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pandadude55 · 6 months

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ok no it's sickening seeing a post on here about dean literally abusing sam n the comments are just like

'oh i love seeing dean take his anger out on sam'

'ooh battered wife sam'

it's gross n really downplays the horrific abuse dean constantly puts sam through i really don't get how people can watch a scene like that or see a post about it n laugh at it or make stupid jokes

its not a laughing topic, especially with the show itself presenting it as something small n insignificant when it's an important subject that needed to be explored n sams feelings shown - also dean should've faced some consequences for his constant toxic behaviour

this show sucks in a lot of areas but this is a particularly big one that makes it extremely difficult for me to get through episodes

#anti dean winchester #anti dean stans #anti dean winchester fans #anti dean winchester stans #supernatural #pro sam winchester #tw abusive behaviour #as an abuse survivor myself it is soo unsettling seeing this behaviour normalized and brushed off #i hate dean and how easily hes always let off the hook #this show sucks #made it to halfway through season 8 and i literally cannot stomach deans behaviour #i am so sick of looking at comments on neutral sam posts and seeing this

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jamminvroomvroom · 2 months

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TW: Abusive behaviour.

As someone who has been through what CH is accused of, it’s so triggering to see him going about like nothing is happening… the patriarchy will always protect.

i’m so so sorry that happened to you and i hope you’re doing well ⭐️❤️ hugest hugs

i completely agree, it’s a very hard watch and i’m so sick that he hasn’t even taken temporary leave while they conclude the investigation. hardly surprising given how that team operates (and the sport in general tbh). the idea that this is what has been leaked, after alleged lengths he went to to cover it up, versus what we don’t even know about. gives me the chills

#ask #anon #tw abusive behaviour

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muutos · 1 year

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𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐧 𝐚𝐬𝐤𝐞𝐝: 🤝 , 💀 , 🧱 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐩𝐞𝐬

[ 🤝 ] how does your muse approach intimacy? are they hesitant, or do they like it? what types of intimacy do they like and dislike? (ex. physical intimacy, sexual intimacy, emotional intimacy, etc.)

they’re hesitant, to say the least. at first, anyway. copia was actually victim to people intentionally withholding intimacy from him, or otherwise using it to manipulate him. his first experience with sensual/romantic intimacy (kissing, maybe some heavy petting) stemmed from a vulnerability to be accepted & the fear of not being worthy of affection in that way. it turned out the sister had been coerced and had approached him because she was dared to. he was teased & bullied and such, not to mention imperator’s emotional manipulation. i imagine him accepting intimacy is hard in a sense, because he’s worried it will blow up in his face. i think ultimately though he’s avoided it. i may even go so far as to say his sexual experience for example is pretty scarce... but i’m still mulling over this, at present. of course it would be verse dependent, also.. but his hesitance will not change unless he’s comfortable. if he trusts you enough to let you in, he’s going to let you give this intimacy to him because it feels like relief to finally feel safety in it. safety’s ability to live in intimacy is something he needs to discover more. i think he would be the type to wanna let go of the control. he likes sexual intimacy sure, but his favourites are the physical/emotional. he likes to feel enveloped, and cared for. he wants to feel how he never did growing up i guess.

[ 💀 ] has your muse gone through anything traumatic? if so, how has this trauma affected them?

whoa boy. uh, yes i think we went over some above. he went through enormous amounts of teasing, bullying... isolation, socially for the most part. like, his only friend was terzo.. & even then he felt like an outsider. he felt abandoned by his parents, he felt ashamed because he knew who his mother was yet was never acknowledged until she had something to gain from his being her son. verbal abuse/insults, emotional manipulation. one time as a teenager there was an incident where someone killed one of his ‘pet’ rats. i think generally he was just made to feel like he wasn’t worth protection, nor love even? & while he dreamed of it, he always wondered if that was for him. but he always worked very hard, and he achieved. got his title, his higher-up position. but he still wasn’t respected, especially by nihil. who he doesn’t KNOW but suspects is his dad. the trauma made him the socially awkward, hesitant & panic stricken man he was/still is. he definitely wasn’t socialized or acclimated to the real world. he very rarely as a boy/teen was outside of the property & because of that it took him a long time to adjust to certain things. i think he ran errands as a cardinal, but even then it was tense. i think most of his confidence in his early days on stage was emulating terzo & just... instincts. just letting the music and the crowd take over his body & possess him until he got the hang of it. but it makes him hesitant to seek out intimacy, it makes him distrustful of people being nice/friendly/otherwise wanting to help him... self esteem issues, and panic attacks/anxiety. fear of further abandonment, the inability to see himself as different than the man everyone mistreated. idk, he’s very unintentionally charming and wise and like, funny.. but he never truly realized that until the masses made him believe it. before he was made to think he was off-putting or weird, if you catch my drift? not to mention the fact that he was manipulated into agreeing to the killing of his only friend, & his (maybe) brothers.

[ 🧱 ] how would you describe your muses’ morality? what are their core values?

uhh well he’s a devout clergyman, and has been raised and indoctrinated into this religion since he was a little boy (whenever imperator came back presumably, though i hc she left nihil long enough to have copia and brought him home). he was raised by sisters of sin, so he’s definitely in touch with his sensitivity. very much a man raised by women, in every sense. & while he’s soft towards those of that nature he’s got a sort of reserved (nervous if not standoffish) demeanour with others. most of the people around him were tormentors of his young adulthood and he’s bitter & nervous around them to be sure. however, he doesn’t ever fight back or hurl insults bc his brain could never get to it quick enough. so he has a normal sense of right & wrong like the average person, but ofc skewed to align with his beliefs. but what sticks out in his mind as heroic (what he dreamed could have been the case for him more), are those who stand up for the little guy.. or the people who help people who need it. i think he shares the church’s values closely but at the same time he’s always gonna stand up for the fair treatment of others. especially the broken misfit toys of the earth. he wants to protect now that he’s able to, just as he wants to be protected. that’s why he gets on so much with the ghouls, and he’s thoughtful of them. he wants to protect them as they’re sworn to protect him in turn. he just has a thing for human decency that swells when he sees / meets / interacts with fans and new friends. he’s not above going to certain measures to protect who he loves, but he clearly feels guilt over the emeritus brothers in my head. but at the same time he feels guilty for it subsiding, and the war between finally accepting that he’s worthy of love for who he is & between hating himself for what he’s done is raging.

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girlyteengirl16 · 8 months

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yes ofc i’m normal and can be trust around sharp objects

#tw sh destructive behaviour #tw sh implied #tw selfhate #trauma #mentally unstable #tw depressing stuff #mental abuse #i wanna kms #childhood neglect #mentally tired #child neglect #i want to be okay #tw depressing thoughts

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eosincuffs · 4 months

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This drabble is my first writing piece, idk if I’ll make it into a fic. I started writing down some thoughts and an exposition for myself and then I was like, this might make a nice lil prologue. Idk tho im a virgin in this. So if what here’s and obligatory ‘pls leave me be, im learning ;-;’

Dishonourably discharged 141 quartet! (also this is an xReader thought I promise)

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Their last mission was an unfortunate, grievous endeavour. A negotiation of high profile hostage releases in an abandoned multi-story factory which turned out to be a trap. Even if it cost the terrorist organisation the lives of extraordinarily important extortion-able victims the notorious 141 needed to be wiped at whatever costs, which meant sacrifices had to be made.

Only no-one, not even himself, expected Price to chuck the bomb-covered man off the ledge, 2 stories down to where the hostages were held. It was a split second decision made to save the lives of his men and deal with the consequences later. And deal with the consequences they did. The explosion ripped apart the lower floor indiscriminate of flesh or rusted steel. The old, battered building caved in on itself momentarily, engulfing everything within into a black hole of scrap, wire and human cadaver.

By some miracle, although festering with wounds and decorated with jutted broken bones like arrows out their skin, the 141 lived to tell the tale. Undoubtedly, this would get them discharged for “on the field injuries”. And yes, they were supposed to be medically discharged . It was disappointing that their military careers (their sole drive in life) was over, but, yes, they were supposed to get a fat pension, full healthcare coverage for immediate family, veteran discounts for everything from groceries to mortgages and awards for their sacrifices. They were supposed to live the rest of their lives relaxing, hunting, pursuing unfinished dreams and/or hobbies.

Except the son of one of the hostages rallied the other victim’s families together and incriminated Price for manslaughter. The boys weren’t about to throw their Captain under the bus, disputed the charge despite Price’s pleading, and got incriminated by association. It wasn’t fair, but they were never going to win a trial against a pack of multi-billionaires, no matter the accusation or its validity. There was one small mercy though; because of their connections in the military they were dishonourably discharged instead of imprisoned (and considering that blood and money turn the world, it would probably been for a lifetime). Their records and achievements were wiped, awards taken away. They were left unfit for any veteran benefits and with chronic pain and injuries as the final nail in the coffin, unwanted souvenirs from that god forsaken mission.

Overtaken with hatred and disappointment from both the traumatic event and the experience of their metaphysical lives ending the men unwillingly closed this chapter: abandoned, empty, changed.

Ghost much like his callsign disappeared in the first week after they split, no contact, no goodbye, no nothing.

Gaz went to live with his relatives, trying to figure out his next step.

Price hunkered down with a former military friend and his family.

Soap moved back into his elderly, struggling mother’s small cottage. It’s the reason he went into the military in the first place, to help support his family.

They all knew these were temporary arrangements. The army was their life; no branch or association would take them now, not with the bold, damning DD stamped on their papers. But very little quality employers wanted mentally traumatised men whose chronic and psychic pain rendered them unable to do blue collar work. Yet, non had the education or the drive to be employable in a more specialised, less physical sector.

Was this the end?

Maybe. But the sun shone on Soap’s meadow, illuminated his life and showed him a new way out. He was at the right place, at the right time and managed to bump into you. You really should have just kept walking. Taking pity on the blue-eyed puppy, kicked in the teeth over and over by life’s unforgiving boot should have been a noble act. But feed a dog once and it will keep coming back, and unfortunately, this one has a rabid pack.

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suncaptor · 2 months

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I think there's nothing wrong or that far off by headcanoning John as physically abusive but you must ask yourself: do I think that's the only legitimate way to make sense of why his abuse was so traumatising compared to what is shown in canon? do I understand that the physical abuse wasn't the sole traumatising factor for Sam & Dean? Do I take neglect & psychological abuse seriously or am I making it worse to try to make it valid?

#this is absolutely absolutely not about people who are victims of physical abuse who relate to sam&dean nor is it about people who are #taking psychological abuse as seriously #but you are either not in the circles ive been if you have not seen this phenomenon #incoherents #tw abuse #spn #supernatural #john winchester #john #also if you can recognise john as abusive can you also recognise dean as such 🙃🙃 when dean shows more abusive behaviour on screen #but he is lovable and traumatised and the main character and is justified?

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stemms · 5 months

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c!Dream apologists’ perception of the DSMP lore is something I’ll never truly understand, no matter how hard I try, considering they’re completely disconnected from the canon and the characters they deem to love are nothing but the inside-out shells of their original selves in their representation.

I’ll never get over the fact that c!Dream apologists define the canonicity of any plot-relevant event based on c!Tommy’s involvement and/or the angle from which c!Dream is shown. If the moment in question portrays c!Dream as morally grey or decent to some extent (or could be interpreted as such), it’s canon. However, if it shows him as the abusive, manipulative, and control-obsessed freak he is, then “cc!Dream was simply joking around with cc!Tommy, and it was OOC”. It gets even more hilarious if c!Dream apologists have such polarising reactions to practically identical events.

Another point that never made sense to me is c!Dream apologists’ unjustified hatred towards c!Tommy and the constant need to accuse him of the whole bag of tricks. They just love to villainise him, disregard his constant suffering and trauma, and treat him as if he was the cause of all the rightful criticism and anger towards c!Dream. However, they never think, even for a second, that maybe, just maybe, c!Tommy isn’t the one to blame here, but c!Dream’s harmful actions are. They also seem to find him annoying, which doesn’t make sense either because the thing they dislike is simply being a kid. And considering c!Tommy had to grow up very fast and didn’t fully get to be one for as long as he deserved, it makes sense why he’d need to compensate for it and be just a bit louder and more chaotic, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

“c!Tommy was obsessed with c!Dream.”

After the prison break, it wasn’t surprising that c!Tommy became more paranoid, couldn’t get c!Dream out of his head, and had to stay constantly on guard because his abuser, who literally possessed the power of revival and planned to make them both immortal, was Free, and it was only a matter of time until he caught him and made his plan come true… Still, c!Dream apologists tend to completely misinterpret and confuse the boy's wariness with an obsession. Considering c!Dream’s obsession stems from the very beginning of the server (s1 in particular, for example, the stalking, the tunnel under c!Tommy’s base, c!Tommy’s friends’ comments about c!Dream’s obsessive behaviour, and so much more), this claim is completely unjustified, and it’s clear to me that they’re just trying to use the boy as a scapegoat to make their fave look like a better person. Being terrified of your abuser, stalker, murderer, and tormentor is a completely valid response, and there’s not a hint of obsession in it. Not to mention that the first thing c!Dream did after breaking out of prison (after getting armour and weapons, but that was quick and necessary if he wanted to remain free) was meet c!Tommy to torment him again.

“cc!Dream benevolently went along with cc!Tommy’s idea of rp’ing abuse.”

The fact that cc!Dream and cc!Tommy were clearly enjoying the process of streaming exile is completely irrelevant to the lore, because it doesn’t impact c!Tommy in any way, and ‘cc!’ and ‘c!’ exist separately For A Reason. It seems that c!Dream apologists simply can’t stand cc!Tommy/c!Tommy, so they use anything they can find to make the exile arc less significant and impactful to c!Dream’s character. But the thing is, c!Tommy (and specifically, the idea of having complete control over him) is his biggest motivation, so no matter how much they may dislike and reject that idea, it’s canon.

#dream smp #dsmp #c!primeboys #c!tommy #tommyinnit #c!dream #tw abuse #discourse #tw obsessive behaviour #tw possessive behaviour

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anorexii · 5 days

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Once I lose these 25 lbs it’s so over for yall.

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hyperfixatedoncrimminalminds · 4 months

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So I accidentally deleted this request but I have written it so sorry to whoever wrote it.

Request : Okok, Teen!Male!reader x Spencer Ried (platonic obvs) when reader ends up getting mixed up a crime/murder in the drug scene. They aren't the unsub but they struggle with addiction and has an ally cat type attitude so it makes it difficult to get any information out of him. Spencer is like a father figure and they start to get close, helping reader through out the case/ recovery.

I love this idea

Third person pov...

Spencer Reid and Derek Morgan arrive on scene, there is a serial killer runnng around kidnapping upstanding people then killing people by overdosing them on different drugs.

The latest victim was a mother with two children under the ages of 10, with no history of drug use she is currently the 5th victim, where they found her was in a dumpster in ohio.

"Looks like the rest of the victims" Says Derek as he kneels next to the body of Samantha Doyle. Spencer nods and looks around the scene. "As well as the dump site, he threw her away like trash." He says, as he looks he notices a boy looking no older then 15 being talked to by the police.

Confused Spence leaves Morgan and walks over to one of the police officers. "Hey excuse me, whats he doing here?" He asks nodding over at the boy and officer.

The office next to him looks over. "Oh yeah him, he's been hanging around sayin' he saw something. Don't bother with 'im he's an addict got loads of them here" he tells the agent, Spencer thanks the man but doesn't take his eyes of the teen.

The officer just sighs and leaves the boy, he was watching with intense curiosity. The boy had messy hair and dark circles under his eyes, giving the impression of a troubled soul.

Spencer's mind immediately went into profiling mode, trying to figure out the boy's story, he walked over to the boy and introduced himself, "Hi, I'm Dr. Spencer Reid. And you are?"

The young man shrugged his shoulders tapping his hand nervously. "Y/N" he says bearly over a mumble but Spencer hears him. "Well Y/N, did you see anything here?" He asked.

The young detective immediately noticed the troubled look in (Y/n)'s eyes, and he could see the fear and guilt written all over his face.

Spencer's empathetic nature kicked in, and he knew that there was more to this young man than meets the eye.

(Y/n) was like a wounded alley cat, always on edge and unwilling to trust anyone. The 15 year old didn't say anything. "How about you come to the station to talk" Says the genius.

Y/N thinks before nodding, either way they were going to make him talk might as well get it over with, soon the boy is sat in the back of thr SUV with two Agents.

They try and talk to him more but only get a few words out bef they take him to the interrogation room to talk, as Y/N sits and waits he thinks over his life.

He's been hooked on drugs since he was 12 when he was 10 his Mother died leaving him with his abusive Father, he would kick little Y/N around all day until the boy finally turned to drugs to dull the pain.

It's worked all those years and he's hooked, finally when he was 14 he ran away and had beeb living on the streets, pick pocketing people who walk past him.

He met many different people throughout the last year, not many of them were nice most were arsehole and criminals, but last night traumatised him.

He was in his usual place counting the money he managed to pick pocket of some people, when he heard something. He saw a guy dressed in dark clothes throughing something in the dumpster.

Y/N didn't bother with it, but he got curious and stuck behind a dumpster and got a pretty good look at what was happening, his E/C eyes widened in shock.

It was a body, the man was throwing her into the dumpster, Y/N ducks into the darkness when the guy turns around, he gets a good look at his face before he leaves in a truck.

It was to dark to see the number plate, Y/N walks closer to the body, her lifeless eyes stare into his dark tired ones, she looked alot like his Mother.

Shivering he closed her eyes and left to go back to his place where he sleeps and tried to forget what he saw.

The door to the room opens bringing the teen back into the real world, Spencer had told everyone to stay there thay he would handle it.

He closed the door and sat in the chair oppos the boy, Y/N wasnt ha dcuffed and coukd ove but didn't he kept sat down.

Spencer decis to take a different approach, he reaches into his pocket and takes out a pack of cards.

"Mind if I play a game of solitaire?" Spencer asked, trying to lighten the mood To his surprise, the young man slowly reached out and took the cards. As they played, Spencer asked more questions, trying to get some information about the crime and the drug scene in the area.

As he played Y/N became a little more reaced but was still on guard and keeping Spencer at arms lengt.

Y/N still didn't reveal much, but Spencer could tell he was holding back. He also noticed the subtle tremors in Y/Ns hands and the needle marks on his arm.

He soon realized that Y/N was not the unsub, but rather a lost soul struggling with addiction and trauma, this brought him back to when he was addicted to delaudid.

After a few games Y/N began opening up about what he sawast night, he told him everything he remembered, this helped the team alot tk catch the bastard.

Throughout the case Without judgment, Spencer offered to help Y/N get clean and get out of the dangerous world of drugs. With the help of Y/N the team manages to catch the killer sooner than they had hoped.

As the case progressed, Spencer and the H/C teen grew closer. They spent long nights talking and playing cards, and Spencer could see the potential in the young man. He was intelligent and quick-witted, but his addiction was holding him back.

Y/N was also hesitant to trust anyone, but he slowly opened up to Spencer, after having an awful relationship with his bio father seeing him Spencer as a father figure scared him, Spence became more invested in the teens recovery and helping him turn his life around.

With the help of the team, they were able to track down the murder suspect, Y/N even played a crucial role in gathering information, using his 'alley cat attitude' to his advantage.

As the case came to a close, Spencer and Y/N celebrated with a game of cards and a heartfelt conversation. Y/N thanked Spencer for his help and guidance, and Spencer promised to always be there for him.

From that day on, Y/N focused on his recovery with the support of his new family at the BAU. He still had his struggles, but with Spencer by his side, he knew he could overcome them.

Spencer, on the other hand, learned a valuable lesson about not judging a book by its cover. Y/N may have been mixed up in the drug scene, but he was more than just an addict. He was a survivor.

The end!

Hope you liked this oneshot, slowly getting through these requests. Sorry for any spelling or grammar mistakes.

Request are open!

Word count: 1312

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muutos · 2 years

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S𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐝𝐝𝐥𝐲 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐧𝐬.

1. What does your muse smell like ?

well, it’s usually pretty much the same. he reeks like cigarettes, because he’s always smoking. the fingers are the worst. his breath kind of smells of like cigarettes, unless he’s also been drinking. he’s a scotch kind of man - & so he’ll also smell of that, too. his suits all have this faint sort of cigarette smell, on them. it’s basically embedded in the fabric. also, he wears musky colognes. nothing fruity or full bodied, either. he can also have that smell of blood or sweat, depending on what he’s been doing. he’s also known to eat a lot of chocolate, so it can also linger on his breath as well... but, also sex & beer sometimes.

2. What do your muse’s hands feel like ?

okay so, richard only has one hand obviously... but, he keeps it nice. since he’s come into money, it’s hard for him not to want to keep himself looking as good as possible. not to mention the fact that it’s important for him personally. he’s a ladies man, with a god complex. he gets manicures, & when i say manicures i mean full. pedicures, too. just no nail polish down there, as he would with his fingers. always black paint, & this process always keeps his hands soft. he can have cut up knuckles at any point, or scabbed knuckles. as well as bruises, sometimes. but his hands are actually even more soft because they’re not skinny, or bony. he has kind of a round, soft/plush hand. it’s proportionate, really. so while it’s not fat per-se, it has some give to it. he moisturizes, too.

3. What does your muse usually eat in a day ?

black coffee, & cigarettes for breakfast. maybe some greasy sandwich with sausage, if he’s super starving. but he slathers mayonnaise on it. he eats nothing for lunch, unless he’s going out. he keeps himself busy for work, plus he does cocaine all the time so he’s usually got a shitty appetite during the day. if he didn’t eat breakfast, he’ll order something from somewhere. he likes american chinese, but he’ll usually order like roast beef sandwiches or he’s found a place with okay bratwurst. he probably drinks a beer around lunchtime to keep him full, and also maybe some chocolate treats he’s stored in his office. dinners are steak or some rare meat/potatoes combo if he’s at a restaurant. if not, he’ll order something of the like or if he’s home with till & the guys, he’ll have the chef make it. prime rib, hamburgers, steak - anything like that. roast beef / horseradish. uhhhh, he’ll also always do potatoes (scalloped, mashed, baked). vegetables, too. usually. also, red wine with dinner to go with the food & then he’ll switch to scotch.

4. Does your muse have a good singing voice ?

yeah, to be honest. he doesn’t sing often unless it’s to songs he really likes, but i gave him kruspe’s voice & the guy has a nice voice. although his accent is written all over his, & he’s still got that lisp/issues with pronouncing english. & it’s not disguised by his singing, at all. but it’s cute, & he can carry a tune very well..

5. Does your muse have any bad habits or nervous ticks ?

he chain smokes, drinks almost all throughout the back half of the day, & is a functioning cocaine addict. he’ll also do other drugs like acid, mushrooms, and weed. he smokes weed in the evenings usually, though. he also inhales really sharply, a lot. like just, an audible sucking in of air. he talks with his hand(s)... he clenches his jaw A LOT of the time, due to the cocaine & combination of drugs / stress. he says ‘er’ a lot, when he speaks - like an ‘um’ or something like that. as far as other ‘bad habits’ go, he’s a sex addict / serial cheater. he’s got a tendency to start fights, & he’s a pathological liar. however, he can control his impulses when he wants to.

6. What does your muse usually look like / wear ?

he’s almost always wearing a suit. whether or not he’s got his jacket on, is optional. a lot of the time he’s missing it, and just rocks the shirt/tie/slacks combo. he also switches between a thin black tie, or bowtie. he likes the bowtie better, though. it’s always a black suit, white shirt, black tie. when he’s really casual, he’s wearing designer sweatpants or jeans & a tank top, or black button-up shirt. but that’s basically it, for variety. his hair is also usually styled in a spikey manner, & he shaves his face regularly but he’s not opposed to some heavy stubble.

7. Is your muse affectionate ? How much ? How so ?

he can be. although, whether it’s genuine or not is always up in the air. if it is genuine, he’ll usually be really high, or really wants to fuck. he’s always charming & cool, & touchy/feely until he gets what he wants. after he’s very cold, unless you’re in a ‘relationship’ of any kind, or he gives any sort of a fuck about you. even then, he’ll hold you for a while until he gets bored. if he’s in a more masochistic/submissive headspace though he’s very very attention starved and likes to have people stroke through his hair. he’s also been known to lie his head in people’s laps. if you are his significant other, or something to that affect, he’ll hold you more possessively. hand on the back of your neck, the small of your back. grabbing your ass, holding you against him. stuff like that. but it’s all in public. behind closed doors he’ll accept affection if it serves him, or if it’s stroking his ego. he won’t turn you down if you wanna sit in his lap & tell him how sexy he is. or, if he thinks sex will come out of it.

8. What position does your muse sleep in ?

On his stomach, or his back. he’ll usually start on his stomach, & if he moves he’ll wind up on his back. his arm will be beside his head, with his stump stuck under the pillow. or, on his back he’ll rest his hand on his chest & the other hand by his side. his mouth will be open, & he snores softly.

9. Could you hear your muse in the hallway from another room ?

yeah, probably. his speaking voice isn’t terribly loud, & he’s got average sounding footsteps. but when he yells, he can get scarily loud. & if he’s throwing things, or something, it gets worse.

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#diicktective #misc * / out of character #richard ziegler * / headcanon #headcanon.#tw cocaine #tw drug use #tw addiction #tw abusive behaviour #tw triggering content

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uncanny-tranny · 10 months

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I hate the idea that because people can change, that means that survivors of abuse must lower their guard or forgive the person/people as though their old self has died and thus is incapable of bringing others pain, or that somebody is foolish for being traumatized by abuse because "people can change!".

Yes, statistically-speaking, anybody can change. Yes, maybe even an abuser can change. More often, that's not reality. Oftentimes, their abuse might be rewarded in some way, further solidifying that behaviour and the thoughts that led up to them deciding that they had the right to treat another that way.

Maybe you're a survivor, and your abuser seems to have changed. You might feel guilty that you're "holding on too long" to a person who isn't there. That doesn't mean that you have to let your guard down around them or permit them to be in your life.

#recovery #abuse #abuse tw #and not going to lie i have been told one of my abusers has 'changed' but i do not buy it...#...and i don't think it's bad for me to recognize that and to affirm that i can not be around them under *any* circumstances #at a certain point i do think it's reasonable to observe that somebody is most likely never going to change...#...and that isn't being 'overly negative.' that's called self-preservation #i felt like an asshole when i observed that 1.) my abuser had no remorse 2.) goes BACK to the behaviours that were abusive...#...because it felt like i was being overly negative and didn't believe that 'people change!!'...#...but looking back i think i just wanted to avoid putting the responsibility on my abuser for the abuse they put me through...#...and i was defending them in my head and twisting it to be my fault once again...#...and that's not fair to me. like. again i was a child. like... what responsibilities did i have in that relationship beyond that?#yes people will change. but that doesn't happen without WORK #that doesn't happen magically

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girlyteengirl16 · 9 months

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i don’t need therapy i need them to die

#mortal enemies #i hate my parents #fuck you #childhood neglect #trauma #tw depressing stuff #tw sh destructive behaviour #intrusive thinking #child neglect #female rage #repressed anger #anger issues #mental abuse #mentally unstable #stress

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tsuki-hina · 2 months

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beware that raziel warmonic groomed luca when he was still a minor (17 years old) and she was MARRIED, divorced her husband, claimed alimony and continued pursuing luca in vrchat explicit roleplay and when he debuted in luxiem, and is now using the things she did for luca out of her own kindness against him to look bad after he demoted her from being a mod in his server after a situation before cutting her out of his life. this is a classic abuse tactic and essentially a smear campaign started by a groomer who cheated on her husband for a minor.

#luca kaneshiro #vtuber #i would not take anything this predatory woman says at face value #tw grooming #tw predatory behaviour #tw abuse #shes using this situation for clout and to harm luca after he cut her off #nijisanji en #nijisanji #nijisanji is already a bad company but we need to be careful who we believe #luca is a victim in this situation and this situation is probably reopening a lot of wounds for him right now #im p sure hes still stressed out with the whole situation with selen and now he's got his groomer trying to get him terminated

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stemms · 10 months

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In exile, c!Tommy has developed a habit of mimicking c!Dream’s “Mhm”, often right after him. At first, it made the teen uneasy because it reminded him how c!Dream would often hum as a confirmation that he had fucked up particularly badly. Still, c!Tommy found some sense of comfort in it, as it reminded him of their softer moments.

One evening, as they sat on a bench after punishment and had a relaxed conversation, after c!Tommy has calmed down, due to major exhaustion, c!Tommy wasn’t careful enough and accidentally mimicked c!Dream’s hum right after him. c!Dream noticed it immediately, and found it very amusing, and being the asshole he is, decided to use it to his advantage just for the fun of it. So, he hummed again, as if asking c!Tommy if he really did that, and as the realisation hit him, he froze in terror, flinched and started mumbling shaky apologies. c!Dream pretended to be genuinely disappointed by c!Tommy’s mistake, just to make the teen’s panic reach its limit. c!Dream’s response sounded so cryptic because it was a mix of faux concern, surprise and mockery that c!Dream wasn’t even trying to hide, so c!Tommy couldn’t tell which one it was and freaked out more…

As soon as he had pushed him far enough, he changed his attitude to unnaturally soft, and there was not a single hint of his frustration any more, he was trying to convince c!Tommy that he just overreacted and misunderstood his intentions, and he succeeded at that indeed.

The fact that c!Tommy developed a habit directly related to c!Dream, fed c!Dream’s ego very well, because it confirmed that he had the teen wrapped around his finger to the point where he could not only influence his behaviour and beliefs through punishment but even alter some parts of his personality. Despite his unstoppable defiance, c!Tommy unconsciously developed habits that made them even more alike, and why, if not because c!Dream had full control over him and deep inside, c!Tommy knew that?

#my c!prime thoughts #dream smp #dsmp #c!primeboys #primeboys (derogatory)#c!discduo #discduo #c!tommy #tommyinnit #c!dream #tw abuse #tw possessive behaviour #tw obsessive behaviour #dsmp exile arc

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