#this is no 'unfollow me if you think otherwise' okay like if you don't care then fine mate this post isn't for you

[gentil-minou]

AO3 has gotten hit with AI data scraping programs already, it’s possible that any fic you’ve posted that isn’t locked has already been trained on, it’s why there’s been several people who would’ve never done it otherwise archive locking their stuff recently

Oh yeah I know that I still have to lock my fics but this last reblog about a reader putting a story in chatgpt themselves to generate a fake ending is waaaaaaay worse in my opinion.

Like look, I know when I put anything out on the internet that someone somewhere is gonna take it and pretend its theres or share it without my permission. It's already happened to me with my analyses in the past. When I heard about the software being scrubbed I was sad but not surprised, it really was only a matter of time but there was little I or any other writer could do to stop that (whether AO3 could have is an entirely different matter)

But to me a person reading my unfinished fic and going "wow this is great but I want more I'll put this in chatgpt to get more instantly!" is actually SOOOOOOOO fucking insulting. That person is bascially saying they don't view me as another being but as a person meant to entertain. They're saying that the hours and tears and all that time spent writing was not actually that valuable because look a machine can do it just as well and faster!

That person is so egregiously wrong and selfish. They are no better than the dudebros who scrubbed the internet in the first place. They're worse because they KNOW it's not okay and yet choose to ignore that. They're worse because they're taking something that is very obviously very personal to the author and then saying "nah i want a machine to finish it cause im too impatient or don't care what the author thinks'

Writing is so goddamn hard but writers write for a reason. We write for you and for us and for the fandom and fic writers do it for FREE and yet that isnt enough? How are people who use chatgpt to write fic any different from people who steal art and feed artificial art generators? What's the point of me writing any more or ever why should anyone write if a machine is more valuable than me, a human being.

There's no excuse that makes this okay. NONE. If you do this unfollow me and do yourself and literally everyone else in the world a favor and DO LITERALLY ANYTHING ELSE. GOD.

#asked and answered #Anonymous #look i dont care about a machine doing it there are apps that know where i live or when my period is and i hate it but what can i do about #THIS IS WORSE SO MUCH WORSE LIKE YOU'RE BASICALLY SPITTING IN MY FACE

[laprimera]

alrighty so after some reflection and getting some outside stuff prioritized Im done some blog housework so I can get comfortable here again.

im still gonna continue my hiatus until november cause the rest of October still has a lot of rl appointments and stuff going on. ill be nuking my ask and drafts to get into maximum turtle plot overdrive and just start things clean, but here's the skinny under cut:

. Ive went and cleaned up my followers list. mostly of inactive blogs, non-mutual or blogs that haven't reached out or interacted at all. I use to think I liked a busier dash but I think trying to keep up with it had been giving me anxiety even if my muses weren't involved in anything plot wise. FOMO has been really killing my vibe more then anything and I need to cut that habit out.

you're a-okay to refollow though! I'll do the same. none of this was done out of malice or a personal dislike, and I get being so busy w/ life and personal plots that you cant interact with everyone in a convenient moment. but if you see this as an opportunity to reach out then by all means! that and I might've accidentally unfollowed one or two of you cause side-blog deal, clumbsy thumbs, and uuh, dont mind me realizing that later down the line-my bad!

. unless carefully plotted otherwise, anything outside my own canons, affiliated blogs/mains or plots is no longer canon to my own. any interaction or thread initiated towards my muses will default fall into my lore/verse unless vice versa or its plotted and etc etc. It's no longer just hanging there in the void so to speak. I need to feel more in control of my own narrative I think and trying to puzzle a lot of contradicting outside plots, dash events, etc has been mentally taxing when rp shouldn't be occupying so much space or anxiety to begin with lol.

this isn't to say everything thats happening in the dash or w/ other characters isn't important ofc! and I still want to participate; it'll just fall under a crack/non-canon tag. if things end up lining up p' well with whats going on here then I might take it into canon. This is p' much what I've been doing to begin with, it's just more concrete now and Im being more careful of what Im willing to accept now. Im ofc open to discussing stuff! DMs and disco for those who have it are open always even if I take a moment to get to it!

. Im no longer answering anon asks that are personal in some way, ie, around subject matters that aren't general headcanons asks or 'hey how do you feel about-' sorta deal. I dont feel comfortable taking it to public and while I understand having the fear of being identified, it's not fair if I'm the only one bearing the subject so to speak. If you want to talk to me through DMs you can either tell me your UN (no burners either) so I can bypass permissions here to chat or you can reach me at @shiny-miltank where my IMs are not barred to mutuals only. I don't bite really! and my discord is not public. tbh Im still very anxious about being on disco to begin w/ cause social anxiety flare ups. idk tumblr dms always seemed easier to chat until I know you on a personal basis-its just worked that way.

. making it more strict that you dont? put my geeta in place of plots, events, etc that I havent participated or plotted with, nor can you make assumptions for them based on said events. as slapped on every piece on my about/rules/pinned/etc shes heavily canon-divergent to begin with so no one knows her intentions/actions (save for me ofc) and wont act in what presumed canon-geeta would do or your own version so to speak. easy enough to slap me an IM for "is it okay to-", plotting, or just make a nebulous npc stand-in.

. things that havent changed are the use of my lore and headcanons into your own! I love seeing it integrated or adapted into other lore and seeing just how much it inspires and changes over time!

this all seems rigid but really it's just reiterating whats already in my rules and no one here has been a huge offender at all :' ) this is more for me to follow and I cant thank everyone enough for their patience and creativity for as long as I've been here. Im loosey goosey and go with the flow 90 out of 100 times.

this goes for the rest of my muses, which Ill probably clean up when Im back-but yeah! miss ya'll! hope you've been doin' good! the terrapagos plot will continue then and Ill resume reaching out and leaving details! hopefully in time for dlc ; >

#ooc. ･ﾟ ✹ #queue. ･ﾟ ✹ #importante and stuff #sorry this is at 3 AM gdfgfd-this is like the only time Im awake ironically #but again ill be really back in november! see ya then!

[astarab1aze]

rping/rpc petpeeves for munday? 💀

i can think of a couple.

anon hate, as if we're not all adults here, to name one. the complete and utter lack of respect some people show toward other writers is just ??? it's nuts. another thing is activism within the rpc and the advent of twitter-esque dog-piling when someone doesn't get their way - most i've found either have good intentions and just get it wrong (sokay, we all learn) or are sort of using x cause as an excuse to bully and isolate people as if that's ever been okay or appropriate (bad faith; the 'cause' is a smokescreen that makes the person getting harassed look bad for defending themselves, which i don't and never have vibed with; i spent a lot of time in discourse circles and people who do this don't actually have any convictions, they're just being dicks because they know they can be and get asspats after). people who take things too personally too, because at the end of the day, this is a hobby and we're all human. we can't all talk to each other all day every day, it's just not feasible, and if it takes a week or more for someone to get back to you, it's most likely the exact opposite of intentional. i forget everything all the time, my notifications don't always work on tumblr or discord, there isn't enough time in the day in the first place, and like some i have children and am married, i'm severely time blind (i thought it was still februrary until last week) or otherwise have 800 different things to do at any given time. a lack of communication, at least from me, isn't ever personal, and i'd wager it's about the same for other folks too. sometimes i need to be reminded or nudged and i don't mind that as long as its respectful. yaddayadda.

also it's weird to me that just a couple of days or a couple of weeks of not talking or writing is enough for some people to unfollow, break off/drop roleplays, or whathaveyou. it's just...weird, to me. it shows an unwillingness to understand that someone else's life doesn't revolve around roleplay, and also impatience. i would understand maybe a month or so, but not anything before. my rp besties and i regularly take a few days, sometimes a few weeks to respond to each other's messages and there's no bad blood there. on this front, this is exactly why i'm as laid back as i am - take as long as you need to, i'm not going anywhere.

i have some probably unpopular opinions too, not just pet peeves, but i'll save those for another day. like if someone writes, idk, noncon, i'm probably not going to jump down their throat because a) i don't know them, b) i don't know why they're writing it, c) i probably never will, and d) i'm probably not seeing it on dash anyway since i block and filter tags. when i said this is a judgment free zone, i really meant it. it's not my place and i don't care anyway. write whatever you want? be it to cope or explore something difficult so you can understand it or something else so you can have fun. because i will, even if that's really just complicated romance with a fantasy backdrop. write whatever wish fulfillment and escapist nonsense you wanna write too, while we're here, because genuinely i'm tired of that being seen as a bad thing also. we've all written something someone hates for one reason or another, whether it be unrealistic or 'disgusting', so really all you can do is keep truckin' cos you can't please everyone and it's pointless to even try.

#☿ || Asks. #opinion / #/ the last one is either perfectly reasonable or bothersome but genuinely i just can't be assed to care. subject used was just an example #/ write whatever you want #/ stop bullying each other #/ don't rush each other #/ yadda yadda

[haleigh-sloth]

(1) I’ve largely erred on the side of not saying this because I don’t care to rain on anyone’s parade, but since you mentioned feeling like the friendship between Tomura and Spinner can get blown out of proportion, I can think of at least one concrete reason for why that disconnect might exist. I obviously don't blame people for taking the official translations at face value, but I feel like Spinner's line about "bonding" with Tomura over games is another example of sentiments getting

Ahhhhhh lot of good stuff here

Putting a cut for length but also people who just don't wanna see this type of response

I feel this way about a lot of peoples' interpretations of the League and their interactions. Not just Spinner and Shigaraki, but all of them. I feel like a lot of gestures get blown way out of proportion. Shigaraki's "I just want them to be able to live how they see fit" does not equal "Their happiness is my priority, and I'm going to work to create a world where they can be happy". I'm sorry but those two are not the same thing, and I haven't seen Shigaraki act in such a way either. Those two goals may point in the same direction (they don't because he's a fucking liar to his own face and so is Toga to her own face), but that kind sentiment did not suddenly mean that he is prioritizing their happiness and wellbeing above all else. If that was the case, well, they wouldn't have formed a giant ass army to take on the world at war and risk dying (which one of them did) and Spinner wouldn't be in the situation he is in now ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ .

I don't want to rain on people's parades either, but my opinions are pretty clear and have been for a while and people have had plenty of time to block/unfollow me as they see necessary. So at this point, I don't hold back (I try very hard to avoid being super negative though about any character in general). I used to hold back my not so popular (in the villain corner of the fandom) interpretations on the League up until recently. As we've gotten closer to the end, I've decided that I'm just gonna put my opinion out into the void even if many people--specifically in the little circle of blogs I occupy--don't like it. And many don't, and that's okay. My opinion doesn't change unless the manga gives me a reason to change it.

Spinner and Shigaraki--I have a lot of issues here, MAJORITY of it due to fandom hyping them up as more than they are. And look, I don't care when stuff is clearly fanon or headcanons. Posts that are meant to be taken that way are usually pretty clear about it. But these are whole analyses based off of this overblown bond/friendship that literally only Spinner seems to acknowledge/be so attached to.

I don't doubt Shigaraki views everyone in the League as a friend in some capacity. I don't doubt that at all. I don't doubt that he cares and genuinely wants them to live how they want. However, I would like for someone to show me where he pays the same type of special attention to Spinner that Spinner gives to him. Imo, Shigaraki treats them all pretty equally--Spinner included.

I didn't know that about the Japanese, and yet, I still felt this way. Assuming that someone who has a good understanding of Japanese can correct your statement, I'm gonna take your word for it since I can't say shit otherwise lol. But cool--yeah that particular line is used quite a bit. And I get it! It's fun especially if you ship the characters or just enjoy their interactions.

But I feel like people overlook the fact that Spinner's idolization and attachment is literally negative and is a challenge in his arc, not some cute uwu friendship that was just about video games (when would they have played video games in canon??? WHEN????).

Spinner decided to seriously devote himself to Shigaraki (which in itself is a weird not great thing to do) during MVA, because it looked as if Shigaraki had made progress and overcome a barrier and become this all powerful destructive god who can make dreams come true (dreams for someone who wants to lash out at least). But MVA was not any of that. MVA was Shigaraki doing exactly what AFO wanted him to do--get worse emotionally, spiral more mentally and become even more unstable, and hate himself to the point that he sees no point in thinking or hoping for change for the better. Perfect, all according to keikaku. And THAT is when Spinner was like "FUCK YEAH THIS GUY". I know Spin didn't know that, but come oN guys THE TIMING OF IT IS SO FORETELLING.

AND IT WAS. Because look now. What has turned me completely off to this dynamic is the fandom hyping it up as a pure devotion that isn't stemming from a lot of self-worth issues and negative idealization. Spinner associates Shigaraki with destruction, rage, anger, and misery. That's also what Shigaraki associates himself with, and that's exactly what AFO wants. And man, he sure got it out of both of them.

And I'd like it if people acknowledged that more for what it is, but it's just reduced down to "two gamers that AFO groomed and took advantage of". And I feel that is just super oversimplifying what actually happened. AFO didn't groom Spinner from the age of 5, he took advantage of a vulnerability he was able to pinpoint super quickly after Spinner made it painfully obvious.

I like Spinner more on his own, and I like the potential for him to face the reality that him ignoring his gut instincts in favor of that dream of destruction he associates with Shigaraki eventually led to him making things worse for Shigaraki--unintentionally. I mean he hasn't made shit hit the fan YET--but man if things aren't looking ominous as fuck right now. AFO is counting on Spinner? Oof. But the potential for drama here is exciting, and I'm ready for it.

But yeah. I agree--it's overblown imo. It has become a plot point in Shigaraki's arc in a negative way. So I feel people miss the mark when they focus on how devoted Spinner is to Shigaraki during all of this mess, because that's exactly why things look the way they do lol.

#bnha #boku no hero academia #bnha asks #anonymous #bnha spinner #shuichi iguchi #shigaraki tomura

[more-than-a-princess]

@dcviated asked: 29. ❌ing

Munday RP topics meme - Accepting!

Well, let's get the obvious out of the way: the bots are blocked as soon as I see them. I like to think Sonia is denying their visas for Novoselic herself.

But otherwise, there's really only a few things that make me want, or need, to hardblock someone. Mostly, I tend to just use filters as much as I can to weed out what I don't want to see. Mainly, certain ships I don't care for, excessive OOC (the OOC tag itself and some specific OOC tags on blogs because there's so much of it!), and some blogs I just prefer not to see on my dash but I don't really have a need to block. Just a personal preference.

More often, I'm just fine with unfollowing someone I either am not writing with or don't see myself writing with, usually due to inactivity or they've ignored asks and threads I've sent repeatedly. Only if there's a request to soft or hardblock in their rules will I do that: sometimes muns just want to read interactions I think, and I try to keep that in mind.

What makes me hardblock though? Usually one of these things:

Someone has pushed content, plots, or dynamics on me that I don't like or agree with, and I've brought it up to them that I'm not comfortable with the idea and it's ignored.

I've been sent hate, anonymously or by a specific blog. Whenever I'm sent hate to my inbox, I will just block the sender. When that's anonymous but they follow me anyway, that blog is blocked.

Someone has broken a rule that doesn't sit well with me, I've messaged them directly that 'hey, this isn't okay, maybe you could not do this in the future?' and it's still persisting.

But perhaps the most specific or petty, depending on how you look at it?

I tend to block chronic blog remakers/hoppers. And it's nothing wrong with a writing style, or content, or anything else. I just get annoyed when I see the same muns make and remake the same blog over and over again when it's due to the fact that they take on more threads and interactions than they can reasonably handle, get overwhelmed and/or find a new fandom they're into, discard everything, jump to a new blog, rinse and repeat.

It's understandable when it happens the first few times, especially when you're new to RP and/or tumblr. No one's perfect and it's easy to get really eager at first, wanting to write with every blog you can. But it can be hard to keep up with all of those interactions at a time. For some muns, that's fine: they like smaller, quicker threads and don't mind things being constantly dropped or deleted.

But I know my roleplay and writing style (and on tumblr, with this muse? it's been almost four years!): I prefer longer threads with a developed plot over a period of time. I may not be the fastest with replies, but I'll do my best to include plenty of detail and dialogue in them to, hopefully, give my writing partner something to work with and something enjoyable to write.

However, that approach just doesn't work with the chronic blog hoppers/remakers and after awhile, I just have to block them for my own peace of mind. There's only so many times I can send starters or asks hoping to build a storyline with them, only to have them be ignored or forgotten for a new blog/remade blog every few weeks/months.

#more-than-a-princess answered #dcviated #more-than-a-princess musings #(Munday RP topics meme) #(I did not expect this to become a pet peeve explanation but here we are) #(tl;dr - RP is a collaborative hobby and communicating is important)

[lovecolibri]

Thank you for your post on lowering expectations! All those remarks going around just feel so condescending and really have me debating temporarily unfollowing some people whose posts I otherwise really enjoy just so I can get a break from the “you should have known better” of it all. If I didn’t think there was still potential in this show, if I didn’t think there were still the occasional good moments that made me think things could get better, if my expectations were so low that I never hoped or expected better of this show, I wouldn’t keep watching. There are more fun shows to hate watch out, shows that I hated from the get go and don’t care if they get better. But I love these characters and sometimes the show still gives us good moments and even if a character has a godawful storyline going on (Buck) they still tend to be enjoyable else. And it’s because of that I still have that little bit of hope and a whole lot of disappointment.

Sorry I didn't get to this until now! But you're welcome! One of the things I hate about the "don't like don't watch" mentality is that I do still like a LOT about the show outside of Buddie! And actually, it's very much an "if I loved it less, I could enjoy it more" situation 🤣 But BECAUSE I love ALL of these main characters and their families SO MUCH I want better for them than KR has been doing with pacing and the character arcs pretty much across the board! I'm not going to quit watching JUST because of stuff going on with Buck and Eddie when I love ALL the main characters! But I'm also going to reserve the right to call out the show when it does shitty things! I'm not going to praise every decision made, but I will give the show it's due when it does something good!

Just like with LS there have been things that I didn't like when I first heard about them or when the arc started that actually didn't go as I was expecting and I ended up liking the end result! There are some arcs I have not enjoyed playing out or didn't think needed to go how they did, but have enjoyed the end result (hello eddiea*a! asterisked so it doesn't show in the search), and there have been some arcs I was really excited to see how they played out because the potential was sooooo good, but the show ultimately did nothing with it or did something dumb and I ended up hating it in the end. 🤷🏻‍♀️ It's okay to change your opinion on an arc or character as you learn more information, that's suuuuuper normal actually and everyone has different tastes and won't enjoy every aspect of a show. That doesn't mean you HAVE to stop watching entirely!

#my sweet nonnie friends #911 #911 spoilers #clearing out my inbox #don't judge me some of these are going to be so old...

[mack3030]

It's gotten to the point they're faking screenshots...wow.

Look, I'mma say it because I'm at the point of not caring anymore. If you want to believe that I'm some racist trump supporting hater because of what random anons, and some selectively angry people say. Okay. That's fine. You can block, unfollow, do whatever. But I will say they're at the point of pulling out fake screenshots. Does this NOT seem suspicious to ANYONE? It's almost as if...maybe...this is being done on purpose...hmmmmm.

Look, when I fuck up, I own it. I owned up to voting for Trump even though there was no way people could confirm or deny it anyway. I'll even own up to not getting onto Texas as soon as I should have and blocking her. But those screenshots are as fake as a 4 dollar bill. Especially because I don't have alt accounts lamo, and I would never tell black simmers anything similar to what they typed up in those fake screenshots.

Timm recently met me, and even he realizes I don't type that way. Again, y'all can do what you want, but if you wanna believe something that is obviously becoming more and more of a personal smear campaign aimed at me....then that's your problem. Oh and paywallers, I would't worry about me. I'm not the dangerous one to you. That'd be Timm. Because he has the lawyers. That'd be the folks at Little Black Book, because they've got the nose for digging into shit. All I am is a stubborn autistic moron who won't shut up that somehow people follow. IDK why. I'd focus on bigger problems if I were you. Because y'all are about to have a fuckin' ton of them, especially considering EA's now looking into y'all.

If you have a valid criticism, I have an inbox that's open to all. But otherwise, if you're just gonna post shit to try to make me look like how you want to portray me, I'm blocking and moving on. I'm beyond caring about what people who haven't even dared to talk to me like a human being think of me on the internet.

#rant #so done

[queencvbra]

Important things to remember !

I can be slow. I have a life outside of tumblr. Sometimes I will reply in 0.2 seconds, sometimes it will take me a couple of weeks, more or less. It all depends on my energy and what my muse is leaning towards at the moment, plus there are a lot of factors like my irl schedule, my family, or my mental and physical health that can affect how much time and energy I can spare for writing. I literally have things in my drafts from three months ago because I am a Mess. My reply speed isn't a direct reflection of my interest, and if for any reason either of us decides we're not feeling a thread anymore, that's fine. And it IS okay to ask and make sure I got your reply / starter / ask / etc if you think I might have missed it bc I am forgetful and tumblr's notifications suck most of the time, I don't consider that to be pressuring me.

I have bad social anxiety. I'm working on getting better about it and have been for the past several years, but I have a disorder, so sometimes I'm having to actively work against my own funky brain chemistry. I'm not the greatest at reaching out or carrying on conversations; I'm shy, and I blank out a lot. Even if we're friends and have known each other for a while, I still have these moments, and it's never personal. I welcome ooc communication, but I know I'm not always the best at it, and I know I'm not the only one who has to deal with social anxiety so besties I promise you I understand and will never be mad if we're not talking 24/7. I just want the same understanding in return, bc how much I do or do not talk ooc is not an indicator of my interest in you as a person or your muses, it's literally just my anxiety and has nothing to do with you. We're good, I promise.

I suck at plotting things to an extent. I'm better with general directions and ideas of where we want things to go, but leaving things flexible for our muses to do their thing. Some threads do work better with more detailed plotting, but for the most part I'm perfectly fine winging everything, so there's no pressure to have some perfect plotline already scripted out before you come plot with me. Literally just throw a vague idea at me or be like "hey I think x and y should interact" and we can go from there.

I am following you because I like you and your muse(s) and your presence on my dash. I don't follow people just for the sake of following, it makes my dash feel anxious and crowded, so if I'm following you, then yes I am interested in writing with you! You are not here to pad my follower count and I am not here to pad yours. And there is no time limit here, I won't unfollow just because we didn't interact in the first two weeks or whatever. Sometimes it is harder to come up with interactions between certain muses, but if you're a chill person the odds are I'll probably just keep following you anyway because I like reading what you write, too.

I love you <3 You belong here even if you don't feel like it sometimes. If you ever think "I wonder if anyone would actually care if I deleted and left" the answer is yes. Always yes. Take care of yourself. Drink your water, take your meds, and get some rest. Tumblr can get overwhelming so don't be afraid to take breaks when you need them, and remember that just because you decided to take a break it doesn't mean everyone suddenly stopped caring or forgot about you. You matter to the people around you a lot more than you think you do, don't let the general negativity and selfish behavior on this hellsite convince you otherwise. Write with your friends and do what makes you happy, no one is entitled to shit here and this community can only function if we learn to treat each other like people again and not writing machines.

#I just felt like I needed to say it okay now back to the chaos posting #⚡ ooc. ── ❝ 𝘖𝘩 𝘯𝘰 𝘪𝘵'𝘴 𝘔𝘢𝘳𝘪. ❞

[saetoru]

I need your opinion on something tee.

I unfollowed a mutual without softblocking, and they recently interacted with me so i'm guessing they don't know that I broke the mutual. I honestly don't care if they are following me. But do you think it's rude if I have them continually follow? or should I just soft block them?

personally it’s a big pet peeve of mine when ppl don’t soft block me when they break the moot—i definitely respect if they wanna break it but i think the least they can do is soft block so i’m aware the mutual is broken otherwise i’ll continue to like and/or comment on posts looking like an idiot 🥲 id probably soft block them so they’re aware, even if ur okay with them following u !!

#♡ — one new notification !! #♡ — unknown number.

[impishsensei]

hello all!! this is a roleplay blog for gojo satoru from jujutsu kaisen. on this post, you'll find all relevant links/info for my blog. i am completely caught up with the manga and anime, so this blog will not be spoiler free (i will tag if i mention leaks, though). if i'm not here, you can find me on one of my other blogs: @blastintriumph @muryonokansei @yuujitheevessel

please be sure to read my rules before interacting/following.

carrd || interest check || pinned credit || promo , v2 || wishlist || tags 1, 2, 3

header by @getsusekaii

for ease of access, my rules are placed under the cut!

I. i will interact with mutuals only. if i follow you, i want to interact, so do not hesitate to send me asks or im me with plot ideas! i'm willing to roleplay with ocs, and characters from other series. for personal blogs: please do not follow/like/reblog my posts. doing so will result in an immediate block. i’m okay with one-liners, crack, multi-para, novella… everything! feel free to send in any ask memes if we haven’t roleplayed before. i’m duplicate friendly.

II. if i haven't replied in two weeks and i'm not on hiatus, that means i probably lost our thread or it’s sitting somewhere in my drafts and I haven’t noticed it, so please message me to remind me about it. i drop roleplays sometimes out of a loss of interest but please do not blame yourself. it is always a personal thing that has nothing to do with anyone else as a roleplayer. i’m always happy to start/write more regardless of dropping previous threads.

III. where RP is concerned i heavily prioritize chemistry. for now, my blog is multi-ship, so any relationships my muses develop will take place in separate verses unless stated otherwise. that being said, i absolutely love shipping but i think satoru (the way i portray him, at least) is kinda difficult to ship with romantically so keep that in mind.

IV. DON'T involve me with drama OR send messages telling me to reblog callout posts or anything like that. i don't care for getting involved with petty roleplay drama. if it's something actually serious, i've already seen it on the dash and taken note. seriously, i will hardblock, anyone that pesters me with this nonsense.

V.  there will be NSFW content on this blog, so if you're uncomfy with that blacklist the following tags: #╰┈➤ 'ᴄᴀᴜꜱᴇ ᴡʜᴀᴛ ɪ ɢᴏᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ɢᴏɴ' ᴡᴀɴɴᴀ ɢᴇᴛ ꜱᴏᴍᴇ ꒰ nsfw. ꒱ , #cw nsfw. i will cover dark topics considering the source material. expect to see mentions of murder, blood/gore, toxic/unhealthy relationships, etc., featured on my blog. I'll tag all of these, but also let me know if you need anything else tagged. i am 27, so if a roleplay comes around to it i will ONLY, write smut with partners that are 18+. if you'd rather not do so publicly, i'm fine with writing on discord. i'm also ok with on discord in general, not just for smut lmfao.

VI. I ask that minors DON’T follow my blog/DNI. I don’t want to be the reason anyone sees something inappropriate for their age. If you’re a minor & I accidentally followed you, let me know & I’ll unfollow you immediately.

#╰┈➤ ᴛʜᴇ ᴇᴅɢᴇ ᴏꜰ ɪɴꜰɪɴɪᴛʏ ꒰ ooc. ꒱ #// yea i remade... wanted 2 clean things up

[transgeoffrickly]

you and the other anon have zero reading comprehension. i don't think eds are cringe otherwise i wouldn't have asked for you to tag the posts. especially since i am in recovery myself :/ but projecting especially through geoff who really enjoys eating all kinds of food as an expression of love just doesn't. sit right with me. why twist something he enjoys just so you can make light of a very serious thing. that was what was cringe to me. it might be your way of processing your ed, but it's akin to someone struggling with addiction making "funny" hc posts about what drugs artists are on which is obviously fucked up. but somehow it's okay when it's about eds? i hope this clears things up as to why i was upset initially. i also genuinely hope you recover soon.

if you want people to think you're being sincere and understanding maybe don't introduce the phrase "ed cringe fest" into the situation. 🫤.

i don't think you really care at all if i recover or don't considering you haven't even engaged with me off anon + i think the goal of your first ask (or asks if you also were the one who felt the need to send in the how are you 25 acting like this ask) was to make me feel ashamed and embarrassed of myself + my friend.

something can leave a bad taste in your mouth and not be for you and you can ask for it tagged without it being an across the board harmful morally depraved immature wicked minimizing thing. shrug.

and again i think it's funny that "my girl has anxiety" "autism be damned, my girl can x" are funny relatable rebloggable and not minimizing anything but if you put an ed into the equation it's cringefest. ok.

anything related will still be tagged as i stated in the first ask and you're still free to unfollow me.

#e.answers #anon #addiction mention tw

[josiebelladonna]

blocking the mutuals tag and the stranger things tag.

i can't take it anymore.

i don't care about how much you love your mutuals. these posts are like cancer cells. scratch that, they are cancer.

they're stupid on principle, too, like... why do you people feel a need to drive it home 100000000000000000x over? i'm a "one and done" kind of person: when i say "i love you" to someone, i mean it. love is not something i take very lightly, and it's usually because i don't say it over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and it JUST NEVER STOPS.

i've said this before, too, but there's something weirdly dehumanizing about these posts. forget the fact that you're following a human being (in many cases, human beings who aren't even fully developed yet) with flaws and everything. oh, no, you're following a perfect angel in every way possible!!! and to make shit worse? i see this snotty attitude that backs it all up, like "okay, fine, die alone and miserable :) we have mutuals, you don't :)" fuck off. knock that shit off. do you know how shallow you sound? when you frame it like this, i don't want to be anywhere near you because you're probably going to patronize about everything.

and unbeknownst to you condescending little shits, i actually have friends and i value them as they are, warts and all. i understand that they're human. i literally don't even think about them being my ~mutuals~ because that should be automatic. i don't pay attention to them being ~mutuals~ with me because it's a given. plus, i know i'm following live human beings here. so, it's completely baffling to me that this very intrinsic thing is being thrown around and done to fucking death to where it's absolutely obnoxious and i don't ever want to see it again.

hell, there's a lot of things that should be automatic are made painfully aware on here now and not only is it annoying, it's so fucking weird.

why do you guys make such a huge deal about otherwise complete strangers? i understand being kind to every kind, but this is complete overkill, and to the point you're actually not being very kind at all... if anything, you're being assholes with these posts. every single one of you.

why do you guys feel a need to see each other's faces so fucking much and tag each other to post selfies? see, that, i understand. i've posted selfies on here before on my own terms and i've actually had people unfollow me because of them. i see people on here tag each other to post selfies and i ask myself why. it's borderline cruel when you think about it: why do you bitches get all the swoons, all the ~mutuals love~ out the wazoo, but i get left behind?

it's so clique-y. this shit is so stereotypically high school when... high school isn't like this. it wasn't like this for me. we never had cliques at my school, as much of an outsider as i was then (and still am). hell, i don't think any high school is like this.

i'm an o.g. tumblr girl: i lived through 2014 tumblr and let me tell you. i remember there was a time, before 2018 and the nsfw ban, when there were adults on here, actual adults. people who acted their age. hell, i remember seeing 15/16/17-year-olds who acted mature for their age: they were genuinely smart, and curious about taboos and doing the right thing, not... clamming up whenever they see the mature label on a post and screaming "I'M A MINOR!!!" in the presence of an adult. we have a big problem in society, absolutely: i'm sure you've seen that viral tweet telling teenagers that that 20-something doesn't actually love them. but when you have this exact same demographic dressing like they're my age (late 20s looking at 30) and talking like they're 9 years old, it actually makes me very uncomfortable, like... that's not natural. if you're a teenager, you should act like one.

i mention this because it feels like everything is being whittled down and simplified... no better example of this than all the posts going ad infinitum about mutuals. plus, i'm seeing actual adults exhibiting this same behavior: people my age acting like they're still teenagers. so, this isn't just some gen z thing, although it primarily is.

hell, the whole new lingo of tumblr goes right over my head now. i see posts talking about "pieces of media" all the time, too. "enjoy this piece of media" "hyperfixate on this piece of media." there's something so corny about it, like... you know, speaking as someone who is neurodivergent, not everyone is like this. and i feel like those who are neurodivergent aren't this generic, either.

i just think about the utter glut of the ____ x reader fics on ao3 and on here now and how a trope like self-insert or, hell, even slash, is now a punchline. i remember it wasn't even that long ago when writing fic to get your own lust out and explore your desires that way was a normal thing. there's no healthy selfishness. there's no personality to anything. there's no desire to stand out from a crowd. it's all so detached, and it's the wrong kind of detachment, too: like there's being detached in helping someone broken so you don't get involved with their own emotional vomit, but this isn't that.

i feel like a lot of you have never been disciplined, like... properly disciplined, and taught that it's okay to stand on your own and truly be yourself and you'll attract the right people that way instead and you don't need to go on and on and on about your goddamn mutuals to the point you make everything and everyone so unpleasant. that's the best word to describe these posts, next to "saccharine": they're unpleasant. you might think otherwise, but when you look at the core of it, they most definitely are not. quite the contrary.

there's only a couple of mutuals i have who i consider good: otherwise, i feel like most of you don't even give a shit about me. it's bullshit. every last part of it. bullshit. "mutuals! mutuals! mutuals! mutuals! mutuals!" all i see is "bullshit bullshit bullshit bullshit bullshit."

you don't love each other, you only love the idea of each other. what's worse is i really don't know who's to blame here. i don't know if it's tumblr having dropped the ball with the nsfw ban (and imploring people to block people on the sole premise of finding them annoying, like bruh) or if it's a generational thing that i'm not getting or what. but this drippy, overly saccharine shit has to stop because they're soulless. STOP MAKING THESE POSTS.

most of all, everyone feels bored at some point. everyone hates their life at some point or another. everyone wants to escape. i haven't met a single person who says they love the world they live in right now in years (even with the opportunities that i've found with it, i don't feel the least bit safe in our current world). stop acting like you're the first generation to have discovered [insert thing most people have known for years with the justification that it hasn't been found by you yet... give me a break]. you're not better than me, so if you feel a need to patronize me for making a stink about these godforsaken posts, you can kiss my ass, especially if you wanted to be treated like an adult.

i can't stand these posts because they don't tell me anything, but they do tell me everything i need to know about the state of tumblr right now. there's no substance. it's all ego. there's no soul. i see selfies and there's too many people on here with a dead look in their eyes, so i know for a fact there's no soul. it's all fads. it's everything i found awful about being a teen with all the cliques and the nonsense that's not going to mean anything 5 years from now... but taken up several notches and made somehow worse.

like, i complained about my generation being full of idiots before, but it was often out of frustration. you know, like... "god, i'm surrounded by idiots!" and then i'd bunker myself up in my room with my books and my music, or i go out for a solo bike ride. i don't fucking get gen z, and i really want to, too. i want to get along with this age group and those who've come after me, especially since my own pretty much pushed me out. as for my age group, stop kidding yourselves. you know this is all bullshit. it's like those 50-year-olds who are trying act like us. knock it off.

most of all, there's no love, like actual love. you guys are taking actual human love and hollowing it out and cheapening it and boiling it down to ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~mutuals~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ thanks for completely killing that word, too. i can't see that word anymore without thinking of bloggers who are so hoity-toity and yet so childish at the same time who claim to love each other but they actually don't. it's all so saccharine and stupid and snotty that it makes hallmark look r rated. how awful is that? all of these posts that go on ad infinitum about mutuals are more white-bread and goody-goody than the most white-bread, goody-goody company in existence.

i could tell you guys to grow the fuck up and get over yourselves but i feel like with this post alone, i'm putting myself up to a line of patronization because that's what gen z likes to do, is lecture. you don't want to learn. you don't want to leave your comfort zones when real life and living is beyond those. you just want to be pathetic the rest of your lives. tiktok has completely scrambled your brains, anyway: for this reason, i'm going to refrain from saying "you'll learn" the way a parent does for their kid because i don't think any of you will.

but this tag goes right in the trash. these posts are brain-dead trash. "oh, mutuals! i luv u! i luv u i luv u i luv u" SHUT. UP. I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE EVER AGAIN. yeah, tumblr implores you to block anyone that you find annoying. and i find the "mutuals" tag the most annoying thing in existence right now, and i'm blocking it because i'm about ready to lose it.

hm. how 'bout that? :)

as for stranger things... i hate how i can't go through virtually any tag and not see something that doesn't mention it. now this, i can blame primarily on tumblr. the tagging system on here has always been garbage, simply because of how weirdly fluid the tags are, but it's more so the case now. i went through the star wars tag yesterday and istg, after actual posts about the mandalorian and the classic trilogy, i ran into posts about eddie muenster cheese and will and mike... and op tagged star wars for some reason. so, remember: newton's third law states that for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. tumblr's tagging system was complete shit to begin with but you have people like this.

i used to really like stranger things, too. i was obsessed during the first two seasons, and then they made everything ~all about the music~ at the sake of telling a goddamn coherent story with actors who actually look their age: bro, millie bobby's going to be 20 next week, and you want me to believe that she's playing a 14-year-old? no. that's literally all i'm going to think about because it just makes the overall tone of the show so weird and borderline creepy, too.

hmmm... where have i heard that one before.

#text

[fatuispolaris]

hello all! milk here! this is an indie, private, & highly selective roleplay blog for tartaglia/childe from genshin impact. i am completely caught up with the archon quest, so this blog will not be spoiler free (i will tag if i mention leaks, though). if i'm not here, you can find me on one of my other blogs: @impishsensei @blastintriumph @muryonokansei @yuujitheevessel please be sure to read my rules before interacting/following. 

GOOGLE DOC || INTEREST CHECK (wip) || PLOTTING CALL (wip) || pinned credit | fanart for icons credit (1), (2), (3)

i’ll place my rules here as well for ease of access for mobile users. they’re located under the cut! 

guidelines

i will interact with mutuals only. if i follow you, i want to interact, so do not hesitate to send me asks or im me with plot ideas! i'm willing to roleplay with ocs, and characters from other series. for personal blogs: please do not follow/like/reblog my posts. doing so will result in an immediate block. i’m okay with one-liners, crack, multi-para, novella… everything! feel free to send in any ask memes if we haven’t roleplayed before. i’m duplicate friendly.

if i haven't replied in two weeks and i'm not on hiatus, that means i probably lost our thread or it’s sitting somewhere in my drafts and I haven’t noticed it, so please message me to remind me about it. i drop roleplays sometimes out of a loss of interest but please do not blame yourself. it is always a personal thing that has nothing to do with anyone else as a roleplayer. i’m always happy to start/write more regardless of dropping previous threads.

Don’t god mod. My character is mine, and yours is yours. Little things to move the thread along are fine with me, but don’t kill Childe without even checking if that’s fine with me first (ask memes that call for it are an exception though, of course).

where RP is concerned i heavily prioritize chemistry. for now, my blog is multi-ship, so any relationships my muse develops will take place in separate verses unless stated otherwise. that being said, i absolutely love shipping but i think childe (the way i portray him, at least) is kinda difficult to ship with romantically so keep that in mind.

DON'T involve me with drama OR send messages telling me to reblog callout posts or anything like that. i don't care for getting involved with petty roleplay drama. if it's something actually serious, i've already seen it on the dash and taken note. seriously, i will hardblock, anyone that pesters me with this nonsense.

There will be NSFW content on this blog so if you’re uncomfortable with that just blacklist the the following tags, as i tag all my nsfw posts with the following: “cw nsfw”, “nsfw //”, and “( nsfw. )”.  Feel free to ask me to tag anything you need tagged.  I am 26, so if a roleplay should ever come around to it I will only write smut with partners that are also of age & that I feel comfortable writing smut with. If you’d rather not roleplay smut publicly, I’m cool with continuing roleplays on discord. I’m also open to just private RPs (not necessarily smut) on discord too, just ask/lmk you’re interested!

Given that Childe is a morally gray character, I will not stray away from this nature of his or soften it in the slightest. Even though he is a playable character in game and a friend to the traveler, he is still unapologetically a harbinger and doesn’t show remorse for his actions. I will approach writing his character with this mentality. Additionally, I will cover dark topics. There will be mentions of murder, blood/gore, toxic/unhealthy relationships and so on featured on my blog. I will of course tag what I feel needs to be tagged. 

I ask that minors DON’T follow my blog. I don’t want to be the reason anyone sees something inappropriate for their age. If you’re a minor & I accidentally followed you, let me know & I’ll unfollow you immediately. 

#pinned #( ooc. ) #yeah i'm too lazy to make a new pinned banner

[here2bbtstrash]

Ahh what a sweetheart! Thank you love, I feel so relieved just to share that with you, let alone to get that kind of understanding response. I’ve met with only rage when I said that to some army friends, so thank you seeing from I’m coming from.

And honestly it’s mostly the fandom that turned me off bangtan, the boys are alright and their music has been a soothing sound to me for years. But I won’t put my integrity and moral compass aside just to adhere to this crazy fandom. Especially when I see bts are sometimes not practicing what they preach about social injustice situations or being aware of who they’re sharing their space with. And it wasn’t even one situation, but things have piled on through the years and I got tired of always finding excuses for them. I know they’re good people. I know they love their fans, their work and are very genuine in their message but a lot of times they’re very careless their actions and it’s impact.

Anyways I appreciate your response to my message and I’m glad there’s mature and rational people that have critical thinking and won’t treat them like clueless infants.

Maybe I one day will be back, even though I’ll never go back to stan twt, but I’ll be smarter to chose a small circle of ARMY I can interact with. But for now... I really need a break from kpop in general.

Again, thank you and continue being your amazing self. You’re a gem 💜💜

gahhhh i'm sorry you've seen that side of the fandom, i know it can be brutal and i really try to stay away from it lol 🫠 i obviously adore and cherish bangtan but they are not my whole life and it's verrrrry important to me to keep my core identity as a person, my likes, my other interests, and my values. i don't wanna lose myself so entirely in something i love to the point where i don't think critically about it.... because i've been down that road before and it does not end well!

you should obviously do whatever feels right for you, and i am the NUMBER ONE PROPONENT of curating your online spaces. if shit makes you unhappy - mute, unfollow, block, and do not feel like you ever need to give anyone a reason for doing those things!!! it is YOUR life and YOUR space. i've carved out a very small sliver of BTS' internet where i am currently content, just me and other deeply horny but otherwise mature and sensible adults, and i'm not afraid to detach myself from anyone who doesn't fit that bill 🫡 cuz it's my life!!

in any case: you are always always welcome to this lil corner of the internet, i promise i don't check anyone's ARMY card at the door 🤣💜

you are so very sweet and again i am proud of you for putting yourself first!!! sometimes we just need a break, even from things that we love or care a lot about, and it's okay. i'm wishing you nothing but the best going forward! healing and rest and good vibes abound ✨😘

#anonymous #mbox 📮

[zukoromantic]

Webby and Lena should have been gay and like nothing you will say could ever change my mind

#this is no hate post at non shippers or something but i'm just saying man they have been a thing #i know that kids/girls being friends is also important and that you can say the things they say and still be platonic #like i of all people know this #weblena #but literally man they were the rep we deserved...... #i see lumity and god i can't even begin to tell you how happy it makes me to see them and feel so represented #it's just so beautiful #and the thing i think that we also deserved these two as the baby wlws that they are man.. #they are very important to my heart and there's a REASON that there's a whole community behind them who feels exactly this way #god thank the stars for lumity mate they are the rep we deserve #but i do think weblena would also have been rep we deserve #this is no 'unfollow me if you think otherwise' okay like if you don't care then fine mate this post isn't for you #but i gotta get my emotions out there because i feel very strongly about this

[beaftly]

WHY won't people stop putting vaspider on my dash? I have seen people - mutuals, even - reblog from them and I'm like. Do you know what a piece of work they are? Claiming to be an authority (they're not) because of their age, calling the creator of cripple punk ableist, and literally making money off of the cripple punk movement all while inviting ableds in... I'm over it.

Like I get if you stayed out of the cripple punk discourse because it was overwhelming, but at the end of the day vaspider is just not a good person. I don't care how popular their blog is, I'm gonna start unfollowing people who reblog from them.

Side note: I don't give a shit if you think it's acceptable to use the phrase "mental cripple." It's just not okay.

Anyway, I have some thoughts.

a) if you need to tack a modifier on to a slur, it's just not your slur to use.

b) so what if "mental cripple" has (or hasn't! Either way it doesn't matter!) been used in the past? There's plenty of crap we need to leave behind, and that phrase is one of those things. Historical events don't outweigh the people of a movement who are, y'know, up to date with stuff. Claiming otherwise is ridiculous. And the phrase "mental cripple" is offensive at best. Y'all gotta let go of this omg, learn what growth is or something.

c) The whole "mental cripple" crowd seem to be unable to provide an adequate rebuttal to any of my and our points tbh. They just keep parroting vaspider, which uhh won't cut it. Because vaspider has been omitting evidence, ignoring counter-evidence, belittling the (overwhelming majority) opinion of a group, and essentially blatantly showing their entire ass. Being a vaspider groupie (i.e. insisting on calling your abled self a "cripple") seems to cause some form of brain rot syndrome.

d) vaspider isn't offering adequate rebuttals of my/our points, either. They're just using circular logic at this point - saying, "well, this is my opinion and you're wrong because my opinion is now upheld by a few wannabes." Give me a real reason why able-bodied folk should call themselves cripples (and don't you dare spew some bull about the brain-body connection being undefinable - you don't become physically disabled from depression in the way that you become physically disabled from functional neurological disorder, and y'all know it. Saying otherwise is offensive as hell).

e) on that note - and I'm still using depression and FND as examples here - vaspider's groupie crew is arguing that depression *is* actually a physical disability because it can cause, say, fatigue. Listen, the fatigue from depression comes strictly from the brain; it doesn't spread to the nerves of the body or whatever. Meanwhile, the fatigue from FND starts in the brain (we think), but it goes beyond that - it spreads to the entire neurological network of the body, nerves, everything. It makes your nerves forget what they're supposed to do, to put it incredibly loosely. This sort of fatigue is different from depression fatigue because the former causes your entire nervous system to glitch, whereas the latter is confined to the brain. Yes, there's a difference. If you're ignoring this difference for your own personal gain (like vaspider is), that's an issue. See also: would you go to a psychiatrist for FND, or to a neurologist for depression? I think the fuck not, and there's a good reason for that.

f) to clarify: some neurodivergencies can actually cause (or be comorbid with) physical disabilities, such as dyspraxia. Dyspraxia is a neurological condition, not a neurodivergency, and therefore if, for example, your autism causes dyspraxia - congratulations, you're legitimately physically disabled. However. If your autism is a standalone feature (lol), it's not a physical disability; it's a neurodivergency and/or a mental disability (if you choose to label it as such) and does NOT make you a cripple or "mental cripple," for god's sake.

g) I don't get why vaspider's gang is rejecting the madpunk and neuropunk movements, because that's where able-bodied neurodivergents would find their home. There's no need (or want, to be quite frank!) for these ABNDs to barge into the cripplepunk space. Madpunk or neuropunk spaces are where they would find solace and support, and yeah - the tags for these movements aren't very fleshed out, but that's Frankly Not My Problem Anymore.

h) vaspider is going against the explicit wishes of the late founder of cripple punk. That alone should be enough for their followers to say, "hmm, something's not right here." Yet here we are. Did I mention that vaspider has also called aforementioned founder an ableist for (checks notes) wanting a specialized space for physically disabled people? Because yeah.

i) if you're an able-bodied neurodivergent who has been interested in the cripple punk movement - by all means, support us! Just all we ask is that you stop talking over us and/or identifying as us. And for the love of god, get thine self the fuck away from vaspider before they inevitably fuck up *your* community next time.

j) vaspider is claiming that nobody in IRL disability spaces is gonna ask you to disclose your disability. In my experience that's sort of? not true. I attended a disability meetup group pre-pandemic (which I forgot about before because my memory sucks) and we all asked each other "what we were in for." In other words, there was no coercion to disclose anything, but everyone felt okay to share their story, and we literally went around in a circle to share. We didn't fuckin stop everyone at the door and demand their backstory, but there was an element of sharing and community.

k) bouncing off of the above point, maybe you should ask yourself why you'd feel uncomfortable sharing your disability in a well-meaning group for physical disabilities. Is it maybe because there's a little voice in your head telling you the people with *actual* physical disabilities wouldn't appreciate your being there? Go ahead and say it's because the evil cripples are exclusionists, I dare you.

l) I frankly don't give a shit that vaspider is, what, mentally ill or neurodivergent or something? - I can't remember - as well as physically disabled. *Your claims to community are negated by your behavior.* - Do queer cops belong at pride? I think the fuck not. And I think I speak for the majority when I say that vaspider and their supporters are no longer welcome in cripple punk.

Long post, I know, but - again - people keep putting vaspider on my dash and I'm sick of it lol. And to reiterate, their age and so-called experience mean nothing to me because, obviously, respect is not a baked-in feature. And oh boy, have they done everything to lose any respect.

#cripple punk discourse #cripple punk #madpunk #neuropunk #long post