#toxic mums

[iwishiknewyouwantedmeuh]

The girls with toxic mums and absent dads.

#mine: text #bpd #identity crisis #is that why I turned out to have bpd? #toxic mums #absent dads #mommy issues #daddy issues #issues with issues #no wonder I don’t have a sense of myself

[x3nshit]

ignorance really is bliss because if i had never done any research on generational trauma and healing, i wouldn’t be crying on the floor because i know exactly how my mom is hurting me but i can’t escape it while also crying about the fact that she also went through her own trauma but but also that doesn’t give her the right to treat me so badly but also she doesn’t know any better but whyyyy couldn’t she have tried to be better but also but but but

#mommy issues #parent issues #toxic mothers #mother issues #mother #toxic family #toxic mum #toxic mom #daddy issues

[witchyykitten]

#mommyissues #strict mommy #mom issues #mother issues #toxicmommy #toxic mom #toxic mother #toxic family #toxic mum

[leviiackrman]

CHOOSE YOUR FIGHTER: TEAM DADDY ISSUES

Mineyo ‘MEow’ Ginnivan: “With all due respect, which is none…”

Rin ‘Whiplash’ Kyutoku: “Forgive and forget? Nahhh. Fuck you, and fuck that.”

Chika ‘Blighted’ Hōki: “Am I supposed to be grateful to have survived this?”

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#my art* #oc: mineyo ginnivan #oc: rin kyutoku #oc: chika hoki #anime oc #free! oc #mha oc #naruto oc #my ocs #original character #digital art #first time drawing chika in my style without her veil!! #and of course I had to pair her with my other father based trauma filled girlies #mineyo: dads abandons his family. mum finds nice new husband who loves daughter like his own. dad comes back wanting daughters fame and glor #dad becomes daughters stalker and ceases to leave her alone (even after she moves countries) #Rin: crime dad had child for sake of continuing the clan #mum abandons child and leaves her with her toxic dad and uncle. uncle SA daughter. dad blames daughter. daughter becomes her own boss #daughter kills them all and achieves glory as a villain #chika: mum gets pregnant by ninja she meets in passing. daughter born on side of the road after father leaves. father rejects daughter #father fears daughters powers and spreads lies about her existence #daughter tries hard to be successful to show him. daughter suffers even more by doing so #anyone wanna meet me round the back of maccies to beat these shit dads up?

[cult-of-the-eye]

I love doing things to disappoint my mother cause she's dead so she can't do anything about it apart from seethe

#life hack #stay toxic #dead parents #dead mum club #shitpost

[brittie-frog]

Honest opinions on Pyramid Game before I go to sleep:

- Yerim and Eunjeong canon I don't care that we didn't get a kiss or a proper conversation that stare and Eunjeong feeling confident enough to try and put her arm around Yerim confirmed it

- Harin wasn't justified but I understand her psycho reasoning and she was a great villian and Jang Daah did a great job, can't wait to see what she does after

- obviously loved Suji, played by my WJSN bias so there was no way I wasn't but also she's just so fun and definitely is gay for Jaeun my little baby

- yes all the bullies got punishments they deserve but I think that Dayeon (and possibly Seol ha) should have been put in therapy as her punishment after being taken from her dad because i think the reason she was a bully was because she was getting beat and she would fucking hate therapy until months down the line when she realises it helps (and then kiss either Seol ha or Doah)

- if they seriously gave me a 30 second Jang Gyuri double cameo for a full circle thing (I do like those) or sequel bait we're not going to get I'm going to be so sad

#im going to rewatch it so i might edit with more this weekend #i love all the (high school) characters so much #fuck all adults except the lit teacher Jaeuns mum and Sujis dad at the end #yes i support toxic yuri dayeon with anyone but especially doah or seol ha (or better throuple) #if she did go to therapy it would probably stop being toxic #i dont support abusive yuri harin x jaeun because girlie could never redeem herself enough to deserve my baby #i want a season 2 so bad but its a kdrama so never going to happen #where are the fanfics???? #pyramid game #sung suji #myeong jaeun #baek harin #im yerim

[hella1975]

Convince your sister or dad to get a worse piercing or tattoo that way only getting a septum piercing makes you look like the good one👍

im the only person in my family who’s even slightly inclined towards these things i cannot stress enough how funny this ask is

#my mum: the problem in question #my dad: the most stereotypical kind of autistic bloke. i think so much as entering the shop would blow his mind #my sister: if by the book took human form. had to psych herself up for over a year to get her SECONDS pierced #like they all treat me like im some insane creature that crawled out of toxic waste #my mum regularly jokes that I got swapped at birth in the hospital. none of these bitches are on my side here 😭 #ask

[mikrhsnobara]

Do you play referee between your parents or you have normal families?

#mental health #burnt out gifted kid #burnout #tw depressing thoughts #gifted burn out #toxic mum #toxic dad #toxic parents #toxic family #daddy issues #mommy issues #parents issues #issues in general

[woahkana]

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#harry being a proud dad is so beautiful he literally glows whenever he talks about lili and archie #love how harry can share as little or as much as he wants about his family he finally has that privacy that he's wanted #prince harry #harry x meghan #mine; gifset #harry and meghan are away from the toxicity with their children and dogs in the states #the sussexes #prince harry x meghan markle #lili is gonna be like her mum using her voice for good i bet she's running that house lmao #archie has always been a little spitfire and he has his chickens to take care of #wellchildawards

[nothing0fnothing]

I have beautiful curly hair. I was born with it and I inherited it from my mum.

So how is it I grew up insanely jealous of my mums curly hair when I have the exact same hair as her? Because she never told me my hair is curly.

I spent my young years and my vulnerable teen years so insecure because my hair was frizzy, unmanageable, greasy and wouldn't hold a style. I was so embarrassed of my hair I'd fry it with flat irons and curling rods every morning trying to make it look normal. I used to wash it twice every morning, blow dry it with mousse, heat style it till I smelled burning then hairpray the shit out of it. By the end of the day it was a poofy, greasy mess again.

I'd hide it in buns and ponytails because I hated it so much and I'd beg the hairdresser to do something, anything to make it more manageable. All this while my mum luxuriated in her lush curls and told me I just had bad hair.

So, one day, when I was 17, I chopped all my hair off with kitchen scissors, and as it grew out undamaged, I noticed tiny little curls. I asked my mum what I should do to nurture them.

"Those aren't curls" she snorted. "Those are cowlicks. You gave them to yourself when you chopped all your hair off."

"I don't think they are" I said, pulling one straight and letting it bounce up like a spring.

"Curly hair is a lot of effort darling, you'd never be up to the task of taking care of it. You'll get bored and it'll look like shit like before." She said. "Stick to what you know" she said.

So I took to YouTube and looked up "how to care for curly hair" then I took my paycheck to the drugstore and I bought all the products I needed and within a few months I had this beautiful head of short little ringlets. For the first time in my life I loved my own hair.

My mum fucking hated it. She told me it looked worse than ever, she told me I was wasting my money on hair products. As it grew faster than ever, she got more and more impatient with it. She told me I was dooming myself to a life of cropped hair because my clearly inferior hair could never be long and curly like hers was. "Enjoy it while it lasts" she told me "it'll never hold a curl when it's long"

A year later and I'd perfected the routine. It was now shoulder length and beautifully bouncy, I couldn't go anywhere without a compliment and I can see why, it was gorgeous and wild and so, so worth the effort. And yet, every time she saw me she made it a point to let me know that she didn't like it. Tried to convince me I'd made a mistake to embrace my curls. All because she didn't have a hand in it. All because curly hair was her thing and she was jealous I was young and beautiful and had learned to have beautiful hair without her.

#raised by narcissists #narcissistic parents #toxic mum #toxic mom #toxic parents #emotionally immature parents #narcissistic abuse #emotional neglect #emotional maturity #emotional health #emotional abuse

[candydaph]

Growing older with abusive parents is something. You will never receive the love of a mother or father everyone else has. And other victims talk about how they moved on. That they don’t care but I DO. no person can fill the role of a parent, you only get one set for them and only one childhood.

I grieve the child and the loved I could have gotten.

#rant post #sorry for being depressing #toxic mum #i hate my family #i hate my brain #bad parenting #tw abuse

[lietpolski]

dont know if this has been asked before but do you have any srpska hcs?

most of them i covered in the last ask!! but a few bonus ones:

he started smoking when he was like 9

he used to steal cigarettes from enis until he got caught and enis nearly killed him <3

(idriza flushes them down the toilet whenever she finds his stash)

he tried to give himself a shitty stick n poke tattoo of an eagle once with idriza's sewing needles and pen ink and it got infected and now it looks like a weird smudge

appearance-wise he looks just like his dad when he was a kid, but rougher, like he's grown awkwardly into his body

although he's a little shit he can act surprisingly presentable for important international meetings and such

i imagine him and kos being like. the kid u fucking can't stand but ur parents force u to hang out with. they have a lot in common they just can't stop arguing long enough to figure it out. ilija is the younger of the two and also jealous of him (not that he'd ever admit it)

this isn't even a hc it's just a logical conclusion but. he's very desensitized to violence and quite hot-headed

spends all day online on FPS games shouting slurs (until someone gets annoyed and unplugs the pc)

ok last thing is. i don't want to leave u with the wrong impression, he's notttt like. grumpy grouchy angsty teen boy grr >:( i think tix described him as having an attitude like serbia's which i interpret like! yeah he's a deranged little devil but your first impression of him is that he's a cheerful and sociable (albeit annoying) kid

#i am So Feverish right now sorry if i don't 100% make sense #maia talks #ask #yugotalia #my toxic trait is that i have a huge soft spot for kids i really want to be a mum so im like 🥺 but hes just a little guy #meanwhile he's killed hundreds

[allthemagicthings]

"Show Loustat have a 'neglectful husband/resigned housewive' Dynamic, Louis taking the traditionally feminine role" and "Show Loustat have a 'toxic mum/good dad' Dynamic, Lestat taking the traditionally feminine role" are Statements that can and should co-exist.

They don't each have to adhere to a single gender Stereotype because they are both queer men and also fictional vampires. That's what makes them so interesting. They aren't stock characters. They are a playing field for all these issues and themes and offer a unique way of intermingling these dynamics. Because they are fictional gay Vampires. Hope this helps.

#iwtv #anne rice #interview with the vampire #tvc #loustat #amc itwv #people taking away Louis “femininity” bc of racial stereotypes suck #but he is also allowed to be masculine too #i fucking love gay vamps #also sometimes Louis is the toxic mum or neglectful husband #and then the books aee a whole nother can of worms #louis du pointe du lac #lestat de lioncourt

[hussyknee]

Fools are like the weather– nothing you can do or say will change their patterns of behaviour. Trying will only leave you feeling like the biggest idiot of all. "Okay but I'm the one who will be stuck with the fallout"– and when it rains your house will get flooded. This is inevitable. So put up some sandbags, secure your possessions and prepare to evacuate. And make sure you have flood insurance.

Knowing when to let people go so you don't drown with them is the hardest life lesson. The only question is whether you'll learn it before you lose your health, wealth and sanity, and are left with nothing but bitterness.

#life advice #ask me how I know #this piece of wisdom is brought to you by my Mum finally finding herself up shit creek without a paddle #lmao drown bitch #relationships #mental health #boundaries #therapy #coping #mental wellbeing #parentification #dysfunctional family #emotional abuse #toxic parents #toxic family #knee of huss

[novuit]

There are so many different flavours of Arthurs in my mind but I’m addicted to drawing one flavour of Arthur

#rambles #hetalia #I've always wanted to draw Arthur how sunnylolli portrays him #<-- #I don't know how to describe him but he radiates so much joy and comfort and spiritually he's me #but I also want to draw him as a grumpy old man #Or draw him as a retired man who just wants to live a solitary life and sit in his garden drinking tea in his victorian country house #but I also want to draw him as a really toxic man that works in a high position at a successful multi-billion dollar company #but also prettify him and make him all young and petit and dress him in pretty dresses #and other times I want to draw him as a really creepy bloodthirsty and/or lustful man #or draw him as the main character of every horror/giallo film and tear him apart limb to limb #or draw him as a cornish man #ARGHHHHH there's so many Arthurs I wish I could draw #I mean I COULD draw ALL Arthur flavours but that's going to to take a decade or two off my lifespan #edit: he'd also be your typical british mum #the list could go on

[supercriminalbean]

My coworker is probably at home dealing with her kids while I lay in bed crying about the way she treated me today. Why you may ask? Because she has known me for 9 months and treats me better than my parents do, I'm badly injured and she won't let me do anything. She tells others off if they see me struggling and don't help me, she pushes people outta her way to help me, she reminds me to be careful she reminds me to wear my sling. She praises me when I do and tells me how good I am. She's my mum, and I haven't had such postive vibes without asking for favours in returns. It's unusual and I cry. She doesn't know how much she means to me and I wish I could hug her and tell her and just tell her why I'm the way I am and how she's the reason I'm trying so hard lately. She has no idea how important she is to me and if she ever hugs me again I will full on cry.

Thank you for coming to my ted talk

#al life #i love my mum but shes toxic #but my work mum she gets me #she protects me she loves me #she bullys me the way she bullys her own child #i never want to live this town due to her and my co workers