but on the other hand it also means it's easy to dislocate his plating in potentially painful ways that can be hard to fix (and it also makes him generally less tough skinned than most staliens which means he gets hurt more easily and also is prone to a lot of skin problems and also a lot of health issues that generally make it so he rly shouldn't dance so much but I'm not gonna go into all of that shit rn)

Busy: she and Softie used to ram heads a lot as a show of playful affection, to the point that it's still a present habit that she has to make an active effort to not do to the people around her gxjdmcg. Luckily she's not gonna break most of her friends horns on accident at least, since they're much taller than her 

Helmet: idk if I've said this before but they have a clothes rental service! It's not their primary job of course, but they put much more effort into it even if it's not a business most staliens tend to show interest in utilising. 

Mason: they like to create their own music! And by that I mean the stalien "equivalent" to music which is actually very very different than human music dnflfmdj. Long story short, it's more like smell based and serves a somewhat different purpose than music since most staliens don't rly have a sense of rhythm or whatever like humans do. They're almost closer to candles, but if candles were made for entertainment and artistic expression rather than just to smell nice. Mason likes using stalien blood smells along with many chemical like smells for theirs 

Butter: they keep a journal where they write down a good 95% of their thoughts to try and help with their horrible memory, but this has mixed results since it can be hard to find the information they need amongst the hoard of notes. 

Dodie: despite being very tall, she's actually incredibly light! It does not take much of a breeze for her to be pushed around, which is why it's a very good thing she can control wind and make sure it doesn't happen and blow her away when she doesn't want it to dndjdnd 

Mase: he's not very expressive in general, but he also cries very easily, so like he'll be watching like a vaguely sad movie and just be blank faced while tears stream down his face like a faucet 

Sier: I've mentioned they can play the violin, but they also play the piano! Violin is their preferred instrument to play, but the piano holds sentimental value to them since their brother plays it and taught them how to play when they were younger 

Aris: she stims verbally a lot! It's something she finds embarrassing abt herself, but she's usually comfortable enough around her friends to feel safe doing it around them :) 

Tali: she tends to chew on her hands a lot, and occasionally has to make herself new fingers after leaving deep enough bite marks that it gets in the way of doing things 

Snek: you know those images that you'd see in some school science books in sections abt snakes that were like "if humans could open their jaws as much as snakes they could swallow a whole loaf of bread"? Bloom showed Snek one of those once and she instantly got Mase to bring her a loaf of bread to try it but failed to account for the fact that she has a gag reflex fmdkdndh 

Shoe: he likes to just randomly yell and make silly noises when he's bored. The others usually then join him, but he's typically the only one who'll start it 

Sock: he likes to organise things when stressed, and if he can't he will usually end up biting one of the others and not letting go until Snek brings them somewhere with stuff to organise. 

Bloom: she's one of the few people that is capable to entering Mase's home, but after the first time he accidentally got her stuck at his place for a few days he started being very careful to not accidentally trap her again fndndjf 

Fydd: he is very good at imitating random noises, and 100% uses that to prank Bloom and his mom CONSTANTLY. He also imitates video game sound effects a lot as a verbal stim 

#rat rambles #oc posting #eternal gales #god theres so much of this shit I wanted to elaborate upon more but this post is long enough as is djdnrjfbf #mainly stalien worldbuilding I wanna talk abt more stalien worldbuilding so bad but idk if thatd be very interesting to read rkfnfkfmf #BUT I will elaborate just slightly on dancer's thing because I want to #basically his condition effects his blood in a way that makes him a lot squishier and maliable #Ive mentioned this before but stalien blood enters a gas like state rather easily which means most staliens are packed very tightly as to #keep their blood in liquid form in their bodies (which while they have very tough skin and dont bleed often this does mean when they do #they bleed a LOT) #but theres a rather rare condition staliens can have that basically make them less tightly packed making their blood a lot lighter and gas #like even inside their bodies #this usually means they have less blood in their bodies at any given time which on its own can lead to a lot of health issues #but it also means that their flesh and skin is a lot softer and squishier and stuff and their skin is also a lot softer and more moist #this means that their skin is a lot more sensitive and can also absorb some stuff if put in contact for too long so dancer rly has to bathe #very regularly and make sure he doesnt like lie in dirt for too long and stuff #ok ok Ill stop now I just need to infodump abt stalien biology every now or then or Ill shrivel and die