#tw care home

[anonymouscheeses]

Art dump/chaggily stuff below cut <3 vvvv

Yes this is an excuse to show off my designs *sigh* 😔

#chaggily #two and a half halos #unholy virtue #unholy trinity #royalhalo #whay would emilt x vaggie be called ermmm #angelicmoth #thats all i could come up wit on the spot. if theres already a ship name for them IM SORRYYY #art #fanart #artists on tumblr #digital art #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel charlie #chaggie #hazbin hotel vaggie #vaggie #vaggie x emily #emily x vaggie #charlie x vaggie #charlie x emily #hazbin hotel emily #charlie morningstar #emily seraphim #i like to think charlie grew up not needing to dress formally too much because she was mostly isolated so she doesnt understand formality #vaggie does NOT care. sleep is sleep time put on whatever is comfortable who ya tryinna impress? the furries?! #i think- since emily in my ver always has to talk and bring joy to the people in heaven to keep them afloat. and like boundaries dont exist- #for her and everyone. winners. heavenborn. even sera herself would probably always barge into her home looking for assurance. 😭 sad erm #rainbowmoth #tw suggestive

[dootznbootz]

You can horny post and thirst for Circe and Calypso without making fun of Odysseus, a victim of both, btw. 👍

#You realize you're calling a victim a little bitch right? Do you hear yourself? #You call a man who spent every day crying about wanting to go home and who had his friends held at pig-point names? #A WHORE?! #You could literally just be like “I would love to make potions with my wife Circe” or “Beach life with my wife Calypso” but no. #You had to call the survivor names as well #I love Circe. she's morally gray af and super fun to write but I can think she's cool while knowing she terrified Odysseus. #save me morally gray circe #Mad rambles #shot by odysseus #Mad rants #odysseus #circe #calypso #odyssey #the odyssey #tagamemnon #greek mythology #epic the musical #It makes me want to eat a cactus. It's not cute to do this. #Thirst all you want. I don't care. But you don't have to mock a victim of them to do so. #tw sa mention

[muffingnf]

forever thinking about how nothing will be the same as before this situation and george won't be the same ever again. i just hope he will take of his mental health after this, no matter what it takes, even if it means he will be far more distanced

anon this is seriously making me suicidal

on a real note i mostly worry about how this will impact his ability to form connections and make relationships with other people. like imagine feeling too cautious to go near non-ccs because oh god what if theyre a secret fan or what if they put something online and ‘expose’ me. but then u can’t go near fellow cc’s either because you cannot tell who has genuine intentions and who just wants to fuck you over later down the line. and none of this is even shit fans like me should even be thinking about i cannot stress enough how none of this should’ve been public and i feel so fucking bad for him that he’s had to be so publicly vulnerable after being so private his whole career.

on another note i suppose dnf will be trauma bonded for life now

#i see many people saying he’ll distance himself from his community and maybe he will #but this isnt even a situation that fans caused it was another cc #and yes many fans overreacted and took part in horrible things out of fear and panic initially #but george is genuinely so kind he is SO kind and i don’t think he would hold that first response over peoples heads #whether thats his fans or his ex-friends #i hope he’s taking care of himself and i hope he knows he’s allowed as much time to process as he needs #i was gonna say a good idea would be for him to go home for a bit and see his family but then j remembered his fawking OPPS would be just #down the road #fuck his stupid life #anyway #discourse #just in case #tw george situation #nova.ask

[hockeynoses]

a little contagion scenario I think about sometimes:

somebody's stuck at home with an awful cold, and has basically contaminated the entire house with their wet, spraying sneezes at this point.

enter the traveling salesman (back in the day when that was a thing). he rings the doorbell and is kind of horrified at the state of the person who greets him. he awkwardly gives his opening spiel, and the person doesn't turn him away. should he... go in? he can hardly make up an excuse not to. and it is his job, after all...

he's doomed.

#cw: contagion #tw: contagion #snzblr #snz prompts #and then when he ends up catching it and it's still his job to go house to house????? #and yeah in my brain's version of the scenario it's st/eve har/rington of COURSE... as the sick guy staying home #I don't care if he's an 80s character and this is the 50s

[vingegaaard]

jonas personally invited a little boy currently battling cancer who has grown attached to his vingegaard cap to cover up his missing hair to the celebration hosted in glyngøre, his hometown. jonas gave him one of his yellow jerseys, gave him a hug and signed some things for him. 

this is the man that some of the spectators booed at and even hit while he was riding through france. 

#jonas vingegaard #tour de france 2023 #tdf 2023 #i love jonas so much #he must be so exhausted after everything he has done the last few days but still he has used today to visit a care home for the elderly #and signed thousands of autographs while being so sweet with this little angel and giving him such a wonderful experience #i've been so mad ever since jonas told that he hadn't been treated very well while on the roads in france #like people actually physically assaulted him while he was riding #no rider deserves that but especially not someone as sweet as jonas #tw cancer

[amelia-yap]

haha therapy AU

#suletta mercury #miorine rembran #nika nanaura #chuatury panlunch #g witch #the witch from mercury #my art #tw blood #no because what the fuck #i am personally sending them to therapy #kinda modern AU and asticassia is like a psychiatric home #suletta has obvious high functioning anxiety and is schizophrenic #aerial and prospera are two of her more common hallucinations and voices she hears #both will never appear at the same time and depending on who is out atm dictates how comfortable suletta is with speaking #when (the few times) neither of them are there suletta will be on constant edge and more jumpy than usual (which says a lot) #also idk in here elnora and prospera are two separate identities #mio has moderately severe depression and ptsd cough ep12 cough #seeing clusters of red or red objects scattered around would send her into a massive panic #she put down playing the piano but still enjoys gardening and has a few plants that are easy to take care of in her room #slowly she expands to the home's indoor garden and practically owns it and the staff are just happy to let her do her thing #(not before relocating all the red flowers to a far away area lmao) #chuchu just goes in and out for anger management sessions lol #nika is a volunteer that helps around #still working out some stuff #sulemio will bump into each other and heal together like the homies they are and fall in love #there will probably definitely be more of this nonsense stay tuned i have no idea what happens either #i just want to put them in a safe place from bullshit to heal #they are so #also im laughing cause this reminded me of my dead wr hospital AU #anyway i hit the 30 tag limit so bye

[ch3rie-pop]

It’s one of those rare occasions where I make art but I just end up making stuff like this

I don’t usually make ocs, but bob’s an exception

Okey goodnight isz one AM OOF-

#my art #Bob #tw horror #oc art #he’s not the rake #he’s not out to kill you #he just wants to live rent free and seeks warmth within homes #he did nothing wrong #he’s just showing you his teefies #please take care of Bob #eyes be bulging out of their sockets hehehe #how else is he going to see your beautiful face? #didn’t think so #anywho #here he is #the boy #pasty pasta man #NOT PASTA #NOT A CREEPY PASTA #OKAY? #I like yo think that he just uses his shapeshifting abilities to get where he needs to go or hide his mouth when he doesn’t feel like #showing his teefs #yeah

[ajokeformur-ray]

One of the most horrifying things I've ever had to deal with while working in a care home, especially with residents suffering from some form of dementia, is when you walk into their room and they're at another point in time. They're sobbing, begging you to tell them where their mother is. They're pleading, crying the hardest you've ever seen them, and even after almost three years of being in this profession I still struggle to react appropriately. What are you supposed to say? There's no script for something like this and it breaks my heart every time. In truth, there's nothing you can say to help make it better.

I always spend some time by their bedside comforting them and offering some form of distraction. It doesn't always work, but I try to. I can't say or do anything to relieve their experiences, whatever they may be, and I definitely can't tell them where their mother is, but I can offer company. I try not to leave until they've cracked a smile or given an indication they're feeling better, no matter how busy I am. I don't always manage to cheer them up, but the majority of them thank me for my time.

After the long lives these people have led, five minutes of my busy day is the least I can give them.

And when that time is up, I go back on the floor and carry on. I have a job to do and I do it. If I need space to cry, I take it. If I feel sad, I let myself feel it. And when I clock out, I leave all my work related emotions at the front door. It's the only way to deal with it.

#tw; dementia #care home #health care #elderly patients #elderly care

[holyguardian]

I don't think I posted it here, but I will be slower in general for a couple weeks. I have been attempting to pick at stuff and things but stress is a killer for creativity, hoping to be more present again when I have an update on a family health matter.

#out of flowers #tw health #I'm mentally tired from working with high care residents who have dementia in a facility that isn't equipped #(waiting for beds in a place that's safer for wanderers) #but then add in stress #I come home and don't feel up to the task for much at all

[theloveinc]

caitie…my sweet wonderful gf…i’m afraid i’m being plagued with thoughts of girl dad izuku…

thinking of how spoiled rotten she is. how her favorite color is green because her daddy’s hero costume is green and it makes his heart melt every single time. thinking about how she has an entire band of pro heroes protecting her because “she’s deku’s kid, and if anything happened to her, he’d lose his shit.” thinking about how he gently wakes her up every morning and blows raspberries against the spattering of freckles on her cheek she so obviously inherited from him. and oh GOD, she’s so attached to him, squeals and laughs and giggles every time he pops up in tv, shouting “dada! dada!” and trying to wriggle out of your arms to crawl towards the screen

MY beautiful bf......... how dearly i've missed you so!!!🥺🥺🥺

Oh gosh, though... YOU should've known the first time she recognized him on TV that you'd be doomed to have a little daddy's girl; standing up on her chubby little baby legs (something she was so rife to do even when being taught to walk, stubborn like her father) to squeal nonsense at his dirty face on the news. How she even recognized him in the midst of battle, you're not sure whether to find cute or be worried about, not to mention later, when Deku comes home dirty and she's rubbing against the stink of him like she wasn't freshly bathed and in clean-pajamas.

(Tou know it's her way of asking to be put in the tub with him while he washes up, too)

Truly, spoiled is beyond the word for it. Eeeeespecially with how many drawings Deku makes you save, all colored in green or in different colors for different heroes: he doesn't let you throw out a single thing she brings home for him (not that she doesn't bring stuff for you, too, but ... usually it's all daddy-themed).

Good luck to you trying to join in on her books and bedtime or morning routines when he's home to do it for you. You peek in on them in her beautifully decorated bedroom (which almost all of your husband's friends had a hand in building: rody with the painted, bird-themed wall art, bakugo with the closet full of the prettiest clothes, deku and shoto sharing the labor of the loft bed, and ochaco and mina on the collection of toys) and you can't even tell where his hair stops and hers begins with how cute he is trying to get her to sleep. WAH.

#deku #you try to join him for the morning when he's home to take care of it and she's like 'nOOO MOMMY IT'S DADDYS TURN' #ok princess have fun ill just be crying over here making ur pancakes :')))))))))))) #u need a mommy's boy eventually to make up for it and to make deku realize his privilege LMFAOOO #love them tho and love u more cynic #i hope ur well!!! #caitie things #cynic!! #cxnicaldarling #gen #kids tw

[risingsunresistance]

thomas is finally letting people near him so everyone please say hi to thomas, he's usually very shy :]

#im gonna assume he's had a change of heart bc uh. the entire house died in the span of like 3 months- #my uncle keeps him now. he said i could take him home. i want to So Bad but mom doesnt want a cat #i would do anything to take care of thomas i love him so much #wanted to share bc. thomas!! look at him!!! you need to see him!!!!! #chat #tw death #(sorta?? just mentioned it in the tags but yea) #aaaaaugh im so glad i got to see him it's been so long

[oneshortdamnfuse]

Thinking about how Robby doesn’t indulge in drinking while his peers are getting wasted. He shrugs it off, saying he doesn’t need to drink to be cool. It comes off as Robby being disciplined, but it’s really just trauma. He’s been dealing with an alcoholic and addicted mother, and his dad is obviously an alcoholic too. They drink and drug so often that Robby has been significantly neglected. Robby also displays some of the core traits of (adult) children of alcoholics (ACOA), including struggling with a sense of self and constantly modifying their identity to meet the approval of others, being extremely loyal to people even when they are betrayed, being able to lie very easily even when it’s just as easy to tell the truth, being overly critical of one’s self, and obsessively dedicating one’s self to something in order to avoid the problems in their lives. Robby doesn’t know who he is, and he pretty much molds his personality around the people he is with. He doesn’t have a strong sense of self. He does self isolate, and he can’t cope well with conflict.

When Sam gets wasted, he tries to do damage control just like he’d been doing with his mother. He tried to get her to stop drinking before she completely crashed, too. When Daniel yells at him for Sam’s decision to drink irresponsibly, it hurts not just because Daniel unfairly accuses him of screwing everything up when Sam made that choice but because Robby has to deal with that added layer of “you’ll turn out just like them” (his addict parents). Growing up with alcoholics is very hard and it’s not often portrayed authentically on screen, but the mere implication that Robby could be an alcoholic is devastating for him as it is for a lot of children of alcoholics, especially when he wasn’t the one drinking irresponsibly. When you look at the profile of a child of alcoholics, Robby fits it perfectly. Whether it was intended or not, Robby acts just like a child of alcoholics would. Anyway, this is just to say Robby’s trauma around alcohol and substance abuse and having to parent his parents is super relatable, and I wish it were discussed more.

#robby keene #cobra kai #i say this as my dad came home drunk #& is now getting wasted on the couch #living w/ alcoholics is so hard #b/c they literally don’t care enough about you to stop #i have begged them to stop #but they won’t b/c they value a drink over my well-being #alcoholism tw #text post

[superfluffychickens]

Animal death tw

An apology

A predator took my little Daisy today. Somehow she and a few of the other pullets got out of the fence, and I found a pile of her feathers just outside of it.

I’m sorry, everyone. It’s clear to me that I’m doing something wrong, or more likely I’m just not up to the job of chicken keeping. I’ve lost way too many birds this year, because I’ve been careless and because I’ve been unable to, physically or financially, assemble runs and other structures that can keep them safe. There’s to many predators here to keep chickens here without spending a lot of money to build things to keep them out. I’m sorry to everyone that’s been following me, because you’ve had to see posts like this way too many times and I’m sure it’s upsetting. And I’m sorry for setting a bad example.

Going forward, I’m not sure I want to keep running this blog. I feel like I’ve let everyone down and I’m just upsetting people when I inevitably have to talk about losing a bird. And I won’t ever be getting more chickens. I may rehome some, and just keep the ones I have in the garage to live out their lives.

I love my chickens so much I feel like I’m losing a bit of my mind and my heart every time I lose one. I can’t keep this up, mentally. The story of my life is that, no matter how passionate you are or how much you care, that isn’t enough. I can’t accomplish anything on my abilities or talents alone because I don’t have any. All I have is my heart and it’s never enough. I’m a useless person through and through. If it weren’t for the rest of the chickens I still have, I’d give up once and for all. And once they’re all gone, maybe I’ll just go too.

#animal death #tw animal death #tw suicide #tw sui vent #tw sui talk #I don’t care anymore I’ve got to say what I really feel or I��ll lose it #I can’t tell my parents how I’m really feeling because they’re not home and they’ll freak out

[jellypawss]

I’m going to be very transparent for a sec. I’ve had two alcohol induced psychosis events happen to me in the past week where I attempted to harm myself and ended up talking to police officers. I’m a recovering alcoholic that tries really really hard but keeps relapsing. I’ve tried AA and therapy and nothing is helping because they keep telling me to look for “my higher power” and I’m not gonna lie, in my opinion, that shit is wack. I’m struggling a lot and faith is the last thing on my mind. Anyways, I wanted to make this post to thank y’all for being one of the main sources of happiness and support for me. I don’t get a lot of people outside of this community that reach out to me when im hurting so im very grateful to have y’all in my silly little phone. I promise I will be back to making mods and what not soon but I’ve been really enjoying making music, it feels almost therapeutic. But yeah, thanks for being here for me y’all. I love you guys.

#the police officer last night was surprisingly very friendly and even made me laugh #I’m glad I’m still here and I’m going to make things right for myself because there’s so much more in this world that I want to live for #suicide tw #tw sui attempt #tw self harm #tw #tw alchohol mention #tw alcohol #also I couldn’t make myself go to the psych ward because I needed to stay home to take care of the kitten #I was bawling my eyes out because I felt so guilty about even thinking of having someone else take care of him #he’s so bonded to me that he cries for me when someone else holds him #I just couldn’t #also the psych ward sucks #and I’m not knocking it entirely but #it really is a last resort thing for me now #after being in one that drugged me up on Ativan and took me off my heart meds to the point where I didn’t remember it #a whole ass week I have no recollection of

[chronicparagon]

Writing About Historical and Intergenerational Trauma

This is a post I've been thinking about since last night. I won't go into detail about what happened, but it made me think. I wasn't involved (but it came to my dash). It involved how different races, ethnicities, and cultures are represented in media. That includes writing and yes, even rps.

I want to make a post about including People of Color (PoC) in writing and the trauma they faced. This incident was what I viewed as an attempt to be historically accurate but wasn't handled properly. There is nothing wrong with including experiences that PoC characters had or perceptions other people had of these characters, but it must be handled appropriately because it can reinforce stereotypes, trigger people who are very sensitive to these topics, hurt readers who are PoC or otherwise, cause drama, and risk bringing in toxicity in communities.

I thought it may help if I share a bit about how to write about historical and intergeneration trauma, specifically racism, and how it's perceived.

Before I begin, I want to give my positionality. I am Native American (southeastern) and I also work in tribal health and studied Indigenous Health. While I specialized in infectious diseases and cultural competence in medicine, trauma and its impacts on PoC are frequently discussed in my work and with my colleagues. My work includes appreciating Indigenous knowledge and cultures, and how to improve healthcare research by including the knowledge and cultures of Indigenous people as our leaders and partners. Although I am not perfect and still learning, I hope this post will be a resource that serves as a starting point on being careful with writing about historical trauma.

There is so much I want to say about writing about historical and intergenerational trauma, but I will try to keep this brief with the main points for writers to consider.

The topic of this post is about including trauma that PoC face. It is intergenerational trauma, which is also known as historical trauma. I will call these IT/HT for short.

IT/HT means trauma inflicted by generations of abuse. This can happen from cycles of abuse between generations, but it is often used to describe trauma caused by colonization. It refers not only to genocide but also to cultural erasure, such as banning religious practices, banning languages, and forcing the minority to assimilate. Racism also contributes to IT/HT by reinforcing the ideas that caused grave harm.

IT/HT is very real and still causes problems. In fact, it is the root of health disparities minorities like Indigenous people face. It influences social determinants of health, such as poverty, food insecurity, violence, addiction, inadequate health care, and the list goes on.

Although discussing IT/HT can be uncomfortable, it is important to consider when representing PoC characters. This isn't to say the discomfort is invalid. In fact, history should make people uncomfortable so there will be improvements. However, talking about IT/HT promotes change, which is what we need. Addressing IT/HT also gives PoC like Indigenous people time to grieve. Grief is part of the healing journey.

Having said that, including the impacts of IT/HT can be tricky. It is a subject that requires a lot of thought, research, and asking questions. Avoiding stereotypes, and crude terms (such as derogatory terms or descriptors) are important. The impacts of racism and IT/HT should be through the eyes of PoC, and also be specific to the race or ethnicity of the character. This is because every group may not experience the same impacts or severity.

Look up sources about IT, HT, or racism from the perspective of the ethnic or racial group you chose. In my experience, while there are so many resources in Indigenous health and how PoC faced impacts of racism, they are often done with Western academics or medicine. This isn't to say that's bad, but we cannot understand the entire picture, or even address the disparities and trauma unless we include Indigenous people or PoC in the research.

There are books, articles, videos, and interviews of people sharing their experiences like First Nations people retelling their experience in boarding schools. Of course, there are many, many other examples. The main idea is to consider PoC's view of these impacts. Their experiences should guide you in how your character faced the same challenges and not so much on how other characters may perceive them.

Another important thing is to never be afraid to ask questions. Most PoC wants to share their experiences, perspectives, and cultures with others who want to listen.

Additionally, when you write PoC characters, focus on the strengths of the people. While there are some cases when bringing up the disparities, representation needs to focus more on strengths. One example is Indigenous people. They have been researchers for centuries and their knowledge to explore the world. They developed innovations far before other people knew about them. This isn't just Native Americans either. This includes Indigenous groups all over the world.

To summarize, there is nothing wrong with including sensitive topics like IT/HT, but it must be done with great care. That means doing plenty of research, especially on materials that include PoC or minority communities as partners and leaders in research. Also, write PoC respectfully without stereotypes, never use crude terms, include experiences from PoC's perspectives, and include their strengths.

I hope the information here helps. My intention in this post is to help people be on the right path to learning about their character's backgrounds, the people who faced hardships from the same backgrounds, and present IT/HT with respect to PoC with their views, cultures, and strengths in mind.

#ooc #psa #not sure if I made much sense but historical trauma is a big thing in my work #because it also affects healthcare services and research #I'm willing to elaborate if needed #but I hope this post helps #tagging triggers just in case #but I really want this post to be a resource to help writers be careful when writing about racism and its impacts #racism tw #genocide tw #I try to stay out of drama but representation of PoC in writing and including IT/HT hit close to home for me #and include insight from an Indigenous person who also works in Indigenous health

[tinartsworld]

satan get beside me!

#tw blood #tw gore #blood #gore #my art #tina talks #oc tag: cheshire #she is Going Through It #lore coming when I get back home…for the two (2) real ones who care #Spotify