#theysbian

[spoopy-moose]

Me explaining Burakhovsky to my friends: ummmmmmmm it’s like if the sky and the earth fell in love but they were separated by the uncrossable horizon between and their very nature means that they will forever repel one another…and they were both boys (?)

#idk I haven’t been pathoposting in a while #pathologic #daniil dankovsky #artemy burakh #burakhovsky #boys (?) is cause I fw nb Artemy headcannon heavy btw #also butch theysbian Artemy Daniil is also precious to me #idk it’s about the soul yknow

[pleuvoire]

might be a bit of a discourse hotspot but on the topic of girls in sentai, i keep seeing people go “smh, kingohger was yet another one-woman season, toei needs to do better” and 1) a lot of these people also seemed willing to refer to himerita as yuri in a nonbinary way so i don’t get the disconnect 2) i… really don’t think the kingohger team is the same situation as a “five boys and one girl” team? like i don’t think rita’s gender is a feminism L or something? it’s all rather odd to me

#they’re a theysbian to me so i always have a moment of disconnect seeing those posts #but personal headcanons aside i still don’t understand the reasoning

[utterdrip]

i am very flippant with my block button tbh. been mutuals for a few months but i didnt like how you talked abt Him? blocked. only thing in ur astarion tag is talking about how u dont like his fans? blocked. u said smth weird in ur tags abt Him? blocked. just a Weird Vibe i get? blocked

#frankie posts #like theres a difference between being weird and being a weirdo #and i will block weirdos im sorry #and this is coming from an autistic hyperfixated theysbian okay #like sometimes i follow astarion Dislikers by accident bc i dont notice for a while how they talk abt him #but mmmm its very. Very telling when someone Does talk abt him and people that like him and im like #:) Oh. okay yeah gbye now:)

[woolydemon]

trying to remember the dreams I've had by seeing which ones I just dumped onto discord (usually immediately after I wake up and barely able to think) and I'm so so so fucking sad I don't remember this one anymore

#I DONT REMEMBER WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE :[ #i need my dream he/theysbian that tells me i should say DASH and SPRINT when i run as a part my life so so so fucking bad. #if anyone reading this matches this description-- #rando thoughtz

[cranboggles]

luggle is maybe my favorite mixie ive gotten so far. i definitely have a soft spot for the rabbity looking ones.

luggle facts:

he/theysbian

works as a birthday party entertainer

sillayyy

is there a confetti cannon in his pants or is he just happy to see you?

(its a confetti cannon)

#magic mixies #artists on tumblr #fanart #anthro #furry #digital #clowncore #weirdfur #sparklefur #kidcore

[definitelynotshouting]

from one he/theysbian to another he/him lesbian scarian is everything 2 me i am rotating them in my brain like a dropped item in minecraft <3 do u have anything to ramble abt them or-

HE/THEYSBIAN TO THEY/HE-SBIAN COMMUNICATION I AM BEAMING ENERGIES AT YOU!!!! /POS

he/him lesbians scarian is sooo. i wish i had coherent thoughts but they just have such an energy to me. they're wives they're boyfriends they're killing each other they're dying for each other they're married AND they're divorced. He/him lesbians scarian feels so messy. like dont get me wrong default scarian is also messy but there's smth about he/him lesbians scarian that feels inherently a little messier. To borrow something @scarabies-real said to me about an unrelated au, i think they poison each other for fun every day and neither of them know if its to kill their partner or build up their poison immunity. My brother in fucking iocane powder the atrocities these two lesbians will commit

#scarian #goodtimeswithscar #grian #trafficshipping #hermitshipping #shouting speaks #asks #i think they should commit arson #i feel like i shouldve said smth profound about the inherent gender freakery happening with he/him lesbians scarian #but i am also just rotating them at illegally high speeds #my personally cooked rotisserie chicken<3 #also nobody look at that timestamp we dont need to discuss the way my sleep schedule is in shambles #EDIT: MY FUCKING PICTURE FRAME JUST FELL FROM THE WALL???? I THINK THE GHOSTS ARE TELLING ME TO GO TO BED #txt

[lavenderfires-moved]

catra is a transfem hesbian btw. and adora is a transmasc theysbian. so jot that down.

so theyre siscons

#ender.doc #stepcest #dddne

[crimewizards]

top 5 ocs

hyssop. easy. my number one. they r me. they had a satisfying character arc in a roleplay event. they canonically got worse. theyre fucking insane. i love them so dearly.

teo. guy of... not *all* time but certainly of time. he skews the party from being fully neutral to being MOSTLY neutral and SLIGHTLY evil. hes about to take a level in cleric. what a guy.

verne. round out the trio. he has so many problems and he's dealing with them only a little bit. makes bets to see if one of his dear good friends has died. cringefail bisexual.

ariel. nonbinary. lesbian. has a god complex. depending on who you ask, is either a pioneering magitech industrialist or a mad demigoddess who ate the sun, or BOTH. love them dearly.

RO. god. ro my fucking beloved. he's a self insert. they're part-dragon. he's a he/theysbian. he killed a man twice. they're The King. anyone who has been in an RP with ro Knows how cool they r i love them dearly.

#ocs #answers #special mention for my motw character nadia. shes a 5'0 goth femme witch i love her dearly also

[galahonk]

I don’t know if I’m suited for management because I know any day now I’m going to tell one of these mutants to do something and get told that they “don’t have enough spoons” forcing me to reenact the torture scene from Reservoir Dogs with some 20 year old theysbian and it’s going to be my fault somehow

[genderexamples]

I think I am gay for women, gay for men, gay for nonbinary people, terminally gay, never been straight, gold star theysbian

#current gender #current sexuality #gay #op #shitpost #lesbian #nonbinary

[pleuvoire]

dot pokeani is so nonbinary to me i keep getting surprised when people she/her them

#baby neet theysbian

[nightowl-bi]

My workplace stresses me out bc if it's not the theysbian telling me I'm wrong about gender it's the he/they grown woman titty monster MOM telling me I need to refer to every child as if they're nonbinary because I could accidentally misgender one like ma'am these are four year olds they don't understand this bullshit

[eepy-malk]

please just go pop in on my main. this is a dumping ground where I rb my old arts and post new ones.

[nothorses]

Exclusionist tactics

So we’re seeing a resurgence of exclusionary rhetoric- and most of this is on Twitter, but I think it’s time to unpack what happened during the “ace discourse” as well- because this stuff will happen again.

These are just the examples I can remember off the top of my head- but they’re good things to watch out for.

Echo chambers: Over the course of the first year especially, exclusionists would form tight-knit groups and private chats (especially over Discord). They would invite people into these groups and suck them in pretty intensely, creating environments where only one way of thinking was allowed. People who disagreed would often be mocked and harassed back into conformity. Avoiding Criticism: Any comparison of exclusionist rhetoric to some more “legitimate” form of bigotry was usually met with the claim “why are so many of us [targeted group] then?” Oftentimes they would point to exclusionists claiming to be trans women or people of color, later found out to be fabricated by cis and white people. Exclusionists also tended to put “TERFs do not interact” and similar statements in blog descriptions or on TERFy posts in order to avoid comparisons to TERF rhetoric.

Targeting Allyship: Communities would be pit against each other in order to discourage allyship with the ace community. The most successful example is the way lesbians were encouraged to see aces as “a lesbophobic community”, the effects of which linger today. They also attempted to pit the bi community against us, and the autistic community. Targeting Language: Exclusionists often targeted the language the A-spec community used; “allo” came under fire for being “homophobic” and “lumping people in with their oppressors”, “a-spec” was said to have originated as a term for the autism spectrum (a blatant lie), and even pointing out similarities to TERFs came under fire- again for “lumping people in with their oppressors”.

Targeting Community History: Asexual history (which is by nature also aromatic history) came under intense scrutiny; any prominent figures or spaces were now considered “too problematic” (like David Jay and AVEN), and longstanding history was actively erased; while folks claimed that asexual history had begun with the inception of AVEN in the early 2000′s, ignoring documented history as far back as the 70′s at least.

Erasing Community Definitions: A popular tactic was to claim that a word “had no real definition” and thus couldn’t be legitimate. Exclusionists often compiled seemingly conflicting definitions of core words like “asexuality”, always given by unofficial sources and either allos, or baby aces. Official definitions and sources were erased entirely. “A Danger to the Community”: A core tenant of all exclusionist movements is that the group they’re excluding is “a danger to the community”. They’re “stealing resources” which usually cannot be described or quantified, nor are they actually limited- they’re “invading”, they “think it’s just a club”, they’ll “make us harder to accept”, etc.

Character Assassination: Anyone who spoke up about asexuality had their every action put under unreasonably scrutiny, and accusations were often slapped on with minimal prompting. Most often used were “lesbophobe” and “pedophile”; ever disagree with a lesbian? Now you’re a lesbophobe. Ever interact with someone under the age of 18? Now you’re a pedophile.

“Think of the Children!”: The ace communtiy was said to be “sexualizing children”, citing the fact that some young people identified as ace, and the belief that nobody should be thinking about sex or sexual orientation until legal adulthood. This often lead to people claiming aces were “pedophiles” just because of their identity.

Belittling Trauma: Aces were often asked to lay out the oppression they’d faced and trauma they’d experienced for exclusionists to pick over and “validate”- pretty much always, the end result was that exclusionists tried to convince the person in question that their trauma wasn’t real, or was “misdirected” and thus didn’t actually hurt them. Harassment Campaigns: Exclusionists would often find one person to target as a community, with the end goal being that they leave the site, shut down their blog, or far worse. A wave of harassment would come over one person at a time, in asks and mentions and all over everything they’d posted recently. We’d see dogpiling, basic insults and bullying, mocking, targeted bigotry (like ableism) etc.- and well as...

Suicide Baiting: Exclusionists would often “jokingly” suicide bait people they disagreed with, aces in particular, and I remember one ace blogger citing this harassment as a reason they eventually did take their own life.

Sexual Harassment: Aces were often targeted with sexual harassment as if it might “fix” their orientations, or just as a malicious way to hurt them. Sexual jokes, sexual insults, etc. were thrown at aces, many of them children or teens.

Grooming of Minors: Within their own communities, exclusionists often took advantage of their status, their weaponization of the term “pedophile” against others to make themselves appear safe, and the normalization of sexual jokes and comments within their communities to single out and groom minors. Minors were often roped into sexual spaces or conversations with predatory adults.

What eventually started to shut “the discourse” down and dissolve this movement was diligent de-platforming. People were encouraged to blog exclusionists on site, blocklists were circulated, we were discouraged from reblogging any post with an exclusionist on it, etc.- Instead we would make our own posts in response to their points, and screenshot theirs if needed.

Over time, this genuinely did work- and while we’re still recovering from “the discourse” to this day, we are at least in the process of recovering now.

#ace discourse #bi lesbian #hesbian #discourse #theysbian #ace exclusion #not horses #long post

[sapphic-sprite]

to all of my they/them lesbian followers: 💓💘❤️💗💞💝💖💕❤️💓💕💝💓💞💘💗💖💕

#lesbian #lesbians #lesbianism #they/them #they/them/theirs #theysbian #they/them lesbian #lesbian positivity #lesbian pride #nonbinary lesbian #enby #nonbinary #wlw #nblw #sapphic #trixic

[catgirlapologist]

nonbinary people aren't a monolith. we don't all share the same exact gender identity. each and every single one of us has a different relationship to gender and different experiences. nonbinary is literally just an umbrella term for every single person who isn't on the gender binary. we're included in every sexuality and we're allowed to identify with any sexuality we want, depending on our own personal experiences and what we feel comfortable with. lesbianism has always included nonbinary people, nonbinary lesbians have always existed. if you don't support nonbinary lesbians then you just flat out don't support lesbians.

#ev.txt #lesbian tag #lesbophobia #transphobia #enbyphobia #lesbian visibility day #theysbian #hesbian #nonbinary #sorry for the excessive tagging i just really want people to see this post in particular