#tommy needs therapy

[watchyourbuck]

do you even still ship buddie? you don't deserve to see them go canon smh how can you switch like that just because buck kiss a guy that was needed to make him canonically bi fake ass buddie

SJDJDJDJDJDJ bro pls go touch some grass

#why the fuck wouldn’t I ship Buddie #I would’ve removed it from my bio #yall harassing mono shippers need therapy #do you know how fucking rare it is to have a canonically bisexual character in a mainstream show come out LATER? #whatever im not wasting my time #911 fox #buddie #911 #911 tv show #evan buckley #eddie diaz #evan buck buckley #buck x eddie #911 abc #buck and eddie #911 spoilers #911 season seven #911 s7 #911 show #911 season 7 #911 on abc #911 s7 ep4 #911 speculation #bucktommy #buck x tommy #tommy x buck #tommy kinard

[pforpotatoo]

#cillian murphy #thomas shelby #tommy shelby #peaky blinders #peaky fookin blinders #yeah my boyfriend is pretty cool but he needs therapy

[batcavescolony]

911: we're mostly fine? Need some therapy, we fight but it's ok, we're family!

911 lone Star: This show started with all but one firefighter dying and people haven't stopped dying since. It's only pain. everyone gets their houses blown up! But we're also a family!

#batcavescolony watches 911 #batcavescolony watches 911 lone star #lone star isnt doing so well. they all need therapy and hugs #judd ryder #grace ryder #tk strand #owen strand #tommy vega #mateo chavez #marjan marwani #paul strickland #nancy gillian #evan buckley #eddie diaz #bobby nash #hen wilson #chimney han #maddie buckley #athena grant #911 #911 lone star #911 ls #the 118 #the 126 #its such a stark difference #like yeah chimney got rebar through his head. eddie shot and burried. buck crushed tsunamied and lightning fried. but they didnt die #the poor 126 has their capts spouses killed. whole house killed. one of their ambulance guys die. #batcavescoloy watches

[between-two-fandoms]

Im ready for Tommy to be entirely concerned for Evan when he learns about all his trauma and insecurities and low self esteem, especially if Buck just brings it up casually.

Buck: lol that one time I watched my best friend get crushed by a well and tried digging him out with my bare hands.

Buck: oh hey sorry I get jumpy at loud noises I watched Eddie get shot and dragged him under a firetruck after I had a massive crush injury from one.

Buck *during a date by the pier*: by the way if I freak out today it's because I was in the tsunami a few years back and never processed my feelings about that.

Buck: did I ever tell you about the time I climbed a train car during a crash to save my ex's fiance the first day I saw her back in the city after she left me to find herself in Europe?

Tommy: 🎵 teenagers scare the living shit out of me 🎵

#evan needs therapy #and a hug #911 show #911 spoilers #evan buckley #tommy kinard

[buddiesmutslut]

OKAY OKAY OKAY YOU GUYS BUT WHAT IF!!

What if, in the last few minutes of 7x10, we cut to Frank in his office. The camera is focused on him so we don’t know who’s on the couch across from him.

He’s mentioning the last time the person was there, that they were talking about intimacy & their partner and worries about the future (throwback to Athena on the first episode & Bobby in the cruise ship arc), and Frank asks the person how it’s going…

AND THEN IT PANS TO EDDIE IN THE ROOM LOOKING UNCOMFORTABLE AND UPSET AND KIND OF A MESS AND HE SAYS SOMETHING ALONG THE LINES OF: “I realized I couldn’t commit to Ana or Marisol in the way I thought I should because they’re not what I wanted. I don’t think I like women.” A pause. A breath. “And I think that’s because I’m in love with my best friend.”

END SEASON ROLL CREDITS YOU’LL HAVE TO COME BACK IN S8 TO SEE HOW IT PLAYS OUT.

#911 abc #evan buckley #eddie diaz #buddie #oliver stark #ryan guzman #tim minear #Tim if you use this I will love you FOREVER #I think it would be so funny to start & end the season in Frank’s office #with characters trying to get to the nitty gritty of why they’re feeling things & what they’re ACTUALLY struggling with #idk what would lead to Eddie’s revelation in the last episode maybe another NDE #I’ve always thought that Chris was going to be the one to get them together so maybe something happens to him/he gets hurt #& whether Buck’s with Tommy or not he still comes when Chris needs him because he’s a PARENT & a PARTNER #and he already has a family and Eddie realizes then that he doesn’t need a mother figure for Chris when they already have a Buck #goddamn it i think i just had another fic idea #911 #911 s7 #911 s7 e10 spec #they haven’t even written it yet so it coULD TOTALLY HAPPEN #bisexual evan buckley #also GIVE ME EDDIE LEARNING WHAT DEMISEXUALITY IS IN THERAPY #demisexual eddie diaz #gay eddie diaz #they are in love #& I need them to realize it #the buckley diaz family #I saw someone say that Buck needed to understand his sexuality to realize his feelings for Eddie #and Eddie needed to realize his feelings for Buck to understand his sexuality & that feels VERY true to me

[moondragon618]

Oh I just remembered this AU idea I had that was basically like. c!Dream ends up in the Origins SMP universe after he goes a little too far with his desire for power and godhood and accidentally ends his own universe and his c!Tommy along with it.

After that he's kind of going through it having basically lost everything (but ofc he's way more upset abt losing c!Tommy and all of his power than he is about the entire universe he destroyed lmao), and he kind of just wanders for a bit wondering if there's even any reason to keep going at this point.

That is, until he comes across o!Tommy :) He's different from c!Tommy in a lot of ways but also exactly like him in many others- just a little more feathery and chicken-like :) And Dream gets attached to him immediately, becoming convinced that just maybe the soul of his Tommy wasn't actually destroyed after all and is living on through this one :)

So of course he starts planning a way to exile arc this Tommy and basically make him into his perfect (aka extremely warped) ideal image of c!Tommy despite o!Tommy in reality actually just being his own separate person :) Maybe even to the point of being convinced that o!Tommy could potentially have c!Tommy's memories and he could get him to remember them :) :) :)

#yeah c!Dream desperately needs therapy in this AU but instead he just once again turns to his favorite coping mechanism: #projecting onto Tommy and putting him through The Horrors :) #c!prime thoughts #dream smp #dsmp #c!tommy #c!dream #c!primeboys #c!discduo #tw obsessive behavior #tw possessive behavior #tw suicidal thoughts

[agentidiot]

just imagined tommy and alfie dancing to can't buy me love by the beatles i'm so not okay

#i'd say i need therapy but i'm already having a therapy #those two live in my head rent free #i also made tommy/alfie playlist #and one for tommy that im listening now #and one for alfie too #peaky blinders #tommy shelby #alfie solomons #sholomons #alfie x tommy

[tamaslin]

idk what it says about me that hbomb's roblox oof video is a source of comfort for me in my depression

#who needs therapy when i have anger at tommy tallarico #(i do. i have therapy in two weeks but in the meantime. oof) #tbd #jimmy txt

[cloverandstuff]

I had more memes-

EVERYONE TAKE THEM, YOU DESERVE THEM

Also, how obvious is it that chapter 27 is now my favourite?

#butterfly reign #butterflyreign #br!wilbur #br!tommy #br!theseus needs therapy #everyone gets hugs #except br!phil

[keira-kaz2y5]

Ok so finally found the time to watch episodes 7x02 - 7x04 with my mum. (I’ve already seen them all at least twice, this was her first watch)

The whole episode I was kinda nervous but super excited.

Can I mention again here that she previously did not ship buddie at all, said me and people these days are “always making things gay when they’re not” and said they were “just friends” and the Ravi Buck Eddie sewer call she reiterated this statement saying “see? They’re just good friends” after buck’s clear jealously, which, fair. Yk it can def be seen as friendship— unless you’re open to the fact characters are allowed to be queer and not stated, and also that he’s been played as bisexual since s1 with sooooo much TEXT and SUBTEXT abt it—

When it finally got to the loft apartment scene I was shocked it had come round so quick (I swear that episode felt longer when I watched it alone), and immediately I felt my heart beating a lot faster in anticipation. At the buck Tommy kiss, to my surprise she reacted by grinning wide smiling like in disbelief and stayed like this until they pulled away and we saw buck’s reaction then she sorta manic laughed at buck’s “that works” I think out of disbelief and shock and amusement at buck’s starstruck reaction, “… Saturday? 🥹🤩”and his joke about fake mouth static.

Then as Tommy was walking out and talking about a date my mum said “that’s gonna make.. Eddie, really… mad.” (She was distracted listening to the rest of the scene and dialog)

😆 so her initial reaction was soooo much better than I’d expected/feared!! (From here it turns into kinda a trauma dump with 911 about I realised I’m so so so repressed.. read at ur own risk lol!)

But then of course I went and fucked it up by getting too excited and blabbing.

(I voice memo recorded this whole scene to get her reaction) she asked me about how “so he’s (buck) saying he thought he was jealous but it wasn’t of Eddie it was of him (Tommy).” And I sorta spiralled saying yeh because that’s how he saw it in that moment because he’s trying to figure out what these new feelings are and who they’re for etc and went down the rabbit hole of Tommy being gay from the start (army, ‘begins’ episodes..) and so on and my mum heard like 4 seconds of this and stood up and collected dishes and stuff and walked away saying I was getting too much into it (fair, my adhd does tend to make me mentally jump subjects fairly quickly in ways it doesn’t make sense to other people)

But she never really has healthy conversations with me about queerness, don’t get me wrong I love my mum and she isn’t like throwing me on the street for saying I’m bisexual, but she also isn’t exactly having healthy conversations about it with me either. She prefers to avoid the conversation a lot and stay silent about it, so the repression is real and tbh I didn’t even realise how repressed I was until about 3rd December 2023 I saw a picture of two women kissing and I fully went “oh shit I’m bisexual, I almost forgot I liked women”. Yeh. The repression is so real.

I then went on a Pinterest spiral downloading women photos and made an album on photos app to put it all in so that I had that place to go to and look and I would never be so repressed that I forgot again. I have since been much happier and more queer and open within myself

(For reference this is the picture)

(This is the photo album - not my photos, all from Pinterest)

(Note: I am a teenage girl)

And the only other time I realised I was repressing it, was on holiday with my auntie that I see like once a year, when she teased me about a girl I’d spoken to from a street vender thing and I realised that “oh this is normal” like, families should tease me and be comfortable about it. (Although they don’t tease me about boys much either so..)

Because my family never feel so open about my sexuality to be that comfortable. Whenever the subject comes up it turns into almost an argument because they think I only think I’m gay because I hung out with two lgbt girls for 3, 4 years and they were my only close friends.

Apparently the gay is contagious 🤣

My Nan is homophobic, she’s “of a different generation” apparently and can’t change. She’s not super bad about it but does make comments like “it’s wrong” so I never really talk about it. My brother had the “my friend is gay so i can’t be homophobic” mentality, and also believes like my mum that im only bisexual because of my old friends.

But fr they don’t say it’s a phase specifically but they sort of play it off like one saying I only “think that” because of them (my friends at the time — who I’m not even friends with anymore)

And one time watching the hen and Karen begins episode with the nasa lab explosion- when we get that make out scene between them, my mum laughed and said she was uncomfortable because it just looked “unnatural” and I know she said this because they were a bit fumbly in the scene, knocking things over and kicking off shoes and both plus sized women, but that reaction has just stuck with me since. Because it’s still a beautiful moment and yes they look different to typical people making out but it’s still sexy and a vibe but also I am a plus sized woman, so yes that could be my future. Another time before this when there were some HenRen scenes in bed my mum said to me “is that what you wanna do, cuddle up to some woman in bed like that 🤨” and I was sooo unprepared for that question and sorta went ‘uh yeh no yeh but not like them two because Hen isn’t my type yk but yes’ and she went 🧐 hm ok 🤷‍♀️

These things have stuck with me

And also when I had a therapist last year the one time I mentioned being bisexual and she that’s something we should talk about I completely shut her down and said it’s fine nothing to talk about and looking back… man I was repressed. Like dayum.

And now I realise I have so much to say.

And the tipping point for all this, is the bi Buck canon, of course. Only 3 days ago but feels like a lifetime already, just the portrayal and the delivery and perfection and sentiment of it all hits so hard, especially the fan reactions, but also actor and director and journalist reactions and everything Tim has had to say on it including Oliver and Ryan interviews. And it’s made me so emotional about it all, I can’t even express how genuinely happy to my core i was the first 2 days every second, and I was dancing around my kitchen, grinning every 3 minutes when I remembered… it was bliss. I felt so seen and happy and loved, appreciated and respected and represented. It’s unreal. Especially the joy and care Oliver has given this.. i can’t explain. It’s so validating.

Within myself I feel much more at peace, and I have realised that in fact I was repressed, and still kinda am.

So bringing it back to the start was that after watching this with my mum I tried to express to her how much this means and the backstory and what’s going on online about it with the directors and actors and everything but I hardly even said a thing and she kept saying how “it’s just a show” “it’s 9-1-1!” “You’re getting too much into this/too attached” even when I tried explaining how queer storylines is something we have to search for to watch in media, and how this will change media from now on and the representation.. she kept walking away, trying to change the subject and invalidating it all saying stuff like

“it’s just a series! You act like it’s a real person!” “You do, you get carried away with it.” “Ok Keira 🙄🚶‍♀️.. yeh! You’re just getting a little far-fucking-fetched” “right… Keira.” “It’s just a show!” Me: “It’s more than a show.” “In your head it is.” “You’re just going on”

Bear in mind I wasn’t actually going into depth, I was stating how this is a big thing and said literally what I’ve written here, like this is 30 seconds of me talking. Because I wanted to have a healthy conversation about it all, but clearly it didn’t work and i should’ve just been happy with the smile reaction and left it at that.

I tried directly pointing out the problem, too, saying that she never wants to have a healthy conversation with me about it all, to which she replied the “it’s just a show/you’re getting too much into it” part and when I addressed that this family is slightly a little bit homophobic but none of them will admit it she was laughing and going “it’s 9-1-1! It’s 9-1-1!” “(I) make it out into some big drama” (I wasn’t raising my voice or anything I just wanted to have a conversation about it with her, she was the one raising her pitch) and how I’m “just taking it all to another level!” Me:‘Because it is at another level, this is so huge for the industry and the queer community’ “oh god, Keira.. you make such big dramas out of it,” (me literally not being dramatic at all, just wanting a nice discussion about this and both the reactions of fans/non-fans/people, how it’s done so well—compared to other storylines and shows— and the impact this will have on so many things) my mum:… “you always twist me to make it out that I’m some horrible person” to which I responded “well no, because you’re not but you could be more healthy about it, you always laugh it off or change/avoid the subject” (me talking about queerness in general, not 9-1-1, to which she replied) “nanna gets like this over Coronation Street! And I just don’t understand! It’s just a show.”

These quotes she said are direct because I audio recorded everything. Probably not in the right order bc the explanation is a little messy what can I say it’s adhd like I said 💅😵‍💫🤷‍♀️😅

Yeh so I guess this is turning into some Reddit thing like AITA am I the asshole for wanting a healthy conversation and for my family to be more comfortable about queerness in general as well as my own (bi)sexuality but also it’s just me expressing how tonight went to anyone who’s stayed to read this. Maybe I should go back into therapy. It’s just my old therapist I never really told her the deep things but also finding someone new that works with me is expensive and exhausting. So it’s been a hard night but I will still rewatch the scene to find happiness in it all again. I just want to wait until I’ve slept it off so I can be fresh and remember the happiness and validity I felt on friday & sat

#buddie #911 abc #911 #911 s7 #eddie diaz #evan buckley #gay #911 fox #911 season 7 #destiel #queer #conversations #queer story time #story time #mum #homophobic #? #911 spoilers #trauma dump #trauma discussion #i need therapy #probably #bisexual #lgbt #hard discussions #buck tommy #Tommy kinard #911 s7 reactions

[alliumduosstuff]

Tommy is scared of owning another cow due to his past with owning them. However, this doesn't stop Ranboo (and definitely not Tubbo) from placing a cafe at Tommy's door and forcing the boy to adopt said cafe. To make matters even better? It's a moobloom.

#alliumduo blog #allium duo #tommyinnit #ranboo #tubbo #bench trio #dsmp #Let Tommy have a cow again #not just any cow #moobloom #he needs a therapy animal /hj

[leenieweenie12]

Resisting the urge to rewatch Peaky again for the third time in less than 2 months 🫣

Somebody stop me please, I beg you.

(It’s me, I’m that person)

#peaky blinders #tommy shelby #alfie solomons #arthur shelby #john shelby #help me #I need therapy

[ctntduoarchive]

cdream's hesitance to destroy ctommy's discs, all because he knew of the power he would lose over ctommy - arguably his most valuable possession

#woooo fuck cdream!!!! #but cwilbur you NEEd proper therapy THIS ISNT WORKING BBYGURL!!! #c!dream neg #c!dream #c!tommy #disc duo #discduo #dream smp #dream smp analysis

[emixunn]

//Spoilers for The Dream SMP - No Way Home

NO THIS IS NOT OK

After everything he’s been through he’s just gonna go and get destroyed without anyone except Tubbo knowing??

Tubbo will be left alone to explain to the others what happened to Tommy and Dream and Punz and some might not even believe him and that’s awful.

I DON’T LIKE THIS (I actually do but I’m so mad about it)

#mcyt #tommy mcyt #tommyinnit #dsmp lore #dream smp #tubbo #tubbo myct #i need therapy #dsmp tommy #dsmp tubbo

[hallwyeoo]

Ramble-y analysis (?)of Joel as a protector, and his relationship to this identity and masculinity.

A scene from tlou pt1 that was always really striking to me is Tommy and Joel’s discussion in the dam.

“this is how you’re gonna repay me huh?” “Repay you?” “For all those goddamn years I took care of us!” “Took care? That’s what you call it? I got nothing but nightmares from those years” “you survived because of me!” “Yeah, and it wasn’t worth it.”

Specifically Tommy’s final response there. Acknowledging that even though he did only survive because of Joel, the price of that survival was too high.

Tommy knows joel kept him alive, but also confronts him with the idea that not everyone wants that protection or the consequences of it. Sometimes, the price and consequences of (immediate, haha) survival are ones that the person would rather not deal with!

Both Tommy and Ellie are people who deeply care for Joel and view him as family (Tommy moreso in a traditional kinship relationship and Ellie In more of a fictive kinship, but family nonetheless). Joel is shown to be incredibly driven to protect both of them, even if they may not ask for it. I’d even go as far as to say that in the process of reinforcing his role as protector, he (to some degree, and not consciously I think) has to degrade/undermine their efficacy and autonomy. If Tommy is a grown man who doesn’t need saving or protection, then to play the protective big brother Joel has to place Tommy back into the role of ‘idealistic little brother who gets himself into shit and needs me to get him out’ (which in the game ultimately lead to their separation, which sounded pretty intense)

And to a larger degree (because of the fact that he’s had a daughter before, and he’s very familiar with the power dynamics of a nuclear family father/daughter relationship. Meanwhile Ellie doesn’t fully agree to that and consistently seeks autonomy, equality, and respect within their relationship [“im not her yknow” “I can take care of myself!” Asking for a gun, running off at the dam, etc.] while also understanding that Joel does have years of experience on her and sometimes it’s best to listen to him.) I think Joel does this to Ellie.

In the hospital, the decision he makes robs Ellie of her autonomy. All the while, he knows what decision she would’ve made and exactly how not okay she’d be with what’s going down. (Using only the first game/season1 as a source, Ellie’s resolve right before the hospital paired with Joel’s lie and the implication of their final convo.) This is the shining example to me of Joel’s tendency to just do shit and make choices for other people because it’s ‘what’s best’ in his eyes, while sorta disregarding or ignoring that they probably have their own opinions on what’s best.

While I understand Joel’s actions, when you look at how his protector role makes him overstep boundaries, make choices and calls for others, etc (we will see more of this in s2/pt2 as well) you begin to see how (despite serving him over the years) it has crippled his relationships with others. to protect, someone has to be protected, and they may not want or need that. Both Tommy and Ellie can handle themselves, and while they appreciate Joel’s protection at times, being constantly protected can feel infantilizing, especially when someone takes actions you don’t agree with to protect you or stops you from defending yourself. It can feel that they view you as incapable or helpless.

Joel placing such heavy importance on being a protector, on taking on all the heavy burden, on being the big tough guy leaves him in a rough place when the people around him need him to rely on them or to be protected by them. I think it’s very tied to his identity as a father, older brother, caretaker, and protector. This identity serves a community role, but ultimately an over-reliance on it means that when your community needs something other than violence or physical resources from you, you can’t deliver. When Ellie needs to talk about Henry, Sam, and Tess, Joel shuts her down. When Tommy says “I have a family now”, Joel brushes past it. Into pt2, we see Joel slowly accept that this urge isn’t the best, although it still happens with Seth etc etc etc.

Imo, his relationship with his identity, masculinity, and emotions end up sometimes creating a resentment or tension between him and the people he cares about.

Tess says in their final conversation,

“Guess what, we’re shitty people, Joel. It’s been that way for a long time.”

And Joel responds,

“No, we are survivors!”

And I think that that is a very good glance into how Joel contextualizes his actions and relates them back to his identity.

I have no idea how to wrap this up but yeah. TLDR: Joel has a habit of forcing his protection onto people, which can put them into situations where they don’t get a say in what goes down. He’s internalized his role as a dad and older brother (but mostly just the “provide physical needs” and “protect” parts, as well as carrying some degree of toxic masculinity with him) and takes pride in it to the point where some of his other skills (like emotional intimacy or vulnerability) have almost atrophied. Both Tommy and Ellie were put in situations where they would have died without Joel, but come out the other side upset that he interfered and removed their say in the matter. What joel views as necessary is not always what others want/need and Joel sorta inserts himself into that equation so that he can protect them (reinforcing his identity) and himself (not lose loved ones).

Also he’s babygirl, thanks for coming to my Ted talk!

#this was a long rambling thing #but I stand by it as just a part of joel #I love him so much but bb you need therapy #they all do honestly. #this is also not me saying joel is like evil and always a negative influence on those around him!!! #but as we see especially in pt 2 he DOES cause harm to Ellie in more ways than just lying to her #she completely picks up his emotional unavailability and ‘things happen people die we don’t talk about it ever’ mindset. #he can have some negative or toxic behaviours/impact and still be babygirl you guys #I also think he doesn’t do any of this intentionally. doesn’t change the impact but he doesn’t MEAN to cause harm #tlou #tlou2 #tlou spoilers #tlou series #joel the last of us #joel and ellie #ellie williams #ellie the last of us #joel miller #tommy miller #tommy tlou #character analysis #a bit? #I wish we got to see more of Tommy and Joel’s relationship #if you don’t agree with me that’s good and totally fine just please don’t yell at me about it <3 #this also isn’t formatted and worded perfectly it’s more of a stream of consciousness #i hope I got my ideas across well!

[dawnlotus1]

I hope cc!crimeboys are writing the c!wilbur and c!tommy talk, I hope they are writing the most heart wrenching, angsty apology ever, I hope Tommy is explaining exile, I hope Tommy is explaining why he’s worried about Wilbur, I hope Wilbur finds a couple of reasons to stick around, I hope Wilbur understands the ways people need him. I hope the ccs put in a couple of moments to make us cry, and make us go “FINALLY” and us to freak out over how unnecessary angsty the whole thing is, topped with cringe and audience tears farmed in twitch emotes. I’m manifesting exactly the conversation I want to hear. 🤞

#crimeboys #c!tommy #c!wilbur #dsmp #there are so many specifics I want them to discuss #c!crimeboys need to reconnect their lives in a healthy way #these fictional Minecraft men need fictional cathartic therapy #and the audience neeeeeds a satisfying ending #whenever that is #not necessarily right after- #dawnsays