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#toxic siblings
randombook4idk · 1 year
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people will talk about how it is important to recognize abuse and how it comes in many shapes and forms, but the second sibling abuse gets brought up, you then have to shut up, because you clearly don't have a sibling if you don't think that bullying them, making them fear you, screaming at them, putting them down, beating up them up, emotionally/physically abusing them, giving them trauma, guilt tripping them and other abusive behavior is an ok thing to do.
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slothyykittee · 3 months
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Made this for myself, but thought why not share to those in need? I hope you like this bit! 🧡❤
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inflamedrosenkranz · 1 month
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Bì-Hán & Kuài Liáng, each about the other: "He is more lost to me than if he had died. I won't reunite with him in this world."
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Me, when the trauma symptoms are at bay and don't hinder my quality of life: I'm a shitty abuse victim because I am not even visibly affected by the things that happened to me
Me, when visibly affected by my trauma: I'm a shitty abuse victim because I shouldn't be reacting to abuse this violently, it wasn't that bad anyway
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darasnotesapp · 4 months
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desertwaterwitch · 6 months
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Just because “they’re your family” doesn’t mean you have to put up with their toxicity.
Please remember this. Stand your ground!
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The youngest sibling experience of being made to feel like you're not allowed to have your own feelings and be your own person, of having your own voice stifled, of constantly being forced under the thumb of someone else, of being punished for being independent but also being punished for not being independent enough.
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connieaaa · 1 year
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Siblings: We are all terrible at communication.
Me: Speak for yourself. I am good at communicating and you were taught to ignore me.
Siblings: wut?
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asshole-rebel-psycho · 4 months
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Toxic people will pick a fight over something little and petty so they can bring up your past "words" that have "harmed" them.
If you ask what you've said to harm them they will say:
" I don't remember, but it made me angry and you do this all the time"
You will say:
"What do I do all the time?"
They will say:
Omg stop yelling! You are ruining this whole day for everyone! Look what you do! You are so crazy like your father, you are a cold bitch who wants to argue with everyone!! Stop!
You: .......( silance)
Them: "omg stop! Stop! Look what you do. You're mocking me! So smug and cold.
The best thing to do is be silent and let them bang their head into the wall until they bleed from their own rage. You cannot win! Don't put any bullets in their gun especially if they will pistol whip you without bullets.
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lost-souls-system · 1 year
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Reblog this if you ever broke down in front of your family member[s].
[you don't have to say the reason in the tags or when reblogged.]
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furiousgoldfish · 1 year
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Happy birthday! I was never abused by my parents, but I do have trauma from my sister and holy hell I really do not know how you do it but even though you specify in trauma and abuse from parents there is still so much I can relate to on this blog and so many questions you've answered that I did not even know I had. Thanks so much for helping me, even though you weren't really focusing on helping someone like me you still somehow helped me a lot. Also it's like fun to see all the things that parental abuse causes, like just straight up fun to read about.
Abuse caused by siblings can be absolutely awful and heartbreaking, I am so sorry you were put thru this. There's way less resources for it too, so it can feel like there's nowhere you can ask for help about it. I'm glad my blog was able to answer some of your questions, I would write more about it if I had experiences and knowledge to really cover it, if someone else wants to write about it and send their experiences to me, I would gladly publish it.
I never expected to hear that reading about causes of abuse symptoms was fun, I mean, you're possibly being very ironic about this and I'm just not catching it. But I hope you've had a lot of AHA moments where you knew your behaviour was caused by a specific thing, and then you had an idea of how to resolve it, or at least, where to be mad for it.
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d0llyxtears · 7 months
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My brother just left and I feel literally sick …..
I miss him … i feel so lonely…. I feel so gross and confused
He hugged me and said bye to me this morning…. And it felt like when we were little again and inseparable from one another…..
Why do i miss someone who hurt me so bad and causes me to feel fear ???
I want him to come back and hug me again… i miss when he would call me pretty or when he would hold me or ruffle my hair….. but it’s scary because what if he hurts me again…. But
I miss and i feel disconnected from everyone else again and I don’t think he loves me anymore and i miss him …..
I miss my brother so much and I think i might throw up …..
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faerieforestcat · 2 years
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I always used to think that I could find protection with my big sibling.
Whenever out "parents" screamed at me, blamed me, insulted me, whenever I fought with someone, or was just having a bad day in general and felt like shit.
I thought I could confide with my sibling and tell them my problems, how I felt and ask them their opinion. And when their answer was something apathetic or told me "not now, tell me later, it was your fault, what do you want me to do? I can't do anything, suck it up", but that time later they gave the same answer, I tried to justify it. "Maybe they're busy, maybe it's not a good time, maybe they have a good reason".
It's incredible the ability the mind has to try to justify actions and edit memories to make it seem as someone else is not a bad person, just to hold on to hope.
But it's more incredible the huge whiplash the realization gives you that you didn't only have abusive "parents", but an absent sibling. Even worse when that sibling it's the "golden child".
Growing up thinking that even if you didn't have good parents, at least you had a good big sibling, who would protect and care for you, only for it to turn out that you didn't even have that:
In the end, you were alone all this time.
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dis--mayed · 19 days
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My mom hates Trump and doesn't really care that someone is, apparently, falsely accusing him of assault (most likely, she was just trying to tell me brother to fuck off by saying she "doesn't care"). My brother started yelling at her about how Trump is a victim and he doesn't want to see him prosecuted for something he didn't do.
My brother has spent THIRTY FUCKING YEARS blaming our mom for how HE was accused of rape by someone he chose to fuck and has spent 25+ years blaming her for encouraging him to take a plea deal, where he was made a tier one sex offender, after he repeatedly broke the fucking probation he was only put on, again, for RAPE. He's now tier two for refusing to register and sits in my home, smoking weed and vapes with the SSI my mom got him on.
This girl accused another boy of rape, btw, and he took the same deal as my brother.. don't know what happened to him.. but I guess my mom ruined his life, too, right????
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rorynn · 3 months
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If I was a famous singer. My first famous song would be called: off youself, my dear narcissistic slut of a sister.
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lonelyheartsexpert · 2 years
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your siblings will forever be the people who out of the 7,000,000,000 on earth will have the EXACT same situation as you. Same parents. Same family. Same education. For them to hurt you mentally or physically is scary because its almost like youre hurting yourself.
almost. 
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