#this is just transphobic bullshit

[craycraybluejay]

Saw a Reddit post about a cis woman infantilizing trans men, and this is why I think cis women are THE most annoying version of transphobia in the world. Like yeah a cis man will tell you "kys tranny" but he's not very well going to take the time to psychologically torture you for the heck of it by treating you like you are exactly [three] years old.

#im sorry but cis women are so much more likely to be really fucking weird to trans people #i cannot stand them #tw suibaiting #mentioned #transphobes #infantilization #transandrophobia #bite kill maim #look im not a misogynist BUT i dont trust women for shit #they are literally taught never to talk straight at people which results in some of the most convoluted psychological warfare ever #also on one side there's transphobic misogynists on the other side there's terfs #and very few women i've met cis OR trans have been normal about trans men and transmasculine people #even the tumblr trans community is chock full of either trans women telling us we're oppressing them and also us being hated doesn't matter #and spouting transandrophobic bullshit #but the cis women 'allies' who are like 'i know trans guys i have a trans friend who most definitely isnt scared to tell me off for my #fucked up behaviour' #the thing is this is very much how women bully other women so actually #newsflash #transmascs are not 'tme' and literally all fucking trans people are endangered by transmisogyny #some of you gals just have a superiority complex about it bc you want to have someone to look down on #almost every man I've met who is not old as hell or a borderline nazi is just. normal about it. #if a woman is too interested in your transness? run for the fucking hills #no she most probably won't physically attack you but she will try her damnedest to psychologically ruin you #not sorry if i come off as an asshole #these people are WAY too comfortable making us uncomfortable #i have had it up to here #if anyone tries to infantilize me for any reason i will scare them till they beg ME to leave them alone #idk how other people tolerate it but i sure as hell won't #and i am absolutely not above hitting a woman if she's touching me against my will #you want to baby me and constantly touch me and shit you are getting slapped into sunday

[wishing-stones]

Hey look, a free block!

The full of this was something to the tune of "you can like a game and not agree with every part of it. I don't know why you're treating her like she's ruining someone's life" or similar. I deleted it and blocked them because I don't wanna deal with the number of notes that discourse would bring.

Anyway, block em and move on. Don't attack.

#k talks #don't engage them just block them #I do not tolerate transphobe apologists #you're fucking disgusting gtfoh with your bullshit

[katsigian]

#can't believe that i saw someone #with conviction #try to claim that just because a show has lgbt characters the creator can't be transphobic #and then proceeded to try defend a proven transphobe #before deleting all of their messages and acting like it never happened #they're blocked now bc that's not the first time they've supported either transphobes or zionists #it's just very funny to me how they made *me* out to be toxic one when i asked if they knew they were supporting a transphobic show #i shouldn't be surprised though [redacted] fandom has a track record of supporting questionable shit #anyways #not about any mutuals or friends reading this i'm just venting about bullshit #tbd #ugh #that's the tag

[weallpartyatybcpatricksfuneral]

someone needs to take ronnie radkes internet away for good now

#i know in the past he has said some iffy stuff about trans people (idk what he has said i just know it wasnt good) #but i just found an instagram post where four days ago he called the trans creator a groomer #someone take his phone and tell him to shut up #and stop spreading his horrible transphobic bullshit

[wild-at-mind]

I honestly thought I didn't really have much chest dysphoria (small chested) but it's been several days since I put binding tape on as I had been careless removing it and scabbed the skin, and it feels terrible. I have a day's break every week or so which is just about doable but not this. Good thing my skin is better

#cw dysporia #it's like the feel of them #i've been hung up recently about how i didn't used to mind them/wanted them bigger even because i wanted attention from men #but back then i was not at all present in my own body so that probably helped in a fucked up way #i think i worry too much that i will somehow give the impression that i had rapid onset gender dysphoria or something #because in truth if you heal enough to become present in your body again and then start getting dysphoria it may seem pretty rapid #but i think what is implied in the (bullshit) concept rapid onset gd is that it there is risk it will go away again just as quickly #and that doesn't seem to be happening #i know rapid onset gd is by design a transphobic disinformation tactic #but i can't help but think that dysphoria that comes on rapidly and persists #and dysphoria that develops slowly and persists #are not very different at all. #but who am i kidding if you are a young person it seems like the only way to avoid a 'diagnosis' of rapid onset gd #is if you mention your dysporia early and often to your parents or guardians #that's literally it because adults don't believe children and teens have inner lives they might not know about

[thund3randrain]

Its gotten to the point where 'big strong men' need to protect the 'poor vulnerable white women' from the 'evil transes and gays and people of colour' and if this sounds misogynistic its because it is

#yeah you care so much about women #totally #its not just to further your political agenda #fuck right wing #fuck fascists #fuck misogynists #fuck transphobes #fuck racists #terfs dni #transphobes dni #right wing bullshit #jayden's thoughts

[dontbelasagne]

terfs will say something like transgender people are inherently misogynistic because it implies femininity = womanhood and masculinity = manhood without a single ounce of thought put into the fact that being trans goes against those ideological systems in the first place, created and legitimized by cis people who refuse to adopt a queer/non-cisheteronormative lens on sex and gender?????

#just saw some “radfem” account on tiktok spouting this idea on how you cant have gnc women or men anymore because theyre all pushed #to be trans #and like hun where do you think you got that idea from #why is your perspective like that?? #so tired of transphobic bullshit #queer #trans #transgender #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbt #feminism #intersectionality

[queerpontmercy]

the queer eternal struggle between “damn, that’s dehumanizing language and the implication fills me with intense fear” and “wow, thanks, that slaps actually, fuck yeah i’ll be monstrous and evil and everything you’re afraid of”

#my uncle has just called all people who provide care to trans youth inhuman monsters and pure evil #so you know #happy fucking pride month #and 3 for 3 score on my mom's siblings being viciously transphobic #personal #family bullshit

[kidrat]

Being a transmasc who doesn’t know/ have community w transfemms is EXACTLY the same as being a gay man who’s weird to lesbians or a straight guy who is only ‘friends’ with women he thinks might sleep with him. Hanging out with and dating cis women doesn’t make it better either it makes it Worse. I hate all of u and I hate the ‘preferences’ you have ‘because of my trauma’ you know EXACTLY what I mean

#getting to the point where I distrust these ppl more than trans ppl who only know cis ppl #like if u just don’t know trans ppl in ur area or u kept ur cis friend group from before u came out that’s cool! #no one shld like force friendships for the sake of diversity or whatever #but when some he/they hangs out w exclusively other transmascs and cis sapphics. #I am calling bullshit #rancid vibes #like I know I’m about to hear some shit about #‘well I’ll always be socially female bc of how ppl see me’ #like bruh get on hrt or don’t no need to spout that trans misogynistic shit #/ generally transphobic shit lbr if ur saying ppl ‘are’ what they were born as and perceived as #does me being misgendered mean I’ll always be a woman too? #misc

[chaos-in-one]

“You can’t be multigender and a lesbian if one of your genders is man/man aligned” how to tell me you’re a transphobe who doesn’t see me as “enough of a woman” or sees my womanhood as “tainted” without saying it directly. I am a woman, and I’m homoromantic, I belong in lesbianism.

#seriously fuck transphobic takes like this #it's just the same repackaged bullshit terfs spew at transfem lesbians #transphobia #lesbiphobia #lesbophobia #anti exclusionist #anti exclusionism #multigender #multigender lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #lesbian discourse #trans discourse #exclusionists dni #fuck exclusionists

[badolmen]

I just realized that Jesse Pinkman’s address in high school was his Aunt’s house. He was already living with her instead of his parents by the time he was in high school. The timeline of her cancer and death is a little fuzzy, but it’s likely he had to care for her while attending school. If that’s the case it’s clear he didn’t ask for accommodations or even use his Aunt’s illness as an excuse for his poor grades (Walt was surprised to hear she had been sick). Combined with his obviously untreated ADHD, it’s no wonder he turned to drug use and failed to ‘apply himself.’

And to think that through all this - taking care of his Aunt, struggling in school - his parents didn’t help; either directly with his Aunt’s illness or indirectly easing his responsibility for her by hiring care givers…

#ra speaks #jesse pinkman #breaking bad #brba #skrungly from my meth lab… #I am feeling shrimp emotions #ALSO also idk how old Jake is supposed to be (I’m guessing middle school?) which would mean Jesse has been absent from most of Jakes life #y’know I used to be in camp ‘Jesse parents are probably good parents and people Jesse just didn’t have support systems elsewhere in his life #to cope with his neurodiversity in a system that didn’t accommodate it for expectations far out of his reach’ #but unless we get some clear revelation tha Jesse was bullshitting about taking care of his aunt while she was sick #his parents really did just. leave that to him. #and the way he accuses his mom of not doing anything for his aunt while she was sick…idk it just feels very real at least to him #*ticks another cell in the ‘jesse pinkman is trans and his parents had him move out to live with his trans aunt #because even though they’re supportive enough to help his transition and respect his pronouns they are still transphobic evangelicals #who can’t fully accept these people in their lives and are looking for excuses to never see them again’

[stonebutchwritings]

cw transmisogyny // this post is abt tme ppl needing to be more vigilant and care more abt casual transmisogyny in the name of "protecting trans men and trans mascs"-- trans women u can read or scroll but this isn’t directed towards u ur doing great. also directed towards my own butch/fem community but is ok to rb if ur a man as long as u dont add anything on-- just don’t interact with my blog outside of this! this is a lesbian horny blog writing One serious post.

as a tme transmasc, pls stop rb'ing from and supporting a lot of transmasc tme ppl and trans men who are spouting stuff about how they're just as oppressed as trans women or acting like they have no privilege over trans women. these people are acting like people "treating them like a cis man" is oppression when it's clearly a privilege in literally 9000% of circumstances and trans spaces obv have never gatekept community with us on the basis of being a trans man/transmasc?? if someone treats me like a cis man, I AM RECEIVING PRIVILEGES. this thinking is a path right down to rad/fem land and "i was socialized female" and "people treat me with misogyny because i am socialized as a woman" and "people treat trans women with male privilege because they are read as men" etc etc. there are so many of these "transan/drophobia" ppl who believe trans women can engage in this "oppression" against them. and it's not just that they are quiet about it, you are taking in some of their poisonous viewpoints about how gender essentialism is okay to the point where they believe men can be lesbians if they are afab men but not if they’re amab men (textbook transmisogyny-- prioritizing vaginas in categorizing people). literally look at this post i saw when looking up some of the posts i'd seen already

please just don’t embolden them esp in butch/femme circles i see it too much and it's getting really worrying that you don't take it seriously at all when they're pretending that not "being allowed to cry" as a man is oppression against men and other MRA talking points about how misogyny that men inundate themselves and other men with is actually hurting them more than women. not to mention that i saw a butch blogger say there's no difference between trans men and butch lesbians (deleted now after playing victim) which is literal ra/dfem rhetoric and acting like butch trans women don’t exist and gender essentialist but they are still a beloved community member. trans women belong in a butch/fem community that recognizes their unique struggle and doesn't allow this shit to thrive. at this point if you're asking for someone to prove to you why trans women are more oppressed than trans men, you need to recognize that as transmisogyny in itself.

anyways believe trans women. and in the spirit of crediting, i get a lot out of following people who aren't necessarily there to educate but unfortunately are forced to come out of the woodwork every once in a while to do so-- @grlofswords on insta, @ bimbo.theory on twitter and insta-- my own experiences of tme privilege, and a study done by schilt and wiswall in 2008.

tl;dr

#text #mine #my writing #trans #cw transmisogyny #also if ur wondering the t/erf is femg/hosting #i just didn’t want any transphobic bullshit from not censoring a post #way safer to expose that shit in text