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good-beans · 8 months

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hi i'd like to know about your transfem fuuta thoughts please. if that's ok

"if that's ok" as if I haven't been rotating transfem fuuta in my mind for a long time and dying for an excuse to post something 👀👀👀 Thank you so much Ah!! I was able to format my little ideas and headcanons into an actual write-up, I just love this concept so much! All the big murderous twists in the series and I’ll never get over it is what it is...

So, as much as I enjoy headcanons about some big revelation moment, I think that Fuuta Terminally Online Kajiyama has been very aware of his identity for a while. He just never really got the motivation to do anything about it. He knows he's not completely satisfied with his gender, but isn't constantly suffering over it, so he thinks telling people/transitioning would be way too much of a hassle at that point in his life. He also struggles with people taking him seriously given his height, attitude, etc -- unconsciously he's also worried it will only make matters worse in that area.

He wouldn't dare say anything to his parents, and wants to avoid hassle with his friends. People paint them as judgy incels sometimes, but if they were really calling out ‘bad guys’ online, I always got the vibe they were those annoying type of progressives who will harass people for not being accepting in the perfect correct way, you know? They'd be outwardly supportive but there's still a level of high expectations and performance that comes with it, and so deep down Fuuta understands there'd be a "hassle," but can't really define why.

I mentioned in another hc post that Fuuta and his sister have a silent supportive relationship. I feel like she's the one person in his life who knows everything and is super accepting -- this is understood even though neither have said anything out loud. (When he was younger, she definitely forced him into skirts, dresses, and accessories "to check something for her beautician work.") She's noticed all the times he's picked a female avatar in games, or cosplayed in ambiguous outfits.

Then, Milgram. Thinking his life will be over soon anyway, he opens up to a few of the prisoners about himself. Their unexpected openness keeps it on his mind more often than before. Still, nothing changes. Through some rocky verdicts, he's declared innocent and released.

Back in the real world, he's pretty fucked up from the whole ordeal, and starts off extremely isolated. He's in touch with his family, but distant. He maintains contact with some of the other released prisoners, but it starts off only over the phone. He changes schools or maybe drops out completely. Having deleted all online accounts after the incident, he gets to work setting up a new online presence. He was planning on using an alias anyways, and goes with something gender neutral. "To be extra safe that no one guesses it's me," he tells himself.

Letting his hair grow out begins as an accident -- just a side effect of never going out or minding his appearance. One day he realizes how long he's let it go and grabs some scissors to cut it. He makes a comment in his chat, and someone begs him to send a picture first. He goes to take it, but is suddenly disgusted and ashamed of his self-neglect. He's forced to make himself selfie presentable first: brushing his hair and throwing on something clean real quick. When he goes to take the picture, he realizes it looks good. It feels good. He puts the scissors away.

Soon, the prisoners/some new online friends coax Fuuta to hang out more. That's when she decides to reintroduce herself into society as someone new. She ventures out with the name of a favorite video game character. (I'm going to continue saying Fuuta because I genuinely can't name a single popular character from games she'd play, but just picture the most painfully obvious one you can. The kind you hear and go "oh okay. You play X too much, huh." And please send me your thoughts so I can work them into my own personal canon 👀)

She doesn't have any hatred towards her deadname, it's more the pain of association: she remembers it said accusingly from the mouths of ex-friends. She remembers that name being called a murderer. She's not trying to deny/run from that past, she just wants to be someone better. Well, some days it is her way of running away, but most of the time it's a healthy separation from the past.

Encouraged by the positive reception and abundance of privacy in her isolation, she finally starts to explore her appearance more. Mikoto left behind some earrings during a visit -- she pierces her ears herself and tries them on. (If she doesn't like them, the holes will just heal, right? She's not weak, she can take a little pain...) Yuno/Mahiru stayed over once, and left a bit of makeup in the bathroom. She tries that on too. With a beautician in the family, this self-styling comes very easily. Fuuta's cowardly tendencies have her torn between embarrassment and her typical 'fuck you' attitude that she can do whatever she wants.

You know when you solve a tiny problem and suddenly you're smacked with how much of a huge problem it actually was? Fuuta never believed she had any issues before, but all of the sudden she's happier. Every day is easier. She has more friends. True friends. She does better with school/work. Her personality is still fiery, but it's more passion than irritability now. Self-hatred she didn't recognize starts melting away. She smiles more. She laughs more. She has plans for her future. She's excited about her future.

(Shameless art plug hehe, before I had the timeline nailed down I did a little drawing of that selfie Fuuta takes when she realizes she's satisfied with this appearance, and now has newfound motivation to move forward in life.)

Over time she experiments with other elements of transitioning, and maybe changes her name to something a bit more subtle lol.

Unfortunately, I don't think it would go over well with her parents, but she never much cared for their opinions, anyway. One day a bit in the future, she bumps into her old friends in the street. Once recovering from panic, she's pleasantly surprised that they don't recognize her. Fuuta thought her appearance/fashion wasn't that different, but to fair, the friends figured they'd remember a stunning redhead with a very noticeable eye injury if they'd met before...

And just a few quick prisoner reactions (because in my heart they're all making it out ;--;):

Yuno has similar relationship as Fuuta's sister, offering immense help without unnecessary words. She's Fuuta’s go-to contact for trying new things and asking questions.

When Mahiru first finds out, she goes a bit overboard with a makeover attempt. She and Muu provide their most frilly, glimmering outfits. They paint her nails and do makeup. They style her hair. This obviously turns out to be way too much, earning them a Fuuta-typical rant. Still, she's secretly moved by their enthusiasm and kindness.

After that, designer Mikoto tries his hand at helping. Fuuta had been really worried the two of them would lose their guys nights out and relaxed friendship, but their relationship never changes.

Shidou is very accepting and very awkward. He's trying!! He gets excited, sending her all this information and help for medically transitioning.

Fuuta invites Kazui to their first pride parade <3

Though there's no return address on the package, Fuuta receives a gift of miscellaneous earrings and piercings in the mail with a note that they'd suit her well…

#milgram #fuuta kajiyama #and the others briefly #(i never know how to write pre and post transition pronouns so i just switch when she does)#thank youuuuu ive literally wanted to post something but wasnt sure if it was silly or anyone would care ;-; so this made me sooo excited #fuuta my beloved!!#it is what it is my beloved!!#i just want that for her so bad!!#its funny because i know thats not what yamanaka intended and still it fits So Well:#theres so much attention on her self perception - fear of how others perceive her - the self hatred - the layered clothes #OUGH #haruka amane and es are supportive as well i just couldnt think of specifics #jackalope isnt -_-#i say fuuta and kazui went to pride together but i mean practically all the other prisoners are there too sadfds #its just the biggest deal to them #another art mention -- @sequoiareachesforthesky drew her the other day and ive been Looking Hoo Boy 👁️👁️#im a little obsessed with it asdfsdfd #i was supposed to finish my next drabble before formatting all this but shhh i wont tell if you dont #im just stuck on some simple dialogue but this was flowin lol #i dont know other peoples thoughts on her but i hope you enjoy :3 #and yeah i live under a rock and know 0 gamer names -- please tell me lol #rose posts

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kazuichikazuichi · 1 year

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another dr2 play video for you!!! gundham and sonia(and imposter but he doesn't speak in this clip)'s first appearance in the play. gundham is so weird why does he gallop up the stairs i love him😭<3

#and SONIA IS SO CUTE i'm in love with her #thank you for all of the attention on my play posts omg :'D two of my posts got reposted by hajihiko so that explains their attention lol #but people have been enjoying the others too so thank you!! i LOVE THE PLAY SO MUCH #if you want to watch it for yourself then scroll down a few posts on my page i have a link to it!! (and the dr1 play) both w eng subs #sonia nevermind #gundham tanaka #sdr2 #sdr2 the stage #danganronpa #super danganronpa 2 #danganronpa the stage #i love gundham he is so weird /pos. my silly little animal weirdo #sonia is the girlboss of all time

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roaringheat · 7 months

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My Charles sketches are FINALLLYYY actually recognizable. It's still def a work in progress cause i'm not satisfied with how I draw him just yet but the euphoria of progress is incomparable

#vark posts #not really an art post with the purpose of getting attention im just excited to finally have a sketch that actually looks like him LOL #vaguely sketched with his ch4 look in mind w/ his hair being pushed back and that one button up #didnt really do much shading other than his face cause this was purely just another attempt to figure his fearures out #literally this entire sketch page is all absolutely shitty unrecognizable sketches of him LMAOO #its been TWO MONTHS #TWO MONTHS SINCE I STARTED #i realized that i tend to draw noses way too long and that charles' chin isnt like razor sharp #once i figured that out it immediately looked better #being an artist is like fighting for my fuckin life istg #anyways thanks Charles for forcefully making me overcome two of my art struggles #vark art #rdr2 #🖍️

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vxctorx · 3 months

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[ is it really too much to ask for someone to write the granada/book version of sherlock holmes? ]

#[ i just want the version of holmes that is very much human and acts like one ]#[ and although a factual person has actual emotions and can feel joy and sorrow and fear ]#[ and can show affection with words and deeds and can feel for other people ]#[ and who isn't an omniscient god and makes conclusions based on physical evidence that he actually provides without being a pompous ass ]#[ and doesn't treat everyone like a dummy and isn't like 'i'm so much better and smarter than you everyone look at me i need attention' ]#[ and he only assumes others to know as much as he does about things because that's what smart people generally assume in real life ]#[ and although he's a little eccentric for his time he's not just a weirdo who collects body parts for no reason ]#[ thank you for bearing with my rant lol i just fucking hate bbc sherlock with a passion ]#[ and to this day i believe the writers were just trolling from start to finish because they were too dumb to write a cohesive narrative ]#[ and too lazy to even read the books. the show literally reads like a fanfiction ]#; out of tea

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fauvester · 1 year

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i love ur garashir children so dearly and i am so so grateful that peepaw war crimes died in the dominion camp. Imagine.

PEEPAW WAR CRIMES AAAAA

God could you IMAGINE

I do love the idea of 'Tain survives, has to pull a Garak and pretend to be a harmless old man even though EVERYONE knows who he is and what he's done'. Like ohhhh building a secret fleet to annihilate the dominion? Couldn't be little old me. Smiling and menacing. Wardrobe unchanged. Garak and Bashir supremely uncomfortable.

But also, Young Elim finds out who he is and promptly turns around and punches him in the crotch so hard he gets a heart attack and dies instantly

#dee s 9 #garashir adoption au #WHATS THIS? ITS 8 YEAR OLD YOUNG ELIM WITH A STEEL CHAIR #READY TO TAKE REVENGE ON THE OLD GUARD OF CARDASSIA TO AVENGE HIS FAMILY!#bashir sadly has to restrain his son. on the inside hes like hol on let him cook #changes the garashir dynamic so much UUGHGHHHHHH garak still doing the desperate powerplay for recognition #....man kira and young elim would get along. family trip to ds9 one day #iskra would be such a hand at being grandpa's little girl. she'd be so ~happy~ to be his favorite and get all his attention #he'd teach her all about sneaking around and committing little crimes. train her up to be an operative one day :)#like tain would EVERRRR accept his BASTARD sons ADOPTED children as people he should care about lol. imagine..#the kids' job is to try to catch grandpa tain trying to Do A Crime and reporting it to their dads. they think its just sooooo fun #tain is like :) but on the inside like AND I WOULDVE GOTTEN AWAY WITH IT TOO IF IT WERENT FOR YOU MEDDLING TWITS #thank you for puttin love on my lizards.... 🥹

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wundrousarts · 1 year

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What is your favourite thing about nevermoor (series)?

Omg this is suuuuuch a hard question for me to answer!!! I love basically every aspect of the series, from the characters and their dynamics, to the settings, to the story...... idk if I can truly give One Singular Answer to this because I love it all! There's something truly special with the series that really makes it resonate with me and has kept me glued to it for almost 5 years and will keep me into it for many more.

IF I had to choose One Thing to answer this....... I would probably say the lore of the series and the magic and the way that the worldbuilding relates to those and fleshes out the world, giving it a history that makes Nevermoor (the city and the series) feel full of so much depth. You really get a sense that things, both big and small, happened in the past that affect the present day, and that things in the present day will have an effect on the future. It makes it fascinating to think about how the world was Pre-Massacre, and how things have changed in the last 100 years since then, and why things were the way they were and are the way they are now! I love thinking about Wundersmiths and their role in society and their rise and eventual downfall!!! Ahhhh!!!!! There's just so much I could say.

I just love everything about the worldbuilding and the lore and in-world history Jess has created. You can tell as you read that literally every aspect of the world has so much thought behind it that probably only exists inside Jess's head, but it oozes through the pages anyways and makes the world seem so full of life. I swear once she mentioned possibly releasing some sort of “rule book” / notebook companion book sort thing that explains a lot of behind the scenes lore and how the world and everything works, why stuff is the way it is, etc. after the series and I hope that happens because I can't stop thinking about it.

A silly comparison: I don't really know how to explain it to those unfamiliar with the 2000s guide books, but the worldbuilding of Nevermoor kinda reminds me of the worldbuilding of Uglydolls (no relation to the terrible 2019 movie) and I think maybe that’s partially why I love it so much lmao. Everything was so wacky and weird yet somehow it made sense. I remember reading the books and looking at the spreads of the city or the pictures of the weird vehicles and thinking about where I'd like to go and what I'd do if I lived in that universe LOL. It just felt full of life and for some reason reading Nevermoor reminds me of reading those as a kid.

Also: I've said this before (but maybe not on here?) that I credit a big part of why I'm SO into Nevermoor to the fact that I discovered it like a month or so before Adventure Time ended. I was a HUGE fan of the show (always will be!) and was really into analyzing it and theorizing about it and knew so much about it. I read Nevermoor independent of that, but I think the fact that Wundersmith releasing like a month or two after Adventure Time ended and it being the first new interest I had had in awhile just made my brain "transfer over" as I like to say. The energy I bring to overanalyzing and theorizing about Nevermoor stuff comes directly from how I was when Adventure Time was still airing.

Fun fact: My media overanalyzing led to me correctly guessing how Adventure Time would end, and I am eager to try and do the same with Nevermoor as the series continues.

#nevermoor #asks #idk if any of this makes sense bc the moment I try to talk abt my love for nevermoor I black out and can't articulate correctly #so sorry to anyone thats ever dealt w me gushing abt it both irl and online. it makes me go insane. my brain has been rewired. etc.#does anyone else love using readmores all the time or is it just me #my nevermoor thoughts always turn into nonsense rambles and I feel bad abt big blocks of that so I like giving folks an option to read lol #I just loooove nevermoor so much and theres something so special about it that makes me wish more people paid attention to it #it deserves to reach the same heights as stuff like HP (boo) + PJO (woohoo) and etc. bc I think it appeals to both young + old the same way #I love talking abt nevermoor so much even if half of what I say is nonsense bc of how much I love it. so thanks for asking me abt it.#always open to talking abt nevermoor all hours of the day. its on my mind 24/7 and i'm not rly complaining too much abt that lol

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strange-creature-with-a-hat · 1 month

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I saw that you said you maybe wanted to check out “Life in the world to come” and as a life in the world to come fan, just a heads up it’s a little hard to get into but once you get into it it’s a pretty good podcast. Also FYI the first 15 episodes or so are WAY edgier than the real so do with that what you will (also the first six are only available on some website called “listen notes”

-Elanor

Uuuuh yeah I've been listening for a few months now lol

I think I know what post you're talking about, and if I'm correct I believe I was trying to say that I should find time to listen to this weeks episodes of currently running podcasts I like (tmagp and litwtc) sometime soon

ALTHOUGH I DIDN'T KNOW THE FIRST EPISODES WEREN'T ON SPOTIFY SO NEW INFO YAYY

i kinda just started with the most recent episode of litwtc at the time (yes and) and never really dug into past episodes

#definitly not mad at you lmao I absolutely love that you're eager to introduce new fans. More fandoms could use people like you /pos/srs #I gotta be doing something that doesn't require too much attention so I don't miss what's going on in the podcast lol #creature answers #wee woo #just got new records so right now is not podcast time #I have also listened to puke freak #but yeah thanks for the info!! even if some of it was already known

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holocene-sims · 1 year

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next // previous

july 3, 2021 9:00 a.m. myshuno cafe

#ts4 #the sims 4 #sims 4 #sims 4 story #ts4 screenshots #simblr #hlcn: everything the stars promised #my lighting looks so much better now that i finally *months later* installed sunblind #you can actually see all of grant's lil face freckles now thanks to the good lighting #at least...in lots where i lit them properly #we're not gonna pay too much attention to how badly lit grant's house is lol #holocene.docx #holocene.png #hlcn: grant #hlcn: ben

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schrodingers-hoarding-problem · 1 year

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ngl all the meta about kinnporsche makes me feel like either im not smart enough for the show (which I refuse to believe) or that I fully just blacked out after watching it (much more plausible)

#literally how are people analyzing the chess game so much?#bitch I barely remember there even being a chess game #actually this might be due to my inability to rewatch things #idk why but I can only rewatch stuff if im doing other things because even if its something I like I get bored way too easily #and things with subtitles generally require more attention than multitasking is able to give them #so alas I mostly just rewatch clips lol #also thank god for tag editor cause I fully forgot how to spell chess and was just writing cheese at first #jae’s thoughts #thai drama #thai bl #kinnporche the series

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strawberri-syrup · 1 year

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FINALLY FINISHED DIFFERENT SEASONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I STARTED IT IN APRIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I DID NOT LIKE ANY OF THE SHORT STORIES IN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#apt pupil made me sick #i know its supposed to be uncomfortable but JESUS CHRIST #that was too much for me #i dont want to read about throwing cats in ovens and this dudes wet dreams #nope #no thank #also why does stephen king describe dicks so often #i dont get it #anyway im free #now i need to find another book to get on my laptop to work through during class when i should be paying attention but i am not <3 #OH i still need to finish there will come a darkness lol #started that some time last month

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hpdgirlfriend · 2 years

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is it worse to not get any attention or is it worse to get the only kind of response i don't fucking want !!!!!!!

#when ppl respond 'kin' 'me' 'i do that' etc to my infodumping it makes me want to throttle them #i could not fucking care less dude. this is not about you #cant anyone pay attention to me without immediately making it abt themself like i dont care #i play nice and don't interject things about myself even though i want to when i listen to other people. but i cannot have the same #courtesy huh?#especially when they don't say anything else like ok thats all you have to add. thanks so much. what am i supposed to do w that.#can i repeat that i dont care and this is not about you #its better when they do add another actually good response but i still dont like the kin/me/i do this too thing because #my spin is so fucking personal to me and it makes me uncomfortable #to hear that in response to me basically pouring my heart out #pls keep it to urself good god #diary #this is very bitchy of me i think lol idk. does anyone else feel like this

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lightningfilledsaber · 2 years

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missing my close friendships and how I used to have the energy to maintain them while also reminding myself that part of the reason I don’t have that energy anymore/right now is because that very energy was actively exploited by my “best friend” of Several Years for their own benefit

:pensive:

#lol #not to mention that said ''best friend's'' girlfriend didn't have the emotional maturity to own up to her mistakes #and neither gave enough of a fuck to actively do better #like hm why dont i have the energy to maintain my remaining friendships and attempt to become closer to others lol. right. that #your best friend only ever paying attention to you to treat you like a chauffer and otherwise literally avoiding you after you've realized-#-that they're you're FP (bpd stuff) and literally explicitly told them that will do that. lol #then. lol. a half assed apology ''I'm sorry I wasn't there for you'' when i FINALLY get the courage to cut them off. WOW. THANKS SO MUCH.#THAT REALLY HELPS *NOW* AFTER WE ALREADY HAD THE CONVERSATION ABOUT HOW YOU WERE TREATING ME LIKE SHIT *MONTHS AGO*#not to mention that their girlfriend was too much of a fucking coward to face me in person so i could properly cut her off instead of a text #''sorry our schedules didn't line up =( genuinely wish you the best''#YEAH OKAY #bullshit on bullshit #if you fucking wished me the best you wouldn't have INTENTIONALLY crossed MULTIPLE boundaries #in one case. lol. LITERAL SECONDS AFTER I TOLD YOU I NEEDED SPACE BECAUSE I'M NOT GOING TO SCREAM AT YOU #WHEN YOU HAVE TOLD ME AND I KNOW DAMN WELL PEOPLE YELLING AT YOU IS A TRIGGER FOR YOU.#THAT'S YOU TRYING TO MAKE ME INTO THE BAD GUY DIPSHIT. ''mike I would never do that to you'' YOU ARE LITERALLY ACTIVELY TRYING TO DO THAT RN #and yknow the other reason is that i literally work 12 hour shifts and ~40 hour work weeks so #3/4ths of my time on this planet is spent working or sleeping. like yeah no shit i have no energy #im not only physically drained i'm also mentally and emotionally drained lol #anyway sorry for the pity party i'm just. so fucking tired of avoiding talking about this publicly #mud rambles #like i know i mentioned it before but i havent really gone into any depth so. i deserve to talk about it more

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politicallyinvolvedpandabear · 2 years

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Intro

Welcome to my blog. This is a place for me to reblog my favorite posts, engage with people, and offer some of my own opinions. In the past I had certain thoughts about certain posts (especially some of the ones I loved, which I have bookmarked) but I didn’t have the time to respond or it wouldn’t look good for me to start reblogging from tHe hOrrIbLe eVIL TERVES. This place is a safe space for me to interact with that content, and I won’t out anyone who interacts with me. I don’t have any stalkers so I don’t think anyone I know will find me, but in the event that you do, please mind your own business or pretend you didn’t see this, lol. (Not that I’m doing anything bad at all by having opinions.) I’m refraining from putting too much identifiable content but anyway. I love women and always will.

Details on my stances below the cut:

Name: Panda bear (I picked this name ‘cuz I think pandas are cute)

Sex: Female

Sexuality: Lesbian (female homosexual, aka woman who loves and is attracted to other women EXCLUSIVELY)

Point one: I don’t think you have to be a lesbian to support other women or want them to be happy. I think there are actually very few lesbians in the world, which is fine (I can’t control anyone else’s sexuality and wouldn’t want anyone to control mine). Lesbians are not attracted to men and are the only sexuality that fully excludes them. This gives me an edge whenever I heavily criticize men (I can choose to cut them out of my life pretty easily), but I don’t think lesbians are superior to other women or anything. Lesbians are just female homosexuals; we exist like that. As such, I don’t believe in political lesbians

Point two: When I introduce myself to people, I almost never ever bring up my sexuality, but I do it here because just like being female means you have certain experiences and understand certain things, so does being a lesbian. I like other lesbians and love hearing from them. I’m definitely not the spokesperson for all lesbians at all, but I think I’d like to use my own voice (with my own unique experiences) and speak up about them. Me laying this out means you know where I’m coming from, as someone who has no attraction to men.

Point three: No bi lesbian nonsense. I support lesbians and I support bi people. I don’t support two identities being haphazardly smashed together to validate an attraction to men (or ”non-men”). Women are already expected to be attracted to men and I fought that heteronormativity and I won. Don’t undo other people’s work by undermining what it means to be a lesbian (by attaching qualifiers to it) and going Frankenstein’s monster on it. You either are the label or not: you don’t just identify as something to actually become it.

Point four: My sexuality is slightly more complicated than the typical lesbian (not in terms of emotional depth/connection but in terms of my actual attraction and when it manifests itself). Since this isn’t a dating site, I won’t go into this unless asked. Know that I sympathize with the A in LGTQIA though, even though my primary alignment is with LGB. (Please don’t call me queer.)

Age: in my early 20s

Political stances:

Pro-female. I am for radical feminism, women’s rights, female separatism, and so on. Women and girls are my top priority not only because I love them and am one, but because I genuinely want them to have a happy life, especially because most of them didn’t do anything wrong. “Leave no woman behind” is a good motto to me though. If it hurts women, it has to go

You’re probably wondering if I’m a “terf”. No, I am not. I am cis: I’ve never experienced dysphoria (embarrassment/discomfort/slight shame about my body, yes, but every woman experiences that), but I don’t think being trans is exactly bad. I’ve always thought that if you’re not hurting anyone, then who you are/how you choose to present is no one else’s business. This, however, disqualifies all the creeps who are BULLDOZING women’s rights (their language, ability to have female only spaces, and ability to speak about their own experiences among others who understand without outsiders or judgment/cries about exclusivity). Don’t even talk to me about the cotton ceiling and all the weird conversion therapy/shaming rhetoric. I’ll say this now so I don’t get asked: I do not like dick and I never will. Please do not try to force or guilt/shame me into doing anything I don’t like: that’s rape culture and that’s incredibly creepy, horrible, and evil. Do I believe trans women are women? Not really, that’s why they’re “trans”. That’s the point I think: that’s why you transitioned. I don’t have to be attracted to you or like you to want you to be respected/have a good life, so if you treat me with respect, I’ll do the same to you. Not being able to define “woman” is bad though, and I’m definitely not really interested in people who identify out of womanhood. Lack of interest doesn’t mean hate. I think gender non-conforming women are awesome and they can be however or whatever they want without needing to deny their own sex. Since I don’t understand dysphoria or trans people, though, I won’t throw anyone well-meaning under the bus. So that’s my stance on that. From what I’ve been seeing, I don’t know if there are any well-meaning trans people left who aren’t just caricaturing womanhood (or manhood?), but if you can prove me wrong, I won’t be upset about it.

My thoughts on men are I hate them. As a class, yes, but also all of them as people because you won’t see any humanity there. Maybe there are “good men” and “not all men” are raging misogynists, but that’s the bare minimum, and the patriarchy allows any average man to hurt any woman, quite often without consequences. Men have oppressed women for thousands of years and I won’t forgive them. Yes, the average guy isn’t responsible for what happened to women then and even now, but the oppressed are allowed to hate our oppressors, and women are already taught to be careful around any man because if he turns out to be bad, it was “her fault.” If you’re a man, therefore, that’s a red flag for me. The onus is on you to prove you’re not an asshole and I’ll interact with you civilly. But my biggest priority is women. You’ll have to accept a lot of things if you want to be welcomed here and radical feminism is about women, so don’t step out of your place. I’m completely serious: men have been doing this to women for a long time, so I’m not going to cheer for you or waste my energy on you at all. If I do, it’s for another human being who seems to be decent. I used to want everyone to be happy until I realized how truly evil the other sex is.

My bullet points turned into paragraphs, but that’s all, I think! If anything else comes up, feel free to ask me. I’m always open to learning more (that’s why I made this blog: to interact with people instead of keeping everything to myself) and I believe in fairness/justice a lot, so if anything I say or do doesn’t seem just or fair, let me know. If you think me being anti-male/a misandrist is bad, though, then just look at the other side and you’ll see why, lmao. As someone who loves women, how can I not hate those who hurt them, especially the way men do?

TLDR;

for: abortion, female rights, female autonomy, kindness, fairness, anti-discrimination, gay rights (obviously), higher wages for people, the rich to stop screwing poor people over by giving up their riches, social justice

against: racism, misogyny, the patriarchy, anything male (male language like “guys”, the male body, hearing their male opinions on female issues), rape or rape culture, conversion therapy, cringe culture, cancel culture, anything that hurts women

The way this works is I’ll probably be writing a lot in the tags (sometimes in posts), and if I receive any asks (not death threats hopefully), I’ll answer them. I’m quite new to this and I’m still young, so I’m mostly here to learn, but if there’s anything I can do for you, let me know and I’ll happily do it (if I can). Perhaps I’ll write about my personal experiences and thoughts (especially on being a lesbian because that’s the most important thing to me). I like hearing other people’s stories and thoughts too.

Since this is a sideblog, I can’t really follow you back (easily), but I think you’ll be able to tell it’s me (maybe), and I do take notice if you follow me if I agree with you/think you’re cool.

Not sure if anyone actually read all of this, but thanks for stopping by! Hope you have a lovely day. ^^

#intro #i probably won't have a set tagging system in place unless i spontaneously decide to develop one #i'll consider tagging things my followers ask me to tag too but i didn't make this blog for attention or clout so #i won't pay much attention to my followers unless we actually interact (thanks though if you follow-- i do check out your blog)#that's all for now i think and it's probably a lot to read LOL #am also a weebfem but i have other blogs for fandom stuff so you might not see that here #animal lover as well. i think it's a good idea to consider going vegan.#it's good for the earth #and fewer animals are killed if demand lowers of course

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