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Day 29 of Holly Bear’s #OctoBEAR Were-Bear!
Comparison truly is the thief of all joy. Social media has been a bright light in my life but has also been a source of darkness for me too. Finding a balance is hard. I am thankful for this app and the outlet it has given me. My life has been filled with so much more adventure since becoming vulnerable on this app. It’s been quite a blessing. But I have this love/hate relationship with the internet. At times it feels like a dream , knowing I have the answer to most of my questions in the palm of my hand; other times it’s exhausting always staring at the person you want to be through a screen. I had to find a balance. Life is good. Life is a gift and no one knows why it was given; but I would be lying if I said that I am content with life all the time. I am in a season of new. New dreams to follow, new path to travel, new decisions to make, and finding a new love within myself. It’s a difficult time. But I am finding that I am mine and I belong to no one else. Every choice is mine, every high is mine, and every low is mine. I can no longer live my life thinking that in some way, I don’t have to belong to myself. That I can magically be something different. I can’t. I won’t. I don’t have to. Friend, this year has been a trip of a lifetime. I know all of us are forever changed by the events of this year and somehow I know I have changed for good. I want to encourage you to run home to yourself as this year comes to an end. Give yourself grace, love, and a hug as we cross the finish line of 2020. I am walking beside you, figuring it all out as we go. Merry merry, my good people.