#trans non binary

[vash-the-trans-catboy]

Reasons I’m excited for top surgery besides for dysphoric reasons

Don’t have to sift through my laundry to separate the bras

Bras are freaking expensive

Can gaslit people into thinking I never had boobs in the first place

Can wear a button up shirt with the buttons open near the top of my chest to enter my slut era

Less layers in the summer when it’s hot

Weird people out by saying “when I used to have boobs”

Don’t have to worry if my bra color is visible through a light shirt

Get super cool scars

Can wear my show offy clothing cause have I mentioned my slut era?

Fitting into men’s clothing will be so much easier with a flat chest

After I shower, I can walk around with my chest out

Never have to try to put on a bra while wet again (if you have never done this it is hell)

I can say “help my boobs fell off?!!?”

#thegayemo talks #trans non binary #transmasc #transgender #trans #trans ftnb #trans ftm #nonbinary #queer

[carolyn32]

Do men even ride Tgirl anymore?

#trans woman #transgender #transisbeautiful #transsexual #transformice #trans non binary #lgbtq community #trans girl tummy tuesday #curvy girls #curvy and cute

[andillwriteyouatragedy]

feeling especially anxious this year but whatever. happy Trans Day Of Visibility!! i'm actually currently terrified to be visible. but i also want more than anything to just be able to be myself.

so. i'm visible today so you have to fucking acknowledge me. and remember, if you're not trans or an ally, or i will find you!!

i am so blissfully, mercifully happy being myself as i am and knowing i am outside of gender!!

and also, fuck you, transphobes!! i hope i outlive you!! 😊 🏳️‍⚧️

#tdov 2023 #tdov #trans day of visibility #trans #trans nonbinary #trans non binary #trans non-binary #nonbinary #non binary #non-binary #queer #gender nonconforming #gender non conforming #gender non compliant #genderfluid #gender noncomformity #gender non binary #they/them #they them #personal ramblings #long post #my face #personal #me #selfies #self

[thetragiclown]

#non binary #trans non binary #agender #genderqueer #genderfluid #enby #lgbtq #queer #polls

[turnipstewdios]

Trans healthcare is Bullsh*t

Long vent post, cause I'm mad and need to release the feelings back into their natural habitat. Had less than two weeks to go before the hysterectomy I've been trying to get for almost five years, and insurance has denied my appeal. Again. Very clearly for the last time. The rejection letter deemed the surgery "Not medically necessary" and with the context of past interactions I don't think I could have heard the "Fuck off looser" more clearly if someone had told me in person. My first appointment for this surgery was in June, and I had already been waiting for years at that point. I thought had been very careful to get everything set up, and get all my letters of referral and paperwork strait before hand. Except my insurance specifically apparently had a whole extra qualification for this surgery, that does not apply to anyone else in my state, and that no one told me about because the provider I've been going through for my care has never had anyone bring up that requirement before. That being that I needed to have been seeing a therapist specifically for my gender dysphoria for at least 12 months before hand. So. Had to cancel my appointment for that. The new surgery date I got moved things for enough out that my two letters of referral for reproductive surgery, which have to be less than a year old, expired. For the third time. But that gave me a chance to try and fudge the therapist thing. I went back to the same therapists who gave me the letters last year, exactly one year after my last appointment, and they signed off that I'd been seeing them for 12 months. So we turned that in and filed an appeal. That's where it started getting really, really obvious that my insurance was bullshitting us. I currently make just barely too much money to qualify for my state's government insurance plan. (which sucks because Oregon state insurance actually covers transgender care.) But I don't have enough money to pay for my own insurance. I've been on a family plan from my parents. In fact I specifically moved back in with my parents so I would be covered by it. But I age out on my next birthday, which is January 10th. So it's become increasingly obvious over the last few months that insurance was just stalling for time until they didn't have to deal with me anymore. After I turned in the appeal with evidence that I'd been seeing a mental health provider for 12 months, along with my new letters of referral, I didn't hear back from them. Got to within a week of surgery. Contacted surgery scheduling, and they said I hadn't been approved. Contacted my rep. Apparently, they had never received any appeal letters. That was bull crap, btw, because when we re-scheduled things again, and me, my provider, and my rep all made absolutely sure to send things through the proper channels, the exact same thing happened a second time. And at that point it was late October, and the next appointment was Dec 4th. So we re-appealed. Again. My rep sent stuff up the chain directly, and made sure it got to the people who needed to see it. I was assured that I would have an answer within the week. Three weeks ago. Yesterday, I called my rep to check on things, and she read out my final rejection letter. So. Even if I had time to reschedule again before I age out in a month and a half, it's clearly just not happening on this plan. I'd already started looking for other insurance, but even if I find one I can afford that covers trans care, it will take long enough I'll have to renew all my letters again. The thing that really makes me mad about this is the wording of the rejection. "Not medically necessary." Because I've already had top surgery.

My insurance paid for the large, expensive, invasive, purely cosmetic breast surgery with high risk of complications without throwing a single wrench in things. But a minimally invasive reproductive surgery? When I have a history of painful cramping, irregular periods every 10 to 20 days, and bleeding so heavy and so often I suffer from mild blood loss if my weight dips below 175? When I am literally choosing not to loose weight so I don't constantly pass out, and have been doing so since my mid teens? When I have a family history of cervical or uterine cancer? Oh noooo. We cant have that. It's not medically necessary.

#bastards #coincidentally I found out that the office that deals with my approvals is in a different state for some fucking reason #what state? oh yes. It's Utah. where this type of care is illegal. #golly Ghee I wonder why they're so concerned about my reproductive health. #trans #trans healthcare #transgender #trans rights #trans nb #nb #trans non binary #nonbinary #surgery #healthcare #vent post #tw vent #vent

[inlove-and-healing]

gotta say, my new favorite hobby is saying “transition goals” to anything (mostly images of sopping wet animals)

#lgbt #lgbtq #trans #transgender #trans ftm #trans non binary #nonbinary

[thefastestqueeralive]

I’M SO FRACKING ✨FLAT✨

I’M SO HAPPY YOU HAVE NO IDEA

#top surgery #trans #trans non binary #trans enby #enby #non binary #lgbtq #happy post

[hayden-univ-lorr]

Ce podcast de @/salinleon sur instagram est incroyable.

Il a invité trois mamans, dont la sienne, à parler de leurs fils transgenres, raconter leur parcours, la façon dont elles les ont accompagnés, se sont déconstruites, on apprit,....

Extrêmement touchant, n'hésitez pas à le faire écouter à vos proches (si vous êtes dans un environnement safe, take care <3)

#trans #mec trans #mammectomie #garçon trans #trangenre #transmasc #transmasculin #trans boy #transgender #podcast #transmance #podcast trans #trans man #transmen #transmasculine #transmasculinity #transidentity #trans guy #trans non binary #boy #phalloplastie #mammectomy #mastectomie #mastectomy #phalloplasty #transition #transitions #transition sociale #changement de prénom #deadname

[sourpatchnova]

I just have one default selfie pose, it seems.

#sourpatchnova #self #non binary #queer #trans non binary #selfie

[thebloggingfox]

ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED: TEETUS YEETUS!!!

I just want to say a massive thank you to everyone who donated and shared my gofundme here on Tumblr, thanks to the amazing support I've had from friends and family I have finally had my top surgery after working towards this for 8 years.

#top surgery #double incision #trans #trans non binary #non binary #surgery #hospital

[j0die101]

(April 12th 2024)

No medical confirmation or psychological evaluation necessary. The law will be active by the 1st of November this year.

First names can also be changed while changing gender. One all inclusive package with minimum effort.

#Selbstbestimmungsgesetz #trans rights #queer rights #destiel news #look its my first destiel meme #germany #name change #self identification #self determination #non-binary rights #name changing rights for everyone #go suck on this terfs

[bpdshan]

the funniest thing that’s happened to me recently is that someone seemingly tried to update my pronouns on the medical system but accidentally made it so that my actual name is now “They Them”

#just waiting to be called Them in person tbh #actuallyborderline #mental health memes #lgbt #non binary #trans memes

[andillwriteyouatragedy]

happy International Non-Binary People's Day!! gender means less than nothing to me except as a sandbox to play in or costume to wear!! there are lots of names for how i feel (non-binary and trans and genderfluid and gender non-conforming and queer and—) but most importantly!! i'm ME!!! 🏳️‍⚧️

#international non-binary people's day #non-binary people's day #trans non binary #non binary #nonbinary #gender non binary #gender nonconforming #genderfluid #queer #trans #selfies #me #my face #personal #photography #aesthetic #genderless #they/them #fashion #about me #photograph #photoset #photoshoot #gay #queer selfie #gender noncomformity #gender #genderfluidity

[xx-invadr-ellie-xx]

Absolutely evil beyond words. When asked about the murder of Nex Benedict here is how the state's senator responds, calling them filth that needs to be kept out of the state, while audience member's cheer.

These monsters not only don't care that a child was murdered because of their hatred, they outright celebrate it. Christian's are soulless monsters, when are we gonna get the chance to vote to strip their right to exist away from them, like they do to us? Why do we allow these hate filled cultists to have power in the government and spread their murderous hatred.

This is why the school never called an ambulance for Nex instead just suspending them, this is why the coroner and police are currently trying to cover up the murder, because the whole goddamn system is working exactly as they intended, accomplishing their goals of murdering us and getting away with it.

#nex benedict #nonbinary #non binary #lgbtqia #lgbtq #trans #transgender

[turnipstewdios]

HRT INJECTION TIPS!

Just did my T injection, and I wanna share some things that I find useful! I usually do my own shots, so some of this might not apply if you have someone else do it, but hopefully some of it will help anyway. Have something to remind you about your schedule! I have my injection dates marked on my calendar. I'm super bad at remembering timing and dates, and I would miss stuff like this all the time without an actual reminder I could look at. The one I've just done was actually a day late, because I just looked and realized I was supposed to do it yesterday. I have all the stuff I need for it in one place. Med vials, needles, disinfectant, Band-Aids, sharps box, ect. Makes it easy to keep track of. If you have trouble remembering all the steps, write yourself a list! I'm familiar enough with the process that don't always need it, but I still forget to z-track sometimes. Pop a painkiller half an hour before hand. It helps. I've gotten in the habit of doing this, but I was in a rush for my last one, and just did it without the Tylenol. And there's definitely a difference! Even with a painkiller, you'll still feel it, but it dulls it down just enough to make it easier. If you're over or even close to 200lbs, make sure you're getting a longer needle. An IM injection needs to get all the way down through your body fat and into your muscle tissue. Using a needle that isn't long enough will result in more medication leaking, less effective absorption into your tissues, and a more painful injection site afterword's. I use inch and a quarter needles. One inch works, but not as well, and three quarter inch is way to short. You can ask for different lengths at the pharmacy. If you've never done this type of shot before, and/or are nervous about using a longer needle, it might be surprising to learn that you can usually only feel the first quarter inch or so after piercing the skin. Once you've gotten down through the Hypodermis, there are way fewer nerve endings, and you'll barely be able to feel the needle at all. I usually do my own injections, and I've only had to get help with it because I balked once. But I have to fight with the instinctual "NO WANT STAB SELF" feeling every single time, and there's a lot of stuff that makes it easier. I can work myself up to start fairly easily, but the hardest part is AFTER I break the top layer of skin. I almost always get the needle just far enough in that the pain registers, and THEN the self preservation reflex tries to kick in.

This is why painkillers can be so useful. They slow down the pain signal enough for me to make it slightly deeper, and by that point, I'm almost always in past the point where the sensation stops. The one time I had to get help, it was because I had just barely pierced the skin and then pulled out several times in a row, and the mental block strengthened until I couldn't make another attempt. If you can brace yourself long enough to get that first quarter inch, the rest is much easier. If you have trouble pushing down the plunger for the actual injection, try asking the pharmacy for different syringes. I've tried out several kinds, and some are definitely way easier than others. One type I was given was so hard to push down that I lost most of a dose because I pulled the whole needle out while trying to depress the plunger. I'm fortunate enough to not have any allergies that interfere with my shots. But I've heard a lot of stuff from people who do, so I'll pass it on. The injection should hurt a bit, and might be sore for a day or so afterword's, but it should NOT be excruciating. It should also not swell, turn red, itch, or burn anywhere around the injection site. If it hurts a lot or starts acting weird, you might have done it wrong, gotten an infection, or be allergic to something you're using. Some people can have allergies to the oil used as a base for the hormones, the adhesives on bandages, or the needles themselves. Most injection needles have nickel in them. If you have reactions to piercings/jewelry, the needle might be a problem for you. Fortunately, you can usually swap out whatever's causing the problem for an alternative. There are several types of oil used for the injections, so you should be able to request one that won't cause a reaction. And nickel free needles are available. Feel free to add onto this! I'd love to hear anything people think might be helpful.

#trans #trans healthcare #transgender #trans non binary #trans nb #testosterone injection #testosterone #estrogen #injection #t injection #medical stuff #healthcare #tw needle #tw needles

[talisidekick]

Unfriendly reminder that while you're busy mourning the loss of your childs old gender, claiming you need to mourn the death of your son/daughter, there's a group of boys/girls/enbies scrambling to take your kid clothes shopping, snatching up the chance to take those "first" experiences from you forever. Your sons first fishing trip is gonna be with his best bros, your daughters first makeover is going to be with her girl friends, your kids first camping trip out as themselves is gonna be with the besties. Good luck getting those bonding experiences back. While you're busy trying to guilt-trip your kid with your weird manufactured parental trauma, there's a whole community ready to take your place as the better family.

Your loss, someone elses gain.

#trans #transgender #non binary #trans masc #trans fem #trans masculine #trans feminine #trans neutral #2slgbtqia+ #lgbtqia+ #lgbtq+ #lgbt+ #ftm #mtf