#theyre an attractive family

[vyeoh]

Having been through the exact airport they likely flew in through makes Jimmy's customs story infinitely funnier

#vio.txt #like i went through customs there as a us citizen will a full us passport omw back from an international flight #the agent is like why are you in this country. im like i live here. agent goes oh really where do you work? i say im a student #and my parents say they work in reseach. agent goes so what were you doing in [country] is there a lot of research there???? #i go. i was on vacation? we were literally there to see family??? at no point in the process did we ever say we were there for work???? #hate tsa so much ive never felt more racially profiled #the way its organized for non citizens was like infinitly worse as well #i think customs just attracts every high school bully that wants to live out their power fantasy #theyre treating u like a criminal for no reason 😭

[lycanr0t]

the thing about aplatonicism is that just like aromanticism and asexualism, it doesn't inherently mean you don't want friendships, every individual apl person has different needs and wants in regards to friendship and each person will go about it differently.

I for example am aplatonic and don't specifically feel platonic attraction as in, i don't feel a drive to befriend people. I don't get "friend crushes" or ever get the desire to befriend specific people. I am personally, very open to the possibility of friendship if someone else approaches me and we vibe. I am not platonically attracted to them, but I also do get enjoyment from socializing with others in that way and can become attached to them, etc. Platonic attraction does not equal caring about someone/being good to them. Attraction is not moral in that way. it just is.

Just like how some ace people still enjoy sex, even without sexual attraction. Some aplatonic people still enjoy friendship, and some don't. And that's okay! There are so many types of relationships out there that people can form and explore what makes them happiest and it looks different for every person and that's such a wonderful thing.

#my husband and i are both aplatonic and it manifests in VERY different ways for each of us but like. its neat its cool #i don't have many friends bc i don't seek ppl out but i love talking to people. i am a very social anf i like to think friendly person #i also have incredibly strong morals about treating people with kindness and trying to make the world a gentler place. #bc platonic attraction does not determine how good a person is or their morals #you can have 0 friends and still be a good person who treats people well #we NEED to get away from the idea of 'person with no friends = bad' #bc like. its a bad concept. its inherently flawed and bigoted and shit. tbh #the power of friendship isnt the most powerful thing actually its not any worse or better than any other relationship #friends arent worse or better than romantic partners or family or coworkers or strangers #its just another relationship and subset of attraction and putting it on a pedestal isnt a good thing actually #just how ​ace advocacy that relies on claiming romance is the best thing in the world is flawed #aro advocacy that claims friendship is the most important thing is just as flawed #all are equal. theyre not better or worse just different #rot posts #anyways unprompted apl post its just been on my mind

[dennisboobs]

i think everyone on sunnytwt needs to be sat down so i can explain to them what basic human empathy is. and then maybe i put them in a blender until they agree to write meta about the characters instead of whether or not charlie day got facial reconstruction surgery.

#ada speaks #u do not exist in a vacuum and your words have the capability to harm others #celebrities may not see your tweets but your balding transmasc mutual and your follower who feels self conscious about her nose will #it is fucking bizarre the way these people conduct themselves online #really. really fucking weird man #and then you see them acting like ppl are 'defending rich white men' #instead of taking issue with the actual shit theyre saying #whether or not you think rcg has been 'under the knife' or not #a) how is this any of your business. you are not entitled to this info nor do you have a free pass to criticize someone's personal choice #b) ask yourself why you feel you need to critique alleged surgeries and how they stack up to imposed conventional beauty standards #c) you do not *own* them. you can have opinions on your own attraction to them but #a person getting plastic surgery or hair plugs or whatever is up to them. not you. if it helps to make them feel better then who cares. #just because it doesn't make them attractive to YOU doesn't mean its okay to point and laugh #if a trans guy got top surgery and it was 'botched' would you act like they were stupid for getting it in the first place? #if a trans woman decided she wanted to surgically shave her jaw would you shame her for that? #it's their body. it's not yours. #for the record i don't believe any of them have gotten work done but think its a stupid thing to speculate on regardless #ive watched family members go through plastic surgeries of varying success. ive seen them get botox and hair plugs and everything #normal everyday people do it and it's not always about vanity #it can be for gender reaffirming reasons (and yes this includes when cis people do it) to alleviate dysphoria #trying to point out alleged surgical alterations made is just. gross #not to mention that holy shit MOST of the shit ppl are saying is like. age. different hairstyles. different facial expressions. #maybe if these people actually watched the show theyd be able to see the gang in action instead of staring at pics like spot the difference

[soupcrouton]

Idk man i dont ship most stuff in one piece but 99% of ship art and fic is like.. REALLY GOOD. Like i may not ship these two characters but im not BLIND to TALENT!!!

#this is about zosan and zolu #zoro and law i could maybe get behind. frobin i could get behind too but like i could also see them being friends #idk i dont think anyone on the crew is like... romantically attracted to each other.. cus theyre all family!! #luffy doesnt belong with anybody he is the aroace mascot actually #nami and vivi im actually enthusiastic about but i rarely see any art or fics of them

[butchtranny]

I wonder how much of most people completely avoiding interacting with my chest is them assuming my stone includes playing with my tits vs how much of it is ppl misgendering me

#like whether its ppl viewing butches as men-lite or whether its just straight transmisogyny #it still feels a lil fucked #and im incredibly greatful for ppl who actually show me theyre attracted to me and interested in my body #or at least the parts of my body i allow ppl to be interested in #also inb4 anyone says anything abt my use of the word tits: i am well aware im making mountains out of literal molehills tho #curse of coming from a family thats historically been flatter than saskatchewan #my mothers maiden name (corrupted to include the word flat) was her nickname and im right there with her

[tweedstoat]

Bro. Why are there European tourists at the bus stop outside my house. What is there to see in my boring suburb 1 hour away from the city.

#can only conclude they have family around here #the 2 biggest attractions in my suburb is the big shopping centre and the juice franchise that just set up shop near the train station #i think theyre german cause what theyre speaking sounds like german? #i accidentally waved to the guy thinking he was the postman 💀

[dulcewrites]

I feel like this fits Myrah and Aemond

I’m crying bc this is them to a tee 😭😭😭😭. Like if someone asked me why I started fcc, I would just send them this tweet

#also they are very ‘she’s everything and he’s just ken’ #that’s how Aemond would describe them lmao #I was thinking about this while thinking about the guess who’s coming to dinner Rhaenyra plot of all it #but we get shades of myrah feeling intimidated by that family (Aemond included) #in the end Aemond is a boyfailure to her girlfailure #not to make this about rhaenicent BUT myrah and Alicent find Aemond and Rhaenyra attractive in the ‘theyre cool and seemingly ethereal way #while aemond and Rhaenyra find myrah and Alicent attractive in the ‘they are neurotic but it only makes them hotter’ #fcc asks

[maddisandy]

everyone has some pretty reasonable dynamics and then there's soleil and gale

#plum charas #detailing in tags #soleil and astarion consider each other partners and equals beyond just lovers #but i went by the chart for this one rather than changing things for them #soleil did find amusement in gales nerdy flirting and thought it was cute but when given an ultimatum he chose astarion #gale got very upset about tav and astarion dating in my game after flirting with them constantly #so for a short period of time things were kind of awkward between them #but now they consider each other like close family friends (gale still likes soleil but respects their feelings) #halsin and soleil consider each other friends. both are attracted to each other but halsin moreso than soleil #jaheira and soleil consider each other friends but they didn't bomd as much as everyone who was around earlier (esp origin charas) #still they hold each other both in high regards and respect for each other #karlach and wyll both are very good friends to soleil. however i found them late in act 1 (i didn't know where to find them before) and by #then i already had much more relationship built with the party i was running with (shadowheart laezel and swapping gale and astarion #depending on the fight and if i need another spellcaster or a mobile melee) #plus i had kitted laezel to be my tank and soleil is already a warlock so i really didnt have them in my party except to do their personal #quests #but i still got pretty high approvals from them so theyre still very good friends #karlach went to avernus with wyll in my playthrough so i like to think every once and awhile the pop back up on the prime material for a hi #and vice versa with soleil and astarion finding a way to avernus to say hello #soleil also had a small puppy love crush on wyll but it was mostly attraction since they didn't persue anything #laezel and shadowheart are both very best friends with soleil and laezel still keeps in contact using the rary bond ring #both liked soleil in early game but soleil admitted they were nblm so they weren't interested back #laezel still feels admiration for them as a leader and helping in freeing orpheus and aiding laezel however they can against vlakith but #doesnt oersue for obvious reasons. shadowheart just overcame her feelings and treasures their friendship more #and sorry to minthara but i killed her. whoops #over all i like to think everyone (especially the origin charas) (minus minthara ofc) meet up regularly for reunions at whoevers home to #catch up and be together and very found family vibes. plus with the rary bond ring they can still talk whenever theyd like anyways #because im a sucker for found family #i also have my headcanons for everyone dynamics together outside of tav but. for another time #a very pan rambles set of tags

[jrueships]

Bron crushing hard on kyrie is embarrassing

LMFAO

#i love when i get asks that sound like asks u see on wag blogs #sometimes when im bored and the dash is slow i search up my fav wag blogs and catch up on all the messiness #the askers certainly love their lightskins who hate them over there #anyways this just sounded like a tea poster telling me abt an embarrassing married celeb w a family being downbad for someone else #which this pretty much is so #the way lebron smacked that mans hand and proceeded to put more energy into the greeting kyrie had no idea how to complete.. #he is so embarrassing #aquariuses will not like someone popular but the moment theyre hated on as well for being a hater #they will do everything in their power to pretend like theyve always liked that popular person #im srry yall but when they be lyin they be lyin lyin fr #they dont lie all the time but when they do it's on smthing heavy n irrefutable to them #i dont think i have to explain it with lebron #bro is the king. he could have anyone. and he chooses That #it's like a rich popular beloved guy who wants the only girl that doesnt like him but in all its problematic realities #maybe being determinely n frighteningly attracted to the one person who tells u no is Not so hot After all. in fact. at all #and maybe that rlly nice girl u str8 up kicked to the curb n abandoned (russ) actually Wasnt that boring n deserving of that #n maybe the girl u want that no one else wants has an actual reason to that which should be acknowledged n probably abided or atleast aided #instead of u deluding urself into being capable of fixing her thru a relationship where both of yall can get hurt #but u know #what do i know #i talk abt zodiacs sometimes im a stain on humanity #the trials of socrates #lebron rlly needs to stand up.. ure literally so real for this anon #amazing ask #ted asks #srry for the barebones actual text i tried framing it like a wag blog

[henrybelly]

ik it's not a popular opinion but i think one of the reasons i still don't care for doveti-ger is bc i actually really liked how their arc ended in OOTS. i felt like there was a lot of maturity in dovewing's realisation that he thought her powers were 'cool' and they both got a thrill out of meeting up secretly, but that he didn't really understand her or share her values of what mattered--

but then the erins were like "lol first love is always true love, no exceptions" and then we regressed from there

#i don't want to shit on anyone who finds dovetiger cute though :) i know they're usually written better than most canon couples #it's just my feelings i still harbour from the fourth arc #dovewing #tigerheart #not gonna tag the ship because i don't want to bother anyone looking up the tags #i dunno i just feel like realising you can find someone attractive without having a solid foundation for a relationship #was a level of nuance we very rarely get from warriors #so i felt like we kinda backslided into PSYCH it IS a solid relationship foundation #ok i guess. glad theyre happy. but cmon now #especially because dovewing was imagining a future where he joined thunderclan 😐 and tigerheart was like whoa are you crazy? #so dovewing had to give up her family and clan for him #and tigerheart makes 0 sacrifices for the relationship #Disappointed But Not Surprised #then tigerheart spent the rest of last hope fuming and threatening ivypool because dovewing put thunderclan first #i dunno. kinda feel like this guy just sucks and maybe if he's not gonna prioritize your relationship it's not fair of him to expect you to

[shameboree]

You completely missed the point of that post. Ppl noticed a weird trend of the mean girls/bullies they knew in high school going in to nursing & were trying to figure out why they would go in to a field where they have to take care of others. I didn't notice this till it was pointed out to me by my Nurse friend + my friend who is a CNA in pre-med. Saying "there's a concerning trend of toxic women gravitating towards nursing" is not saying "nurses are toxic!" It's not about nurses. It IS a thing.

YESSSSS ive been waiting So Patiently for some brave anon to come properly Champion the We Hate Women cause directly, THANK YOU i appreciate your UNWAVERING bravery in properly schooling me about how Mean Girls are the exact equivalent of murderers and child rapists. i literally never would have seen it. the MEAN GIRLS FRM HS BECOME NURSES joke has always been a thing and i know this and see this but AS U HAVE PROPBABLY SEEN bc i admit it on a near constant basis i am Kind Of Stupid so like i never once made the connect btwn women who are just huge total cunts VS very specifically men who rape kids and murder ppl which honestly was PEAK DUMBASS OBLIVIOUS on my part bc absolutely i shouldve seen past the named issue of Male Power Exploitation used specifically to commit Heinous Crimes and seen that what really needed to be talked about was Toxic Women, which is always unquestionably the most pressing issue at ANY given moment and im soooo so So Sincerely Sorry that i missed that. it was probably my toxic dfab nature taking control of my rotten little estro brain and i cant BELIEVE i forgot to check myself

THANK U BABE my reading comprehension is TRASH GARBO and i appreciate being humbled. i also do rly appreciate not letting me slip for not explicitly disclaiming in detail what i was actually upset about (Unreasonably weve established) bc boiling it down to such a 1d take REALLY showed my dumb little ass!!! im So Bad at time management so i did make the dipstick idiot choice to attempt economizing words so i could eat in the 15min i had before going back to do my job+tech job for 6 heavy workload pts and it did us both SUCH a disservice bc u had to come all this way and give me those words so i could learn better when i Should Have Known. im sad you felt like you had to anon i tho wish youd embraced your bravery enough to show your face, more than anyone you Deserve the recognition

#listen im not going to Actually Fight but there is such a specific reason that post upset me and to pretend its bc #i didnt Understand The Point is so uncharitable and disingenuous #if u wanna discuss this off anon im totally chill having a priv convo to explain my side here #ANYWAY DAMN I JUST WOKE FRM A COMA S/P THE WORST SHIFT OF MY LIFE like id lit rather time travel back to endure my wrst day of chemo instea #also you know what field Actually attract literally the absolute most vile women on earth? childcare. can tell you Firsthand #the batshit insane settlement idve got if id started a lawsuit for the workplace harassment i endured that admin condoned n participated in #BABE... ID BE DOORDASHING EVERY MEAL!!!! ID LEAVE $50 TIPS AT SBUX!! ID ACTUALLY GET SBUX!!! #ALSO techs/pcas/psas etc are widescale Infinitely Worse than nurses wrt n ALSO awful to pts but you know who gets the flak for THAT?? guess #i cant speak for licensed nurse aids bc id literally rather die than work in a snf or any ltc but UNLICENSED TECHS?? #those are the REAL mean girls from highschool. theyre mean to e/o mean to nurses mean to pts mean to the families. its WILD #id also rather die before working day shift but i can only assume theyre mean to drs also #also every evil woman that goes into nursing goes to day shift its like a rule or something and report is always an Event #anyway anon if it isnt clear what my angle here is LIKE I SAID im cool talking abt it in dms #im off for the next several days so i am Centered #kels talks #LUCKY FOR ALL U BITCHES THEY COLLAPSE TAGS THIS IS A WHOLE POST RIGHT HERE!!!

[onepureangel]

love how when i finally try to recover and try to form a healthy relationship w food , something needs to be said to ruin it

#and also make me feel incredibly body conscious #like my family making jokes abt how much i eat #and my boyfriend very much stating how they lust towards a body type i am not #even tho i know my family was joking and my boyfriend atl still says theyre attracted to me as i am #idk its just making me feel bad for looking how i do and how much i seem to eat

[snobgoblin]

well first of all he reproduced using only one parent, if that isn't by definition, asexual, I dont know what is

#professor utonium #ppg #the powerpuff girls #besides that like #literally let ppl have their headcanons if they arent hurting anyone #:[ #he wanted a family first and a wife second #sex is not a priority to him #you do know romantic attraction exists right? and that aces can experience it? #also i know full well what theyre trying to say #just being a jackass #bc i like this headcanon actually #ace #asexual

[capesandshapes]

Me: the point of this Stephanie fic should be Stephanie enjoying her time with her friends and genuinely enjoying the life she's been given while slowly discovering who she is

Also me: and kissing Jason Todd. Gotta kiss Jason Todd a bunch.

#cass and tim are her soulmates but in this different fragile ecosystem way where they'll always be her closest relationships #but like that doesn't necessarily mean she has to be romantic with cass or tim #and like with cass ive always headcanoned it as being this mutual attraction between her and steph #but like the two of them are so close to each other that like they would never want to risk it because what they have now is something more #and like to lose each other for cass and steph is like to lose a limb. #when tim was avoiding steph it felt like his lungs had been torn out of his chest and even if his relationship were to end #he would have to move slowly and tentatively because he knows what missing stephanie brown is like for him #because stephanie is just this ball of joy and even though shes seen some shit she keeps coming back #whereas i think i could explore the possibility of a relationship with harper and duke too in this fic #like im not set on the ships #but with duke and steph its sorta an outsiders looking in dynamic where duke still has stuff to come to terms with #and also like duke as a character just grounds stephanie and has an opportunity to make her slow down and breathe #like i kinda wanna explore their dynamic but i feel like it could be an underlying tension thing #and then like duke and steph kiss once just to try it and both spittake and realize theyre better off friends/family #harper i see as being an occasional thing where it never becomes serious but the two make out every once in a while and theyre CHAOS #whereas spiritually we all know that jaysteph is a trashcan fire of two people with something to prove trying to save the world #JAYSTEPH IS TWO OF THE SMARTEST HUMAN DISASTERS LOCKED IN A ROOM TOGETHER WITH ONLY A BOBBYPIN AND COLD PIZZA #I will throw in other weirdo dynamics i swear and like try love interests but im leaning towards jay #because my god it would be so fucking funny

[mejomonster]

I'm imagining an AU where Silent Reading is the same but Tao Ran is bisexual

On the one hand: hilarious. Phenomenal. Luo Wenzhou would try to lock him into a friend's with benefits so FAST (even though he did that to straight Tao Ran this version would involve makeouts+ lmao), but Tao Ran would insist they should settle down and adopt if they're gonna he together then Luo Wenzhou would insist they kind of did (points to Fei Du) and Tao Ran would -.- say no dumbass that's not what I mean, what do I tell my mom?

Then Fei Du would hit college and ALSO start hitting on Tao Ran, and Tao Ran absolutely would STILL not date him because thats his little kid he babysat and thats his little violent demon he would Actually suspect of murder if it came to it and Tao Ran unlike Luo Wenzhou won't touch that walking red flag, knows Fei Du only wants him to maintain his life's status quo and AGAIN Tao Ran wants kids! A house! To build a future! And while Luo Wenzhou may actually eventually do that, in Tao Rans eyes no one younger than 30 is gonna want to so Fei Dus out of the running.

Luo Wenzhou would ABSOLUTELY stoop to the level of rubbing in he's slept with Tao Ran. That might even be what breaks his and Tao Rans friends with Sexual benefits thing (but it won't end the surrogate partners thing they're too enmeshed), Fei Du would absolutely try harder than he does in canon like hand kissing and leaning toward Tao Ran next to a wall and loudly declaring his intentions so any poor sap who WANTED to date Tao Ran would run in fear. Tao Ran, ultimately, would end up with that girl he does in canon. Unfortunately, there would never be a genuine love Triangle or throuple (there's just Too many things he sees Fei Du as NOT partner material over, and while Luo Wenzhou MIGHT have a chance with a bi Tao Ran I think ultimately he would find his vision of a future not the same as Luo Wenzhous - starting with Luo investing in this kid and case they should've stopped messing with, continuing with Luo seeming to prefer the lone wolf man life over building a family generally - he's nurturing to fei du and fei dus cat and eventually Tao Ran out of romantic spoiling but he's usually not a nurturing softie the way I think Tao Ran would prefer like himself). A throuple would be Funny, but it wouldn't happen. But it WOULD make their love Triangle era so much funnier.

On the other hand: I just cannot imagine Tao Ran ;-; (in related news he's my babygirl and I love him as much as his fool friends even though it's hopeless ahh)

#justice in the dark #silent reading #rant #i am Such a simp for Tao Ran i know that #i love him i love him sooooo much #while like as a nuanced character? i love luo and fei better. theyre certainly messier and more layersd #but as far as Actually Attractive to real me? fei du is Red Flag city #and Luo makes some choices i find questionable And hes an aggressive cop #tao ran also is. which is a syrike against him #but otherwise hes so level headed. like. whilr for the storys sake them taking care of fei du for years was good? #in a rational sense. it was inappropriate. unprofessional. and crossing bounds they probably didnt have a right to #the wise thing (which i imagine tao ran mightve suggested) would be to investigate for child abuse #or encourage fei du to tell a teacher/mandatory reporter about his dad #then put fei du in extended family custody or a caretaker legally #at which point maybe with Major strings luo could be legally his caretaket #but fei dus dad is rich so he probably wouldve veen stuck with dad #but like. thats the appropriate professional action #meanwhile luo investigatef when he wasnt legally meant to #took care of fei du as 'with dads permissio #which left fei in his abusive dads parentage for years. it helped. and honestly was the most that #anyone could ACTUALLY help him. so its good luo did it #but irs not professjonally by the book and its risky to get involved in strangers lives and legal matters #its like if tao ran took su luozhan home and raised her for 8 years.

[ladiekatie]

Has anyone made the bold but fair connection that Eddie Diaz from 911 and Rosa Diaz from b99 are cousins? Because that would be hilarious.

#how did you know you were gay? #shut up katie #bonas pounts jf theyre at a family reunion and eddie is talking about buck all dreamy but in a No Homo kind of way #and rosa is waxing poetic about her girlfriend and eddie asks the question #(she corrects him that shes bi) #and they have a genuine heart to heart about eddie finding buck attractive not only physically but emotionally