If you're a trans ally, are you supportive of trans men? What about black trans people? Or trans people that aren't skinny? Or trans people that aren't able-bodied?
Being a trans ally means supporting trans people no matter their identity, race, disabilities, and/or body shape. Can you really call yourself a 'ally' if you judge a trans person for their appearance and/or disabilities?
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im the tra terfs warned you about, whatre you gonna do? angrily reblog my posts?
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“Trans people should..“
“trans people are..“
“why do trans people..”
“You aren’t trans unless..”
Die die die die explode die perish rot wither away you foul creature. STOP TELLING PEOPLE WHAT TO DO!! STOP TELLING PEOPLE WHAT TO BE!!! GET ON WITH YOUR OWN LIFE!!! My god.
Some cis people are so OBSESSED WITH US. Bro. Stop!! We are none of your business!! Get on with your own life, stop telling us what to do, what to say, what to be. Don’t speak for us unless we ask you to.
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I don't know how people think not being straight or cisgender is a choice.
My life (and many others) would be so much easier if I was allo and straight. I wouldn't have to feel scared that any relationship I have will be ruined by my lack of sexual attraction and my mother telling me she wouldn't ever support me.
In fact, there's a boy I click with so,so well who I would love to date because he is strong and smart and hardworking and we love so many of the same things. He's my best friend and I love him so fucking much. He wanted to date. But no matter how much I love him and how perfect that relationship could be, I'm not straight. The second things stop being platonic I cannot stand to be touched.
I'm not saying I'm not proud of who I am. I am so proud to be ace and I am so proud to be lesbian. But it's not a choice. Why in the hell would you think it's a choice when those of us who are different often suffer oppression or isolation because of it?
We celebrate pride because even though we love who we are, it can be hard to be different. It's not a choice, it's who we are. What's so hard to understand about that?
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Trigger warning: discussion of bodily harm and suicide, transphobia
The transphobe shit about us "mutilating" our bodies gets so tiring so fucking fast. The amount of trans masc people I know that have seriously wanted to do at home top surgery (i.e. using scissors or a knife to cut themselves up there) really stresses the importance of trans healthcare. It prevents people from *actually* mutilating themselves by trying to do these procedures on their own or taking hormones unsafely. Or, straight up, trans people just commit suicide. So I ask you, cis people, what is better? Death or life? Because many, many cis people are choosing death.
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