#traumatic neglect

[epileptifox]

#im going insane does anyone want anything?? #childhood trauma #neglect #childhood neglect #ptsd #actually ptsd #actually autism #actually traumatized #emotional neglect #abandonment trauma #abandonment issues

[the-witchhunter]

DP x DC: Loser Baby

So the thing is, tonally John Constantine is probably not a great match for Danny in lighter funnier fics

Don’t get me wrong, John can have his lighter moments, especially in crossovers, and he’s got a sense of humor

But

Hellblazer lore is dense and weird, but more importantly it’s DARK

Like, extremely

John is a deeply traumatized man, people around him get hurt, he spent three years inpatient at a psychiatric facility. There’s a story line where he’s a homeless alcoholic who makes friends with a rent-boy and shows a grim reality of life on the street, substance abuse, addiction, and sex work. It also ends with John’s demon blood eating the face off of the King of Vampires who happens to look like James Dean

That’s not even getting into the serial killer plot or the multiple trips to hell

Sins of the Father involves John being forced to confront the soul of his father in hell, a man who was terribly abusive and blamed John for the death of his mother who died while giving birth to him, which given information revealed during this comic turns out to be very misplaced.

However, makes him a good fit for a “Jack and Maddie are Bad Parents” fic, and/or a dissection fic

And it would basically play out like “Loser Baby” from Hazbin Hotel

Because it is a shitty situation. Coming to terms with neglect, the trauma of them rejecting him for an aspect of himself he can’t change Phantom Planet does not exist and the emotional and physical trauma of a dissection, and then being homeless and having to find a way to survive on his own

But John can empathize and understand

His own trauma may be different but he gets it, can relate to it, and can say “mate, situation is fucked to all hell but you don’t need to be alone because of that”

And that’s not even getting into the trauma of dealing with supernatural weirdness, which frankly they would both understand pretty well

Just two traumatized people bonding and saying “yes, we may be damaged goods, but we’re not broken and we aren’t alone”

#danny phantom #dp x dc #dp x dc crossover #dp x dc prompt #dpxdc #danny fenton #writing #writing prompt #bad parents jack and maddie #tw abuse #tw neglect #but do you see my vision?? #two traumatized people bonding #they may be damaged but they aren’t broken #Youtube

[nerves-nebula]

"we live in a society" actually, YOU live in a society. he lives in a multitude of vibrant and vivid fantastical worlds which he can discard and change to fit his every whim.

#nnstuff #nnart #teenage mutant neglected turtles #tmnt mikey #this is why i cant remember so much of my childhood #'when did that happen'? idk man every moment i wasnt being traumatized i was lost in one of these bad boys #maladaptive daydreamers rise up

[furiousgoldfish]

still waiting for someone to find me and say 'Those are not your parents. Your real parents are waiting for you.'

#child abuse #abusive parents #toxic parents #abused child #child neglect #traumatic childhood

[unstablemotions]

Reminder: it is not "a waste of time" or "unproductive" to do something you find fun or relaxing. It is taking care of your body and mind. So don't feel guilty for having hobbies, going on a trip, taking a nap or binging youtube. You deserve to have that

Your worth is not the profit your can make for others. Your worth is innate. You deserve to be happy

#this is also for myself honestly #actuallytraumatized #actuallyabused #actuallyneglected #actuallytraumatised #actually traumatised #actually traumatized #actually abused #actually neglected #trauma recovery #pro recovery #my posts #personal

[small-but-mightyy]

#my art #okay to rb #vent #vent art #trauma #childhood trauma #mentally ill #anger #all my rage #actuallyabused #actually traumatized #actually dissociative #actually neglected #actually borderline #traumacore #ventcore #complex trauma

[theshadowrealmitself]

I think it’s cute in stories when someone learns a new thing for their crush, but also for some reason my mind always turns into “but what if they already knew that skill beforehand and everyone just thinks they learned it for their crush??”

So current thoughts on that is a Human knowing how to make Vulcan spiced tea, and everyone thinking they learned for their crush but it was actually something they already knew how to do, and here are the different possible backstories for it:

1) Used to be really into cooking competitions, competitive tea making was one of them and they learned how to make it then, it’s obvious when watching them because they get really intense when making it and time themselves

2) After a hugely traumatic experience, as a 14 year old they went to Gol, not necessarily to become a master, but just to get their emotions under control and be able to move past it, just a v traumatized Human child running around Gol, under the watchful eyes of the masters of Gol, (possibly becoming traumatized in a different way), and they just never thought to bring it up as an adult

3) They weren’t even thinking about what kind of tea to make, they just opened up some recipes on their padd for tea, made the first thing they saw, and it happened to be Vulcan spice tea that they made correctly

4) Had a Vulcan professor once and made them some of that tea as a last ditch effort to get a nice curve on their final (didn’t work)

5) They really enjoy making tea as a hobby, but can’t stand the taste which is why no one ever sees them drinking tea, but they love making it, they dedicate each week to learning how to make a new kind

#would love to hear y’all’s suggestions #and which one is your favorite #star trek #humans #Vulcans #vulcan spiced tea #traumatized in a new way as in like. possible emotional neglect? #would def be kinda isolating as a kid

[ed-recoverry]

This post exempts you from any and all “If you don’t ___ this, ____ will happen.” You are hereby immune to it all. You are now protected! Be free!

#I know it stills gets me a bit anxious every time I see it so figured I’d give everyone a pass #mental health #positivity #self care #mental illness #self help #recovery #pro recovery #ed recovery #actually cptsd #actuallytraumatized #actually anxious #actually anxiety #gentle reminders #gentle reminder #wholesome #body positivity #happy #actually traumatized #actually ocd #actuallyocd #actually obsessive #happiness #actually mentally ill #actually disabled #actuallydid #actuallymentallyill #actually autistic #actually neglected #actuallyneglected

[something-existing-somewhere]

I wake up with less than 0 energy, I feel like I'm literally dying every day but still I have to live to survive. The trauma I've been repressing for years is finally catching up to me physically.

#chronic pain #fibromyalgia #actually mentally ill #chronic illness #aroace agender #spoonie #chronic fatigue #disability #actually disabled #chronic disability #actually cptsd #complex ptsd #actually neglected #childhood neglect #actually traumatized #tw abuse #tw death

[the-healing-mindset]

"Not knowing how to be in a healthy relationship because of what you witnessed is traumatic." This post from Nedra Tawwab hits home in so many ways. For some of us, it really hurts to discover that we don't know the first thing about relationship dynamics, how relationships are meant to work, and how to protect ourselves when dealing with other people.

Most of the times, this discovery comes about when we are interested in becoming close to another person but find ourselves deeply insecure about how we should show up to the connection, ultimately causing us to back away, or try too hard for those who are not good for us. This potentially leads us into more distressing situations, if not wholly traumatic.

#trauma #dysfunctional family #family trauma #childhood trauma #parent child relationships #life #living #dysfunctional relationships #emotions #feelings #childhood emotional abuse #childhood emotional neglect #traumatic stress #PTSD #C-PTSD #relationships #healthy relationships #unhealthy relationships #toxic relationships

[rizaposting]

been thinking a lot about my royai kid ideas lately but i don't think a lot of people will like them because i don't name the kid after maes lol

#and also I focus more on riza's traumatic upbringing rather than only addressing roy being sad about maes #also it's 03royai usually #crystal convos #i have my own personal bias against the idea of their baby being named after maes #in part because i dont think the wound will ever be healed enough for roy to be able to not associate it w the pain of losing his friend #i also cannot explain just how much the idea of naming my own child directly after my dead sister makes me want to die so. pure projection #i think my problem with a lot of royai kid stuff is that riza has an explicitly traumatic childhood in her background and no one explores i #because they're so focused on roy struggling with feeling like he can never measure up to hughes--which is fine but WHAT ABOUT RIZA #One aspect abt Riza's trauma that I explore with my royai kid stuff is the theme of alchemist fathers and their children they abuse/neglect #Riza herself; Nina Tucker; the Elrics... And now she is having an alchemist's child

[safe-haven-safe-place]

#childhood trauma #trauma recovery #unhealed trauma #complex post traumatic stress disorder #cptsd #cptsd coping #cptsd awareness #cptsd healing #shame #overcoming shame #trauma wound #emotional neglect #emotional flashbacks #inner child #emotional needs #emotional dysregulation #trust issues

[missingvibrance]

when you’re a child who grows up in an environment where your needs are constantly left unmet and you’re constantly told that outside the environment you’re currently in that there’s a scarier one waiting to eat you up and tear you alive, you grow into a bigger child who has to learn how to navigate a world you were never shaped for.

#traumatic childhood #bpd #cptsd #depression #anxiety #traumacore #ventcore #actuallymentallyill #actuallytraumatized #emotional abuse #verbal abuse #physical abuse #abusive parent #childhood neglect

[pusangkambing]

You just had the scariest day of your life. You're staying at your uncle's place with their son because ur father is busy trying to find out who's your other father. Your life is in danger because your other uncle who's daughter just died, has gone on a mad rampage trying to kill all the eggs in the server. You're not as kitted out as your fellow eggs, who have guns and chainsaws and other weaponry. You're not as good with pvp either as you keep losing to your cousin when you play boxing. After your other uncle has calmed down and ur dad finally arrives, he barely pays any attention to you, he's more focused on helping your uncle than asking if you're even okay, you dont think he even loves you at all. You are emotionally exhausted, its been a scary day. The uncle you're staying with confronts your dad that he doesnt take care of you, while your other uncle, the one who just went on a rampage trying to kill you and the other eggs, just called you to the side. He's asking you to be his lawyer for the upcoming custody battle between him and his ex, where the person that loses will be sacrificed in exchange for the life of their daughter back, you are a couple of days old.

You are Tilin.

#this tiny traumatized emotionally neglected egg has to legally represent their uncle in court sjsjejwjkwk #tilin has been through a lot #paimon!liveblogs! #quackity #slimecicle #qsmp

[furiousgoldfish]

You did all you could to survive your childhood. Nobody could have done it better in your situation. You did the best it was possible with the information available to you at the time. You were good enough. All of it was good enough to keep you alive.

#abused children #child abuse #abusive childhood #abusive parents #toxic parents #traumatic childhood #neglected child #abused child

[treesusedtotalktome]

#traumacore #actually traumatized #actually mentally ill #ventcore #tw: neglect #tw: emotional trauma #please don't repost