#trash for your dash

[liyazaki]

I don't like seeing you hang around Guy. what right do you have?

DANGEROUS ROMANCE | EPISODE 6

#dangerous romance #dangerous romance the series #dangerousromanceedit #perthchimon #perth tanapon #no time today to make this prettier *throws trash offering on your dash & leaves* #chimon wachirawit #kanghan x sailom #user25shades #thai bl #bl drama #asiandramanet #asiandramasource #asiandramaedit #asianlgbtqdramas #mor gifs dangerous romance

[anyshapebutsquare]

I just want an answer either “no there’s no spot for you” or “we’re working on trying to get a spot for you” or “yes we’re busy but we’ll get a spot for you” because if I get an offer for another place I have to accept it - that’s how my agency is. Because of that I’m holding off on submitting to other jobs. I texted my manager yesterday and emailed her and her assistant manager today, neither of which I’ve gotten a response. Do I text my manager again tomorrow? I hate being annoying but I need to know!

#hello anxiety brain and sorry everyone for putting this trash on your dash

[serenity-bitty]

Noooo little german kitty!! don't go in the dirty laundry bin!!!

oh mein gott leute!! zees bin is full of stinken clothen! ... *lies down anyway*

#i had to literally DASH to my computer #to bless your DASH with this shitpost of a meme #my cats literally won't stop going in the laundry bin to the point where I had to stuff a garbage bag full of newspaper in it #to straight up BLOCK them from being In There #(specifically toastie he is a stinkery little trash gremlin who wants nothing more than to be in the stimkiest spot he can get his paws in)

[unusedxtheodorexalistair]

The library was quiet again. Only a few weeks and he was getting used to these patches of silence that were once so completely unfamiliar. It was unusual to have a space that wasn't instantly filled up with some kind of noise - talking, music, youtube, tiktok, it was everywhere all the time - sound. When the seizures were at their height even the sound of a computer coming online could trigger him, now though he was doing better. There was still sort of an unconscious flinch when the delightful silence was interrupted.

Teddy glanced over at the tables he had set up for the morning literacy class. English language tutorials had become a part of his day to day life. He was set. The lights were off, the alarm set and he stepped outside the door. He never minded being the last to leave. The walk home was mercifully short.

A shout caught his attention, that flinch, so unconscious but still unchanged after all these years, made him step back before he looked around to see who or what that noise was directed toward. Surely it wasn't him. Was it?

"Sorry, were you, I mean, did you need something?"

#portcadostarter #port cado return #what is this? well that would be trash on your dash #enjoy

[deadpoolsmom]

anyone else got tumblr live not going away from the bar even when you snooze and resnooze it off the dash

#yeah yeah the snooze says dash but previously it removed it from the bar too #fr how do I get rid of it #like if I can’t remove your dumbest feature why I am here #trash ass garbage website (/negative bc they like to act that the insults are affectionate and fuck that) #20 y/o code and apparently web/mobile designers who failed out slapping keyboards #tumblr #tumblr mobile #tumblr live

[hegrowth]

every once in awhile this comes up and I'm like. in a weird place of talking about it because I don't want sympathy, I literally just want people to know.

tw for suicide mention, bullying and harassment

I started roleplaying when I was in middle school, and in high school I started getting harassed by a person in the rpc. they bullied me, harassed me, got their friends to harass me. they stalked me across multiple blogs, talked shit about me openly on the dash, and in general were happy to tell lies about things I was doing or had said. I did not know this person. I don't recall having ever actually spoken to or written with them. and my apparent offense to them was "misinformation", in that I was writing a muse with dissociative identity disorder, which they were adamant I was misrepresenting because it was supposed to be identified as multiple personality disorder. both they and their friends sent me hate, both on and off anon, and told me to unalive myself multiple times over this. I eventually did attempt to do so. I never received apologies from them or their minions, but was later told I was not the first nor the last person in the rpc they had done this to. to this day I do not remember the names or urls of those that bullied me, but I will always remember the name of the individual that was responsible for all the hurt I experienced.

so yeah. that's why I don't do callouts. that's why I ask for proof when people make claims about other people. and granted, I don't have any now to support this story, but I'm not trying to villainize this person. I don't know if they're still in the rpc, still on tumblr. if we may have crossed path since then. I don't really care. the point is I don't send hate. I don't vague blog about people. I don't reblog petty callouts. I don't take peoples word blindly even if I trust and care about them. I don't pick sides without knowing what's going on with each side. I refuse to perpetuate the shitty behaviors that enabled what happened to me, that's the facts. and if that makes you upset then my blog is not the space for you. and don't you ever accuse me of things I have experienced myself and would never wish on another person.

honestly, my memory is so fucked these days talking about it is like... it's a whole life away. it's been almost ten years, at least. I was really young then. I was really impressionable. I had just moved and was lonely in high school. what happened to me fucked me up and impacted how I have lived since then. and it's impacted how I have behaved in and interacted with the online space, tumblr especially.

so yeah. there's puffins tragic backstory unlocked. if you have questions I'll do my best to answer them, but honestly my memory is shot. I don't know if my blogs from back then still exist, or if I can even remember the urls... I've honestly blocked that period of my time in the tumblr rpc out of my memory lmao but I can try to look.

#《 ° selkie.exe 》 oh im trash just not approved trash #《 ° important 》 we interrupt your regularly scheduled dash to bring you a friendly public service announcement #suicide ment #suicide cw #suicide tw #° ask to tag !

[peribytes]

i won't lie i kinda wanna drop the Stefan name for just Max, but like. the entire reason why i kept Stefan is bc it's the masc form of my deadname and i don't hate my deadname so i can "settle" for the slight change. i can keep the vestiges of the self i grew up in so i don't rock the boat too much, it doesn't ask a lot from people. and there's this voice that's like "what did you do to """deserve""" to wear the nametag of your idealized self? this Max guy? you're not that guy. you wish you were that guy." but like what exactly do i have to do in order to be that guy? before i deserve to have his name? before i deserve to drop the self i had before?

#this isn't some transm*d take (i vehemently disagree with their view) i just have issues when it comes to myself #if i take other people at their word when they say they're this person or that person then why can't i make that jump personally #i don't need to do anything to deserve to be called whatever name i want. it's just a name. #but it's like. idk. it's like ''how dare you throw away the identity you were given? who do you think you are?'' #well. i'd like to be that max guy to be quite honest. the idealized self in my head that has a cool name #maybe the identity i was given is trash. maybe i don't have to be grateful for what i was given. #maybe i'm allowed to change #sorry for being insane on your dash

[anghraine]

Now that they're over, I think my favorite parts of my PhD exams:

The Scariest Member of the Committee said, "I think the monster [my description of my written exam for him by contrast with the much more streamlined other exams] is quite strong, actually." *\0/* He basically invited me to expand on my criticisms of Greenblatt, too. *\0/*

I was explaining that while I have a lot of primary texts for my dissertation, I don't plan to do things like "say, a close reading of the entirety of Clarissa." My advisor was just like ... God, no. (I feel that Clarissa creates a special bond among 18th-cent scholars who aren't specifically into it, lmao.)

One of my committee members is involved with the administration and assured me that I could contact him any time and was never bothering him. :')

I got to talk about one of my favorite Austen quotes, from Mansfield Park, and also a) explain my understanding of a narrative about 17th- and 18th-cent British culture that I don't wholly agree with, and b) explain why I have gripes with it. My favorite thing!

We talked about my beloved Montaigne (<3333) and also about medieval literature's impact on early modern drama rather than just Classical influence, like the connection between the medieval Vice-figure and the early modern machiavel (not to be confused with actual Machiavelli).

I sort of indirectly mentioned blogging I did on Tumblr, haha. We were talking about the ways in which older literature can be part of modern life and I was like... "I mean, I liveblogged the Metamorphoses." Scary Advisor laughed :)

#also i mentioned that sometimes literary works don't survive because they're trash and sometimes bc of patriarchy and racism #(also other things but those are particularly pertinent for my research) #and we ended up talking about a) if bad art is still art and b) the role of patriarchy and racism in literary pop consciousness #and about bringing that awareness forward even when you're discussing a bunch of dead white guys #anghraine babbles #ivory tower blogging #nice things people say to me #renaissance blogging #eighteenth century blogging #long post #not long enough to cut but long enough to tag for your dashes!

[serialreblogger]

actually i hate those posts about "not every interest is a hyperfixation" and "stop pathologizing healthy whatever" because like. my stimulation-oriented brain does process "interest" differently from a neurotypical one, such that the line between "interest" and "hyperfixation" is near-indefinable. and more importantly?

talking about neurodivergent experiences isn't inherently "pathologizing." I don't fucking "suffer" from hyperfixations, i relish and benefit from them. They're an important part of my day-to-day enjoyment, and even my identity.

stop shutting down neurodivergent language. tbqh i don't care all that much if neurotypicals go through a collective "phase" of calling every interest a "hyperfixation." That will have next-to-no impact on how neurodivergents get treated on the ground, except maybe (a) normalizing our language and (b) making some misunderstandings of that language more common - chiefly misunderstandings that will err on the side of assuming our traits and behaviours are Normal. and while that does have its own issues, it's still miles less materially dangerous than the hostile whispers that currently constitute the majority of public opinion on neurodivergent terms. (As the word "hyperfixation" becomes more common, I might even be able to use it around my dad without him assuming I'm broken.)

Quit focusing your efforts on shutting down ignorant-but-well-intentioned individuals, and carelessly or intentionally catching the majority of neurodivergents in your crossfire. if you're worried about "overpathologizing normal behaviours," though, maybe pay more attention to how the fucking DSM and medical profession treats us.

We aren't the ones pathologizing every aspect of our normal, valuable identities.

#linden's originals #adhd #nd things #this is another one of the post themes i'm sick to fucking death of seeing on my dash #like i know a lot of y'all are kids. it's unfair to expect u to be familiar with the years' worth of societal baggage & context cues #that some of this stuff is saddled with. but just - for your reference - #there's nothing wrong with being neurodivergent. and also - #if you're gonna critique a social trend of spurious ''self-diagnosis'' you had better make it crystal fucking clear #what constitutes a ''real'' hyperfixation. or ''real'' OCD. or whatever it is you're telling every reader they Don't Actually Have #because social and neurological factors conspire to make neurodivergent & especially mentally ill folks gaslight themselves #i spent years firmly believing i didn't have OCD despite all the research i did on it (bc the DSM's outside-in approach is fking trash) #didn't acknowledge it to myself until i upped my medication and it was suddenly no longer a defining piece of my life #i was in therapy for anxiety for YEARS before i admitted to myself i Had Anxiety #and adhd is its own can of worms & presumed ''normalcy'' #mental illness tells you the only thing wrong is *you.* if you're gonna directly address that voice to *reinforce* it - #fuck man. i don't want you around me. or fucking anyone #unlearn your own ableism before you go critiquing someone else's. log over speck etc #neuroableism #hyperfixation #policing language #linden in the tags

[liyazaki]

GAP THE SERIES | EP. 2 [2022-2023]

#gap the series #freenbeck #monsam #sammon #mon x sam #this took way too long i don't like at all but here you go *tosses trash offering on your dash & walks away grumbling* #at least it's sapphic trash #becky armstrong #freen sarocha #sam x mon #wlw #gl drama #asiandramanet #asianlgbtqdramas #mor gifs gap

[himboskywalker]

#the backlog of truly atrocious memes I’ve made to cope is alarming #but anyways have some more trash for your dash! #star wars #obi wan kenobi #obi wan kenobi spoilers #kenobi series spoilers #kenobi series #kenobi spoilers #Star Wars

[dellimise]

Some greenies I managed to crank out over the past couple of days.

#an ugly doodle for your dash #Idk what to tag this #Trash talking #Maybe?

[bcrbleue]

damn…now i want to write a regency au

#∘⡊ ❧ ˚⊹ ooc ⊹ — your local trash can. #looking at the dash like hmmm

[hegrowings]

psa: I love lore and worldbuilding. I love lore and worldbuilding. I LOVE LORE AND WORLDBUILDING. I am absolutely gay for lore and worldbuilding, any time I see it on my dash or in my DMs I'm immediately just -heavy breathing-

I just think ya'll are so fucking NIFTY with your ideas and concepts and how you use them, it's exciting and worth celebrating !! creativity is hard sometimes and yet people come up with all sorts of things and it's always amazing and unique and I fucking LOVE it please never stop writing lore and worldbuilding folks

so like. if you have lore or worldbuilding, if you want to talk about your lore or worldbuilding, if you need to soundboard some lore or worldbuilding... I'm here for it. I will always be over here just -chin hands- tell me about your lore ! I wanna know all about it. I want to learn. lore and worldbuilding is the key to my heart.

#《 ° sealke.exe 》 oh im trash just not approved trash #《 ° reminder 》 we interrupt your regularly scheduled dash to bring you a friendly public service announcement

[siixkiing]

Tumblr better let new blogs turn off the ‘for you’ or I’m taking a page out of Wukong’s handbook and becoming THIER Havoc in Heaven.

#Loss of Powers | {OOC} #The Scrolls | Mun Menu {Post} #I'm a nice person but Imma start throwing rocks at people right now (tumblr staff) #iimexpensiive dash is still a trashed mess and I hate it #I keep having to hop back and forth just to see what I missed on dash #...also I think the @s are broken??? IDK; but more work to keep up now BC #Thanks staff; you trying to burn your own site down at this point?

[hegrowth-arc]

casual reminder that 2023 is the year I reblog a mutuals promo every time it crosses my dash ✌️ remember to be a pal and support your moots and friends, folks. takes a second, means a lot !

#《 ° selkie.exe 》 oh im trash just not approved trash #° mobile post ! #《 ° psa 》 we interrupt your dash with an important news bulletin ! #the only time i will NOT reblog a promo is if its on my blog recently. i dont want to spam lol