#toxix relationships

[feral-peacock]

The stages of Wally West Clowning :

When he's not back by the season finale

Explaining to your friend who doesn't watch young justice at all the proof we have he's alive and how he can come back in the next season (that I'm pretty sure isn't confirmed yet)

The moment when you're struck with the thought of enduring another entire season before we get him back or worse another show cancelation

Your face waiting for season 5 announcement, then waiting for it to be made, then waiting for trailers and sneak peaks, then waiting for each new episode

And finally your face when blessed with the tiniest crumb that is Wallace West's face on your scree for half a second probably as a flashback, fever dream, grief hallucination, phantom zone hallucination, literally any form but real but hey you'll take it because that's your boy and he's totally alive and definitely coming back soon why else would they keep bringing him up

#yj spoilers #young justice spoilers #young justice #young justice phantoms #Wally West #Kid Flash #i cannot believe i watched the second half of this season only to end up hear #young justice is the most toxix relationship ive ever bean in #theyve kept me around by feeding me crumbs intermittently for nearly ten years #if young justice was a person my best friend wouldve taken my phone and blocked their number years ago #im having a really terrible time actually #wally west is not dead #wally west is alive and well folks

[gaaaaaaaayypr]

Gaslighters use your words of defense against you to make excuses for their terrible actions towards you.

#truth #phycology #gaslight #gaslighters #relarionships #toxic relationship #free speech #drama #emotional #toxix women #toxic men #sibling rivalry #trauma

[albeyo]

May i indulge you all in my fascination with toxic relationships? Like i knew i was gonna be into such ideas when my favorite song to sing as a child was "just give me a reason" by pink

#i dont want to actually get into a toxic relationships but roleplay as toxix? HELL YEA #maybe i just want to be toxic w no consequences

[nimonabigbang]

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[neptune-ian]

Lol people complaining about dark feminine energy being manipulative shows how they’re not comfortable with their own shadow side. Fortunately or unfortunately manipulation IS part of the healthy embodiment of dark feminine energy, however it won’t be expressed in extreme ways where it harms others. A simple example of healthy dark feminine energy is acting kind of aloof and letting yourself receive a free meal from a man. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with it, and where’s the fun in relationships if we don’t “play” a little? Another one is acting extra polite with a stranger who is a man and could potentially become aggressive, so that you won’t trigger him and you can get out of the situation safely (this is very generalized). It is something you need and it could sometimes serve you really well in protecting yourself even. Manipulation is not always bad. People are just not ready for that talk yet haha.

Well playing with someone’s heart is toxic if the purpose is to harm them. It depends about what you name as « playing » in a relationship. I don’t disagree with you that spicying things up is necessary in relationships but to the point of being toxix : no.

However we are not talking about simply taking advantages of men but breaking men’s heart for pleasure to hurt them. That’s not a healthy and that is not something that should be preached.

Also receiving something for free is not dark feminine energy. It’s just being feminine. Light as well as dark do receive free princesse treatments. And being polite to avoid being harassed is not dark feminine energy, it’s just common sense and defense mechanism. You can find this behavior among animals as well. That is not related to dark feminine energy anon. That’s basic human interactions that you can find everywhere.

What is preached on TikTok mostly are toxic habits to just be « that » b*tch by being heartless towards men. Which doesn’t help the cause of feminism that fights against misogyny. How do you think that being cruel with men will soften the already difficult dynamic between the two genders? The same way, if men acted the same way as dark feminine energy women would be upset and hate men more than we already do creating more conflicts. That’s what I am talking about and complain about. Seeing farther than direct pleasure is what is needed nowadays because that’s what create loneliness and superficial joy and partnerships (from a psychological perspective).

#neptune’s talk #neptune’s anon ask #dark and light feminine energy

[kissingandroidsforfun]

<~Did you hate it?~>

You sat by a fire, next to you was B!W and across from the two of you was Fox. F!W laid behind Fox, already asleep

“Looks your guy is already asleep” You said smugly as you looked at F!W and then Fox

“Yeah~ I’ve gotten him into the habit of that~” Fox said, sounding proud of herself. Her tail wagged slightly and she turned to look at her husband before turning back to you

There was a pause between the three of you

“So uh, Fox…” B!W spoke, a bit of fear in his voice

“What?” Fox tilted her head to the side like a dog

“F!W said you uh- you hated that time when he was in the chassis, is that true or…?” He asked nervously

“I didn’t really mind”

“Really!?” Both you and your companion were surprised

“I mean, at first I didn’t like it but after a while it just… It became kinda nice… Just making him happy…~ pleasing him…~” Her tail began to wag even more as she thought about making her husband “happy”

“But-“

Fox cut B!W off “Yeah, I know he wasn’t actually “happy” but… but I could make him happy” She smiled to herself

“I could please him…~” Fox said under her breath as she turned to look at her husband. Her smile grew larger

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Just a quick little thing that I made :3

OOOOOO

I love how different the dynamics are between our characters and their Wheatley like

Fox and Wheatley : the most loving people existing on earth

Benrey and Wheatley : denial it's a river in egypt

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I was talking to a friend about our Wheatleys and relationships with our characters and he made this 'meme' in Paint

he didn't want to explain to me specifically what he meant by toxix yaoi couple😭

#dt portal au

[freemindedspirit]

Hi. I'm so sad, just found out that my FS will have love affairs or extra marital affairs (based on my chart, Aries in the 7th house) now I'm not ready to meet that person 🥹 another trauma I guess

Im not an astrologer but you shouldn't beleive that.

1. People have free will.if they cheat on oyu its thier own fault, not the fault of their damn stars

2.if youre going into dating life just assuming the person you are meant for is going to cheat on you, you are setting yourslef up for a long line of toxix relationships. You deserve better, period. Stop letting divination tell you things that make you sad, especially if its as stupid as some moron who wont even respect you evocated somewhere on your chart. You are not limited nor doomed by your destiny. If you dont like it, change it. Its well within your right.

Now look up, rise and smile, a beautiful future awaits you, and it was made by yours hands.

[walesinspiration]

Can I just ask what part of the book gave you the idea that Harold like Kate?? Honest question. Cause to me it seems like he hates her for taking Will away from him. ( sorry my English is not very good)

he says something along the lines of how beautiful her smile is, how her smile lights up the whole room and that he wants do nothing else but make her smile every chance he has.

i think it was jealousy and naivité. how can the relationship with your brother NOT change when one of you gets married and potentially start a family? he clung to this idea that it would be the two of them, but then for William his wife (and then family) became his main focus (as it should be) and harry just couldn't deal with that.

add to that the inferiority complex he has because William is heir and he very much is not, you got a toxix mindset for Harry.

[ashtonisrottting]

i think I'll never be able to have a normal and healthy relationship with anyone. maybe it's my fucked up brain and my twisted logic; I'll never believe someone genuinely wants nor loves me. it's impossible. I'm just an obligation. legally, emotionally or socially; I'm just the person they have to keep so gossips are avoided. this is not love, it never was. this is me confining you inside of my toxic environment

#actuallytraumatized #ventcore #truamacore #traumacore #toxic childhood #toxic #toxic psrents #toxic parents #toxic mom #toxic dad #toxic family #toxic friends #toxix relationships #toxic ex #mommy issues #daddy issues #issues in general #omg this is just a mess y'all #///im the mess #i genuinely hate it and im just venting here because tumblr have always made me feel more comfortable that my own friends and therapist #luv u Tumblr #((even tho u blocked my old account #not cool bro #not.fucking.cool

[whoisthedreamer]

ok i love lana del rey but every time I listen to her now I remember that pretentious creep on here saying how old men like him have a lot to thank her for and i just :( 🤢

#i wish ldr would acknowledge that her music kinda DOES in fact glamorize abuse + toxix relationships etc and the whole lolita fetishization #like just honest about it maybe then there could be an open discussion on why this clearly resonates w so many young women y know?? #but then again what do i know i'm just a wee dyke #ANYWAY if you're that pretentious creep reading this pls kill yourself thanks :)

[mental-health-advice]

It's taken me so long to realize my ex bf I left was toxic. A new guy I'm w/ treats me like a human and respects me for me. He doesn't make fun of me or my flaws. I love that I can learn to be me without being embarrassed. I don't get why it took me so long. I dated my ex bf for a really long time. I turned into a cold hearted person. Now I'm happy that I can be me without worrying.

Hey there,

Sometimes when we find ourselves in a toxic relationship it can be very hard to get ourselves out of it and into a place where we feel safe and comfortable without having any fears. Please don’t be hard on yourself for being with your ex for such a long period of time. I’m just glad that you’re out of that toxic relationship now and are focused on your new boyfriend and being treated well, like you deserved to be in the very first place!

It sounds as though you have an amazing boyfriend right now and I’m so happy for you and having such a positive experience with him in regards to him accepting you as a person, including your flaws. No one is perfect, we all have our little things about ourselves that we may not like and so it’s really positive that you feel able to be yourself and let your guard down a bit with this new guy.

I’m so very happy for you right now and more so that you have turned into a beautiful person who has turned into someone who can be themselves without fear or failure, rejection or being judged! And this is so important to feel this way in a relationship so go you!!

Please know that I am thinking of you and wish you all the best in your new relationship. As already mentioned don’t be hard on yourself for not getting out of the relationship with your ex sooner. I believe that everything happens for a reason and so I am sure that that experience you had with your ex has only made you stronger and has allowed you to see how people should be treated like with how you are with your new boyfriend!

Take care,

Lauren

#mha-lauren #advice #advice blog #anonymous #toxix relationship #ex boyfriend #new relationship

[wishicouldbeme]

obsessed

I was so obsessed with you. You literally consumed every part of me and I used to find that endearing, that I could love someone so much. I thought we would always be in our own world wrapped up in us but life got in the way. I was obsessed with you for so long that whenever things went wrong I’d break. I was so obsessed for so long that I don’t even remember how I got over that. 

#obsessed #toxix #love #young #true #feelings #firstlove #relationships #naive #hurt #broken #break #heart #heartbroken #mylove #imissyou #ilovedyou #iloveyou #youleft

[trashyspam]

People shouldn’t shame others for not standing by and watching their loved ones (family/friends) go through toxic relationships (not just including partners). It really doesn’t work like that and it’s not so easy. What if somebody has a fragile mind? What if somebody has a mental illness and can not deal with it? Their own problems?

I could honestly go on as always but every situation is different and shaming people for leaving is not ok and does not make you a shit friend/family member.

It’s like saying “you have to love your family members no matter what?” But....some people generally can’t and won’t and it’s not by force to do so ??

#That tweet circling made some good points however #every situation is different #and shaming people to put up with an toxix enviroment is not ok #toxic relationships #toxic enviroment #friendships #just saying #Curious #questions #curiousity

[thatwasthenightthingschanged]

not to be fake deep on main but I'm just thinking abt how hard it is when you actually do find healthy relationships (platonic and/or romantic) to not assume they will eventually treat you as shitty as the toxic people who used to be in your life did and to not fall back into unhealthy coping patterns/project insecurities you got from the toxix people onto new people you meet & no one rlly talks abt that so. if you're in this situation, I'm proud of you for trying and I promise someday it'll be easier.

[bisluthq]

So you belieb that she wanted taylor to stay in a toxix relationship and be hurt

I don’t think she would’ve understood it’s toxic. That’s outside her realm of experience tbh.

#nat talks k@ylor

[jlmnerdery]

Just Leave an abusive manipulate relationship? Ya it's not that easy.

#toxix relationships #toxic #gaslighting #abuse #mindfuck