Everyone on twitter is arguing against the terfs demonizing phalloplasty and top surgery by saying the scars fade and the flesh regrows over time, but has anyone considered that scars are cool and having huge, discolored, incredibly noticeable scars is based
Hate that there are seen as only 2 camps of trans ppl, those who hate being trans and those who love being trans. Like sure there are people who have nothing but hate for their trans experience and people who only love it but making something so polarised that is fairly nuanced is stupid. So many ppl both love and hate being trans simultaneously, some people feel neutrally about it. I love and hate different elements of being trans. No more toxic positivity ("everyone must love every element of being trans") or negativity ("you are a trender unless you hate being trans")
i hope every genderfuck, trendercore, xenogender person knows that i appreciate you very much for existing. without you wonderful weirdos expressing gender the way you do i would not have the confidence to be me. you guys make me feel comfortable and i want to befriend all of you !!
This goes out to all the Xenogenderers, "cringy" nonbinaries, genderfluid, -fucked and otherwise genderweird people. Everyone who can't really cleanly explain their identity and aren't binary enough to feel truly trans or be taken seriously. By cishets or other queer people. This goes out to you all, who can't really transition, maybe bc you don't know how to/what that would look like for you, or because you'd be perceived and mocked as a freak, or maybe the exact treatments or helps you want n need aren't available, realistic, possible or even don't exist. Who aren't sure how you'd even go about affirming your gender or correcting misgendering. Maybe bc it'd take too much effort or not make sense to most people. Or just out of fear or inconvenience. Those who are often left out of trans conversations, for being too unusual or not seen as valid.
This or that, I'm here to say I see you. You are trans enough. You are exactly the gender(s) you are. I hope you find euphoric things in your life fuken STAT, and if you're still questioning I wish you all the best in your self discovery and it's okay to take time and experiment, you're absolutely never a nuisance for asking to have your identity respected and accommodated for, and no matter how temporary or a "phase" any nuances of your identity are, they still are worthy of respect when they're true for you. If you identify as one thing now, you deserve to be recognized as that now and for as long as you identify as such. Even if that changes tomorrow. Even if you turn out to be mistaken.
what? you hate xenogenders? what’s the matter, snowflake? does that person being cloudgender scare you? too cowardly to use my foe/foes pronouns? what are you gonna do? call kalvin garrah? cry over my gender hoard? you’re not special.
Yesterday I did a post where I briefly talked about being pangender and my frustration with how people often correct me when I occasionally refer to myself with gendered language. I'll be told, "you're not XYZ you're nonbinary" one as if I've forgotten that I'm nonbinary and two as if nonbinary is a monolith. I wanna talk more about that within my experience. Being nonbinary as a whole is often conflated as being agender/genderless/the third gender and it's very frustrating. Of course that isn't to say people who experience being nonbinary in that way are invalid absolutely not, that's just not the only nonbinary experience. As a pangender nonbinary person I identify with a vast and diverse multiplicity of genders which can extend to an infinity within my own culture and life experience. At my baseline I essentially identify as all genders and no gender simultaneously. Here's another one to some extent I both identify as a queer man and women. I'm also genderfluid, xenogender, etc and for me there are no rules. I'm free to play around with gendered language and expressions ;however, the fuck I choose because there are no rules. I'm not, not a men/women because I'm nonbinary even though I'm not explicitly a men/women. I'm also stargender :3
"My gender can be a bicycle If I fucking want it to be If you think that sounds ridiculous You can drink my fucking pee" ~ Pronouns by Dog Park Dissidents
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Was trying to figure out why I vibed so much with trendercore as a cis disabled person and I figured it out
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