#tw abelism

[scrimbly-mc-scrombly-iii]

If you advocate for mental health awareness, but joke about things like intrusive thoughts and schizophrenia, think it’s disgusting and lazy when people who are depressed can’t do things like showering or cleaning their room, use terms like “narcissistic abuse”, and believe that having ASPD, BPD, or NPD makes someone a bad person, you are not a mental health advocate. You don’t actually care about helping people or de-stigmatizing mental illness, you just want to make yourself feel like you do. You can’t pick and choose what disorders and symptoms are acceptable, and which ones make someone a bad person. Either you support everyone, or you support no one.

and if you’re neurodivergent/mentally ill and you do any of those things, you are part of the problem. there’s no such thing as “good/moral” disorders, or “bad/immoral” disorders. We all need to have each other’s backs.

#mental health #mental illness #tw abelism #npd safe #bpd #npd #aspd safe #aspd #ocd #schizophrenia #cluster b #neurodivergent

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Ableist things autistic people may internalise about ourselves…

Neurodivergent_lou

#autism #actually autistic #ableism #tw abelism #internal ableism #autism struggles #feel free to share and reblog #neurodivergent_lou (Facebook)

[ef-1]

Bianca Bustamante is a young woman of colour trying to break into f1, a historically white and male dominated sport. she's been at the facing end of undue scrutiny and malice literally by virtue of being a woman of colour and nothing else. The solution however is not to unload on "autism stroll". She needs to understand that anyone who engages in 2016 bottom of the barrel edgelord abelism is not doing it FOR her or in her defence, they're doing it to because they think being an abelist fuckface is funny and would turn on her in a heartbeat to say something edgier and uglier if the opportunity arises. She's not getting "cancelled" she's only 18 and should be given the grace to learn and grow but she also absolutely deserves to be checked on this.

#the abelism of it all. yeah okay. lol #and even if we looked past the embarrassing abelism #im just. everyone knows im hot and cold about lance at best but this bit is so fucking old. #also. girlie. there is nepotism a lot closer to home . lol #f1 #tw abelism #Bianca Bustamante

[danipedrosas-boatest]

Lance has literally done nothing but exist and have a father who loves him. How is there anything wrong with that?

He’s one of the youngest drivers to ever debut in formula 1, has gotten pole position, is one of the youngest drivers to ever get a podium, won three championships in four years, and steam rolled everyone in f3 in 2016. Has he had a tough year, yeah, but everyone has them at one point or another.

And yet people, like Bia, still having the fucking nerve to question his talent and use ableist slurs. Fucking disgusting.

Bia, we were rooting for you. We were ALL rooting for you.

Go fuck yourself

#tw abelism #cw abelism #fucking disgusting #bianca bustamante #lance stroll #ls18 #f1 #formula 1 #formula one #f1 academy #text #text post #txt #txt post #my text #my txt

[genuinebluff]

Are you a bad person? Tired of giving boring apologies? Provide the public with a genuine-seeming apology for reprehensible, potentially criminal, wrong-doings! Apologize in the form of a quirky song with help from the Genuine Ukelele! Remember, you can't be wrong if it's in a song. Holding people accountable is impossible when you're distracted by the soothing sounds of the Genuine Ukelele.

#colleen ballinger #tw colleen ballinger #ukelele #youtube apology #youtube drama #fuck colleen ballinger #tw abelism #niche drama #miranda sings #meme #fake ad #lol #obvious plant #lmao #surreal meme #funny #oc #unreality tw #tw ukelele #reblog #share #send it to your friends #tweet it #please #notice me senpai #im being topical and timely #mine

[monochrome--clown]

UNPOPULAR OPINION;

butter roll cookie gives me the ick.

some reasons below (spoilers for pt1 of the laboratorium storyline);

condescending toward his fellow researchers, even if he hides it with sweet words (this is disputable, I can see how the way he treats his coworkers could be taken differently)

spreads gossip about dark enchantress cookie to make himself look better (a pretty scummy move)

Ignoring how much Licorice Cookie feels uncomfy when he's near the raw dough, glossing over it by talking about his own craft (this isn't actually that bad, at least if Butter Roll Cookie wasn't aware of how uncomfy Licorice feels, but if my interpretation holds any truth then he's doing this purposefully.)

Asks Matcha Cookie about her missing ingredient even though she's CLEARLY uncomfortable and doesn't want to talk about it (borderline abelist! like asking a neurodivergent person what part of their brain is missing! And he doesn't even back down when she gets upset..)

Makes his coworkers dispose of batch 98 because it was an 'utter failure' and doesn't even try to rehabilitate or save it in any way (also calls something a failure when matcha cookie is RIGHT THERE - failure is probably a triggering word to her)

Talks crap about matcha cookie when she leaves after she is CLEARLY TRIGGERED by the dough being disposed of (also talks about her 'missing ingredient' again!!!)

Equates Matcha Cookie's meltdown to a tantrum (something you DO NOT DO when trying to console someone whos about to have/ in the middle of a meltdown)

In conclusion; Butter Roll Cookie is scummy and a borderline abelist, but hides it behind professionality, and a friendly/encouraging facade.

thank you for coming to my Ted talk.

(feel free to counter me :))

#BUTTER ROLL COOKIE SLANDER #butter roll cookie #matcha cookie #cookie run kingdom #cookie run #crk #recent cookie run update #tw abelism #alleged abelism but yk still abelisim #just a theory #A GAME THEORY #🔳🔲 cookie rants

[waywardsunlight]

Golden Feather AU (more under the cut, TW blood, angst, ableism (one line)) Description: 6 images of sketches from the Owl House Golden Feather AU. Image One: Darius finds baby Hunter in Belos's lab. Hunter as a 16 year old with short hair like his TTT design. Hunter is trained in self defense by his dad as they're on the run from the Emperor's Coven. Image Two: Hunter goes to Grom. Wanted posters of Darius and Eberwolf, and a Missing poster for Hunter. Bump agrees to let Hunter into Hexside. Hunter (in Hexside uniform) and Eber celebrating. Image Three: Hunter missing a social cue from Amity. Luz asking Hunter to help her steal the healing hat. Image four: Lilith bringing Hunter to Belos while Luz is in a bubble, scared. Image five: Hunter getting his sigil. Image six: Hunting Palismen AU where Steve is in Hunter's role. Hunter gets flapjack, and Steve becomes a rebel and tells Darius that Hunter loves him.

Description: Image seven: Belos cutting Hunter's hair shorter to control him/Hunter asking Steve how his hair looks. Image eight: Belos and Hunter together, Hunter has scars now. Doodles of Hunter scared and Darius worried. Belos struggles with having Hunter back and not being able to get rid of him while the Collector meows. Image nine: Belos threatens Darius. Darius is bleeding as this is shortly after he was captured. Image ten: Hunter in Lab Runners and Clouds (Hunter is wearing a hexside uniform in Lab Runners, and a new outfit for Clouds, which includes a green sweater and red beanie with Flap on his shoulder), he has abomination goo on the sweater. Image eleven: Hunter posessed with medium length hair, longer than his mullet in TTT. Text: Flapjack lives. Hunter fighting Belos, saying "Leave me alone". Image twelve: Belos possessing Hunter in front of the portal saying they'll thank him later. Belos telling Hunter that he's going to possess the Titan's heart. Hunter trapped like Raine was in WAD. Exploratory doodle of puppet Darius matching the AU's design with locs instead of goo. End description.

#the owl house #toh #toh fanart #luz noceda #darius deamonne #the owl house fanart #tw abuse #tw blood #tw abelism #not sure about tagging that line so I'll guess that's enough to tag it #tw possession #toh au #the owl house au #hunter deamonne #emperor belos

[radwere]

fakeclaiming as a concept is so funny to me. like "ERM!!! THATS NOT HOW I WANT YOUR DISORDER TO WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! STOP BEING DISABLED!!!!!"

#antis dni #tw abelism #pro radqueer

[blackcat419]

HotD themes part 2: Disability in the HotD universe and team green.

Disabilities, whether the character was born or gain it later in life, are all concentrated on team green characters.

Born with disabilities

Larys Strong

Larys is the first disabled character we see on screen. His clubbed foot affects everything from his walk, who he socializes with, and his costuming from the iron boot. Before the 10 year time skip, Larys seems like a Varys/Littlefinger type, a spy master who knows a lot of things and we as the audience don’t know how he knows that. After the time skip, Larys becomes expressly evil with his disability linked to his evilness. Having his fetish be feet is one of the worst writing decisions I have ever seen. So Larys is the most clearly visibly disabled character and is shown to be a kind later, abuser, and general creep.

Helaena Targaryen

While Helaena is not stated to have autism or being neurodivergent directly in text, her actor aphis has said she plays her as being neurodivergent. She is fixated on bugs, knowing lots of facts about them, and spends her time on screen with bugs. Helaena is also adverse to touching which is another trait common for people with neurodivergent or autism. Atleast helaena isn’t vilified for being neurodivergent but she does get the “disability superpower” trope with her prophecies.

Disabilities gained later in life

Aemond Targaryen

Aemond is disabled in an act of violence by his nephews, one which he is blamed for by his father and by fans. He’s also later framed as villainous, vengeful, and sadistic for having his eye cut out and for wanting justice. This is probably the most grievous examples of ableism in the show as Aemond is suppose to accept his disability and move on with life and not bother anyone about it. He’s not allowed to feel anger or want justice for it and is treated as unreasonable for wanting some form of justice.

Aegon Targaryen

Aegon is an alcoholic and is shown to be so from the age of 12. This is very concerning as alcohol affects your development as a kid. Instead of treating it like a serious issue, Aegon is beat up and reprimanded instead of trying to get help for him. It’s treated as a moral failing of his instead of an addiction that he’s been dealing with for over a decade.

To be shown

Jaehaera and Jaehaerys

While we have not formally met the dragon twins, we know from the book that Jaehaerys has 6 fingers (interestingly this is a dominate trait so it’s most likely due to a genetic mutation instead of inheritance) and Jaehaera is described as never acting like a normal child. So both are born with disabilities and we have seen how the fandom has treated these babies.

In conclusion, disabilities are only shown as part of the team green side and are used to other and vilify the characters. Even if the show writers did not intend it, it create ableist themes and encourages the fandom to be abelist to these characters.

#house of the dragon #hotd #hotd discussion #team green #hotd themes #tw abelism #abelism #Larys strong #aemond targaryen #aegon targaryen #helaena Targaryen

[aftonsparv-bugzz]

we're not saying people with npd, aspd, ect cant hurt you or abuse you

we're saying disorder =/= abusive

people with npd, bpd, aspd, infact, ANY cluster b disorder CAN abuse you. HOWEVER, having those disorders dosent instantly make you an abuser

dont be abelist.

people with ANY disorder can abuse you. that dosent mean they WILL abuse you. the fact that they have that disorder dosent mean theyre an abuser. it dosent make them abusive. they can be abusive, that dosent mean suddenly every narcissist is evil, suddenly all aspd people are threatening you, all bpd people are rude and abusive. stop throwing around the word abuse like its nothing. stop specifically linking it to personality disorders. thats blatantly abelist.

ihope all cluster bs have a lovely lovely day please ignore the hate and abelism yall are so gorgeous treat yourself to your comfort food

#(this post will have a lot of tags) #tw abelism #abelism #tw mentions of abuse ? #caps #tw capital letters #cw caps #tw caps #mini rant #aspd safe #aspd #aspd positivity #npd safe #npd positivity #npd #bpd safe #bpd #bpd positivity #hpd safe #hpd #cluster b #surprisingly not homestuck

[joshgrobanscock]

explaining delusions are so funny to me . Yeah so i was crazy . yeah . No i don’t have ocd . no yeah, delusion . what do you mean i should be locked up

#actually psychotic #actually schizospec #CAN YOU TELL IM BIYTER #tw abelism #abelism #sanism

[darkxwolf17]

Honestly I think. It's kinda sad that outbursts/episodes/meltdowns are only really taken seriously when it's about something "serious". So often I see someone in clear mental stress about something "silly" or "stupid" just get written off and they're "overreacting." Which kinda, really sucks considering they're not exactly something you can control, and something silly to you might mean a lot to someone else. Idk just something I've noticed

#ok to rb #tw abelism

[npd-hottakes]

I hate when people say you need to take accountability for the things your mental disorders make you do. "Narcissists aren't bad, but they do bad things" IT'S NOT OUR FAULT WE DON'T WANNA USE UP ALL OUR ENERGY BY MASKING!!! Sometimes, NO, you CAN'T control yourself or your symptoms. It's like saying a depressed person is responsible for making themselves sad.

Escpecially when you have both did and npd, you literally cannot control your own actions half the time, and people who expect you to are ASSHOLES!!

#Npd #Did #Osdd #narcissistic personality disorder #dissociative identity disorder #Cluster b #Npd safe #Mental illness #Unpopular opinion #Hot take #Npd hot take #Mental disorder hot take #Tw abelism

[nightmarefuel0410]

Here's my take: Disability parents need to shut the fuck up about being victims and that they're going through a "grieving process" when they think about the things their disabled kids can't do( aka be the perfect cookie cutter of what THEY want) .

It makes their kids feel like burdens, and want to hurt themselves, or that they should've have been born.

Everyone has worth and brings purpose to this world.

But y'know, boo fucking hoo to you mom that your kid is autistic and allegedly "draining" when there's other parents out there struggling to conceive or adopt.

Sorry for existing I guess.

#actually disabled #actually autistic #actually bipolar #tw vent #tw abelism

[ratpyramid]

Re-reading October 3rd and they just leave Renfield to die. Alone, in the cell he has spent an unclarified but presumably lengthy amount of time in. He dies alone and trapped, just like he spends the whole of the book.

His death is tragic, just as so many in the book are, but is focused on so little. He's just forgotten as soon as he's no longer relevant.

#it is almost midnight #i should sleep but wanted to rant #Dracula #r.m. renfield #renfield #cw death #Dracula daily #i'm not sure if this needs a medical abelism tag #but i'll give it one to be safe #cw medic abelism #tw death #tw abelism

[bonefall]

just read that briarlight from your rewrite doesn't only have her thing with Millie and her inappropriate behaviour (at least from what I got) BUT also has strained relationship with graystripe,which I think is interesting concept 👀 could we get more detail on that ?

Sure thing! I don't plan to completely eliminate Millie's inappropriate behavior, but her abelism is treated as abelism by the narrative.

Graystripe is not allowed to get off blameless here; he should have protected his daughter. But he didn't. Briarlight has complicated feelings towards the fact that her dad didn't help her when she really needed him.

I actually really like Graystripe as a character so this matters a lot to me; the narrative treats him like he's a perfect being when he's an extremely complex guy. Graystripe does what he wants to do, and is a passionate and loyal person, but how would he decide between telling his mate to back off, and protecting his daughter?

I don't think he can decide. Siding with one could mean losing the other, and after what he's lost, he can't do that. So instead he does nothing, trying to play 'Both Sides', and just ends up alienating both.

Briarlight

Around the time of Bramblestar's Storm, ThunderClan is working on a better mobility device for her that will allow her to get out of camp, on more types of uneven terrain. I plan for Jessie to actually be the one who finally figures this out, a proper kitty cat genius of engineering, using that blanket they salvaged to help prevent chafing.

Here is a mouse drawing in paint lmao, it is a modified version of @cryptidclaw's Briarlight design, which I asked for their permission to use!

[ID: A drawing of a paraplegic cat, Briarlight, from Warrior Cats. She has a furry 'mullet' mane and a mobility device in three colors. There are green rings around the neck, hips, tail and back legs labelled 1, a blue blanket stretched over the belly labelled 2, and a red bark sled under the immobile legs marked 3]

The rings are made of twine of some sort, with the blanket sewn into the ones on the neck and legs, with the ones on the hips looping around the sides of the bark sled

The blanket prevents thorns and rocks from scratching her body; very important because if they were caught under her legs, she would not feel the pain to know it needs to be removed else cause infection

The bark sled is the only part that touches the ground, to prevent wear to the blanket and prevent it from getting ripped up too quickly. (oops I drew it too short lmao it should reach as far back as the paw)

This version is an improved model of the one that Wildfur used and made the entire TNP journey with; his would look very similar to Cryptidclaw's initial design (For the record it is the best mobility device for a paraplegic warrior I'd ever seen and they deserve a ton of credit here, I just improved some technical aspects of their design!)

ANYWAY back to discussion of abelism

So around this time, Briarlight finally sets a hard boundary with Millie. Her mom can't respect her, makes her feel horrible about herself, can't appreciate this incredible new mobility device, so finally Briar says, "Do not talk to me until you understand that my life isn't a tragedy!"

I think this actually does make Millie reconsider what she's been saying and doing to her kids, but fixing the relationship from this point is slow and gradual. Graystripe also gets caught in this; I'm thinking it was a sort of, "honey please speak to your mother," "Dad if you keep that up you're getting cut off too" situation.

Thankfully there's going to be plenty of time to do it since I'm not letting Briarlight die in AVoS. She survives AT LEAST until TBC, where her outspokenness against Bramblefake is going to put her in danger.

#Abelism #TW abelism #Briarlight #Bonefall Rewrite #Bonefall OotS #Bonefall AVoS #art #design #mobility device #Millie #Graystripe